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Quote from: Sanugarid on September 22, 2023, 10:11:46 AM

Quote from: retreat on September 01, 2023, 12:28:38 AM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I really don't like gamblers who become aggressive when they are on a losing streak. It's like he knows the risk that he will keep losing and lose a lot of money, but he still plays and loses and takes his anger out on other people, this is what I hate the most.

I agree with you, my father used to be like this. I understand why they are like that but it's so wrong, you should have a budget when it comes to gambling so that if you lose, you won't feel bad about what you lost. But of course I still love my father very much even though he used to be like that

Gambling is one engagement that has to do with so much risks and that's why people who can't manage the outcome of losing their money are strongly advised to stay out of gambling. One popular behavior among gamblers especially addicts is that they're always transferring their aggression on people around them whenever they lose their stakes in gambling and sometimes it does lead irreconcilable quarrells with people around them. It's very bad to behold most times.

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Quote from: retreat on September 01, 2023, 12:28:38 AM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I really don't like gamblers who become aggressive when they are on a losing streak. It's like he knows the risk that he will keep losing and lose a lot of money, but he still plays and loses and takes his anger out on other people, this is what I hate the most.

I agree with you, my father used to be like this. I understand why they are like that but it's so wrong, you should have a budget when it comes to gambling so that if you lose, you won't feel bad about what you lost. But of course I still love my father very much even though he used to be like that

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Quote from: Tuturtinular on September 21, 2023, 09:14:50 PM

Quote from: stomachgrowls on September 21, 2023, 04:51:47 PM

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

The worst thing about a gambler is when they are addicted to gambling. They are always hungry for money and manipulate to get loans from those closest to them. How many times have they been told to stop but they keep gambling, it's better to just leave it alone and wait until they go bankrupt and lose everything. It was the best way to force him to stop gambling

That is why you must be able to prevent yourself from becoming addicted to gambling by having self-control that you practice continuously. Without it, you can lose self-control, which will cause you to slowly develop a gambling addiction without you realizing it. Gambling addicts' only desire is to gamble endlessly and if their money runs out, they may look for money in ways they know so they can return to gambling again. If they borrow money from other people, it will only cause serious problems for them. If they have to wait until they go bankrupt, it might be too late to help them because they might commit suicide to end it all. And that has happened in many cases.

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Quote from: Silberman on September 16, 2023, 12:08:06 AM

Quote from: ChuckBuck on September 15, 2023, 02:46:33 PM

You've hit on a few truths there, but let's not sugarcoat it. Some people thinking they're smarter than the system. The key is: the house always has the edge. While I'm not here to hold anyone's hand, the idea of looking at gambling as a steady income is 100% stupid. But hey, if you can enjoy a game without going bankrupt, more power to you. For those who can't, a reality check is overdue. But really, find another way to make a living. Not everyone is meant for the gambling world

Those people are arrogant, they somehow believe that the math behind the games does not really apply to them, as if for some reason the odds of the games are going to change simply because they are the ones playing, and when that does not happen they refuse to accept the reality and blame the casino, their luck and anything and anyone they can, without ever admitting they are the main source of their problems, as they believe they can make money while gambling and this is not true.

They are not arrogant but they are idiots. Even after seeing everything clearly, experiencing losses multiple times, losing everything they deposited on uncountable occasions, they still don't understand that gambling is not for making money, it doesn't provide you with constant profits because it is a business and a business can only provide profits for its owner and not the customers, and when we are gambling, we are the customers and the house is the owner.

I really hate this thing in people. It's understandable if they don't listen to you or believe you and say that you are bluffing and lying, but they should at least understand it when they experience it themselves, but no, they always find an excuse to put in front and say that we can still make money from gambling if we get to deposit a lot of money, lol.

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Quote from: stomachgrowls on September 21, 2023, 04:51:47 PM

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

The worst thing about a gambler is when they are addicted to gambling. They are always hungry for money and manipulate to get loans from those closest to them. How many times have they been told to stop but they keep gambling, it's better to just leave it alone and wait until they go bankrupt and lose everything. It was the best way to force him to stop gambling

Quote from: stomachgrowls on September 21, 2023, 04:51:47 PM

Being greedy? Its normal because we are just humans and this is why its really that important that you should really be that having that good control and discipline towards self because if not
then you are really that bound to mistakes.

Greed often comes when we get a big win, we don't stop playing and withdrawing money, but continue and increase our bets. Until finally luck was not on his side and all his money was lost again. Then he will go back to looking for a loan

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Quote from: Hispo on September 21, 2023, 01:04:50 PM

Perhaps it has not happened to anyone here, but something which makes me to feel quite bothered about gamblers (specially when they have problems with gambling addiction) is when they ask for money and when one asks what they money is for, they do not dare to admit they are obviously trying to get money to gamble away, so lie to our faces instead.

It is like an insult to the intelligence of anyone, like when a person with an obvious problem with alcohol asks you to lean money and lie saying it is not for alcohol. Sad

Has anyone have to dealt with such uncomfortable situation?

The most reported thing in the gambling was the gambling addiction from the loss.Mostly the gambler became the addict after the loss from the gambling,My friend had won 200k from the gambling.This made my friend to get addicted to the gambling from the other online games like PUBG.Because he had seen the biggest win from the investment of 200 dollars.So like him,if the gamblers get addicted to the gambling by the profit.This also leads to big addiction to the gambling.Some people withdraw the full money after the big like 200k from the gambling.

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Quote from: beerlover on September 21, 2023, 04:08:33 PM

Quote from: Tuturtinular on September 21, 2023, 04:48:24 AM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

The behavior that I don't like in a gambler is liking debt. They like to get into debt and promise to pay it off in the next few days, but never get paid, then come back and ask for another loan. This makes the friendship sour.

Plus, they only come when they need money, and when they win, they never tell me. I had a friend like that and our relationship is now distant and we rarely communicate anymore

This must be a terrible thing, if you can't hold your money and you are getting debt to gamble that is the worst thing ever. First of all, when you are getting debt, that means you must be paying it back, secondly if you are gambling with it, house always wins so you will most likely lose it, if you lose the money and need to pay it back, how can you do it? You will not be able to do it and that's the most important part.

I think it is quite important to realize that you are going to end up with a situation that is a lot worse and need to figure out a way to change it as much as you possibly could. I need to see you get better personally before I could trust you, and I would never give any money to any gambler ever.

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

Just like been said that gambling isnt bad as long you do make yourself that responsible for whatever things that you are dealing with. There are really just that people who are really that do fail out on doing so
and they would really only realize things when its too late which is something that had been avoided in the first place on which dont come into a point that you are struggling or heavily affected financially because of your gambling means or activity on which it did really result into such condition where your finances had greatly been affected.

Being greedy? Its normal because we are just humans and this is why its really that important that you should really be that having that good control and discipline towards self because if not
then you are really that bound to mistakes.

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Quote from: Tuturtinular on September 21, 2023, 04:48:24 AM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

The behavior that I don't like in a gambler is liking debt. They like to get into debt and promise to pay it off in the next few days, but never get paid, then come back and ask for another loan. This makes the friendship sour.

Plus, they only come when they need money, and when they win, they never tell me. I had a friend like that and our relationship is now distant and we rarely communicate anymore

This must be a terrible thing, if you can't hold your money and you are getting debt to gamble that is the worst thing ever. First of all, when you are getting debt, that means you must be paying it back, secondly if you are gambling with it, house always wins so you will most likely lose it, if you lose the money and need to pay it back, how can you do it? You will not be able to do it and that's the most important part.

I think it is quite important to realize that you are going to end up with a situation that is a lot worse and need to figure out a way to change it as much as you possibly could. I need to see you get better personally before I could trust you, and I would never give any money to any gambler ever.

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Perhaps it has not happened to anyone here, but something which makes me to feel quite bothered about gamblers (specially when they have problems with gambling addiction) is when they ask for money and when one asks what they money is for, they do not dare to admit they are obviously trying to get money to gamble away, so lie to our faces instead.

It is like an insult to the intelligence of anyone, like when a person with an obvious problem with alcohol asks you to lean money and lie saying it is not for alcohol. Sad

Has anyone have to dealt with such uncomfortable situation?

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Quote from: Sanugarid on September 21, 2023, 11:02:24 AM

I think that he turns his temper on other people when he loses gambling like my father used to.
When he came home he threw all his anger at me when he saw me. Of course not only me, but also my brothers I don't know why. I still remember when it was my birthday, my classmates went to our house to have fun and of course to eat then dad came home from gambling and dad saw my classmates and suddenly slapped me in front of my classmates.

it is the behavior of a gambling addict that in the end he loses his money and takes it out on people. Your father was depressed and would take it out on anyone in front of him. As a child, you will certainly be traumatized when you experience a beating like that in front of your friends and the person who hit you is your own father. The behavior of a gambling addict will really not be liked by anyone, including his own family. This is a pretty bad effect when someone gambles without any management and strategy, they just play and keep playing.

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I think that he turns his temper on other people when he loses gambling like my father used to.
When he came home he threw all his anger at me when he saw me. Of course not only me, but also my brothers I don't know why. I still remember when it was my birthday, my classmates went to our house to have fun and of course to eat then dad came home from gambling and dad saw my classmates and suddenly slapped me in front of my classmates.

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Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

The behavior that I don't like in a gambler is liking debt. They like to get into debt and promise to pay it off in the next few days, but never get paid, then come back and ask for another loan. This makes the friendship sour.

Plus, they only come when they need money, and when they win, they never tell me. I had a friend like that and our relationship is now distant and we rarely communicate anymore

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Quote from: FanEagle on September 21, 2023, 03:44:04 AM

Becoming friends with gambling addicts is a big trouble, usually that ends up with breaking up the friendship as well. I do think that it should be important case and should be something that we care about. This is why I gamble solo, without chatting too much with any specific person.

I am all for a group chat, like some place where the casino has a place to chat together, and you talk with everyone all together which is fine and having that is a good thing, but friending someone and talking with them? I would never do that because it could result with something bad and I rather not do that at all. Should be staying away from that, I do not even think it's smart to befriend even me, not like this at least, not on this topic.

Gambling addicts are ready to do anything inother to be in good position to raise initial capital to gamble. They keep continuous loss to the system, liquidating their accounts steadily, those actions make me keeps off from these sets of gamblers. I'm best on my own, not negotiating with any colleagues, keeping the activities I anticipated to myself. I think that would saved one from alot of troubles and bothering instances. Been allies with gambling addicts is simply not better way to roll, there are always consequences for these actions been carried out.

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Quote from: Hirose UK on September 20, 2023, 02:28:50 AM

We are gamblers and there are several people who before entering the online gambling industry knew or often gambled in traditional casinos so indirectly they knew quite a lot of gamblers and even became friends with a group of people who like to gamble.
There are many behaviors that a gambling addict may not like but everyone has different things about what they don't like.

Despite the large number of gamblers we know we must be wiser in our interactions because they can have quite a significant negative impact.

Whether like to gambling addicts or not when we get to know them and become friends we definitely interact with them more often and here the most difficult thing is how we maintain or indicate the performance of our brains and behavior so that we don't follow suit like what was done by a gambling addict.
Maybe keeping your distance is the right choice but when you are really close friends can we immediately keep our distance just because they have some problem with their gambling behavior?

Becoming friends with gambling addicts is a big trouble, usually that ends up with breaking up the friendship as well. I do think that it should be important case and should be something that we care about. This is why I gamble solo, without chatting too much with any specific person.

I am all for a group chat, like some place where the casino has a place to chat together, and you talk with everyone all together which is fine and having that is a good thing, but friending someone and talking with them? I would never do that because it could result with something bad and I rather not do that at all. Should be staying away from that, I do not even think it's smart to befriend even me, not like this at least, not on this topic.

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Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

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I dislike addiction, if a gambler is addicted then he becomes unpredictable and can show any strange way of life because of the addiction in him, things around him begin to get affected because of same addiction he's into and he himself becomes a burden on himself because he never know what to do to wave away such addiction he's into, a gambler found under this category will suffer alot of difficulties under financial management, people and anger management.

There are many problems those which are close to an addicted person have to face, but without a doubt the most difficult to face is the unpredictability that their addiction causes on them, as a person that you may have known all your life may change completely in a matter of months and do things you never thought they were capable of doing, and this leads to a great shock to the point you may think you do not know that person anymore and you decide to take some distance from them in order to protect yourself from their erratic behavior.

We are gamblers and there are several people who before entering the online gambling industry knew or often gambled in traditional casinos so indirectly they knew quite a lot of gamblers and even became friends with a group of people who like to gamble.
There are many behaviors that a gambling addict may not like but everyone has different things about what they don't like.

Despite the large number of gamblers we know we must be wiser in our interactions because they can have quite a significant negative impact.

Whether like to gambling addicts or not when we get to know them and become friends we definitely interact with them more often and here the most difficult thing is how we maintain or indicate the performance of our brains and behavior so that we don't follow suit like what was done by a gambling addict.
Maybe keeping your distance is the right choice but when you are really close friends can we immediately keep our distance just because they have some problem with their gambling behavior?

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Quote from: Aanuoluwatofunmi on September 19, 2023, 01:06:00 PM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I dislike addiction, if a gambler is addicted then he becomes unpredictable and can show any strange way of life because of the addiction in him, things around him begin to get affected because of same addiction he's into and he himself becomes a burden on himself because he never know what to do to wave away such addiction he's into, a gambler found under this category will suffer alot of difficulties under financial management, people and anger management.

It is normal if you don't like gambling addiction and it seems that many people also don't like gambling addiction. But we also don't know when and how someone close to us, whether he is a member of our family or a friend, becomes addicted to gambling. We only know that he is addicted to gambling and as someone close to him, we can only advise him to try to reduce his addiction by inviting him to develop new activities that can make him not think about gambling. But that's just a suggestion for him and if he doesn't want to follow our advice, that's okay too and we don't need to force him because he will feel it. Maybe he still wants to gamble and feels the consequences of his gambling addiction so he doesn't want to accept our advice. But we can stay with him until he wants to stop gambling.

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Quote from: Silberman on September 19, 2023, 10:54:02 PM

Quote from: Aanuoluwatofunmi on September 19, 2023, 01:06:00 PM

Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I dislike addiction, if a gambler is addicted then he becomes unpredictable and can show any strange way of life because of the addiction in him, things around him begin to get affected because of same addiction he's into and he himself becomes a burden on himself because he never know what to do to wave away such addiction he's into, a gambler found under this category will suffer alot of difficulties under financial management, people and anger management.

There are many problems those which are close to an addicted person have to face, but without a doubt the most difficult to face is the unpredictability that their addiction causes on them, as a person that you may have known all your life may change completely in a matter of months and do things you never thought they were capable of doing, and this leads to a great shock to the point you may think you do not know that person anymore and you decide to take some distance from them in order to protect yourself from their erratic behavior.

I am lucky that I didn't witness this as most of my friends are just casually doing gambling and if this happens to me even others will say that we should guide that friend and help him cope with the addiction. If it shows eratic behavior then that is the time to set a distance just to be safe. Even though that is the time our friend needs that help but it will cost our safety.

There are others that are addicted to gambling and never socialize with other people they are just focused on their gambling activities but there are also other gamblers that keep bugging you asking for money or other things which is very annoying and for sure all of us don't like it.

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Quote from: Silberman on September 16, 2023, 12:08:06 AM

Quote from: ChuckBuck on September 15, 2023, 02:46:33 PM

You've hit on a few truths there, but let's not sugarcoat it. Some people thinking they're smarter than the system. The key is: the house always has the edge. While I'm not here to hold anyone's hand, the idea of looking at gambling as a steady income is 100% stupid. But hey, if you can enjoy a game without going bankrupt, more power to you. For those who can't, a reality check is overdue. But really, find another way to make a living. Not everyone is meant for the gambling world

Those people are arrogant, they somehow believe that the math behind the games does not really apply to them, as if for some reason the odds of the games are going to change simply because they are the ones playing, and when that does not happen they refuse to accept the reality and blame the casino, their luck and anything and anyone they can, without ever admitting they are the main source of their problems, as their belief they can make money while gambling is not true.

I wouldn't call that being arrogant, it's simply being a fool. Those people who think they can constantly beat the house and win and can be profitable throughout their gambling journey are either fools or out of their minds because gambling is a game of luck and there is no attitude or arrogance or anything that can make you win, even strategies don't work that people sometimes find helpful in recovering their losses because they get lucky.

Someone who might manage to recover their losses once or twice using a specific strategy in gambling is basically getting trapped, and once they are trapped, they will lose and try to recover their losses and then the house hits them with a very large loss streak and drain their entire balance in no time.

There's no really one solution fits all. There's no such thing as strategy that is applicable to everyone because every player has a different set of luck, circumstances, and skills. Doesn't mean that it worked for others, it will work for you too. And that's the harsh reality in life. Sometimes people are more blessed and more skillful than us that's why they get what they have now, and they totally deserve it anyway especially if they really worked hard to achieve that winning by practicing and researching.

One thing to learn for those people who are frequently envious of others achievements is to focus on your own success. It always takes a baby step in the beginning. Do not be fomo-ed and do not be swayed away by enticing offers to earn big quick or to get back what you lost. Always do a calculated bet and play. Analyze, execute, take profit.

Everything is different from behavior until on being that lucky and this is why situations or outcomes would really be different to each other and this is why its not really that shocking that there are ones who are really that
desperate on trying out to prove out that they are really that lucky and able to win up games and make themselves rich.This is the main reason on why some people or gambler would really be that desperate on playing because of having those kind of intents or having those thoughts in mind and this is the main thing that what pushes them on doing such action. About having that dislike about behavior then it would really be that on being greedy because if you do really find yourself that being that too greedy on the time that you do gamble then you would really be doing things that you dont really expect for it to happen because even if you do say that you do play for fun but on the time that you do really play then those thoughts wont really last long and it would really be changing up along the way and this is that something that do really happen.
People who dont have that good control would really be losing their cool and would really be spending up tons of money as much as they do want until they get wrecked.

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Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I dislike addiction, if a gambler is addicted then he becomes unpredictable and can show any strange way of life because of the addiction in him, things around him begin to get affected because of same addiction he's into and he himself becomes a burden on himself because he never know what to do to wave away such addiction he's into, a gambler found under this category will suffer alot of difficulties under financial management, people and anger management.

There are many problems those which are close to an addicted person have to face, but without a doubt the most difficult to face is the unpredictability that their addiction causes on them, as a person that you may have known all your life may change completely in a matter of months and do things you never thought they were capable of doing, and this leads to a great shock to the point you may think you do not know that person anymore and you decide to take some distance from them in order to protect yourself from their erratic behavior.

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Quote from: Lida93 on August 31, 2023, 11:13:49 PM

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I dislike addiction, if a gambler is addicted then he becomes unpredictable and can show any strange way of life because of the addiction in him, things around him begin to get affected because of same addiction he's into and he himself becomes a burden on himself because he never know what to do to wave away such addiction he's into, a gambler found under this category will suffer alot of difficulties under financial management, people and anger management.

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