Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience (Read 943 times)

Surely divorced couples can reunite, I don't think that there's any law anywhere that prohibits divorced couples to reunite and get married again. Although pride will not let majority of them to consider this option even when they realized that they were still meant for each other. Married people should understand that there's no perfect person that you can get married to that will always please you everytime.

From my experience as a married person I believe that most cases that leads to divorce is what the couple can settle between themselves. After going their separate ways they'll realize that the reasons for the divorce is not worth it, couples should stay in marriage and resolve their issues because nobody is perfect. Although staying in married doesn't include being in a physical abusive relationship, it's better for the victim in the marriage to end it instead of dying for nothing.

Getting back with an ex can get messy , especially when kids are in the picture.  I mean, breakups already suck for children and it turns their world upside down.  Now imagine if mom and dad call it quits, then decide to give it another go only to split again down the road.  That emotional rollercoaster couldnt be healthy for kids. 

On the flip side, who am I to judge whether reconciling is right or wrong for a particular couple? If two people genuinely still love each other and are willing to work on the issues that tore them apart more power to them.  But they should be smart to think hard about what failed last time and whether those problems can truly get fixed and  otherwise, it would just be more heartache for everyone.

Where I come from, it is not forbidden for divorced couples to come back together in love again. In fact, it is something to be grateful for, as the children from the marriage will get to feel the love of both parents and experience the joy of having a real family. I have seen numerous cases like this, both in my family and among strangers.

So, to your question, yes, divorced couples can reunite. The bond between them is usually even stronger when they do because they must have learned their lessons and won’t wish to repeat the same mistakes again.

Divorce is nothing special! Rather, only after divorce do people realize what they and they have done wrong! And those who reunite after divorce are the real lovers! People learn from mistakes! Some mistakes also make people blossom in their lives!

One of my biggest fear is to even encounter one of those and end up getting deceived into getting married with them, to be completely honest.
That is why sometimes it is better to get married with someone while they have no relevant information on one's job or one's salary or even savings, it could attract the attention of those so called "gold-diggers".
If a woman is going to love one, it must be both in the good times and the bad times, when there is no money for fun and only for the bare minimum, otherwise, why even get married?

Hopefully I could find a traditional wife in the future, who has not exposed herself to too much social media and "feminism".


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gold_digger

You're right in this. Some times many marriage couples think they understand each other especially from the point of value but most at times they don't, they only get fascinated by the love and intimacy that exist between, sometimes because of their environment or peer pressure. When they get into the real marriage, it becomes a different thing and they find it difficult to understand each other's true worth and advantages. Oftentimes these things continue until both couples separate, and when they do, they begin to look for each other again.


This aspect is more important than ever. Many marriages enter into divorce and people work towards seeing them together again but the problem is, we are only carried away by the opinion of others without necessarily sitting down to identify the causes of the divorce and how best to resolve it. When you divorce and reunited without identifying and tackling these issues, they crop into your reunion again and again, no matter how much you guys get reunited.

Yes they can, but the question now is what caused the divorce in the first place? and has the problem been rectified? Before divorced couples reunite these are the questions that needs to be answered. Even from the religious point of view and from the constitutional point of view it is allowed as long as the both parties involved have settled their differences.

Most of these women are selfish and greedy set of creatures. Sometimes I wonder why women are treated so specially when it comes to societal issues. Why would a woman want to live here marriage in the first place and expect to get portion of the Man's possessions. If it was the Man that asked for the divorce I would have understand, because you can't just wake up one morning and decide to send your wife away for no reason. That one I'm okay with it that the woman should be given part of the properties they owned. But if there are no reports of domestic violence against the women in the marriage, and she just wake up one morning and decides to walk out of the marriage with no just cause, then nothing should be given to her. The judge is a very wise Man and I like his judgement.
 If I was the Man, I will be careful with that woman even if she decides to stay. Because if the judgement was in her favour, she wouldn't have decided to remain in that marriage. I won't even eat any food prepared by her because I can't trust her anymore.

Those things happen sometimes were a husband and wife will seperate and later on realized they still love each other so much and decided to put things straight, however coming back together after break up sometimes makes their relationship more stronger than before because they have both learned the cause of the previous one and will not repeat such thing from happening again, though it has actually been long I witnessed such thing because some persons doesn't like giving their wife or husband a second chance after break up so is just depends on them because the last time I saw was when a man break up with his wife after they had a fight and after few months she pleaded to the husband and everything went back the way it is for them.

When it comes to divorce and reuniting I think if couples experience challenges in marriage then they might consider separating. They shouldn't go the extra mile of divorcing and sharing property they should separate for a while. During separation, they might get a hand of the situation because sometimes when you step out from your partner and try other people you see your partner has actually been an instrumental part of your life.

This person has gone through certain stages in life with you like child bearing or more and you might discover treats your partner has that you can't find in someone else. In other situations you might find someone that is better but I feel couples should be separated first. By the time you try counselling, try other people and  you see your partner is still a better option you can come back together. But if it's the other way around you can go on with your divorce and probably know that you are officially not with this person and do whatever you want to do with your life.

Because reunion is a 50/50 chance there are chances that if you have issues with your partner and separate you you might come back together, stronger. And another chance you might not. So I believe we should just keep an open loop for possibilities and if it doesn't work for 2-5 years you can maybe go for an official divorce which I don't really advice but if that's what is needed, ok.

When two people who are in love get married and later divorce, is very much possible for them to reunite, sometimes we allow our pride deceive us by making us believe we can actually love someone much better or see someone much better than our wife or husband, in marriage there's always misunderstanding and settling it amicably is the best because if you don't you may live an unhappy life, my friend got married and him and his wife loved each other so much, so as time goes on they decided to give birth and God blessed them with a child, along the line him and his wife started having issues and my friend said he was done with the marriage that his no longer interested in his wife and the wife also said same thing, I tried making peace but there two have decided they will never be together ever again and they divorced, a year later my friend because so miserable and so unhappy and I discovered the divorce was the reason and I talked to him about making up with his wife and he said he was ready to make up with his wife so I decided to talk to the wife about it and the wife was also ready saying he missed her husband and that was how they reunited.

Don't allow pride spoil your beautiful marriage always try to make things work.

i know a funny case  A couple got divorced because the wife wanted to "be free" or something like that - all fair. However she thought she would pretty much get money from the husband, live in the same house while he had to go away and pretty much live her life.

However... the judge basically told her that she could keep the house for only a couple of years and that she was perfectly fit for work so no pension for her (some for the teenage children).

She decided that it was better to keep seeing the husband... 

reunion happens too often and most time the latter relationship is always stronger than the former if both parties recognizes their weaknesses and are both willing and ready to o work on it.

I've seen a broken marriage of up to eight years come back to full swing and I've also seen some that after the reunion, it didn't take too long before the whole union got screwed up like it never happened in the first place. The structure of different marriages works differently and whole the reunion of marriage might being good thing to the couples, what some marriage needs is to remain the way they are because some individuals are just not meant to be.

Reuniting of divorced couples all depends on how it ended, am using my self as a practical example because this is my second marriage. The first one was a hell on earth to me, a woman that doesn't value me, no regard for me as the man of the house, a cheater, a woman that ran me into unnecessary dept just to please her, name it, working away from that marriage was the best thing that ever happened in my life,So you don't expect me to go back, is like going back to Egypt . In other hand, divorce couple can likely reunite if what separated them is mere misunderstanding, poor communication and all that, not knowing the value of what you have till you lose it to a more toxic woman, having some remarkable memories of you ex, these are factors that can make a man give his ex a second thought.

This kind of look right response and I also think it is possible. Usually when you are separated with someone and you stay with other people, you may find out the things you can not compromise and most important for you and where you see those things. So it may be in your divorced relationship that you can even work out your happiness more. Therefore, coming back is possible if the two people have found that they actually love each other and have made a mistake for not giving their relationship a chance.

Sometimes I don't blame some marriages because people changes easily. There are some marriages that could have crumbles if the other partner do not have the sense if forgiveness when things go wrong. One of the problems inso many divorced marriages is unforgiveness and misunderstanding. There would always be differences but it is important we try every possible ways to rectify it so that we don't end up with the wrong decisions that could cause bigger problem in the future.

Be Careful: Less than a year ago a friend of mine reunited with his beautiful ex wife. She stole over $10,000 worth of possessions, a stash of cash, and now has Facebook photos up of her new boyfriend wearing HIS stolen clothes!

Memory does not necessary mean he wants her back in his life.They were married and something led to their divorce.He might remember and admire one attribute she possess and might not want her back again.Divorce in this our contemporary society has grown so rampant due to lack of mutual communication among couples,lack of trust among couples and lack of sexual intercourse whatever the case may be it's rare for divorce couple to reunite,it's not like it doesn't happen but it's rare.

a new person who is a into marriage can separate today or a week after the marriage so what it takes them is understanding for them to come back because there is no crisis that does not have accept to me so marriage is like education so when both of you have realized your mistakes I think there is every possibility for both of you to come back to become husband and the wife so I have seen severally where this happened but the thing is that the love will not be there as it was before and the trust would be divided so that is the only thing that it different from being divorce and the come back again

It would depend on the couple if they want to be reunited, but I think most of the divorced wouldn't want to come back to their ex, I mean why would you even break up if you want them? or would you be willing to accept your ex even if they cheated on you?
There are so many reason why couple chose to break up or have a divorce, do you think they didn't try to fix it before deciding to end it all?
Imagine your ex having a blast or time of their life after your divorce or break up, then decided that they had enough and wants to settle down again with you are you willing to accept it?