I don't even use CEX's so I didn't consider even them lol. I meant on swap sites, P2P platforms (Bisq), DEX's, atomic swaps etc
Indeed Bitcoin is more like gold SoV and Monero is more cash. Lightning adoption isn't going anywhere by the looks of it. Coinjoin is expensive in high fee environment as and not really that private. In the mean time Monero is cheap & easy & does give you ample privacy. government don't like it, so there's your proof it works.
Daily transaction count for Monero hasn't changed much in the last 3 years. I'm not sure its adoption is going anywhere either.
https://bitinfocharts.com/comparison/monero-transactions.htmlFor every new merchant that accepts Monero I see two or three that accept Lightning. This is purely anecdotal so I'm not sure which one has the advantage.
Monero is quietly gaining lots of adoption on websites, services, exchanges, dark net markets etc.
Node count has passed BTC and mining hash rate is growing rapidly as you don't need an Asics, just your PC.
Node count isn't a very reliable measure because you can cherry pick whichever source is more favorable to your argument.
MoneroHash says Monero has 3k nodes while
Monero.Fail says it's 22k. For Bitcoin it's 16k nodes according to
Bitnodes and 63k according to Luke Dashjr's
website.