Your screenshot looks like wallet is still loading, it's noraml my looks the same for maybe 1 minute when using SSD drive, after wallet is synced all coins should be on it's place and wallet transaction window will look normal.
Coin control should be first enabled in Options / Wallet (tab) / Enable coin control features and then available in Send / Receive (tab) / Coin Control Features / Inputs ... (button)
It can take some time before it appear after pressing , more transaction/wallet loading = longer waiting
I heard some horrible stories about corrupted wallet.dat, most of them is related with copying wallet.dat file when wallet is still open/hung/crashed/anyway not fully closed or when wallet.dat is moved many times between different versions new/old/then new again ...
I only hope you have a backup of wallet.dat somewhere, it a must, one or two times it saved my ass.
If my Win setup is doing some strange things, first thing I do is to execute checkdisk on system partition, cmd then c: and chkdsk /f , restart system, it resolves a lot of weird behaviours after not proper system close/crashes/power failures.
I will try and import everything on a laptop that I have never used at all for anything related to Crypto and see what might happen.
Thanks for the suggestions.