Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience (Read 518 times)

IMO they can if the decide to do so, they may have identify each other lapses and decide to work on themselves to stay stay together, marriage is a union that takes understand for both partners to be together, it takes understanding for both partners to stay without excalated issues, normally we should understand that it is not an easy thing for partners to stay together without problems but allowing it to grow to the extent seeking for divorce is another issue together but I know for sure that there is know problem that's not solvable is just a matter of both party coming together unify once again and let go of their individual differences.

I completely agreed about this all with we are rarely having couples those after divorce came together again but still happening because few years back my cousin done this mistake and as he feels he was wrong, and he commits mistake they came again together and now living together with better life and better way because it's all about human nature.
But in most cases this never happen because there are issues of personal likes and dislikes with many other aspects are also involved which create serious misuse and then things never gone as they have so they usually decide to stay away from this all and try to live their own life with other options which give them better and suitable way for life.

Not a good idea to divorce. The best alternative to divorce is to live seperatetly without getting married to another, and they can later comeback together when the issues that caused the seperation are sorted out. You can actually seperate without divorce, and to seperate in this case is to live apart from each other without saying you are nolonger husband and wife.
A couple may only divorce due to infidelity(sexual affair outside of marriage) otherwise there was never a divorce in the first place even if a court granted it... it's illegal annulment. So they can still come together if non has slept with another man/woman after the "divorce".

Your piece of work is too economical of words. You would have stated the obvious. But that would not stop me from contributing my ideas.
Marriage perse is a Divine contraption contracted by God almighty. So no person could put it apart except death. I'm coming from the christain perspectives. Though the couples come from different background, God has the ability to unite them together, and such unity is binding for life.
But where there is a disagreement between the two, major or minor, leading to divorce, reunion is permissible by the Almighty God. So what God allows, no societal ordinances could contravene, it becomes null and void in it's entirety.

Any couple that divorced and come back must have seen that they made a big mistake to call for divorce in the first place. They must have seen that they cannot do with each other, amd maybe they finally saw that no one can make them happy than their ex.

However, it is rare to see divorced partners coming together again. This is because they must have seen some dislikes in the person that they cannot cope with, which must have to divorce. The moment they are done, they find a partner to continue their lives with. Some of them might have even seen someone that they want to settle down with, and that was why they went for divorce.

IMO, that a couple decided to divorce doesn't mean they can't come together again no it doesn't, if they decide to go their separate ways legally and later decides to come back later I nothing is wrong about that since they are both adults who knows what they want. Yeah I think I have heard of a case where the divorced couples got back together and started dating again when they realized they can't stay without each other.

I don't have any statistical data at hand though, but I have got the impression those couples who decided to break up and separste their ways are very unlikely to reunite, it is possible, but not likely.
Usually, when divorced people start again by their own they may start dating and hanging around with other people they would like to start a new relationship.
Those stories about divorced couples reunited are something out of a Hollywood movie, it has kind of been implied into the popular culture of the population through the broadcast in the media. It is important to realize, it is not the norm but rather the exception when a couple come together again.

Actually, it is funny you mention this scenario, because I have got a cousin who may actuslly get together with his spouse after years of separation, if they do, it would be something like a little miracle.

Marriage isn't as easy as people take it to be. It's a union between two different people with different characters coming together. For a marriage to last forever, both couple must learn to tolerate each other. There is no way issue won't happen but the ability to settle it easily make the marriage stay long. Love nowadays lack tolerance and endurance and these are reason we see alot of broken home this days. Nothing bad if a divorced couple reunite, so far they have learnt from their early mistakes and have decided to always try to tolerance each other.

This is just simple truth about divorce as you spoken 99% of my mind. I see  Divorce just as just a simple mistake, its error was  not corrected at the point of occurance. Person  who make mistake of divorce can't still correct it's error by reuniting as long they are both alive and have come to agree where they disagree.

It's possible for divorced couples to reunite and probably remarry, although I've not witnessed it personally, but I know that it can happen, maybe in the case where they've tried other relationships and come to understand that they're more compatible and getting divorced was a mistake. I believe the reason why it's not popular for divorced couples to reunite even when they realized that it was a mistake to divorce in the first place is due to pride, what will people say when they see them together again after publicly going their separate ways. So I believe that even when they realize that they shouldn't have divorced they'll still want to move on, in the hope of finding someone else that'll fill the vacuum that the divorced partner has created.

The answer is yes, divorced couple can still reunite depending on reason why they divorced, my uncle divorced his wife because of her bad behavior towards his family and himself but now they have reunite and come together because of their children.
No matter what happens between two couples if they want to reunite they can and no body will say anything about it

First, Is not forbidden.

Marriage is based on Understandings, Tolerance, Care and also Adaptation.
If you can't adapt to situations it weakens the marriage and lead it straight to divorce,
If you can't tolerate your partner,it also leads same way. Same goes to Understanding. They all work together, if 1 is lacking and not fixed,it will surely end in divorce in time.

For a couple to reunite,they should be ready and agree to put all these in check, else is nearly impossible.

So, for me... A single point to take into consideration is whether the relationship was at first healthy and respectful. If there has been violence, unfaithfulness, or other severe difficulties, trying to bring back the relationship is probably not an excellent idea. On the other hand, if the relationship was generally sound and the split was caused by outside influences, it may be worthwhile to give it another shot. However, it is important to assess whether reuniting as a couple would be acceptable to any new relationships. So maybe it's appropriate to reconcile with an ex is entirely dependent on the situation and the individuals involved.

Regarding divorce, my culture or tribal customary rules regulate that it is legal for a divorced couple to reconcile. In my traditional tribe, divorce can be called talak, which is regulated in my traditional tribe. If a couple wants to divorce by applying for a 1/2 divorce at a later date, they can still reconcile and unite again, but if the third divorce has occurred, in the traditional tribe I can't be together again, why does one partner file for triple divorce because there are elements in it such as hatred, very vengeance or really don't want to be together again in the future. It may seem strange but that is our traditional tribal culture. but I have also heard news that couples who have been divorced with triple talaq status are reconciled and have to go through methods that are very complicated in my opinion. for example, if a couple has divorced with the status of 3rd talaq and wants to reconcile for various reasons, then each husband and wife are required to remarry another person first within the specified time limit, then if they are already married. with other people, the time limit has been set, it could be 2 months/3 months, then they file for divorce again with that person. and in the end the husband and wife were able to reconcile even though they were divorced with triple talaq status. It may seem strange but this is true. In my opinion, marriage is only done once in a lifetime. God, I really hate divorce, but if the marriage is tainted by infidelity/deviation then there is no longer any tolerance. The conclusion is that if the husband and wife relationship can still be repaired, repair it. But if it can't be repaired, the only way is separation. My input for every married couple, if there is a problem in the relationship, solve it with a cool head and don't occasionally make decisions when we are controlled by emotions...

Divorce decisions are not permanent.  Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together.  People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.

As a patriotic citizens, we should be after the unity of others and contribute the best in our capacity to see that things work out for those around us from the little way we could renders help to them in seeing that our influence is felt in their relationship or marriage in a positive way, it is very bad in seeing that some of us are the reason behind some marriage break up, and all couple's should learn to have each other in mind and love continually to keep the marriage alive.

Most of the divorced marriages I have seen never come together again. Many of them are separate from each others and the children have no option than to start there own life without the guidance of the union of the both parents. A divorce is never an option and we should never think of it e en when we are having problems in our family which might have been triggered by misunderstanding most time. Most relationships that and went asunder was as a result of cheating partners which is the sole reason of crumbled relationships.
 

I've seen a few case of couple patching up after a divorce, more so if they have kids. But that percentage is very low. Some don't go back just because of the humiliation.

It's possible cause not all divorce was because of the other party wanted to get some property, some happened because of a cheating party and the other did such cause of anger, and if they really loved each other then they is a place for reconciliation and they could amend thigns and go towards a better part of life.

Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.

It is possible to reconcile with a divorced partner, if you don't realize the nature, accept each other, be open, of course there is use. Indeed, everyone has the same desire to be understood and loved, but there are conditions in which complement each other so that the debate does not spread to everything that has been passed together and pry.

In my religion during the 40 days of divorce it can be remarried to the same person or to another person, but the problem is in the selfishness of each of them to reveal and invite back, maybe you can say shame / prestige.

Marriage is to go through the routine of the house together, without humiliating and ridiculing each other because both of them definitely want to be considered as life partners not burdensome on someone alone. conversations are always there and of course if it is based on this, there will be give and take, there are questions and answers and some of them.

When you no longer have it, you will feel and see the positive side of good behavior is natural, separation is sometimes due to miscommunication that is too eager to be right. If it can be fixed, many people who experience this and can maintain the marriage even if it has to be twice