Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 3. (Read 943 times)

So, for me... A single point to take into consideration is whether the relationship was at first healthy and respectful. If there has been violence, unfaithfulness, or other severe difficulties, trying to bring back the relationship is probably not an excellent idea. On the other hand, if the relationship was generally sound and the split was caused by outside influences, it may be worthwhile to give it another shot. However, it is important to assess whether reuniting as a couple would be acceptable to any new relationships. So maybe it's appropriate to reconcile with an ex is entirely dependent on the situation and the individuals involved.

Regarding divorce, my culture or tribal customary rules regulate that it is legal for a divorced couple to reconcile. In my traditional tribe, divorce can be called talak, which is regulated in my traditional tribe. If a couple wants to divorce by applying for a 1/2 divorce at a later date, they can still reconcile and unite again, but if the third divorce has occurred, in the traditional tribe I can't be together again, why does one partner file for triple divorce because there are elements in it such as hatred, very vengeance or really don't want to be together again in the future. It may seem strange but that is our traditional tribal culture. but I have also heard news that couples who have been divorced with triple talaq status are reconciled and have to go through methods that are very complicated in my opinion. for example, if a couple has divorced with the status of 3rd talaq and wants to reconcile for various reasons, then each husband and wife are required to remarry another person first within the specified time limit, then if they are already married. with other people, the time limit has been set, it could be 2 months/3 months, then they file for divorce again with that person. and in the end the husband and wife were able to reconcile even though they were divorced with triple talaq status. It may seem strange but this is true. In my opinion, marriage is only done once in a lifetime. God, I really hate divorce, but if the marriage is tainted by infidelity/deviation then there is no longer any tolerance. The conclusion is that if the husband and wife relationship can still be repaired, repair it. But if it can't be repaired, the only way is separation. My input for every married couple, if there is a problem in the relationship, solve it with a cool head and don't occasionally make decisions when we are controlled by emotions...

Divorce decisions are not permanent.  Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together.  People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.

As a patriotic citizens, we should be after the unity of others and contribute the best in our capacity to see that things work out for those around us from the little way we could renders help to them in seeing that our influence is felt in their relationship or marriage in a positive way, it is very bad in seeing that some of us are the reason behind some marriage break up, and all couple's should learn to have each other in mind and love continually to keep the marriage alive.

Most of the divorced marriages I have seen never come together again. Many of them are separate from each others and the children have no option than to start there own life without the guidance of the union of the both parents. A divorce is never an option and we should never think of it e en when we are having problems in our family which might have been triggered by misunderstanding most time. Most relationships that and went asunder was as a result of cheating partners which is the sole reason of crumbled relationships.
 

I've seen a few case of couple patching up after a divorce, more so if they have kids. But that percentage is very low. Some don't go back just because of the humiliation.

It is possible to reconcile with a divorced partner, if you don't realize the nature, accept each other, be open, of course there is use. Indeed, everyone has the same desire to be understood and loved, but there are conditions in which complement each other so that the debate does not spread to everything that has been passed together and pry.

In my religion during the 40 days of divorce it can be remarried to the same person or to another person, but the problem is in the selfishness of each of them to reveal and invite back, maybe you can say shame / prestige.

Marriage is to go through the routine of the house together, without humiliating and ridiculing each other because both of them definitely want to be considered as life partners not burdensome on someone alone. conversations are always there and of course if it is based on this, there will be give and take, there are questions and answers and some of them.

When you no longer have it, you will feel and see the positive side of good behavior is natural, separation is sometimes due to miscommunication that is too eager to be right. If it can be fixed, many people who experience this and can maintain the marriage even if it has to be twice

Of course, they can get back and live their life just like nothing has happened to them. I can give you a guarantee that such things are happening throughout the world right now and just because some partners get separated after marriage, they cannot be together again, no not like that because they can fall in love again just like last time and this time there won't be any misunderstanding because throughout their separations they have learned the truth about their partners. They will just simply consider it to be some kind of thing they need to forget and if they are in love with each other again, then they can reunite back and once again live a happy married life.

It happens but my opinion is better not to reunite with the one you broke up for the better of both of their future because they split due to the disagreement with their opinion then after a year or two one person wants the other back may not really be they want to be with them, it must be they can't find anyone else so they are trying to hookup with the one.

Marrying your ex-wife is not forbidden in any country/ religion, but you have to follow some rules before remarrying your ex-wife/ husband. In my religion, a divorced woman must get married to another person and the person willfully divorce her. Only then, she can remarry her ex-husband. In my country, there is a board specifically assigned for such cases. You have to get a written Fatwa (clarification) from an Islamic Scholar before the marriage.  This is the only solution. I have limited knowledge about other religions or countries. 

Yes, there's always a room for rehabilitation and reunion if two couples have issues and had separated for long, if they both can realized their mistakes and let go the past, then its very possible for reignition of their love back to the way it was before, making a reunion rekindles the love between the parties and one of the most dangerous courses to separation is the admission of a third party into a relationship, then tolerance.

Lol, it's a new fact to me. I know some religions have rules, like Christians have a rule that nobody can divorce.

When I open the news page, I see the story of marriage breakup. Reunion after divorce is very rare. However, there are different religious contexts on whether a divorced couple can reunite. I don't know about the rules of other religions, but as far as I know in Muslim society, a divorced couple is prohibited from reuniting. I'm not saying they can't reunite but there are rules - if a couple gets divorced. Then the divorced woman must be married elsewhere, then if the husband voluntarily divorces her or dies, then the previous husband can remarry her.

Personally, I don’t think so.

There is always a reason why couples break up it must be
a huge one if two people who had already promised and declared a lifetime to each other in front of the church, their family, friends, and even the government would want to take it all back.

They would have never broken up if things were working out in
the first place. Well, it’s better to get out of it instead of letting yourself live an unhappy life.

You don't step into the same river twice. Do you know this saying?

I know a few divorced couples and they usually don't even talk to each other. There's too much bad blood between them and they don't want to try to fix things bevause they had enough time to try it out and failed. They know each other well now and are aware that they're incompatible.

The only thing that often joins divorced couples are children.

“Is it possible?” and “is it legal?” Are two different questions which require both very different answers.

“Is it possible?” Yes, but not for all couples. Some couples are way past that rebuilding phase to ever want to get back together. Some relationship are just not bad for us and at some point we have to accept that and divorce. Some people however do realize that they might just needed a little break from each other. Maybe their relationship is still fixable hence why they can still go back together after spending time away from each other because they realized how much they love each other still and how much willing they are to try again.

“Is it legal?” Yes a divorced couple can still remarry each other after divorce as long as both parties are still unmarried. You can still definitely get married again after a divorce no matter how wasteful of time and resources that must be. It’s also a tas bit embarrassing but hey! Life is not linear so do whatever makes you happy the most.

Divorce signifies the end of a marriage but it doesn't necessarily mean that the couple can never reconcile. Some divorced couples may realise that they still have feelings for each other & choose to give their relationship another shot. This can happen if both of them are willing to work on the issues that led to the divorce & are committed to making the necessary changes. Reuniting after divorce requires open communication, forgiveness & a genuine desire to rebuild the relationship.

Divorcing couples are less likely to unite. But that doesn't mean they don't reunite. I met three divorced couples who reunited. I have heard from them that the comfort or freedom they once had is later taken away when they break up and choose another partner. So they later returned to their former partner. In today's context, the rate of divorce has increased a lot so everyone should follow these two words as a principle in life. First compromise and second sacrifice. That is, in life, it is not possible to get everyone 100% according to oneself, so everything that does not match with one's life must be accepted as a compromise and sacrifice. Only then will no more incidents like separation happen. Whether you get back together after a breakup is entirely up to you and your partner. And there is nothing to stop it, you must have independence in this case.

People can divorce for several reasons, and some of them don't mean the love or connection between the couple has ceased. Maybe the person is just trying to tell or show the partner something he or she is unsatisfied about, so they get distant from each other in the process for a while, but as the time goes by, they miss each other even more, until finally giving up on their personal prides and reuniting once again. If it's common or not, I think it will depend on the country or culture we are talking about. When people are more strict on their decisions, it's likely you are going to see this often.

If it's good or not to reunite divorced couples, I also think we have to analyze the personal situations faced by each of them. If there is a history of abuses and violence, being it psychological or physical, I tend to disagree with the possibility of reuniting, because people have to walk ahead in life, and not get chained to suffering and anguish for whatever reasons they might consider, being them usually fear, insecurity and lack of self-esteem.

Relationships, like plants, require consistent nurturing and care to remain healthy and robust. When people return to a relationship with an ex without addressing the issues that caused the first breakup, it's like attempting to grow a garden in a drought: the chances of success are poor to none.

Consider this: if you want a healthy, growing garden, you must first take out the unwanted plants and water the healthy ones. It is the same with relationships. If your friend's uncle wants to make things work with his ex-wife, he must do the hard work to express themselves honestly and addressing old difficulties.