You don't step into the same river twice. Do you know this saying?
I know a few divorced couples and they usually don't even talk to each other. There's too much bad blood between them and they don't want to try to fix things bevause they had enough time to try it out and failed. They know each other well now and are aware that they're incompatible.
The only thing that often joins divorced couples are children.
Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 3. (Read 721 times)
“Is it possible?” and “is it legal?” Are two different questions which require both very different answers.
“Is it possible?” Yes, but not for all couples. Some couples are way past that rebuilding phase to ever want to get back together. Some relationship are just not bad for us and at some point we have to accept that and divorce. Some people however do realize that they might just needed a little break from each other. Maybe their relationship is still fixable hence why they can still go back together after spending time away from each other because they realized how much they love each other still and how much willing they are to try again.
“Is it legal?” Yes a divorced couple can still remarry each other after divorce as long as both parties are still unmarried. You can still definitely get married again after a divorce no matter how wasteful of time and resources that must be. It’s also a tas bit embarrassing but hey! Life is not linear so do whatever makes you happy the most.
“Is it possible?” Yes, but not for all couples. Some couples are way past that rebuilding phase to ever want to get back together. Some relationship are just not bad for us and at some point we have to accept that and divorce. Some people however do realize that they might just needed a little break from each other. Maybe their relationship is still fixable hence why they can still go back together after spending time away from each other because they realized how much they love each other still and how much willing they are to try again.
“Is it legal?” Yes a divorced couple can still remarry each other after divorce as long as both parties are still unmarried. You can still definitely get married again after a divorce no matter how wasteful of time and resources that must be. It’s also a tas bit embarrassing but hey! Life is not linear so do whatever makes you happy the most.
Divorce signifies the end of a marriage but it doesn't necessarily mean that the couple can never reconcile. Some divorced couples may realise that they still have feelings for each other & choose to give their relationship another shot. This can happen if both of them are willing to work on the issues that led to the divorce & are committed to making the necessary changes. Reuniting after divorce requires open communication, forgiveness & a genuine desire to rebuild the relationship.
Divorcing couples are less likely to unite. But that doesn't mean they don't reunite. I met three divorced couples who reunited. I have heard from them that the comfort or freedom they once had is later taken away when they break up and choose another partner. So they later returned to their former partner. In today's context, the rate of divorce has increased a lot so everyone should follow these two words as a principle in life. First compromise and second sacrifice. That is, in life, it is not possible to get everyone 100% according to oneself, so everything that does not match with one's life must be accepted as a compromise and sacrifice. Only then will no more incidents like separation happen. Whether you get back together after a breakup is entirely up to you and your partner. And there is nothing to stop it, you must have independence in this case.
People can divorce for several reasons, and some of them don't mean the love or connection between the couple has ceased. Maybe the person is just trying to tell or show the partner something he or she is unsatisfied about, so they get distant from each other in the process for a while, but as the time goes by, they miss each other even more, until finally giving up on their personal prides and reuniting once again. If it's common or not, I think it will depend on the country or culture we are talking about. When people are more strict on their decisions, it's likely you are going to see this often.
If it's good or not to reunite divorced couples, I also think we have to analyze the personal situations faced by each of them. If there is a history of abuses and violence, being it psychological or physical, I tend to disagree with the possibility of reuniting, because people have to walk ahead in life, and not get chained to suffering and anguish for whatever reasons they might consider, being them usually fear, insecurity and lack of self-esteem.
If it's good or not to reunite divorced couples, I also think we have to analyze the personal situations faced by each of them. If there is a history of abuses and violence, being it psychological or physical, I tend to disagree with the possibility of reuniting, because people have to walk ahead in life, and not get chained to suffering and anguish for whatever reasons they might consider, being them usually fear, insecurity and lack of self-esteem.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
Relationships, like plants, require consistent nurturing and care to remain healthy and robust. When people return to a relationship with an ex without addressing the issues that caused the first breakup, it's like attempting to grow a garden in a drought: the chances of success are poor to none.
Consider this: if you want a healthy, growing garden, you must first take out the unwanted plants and water the healthy ones. It is the same with relationships. If your friend's uncle wants to make things work with his ex-wife, he must do the hard work to express themselves honestly and addressing old difficulties.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
Mostly divorce always come from the side of the woman because it might feel like the man is having affairs outside, broken marriage is caused by lack of understanding of marriage and advice obtain from the female always break down family, marriage is union and if both parties is matured in brain disagreement will not exist in the marriage, some of the speration in marriage is as results of lack of understanding 
I’ve heard that this can happen but I figure it is most likely the result of children or cost of living being much easier to handle as a couple. The old saying is that a relit cigarette never tastes as good. I’m sure there are examples of divorce making a relationship stronger, but I would be worried about the longer effects of mistrust.
As humans, in every relationship there is always misunderstanding between couples, many have serious bad experience which there is high level of expectations and disappointment, which causes them to separate. For example, a man marry a young girl, and after few years the wife discovered that he already have children outside with another woman, this can lead to separation or divorce due to lack of trust.These is still possible that after divorce, both can still be reunited if they have the spirit of forgiveness and true love for each other.
Another way divorce can be reunited is through Islamic religion among the Hausa's in northern part of Nigeria, the practice allowed and permit reunited after divorce a woman, they can reunite again after divorce if the woman will agree to marry another man after the divorce from her first husband, she have to marry again with another man before her first husband can accept her back or before they can be reunited back according to the Islamic law.
Another way divorce can be reunited is through Islamic religion among the Hausa's in northern part of Nigeria, the practice allowed and permit reunited after divorce a woman, they can reunite again after divorce if the woman will agree to marry another man after the divorce from her first husband, she have to marry again with another man before her first husband can accept her back or before they can be reunited back according to the Islamic law.
Their is no curse upon any couples who decide to reunite after so many years of divorce; this is just something that's about the two people who are really coming together, and it's never anyone's business.
It's only become a concern in a place where they live with so many traditional laws, laws that will forbid their daughters or sons from involving themselves in a divorced marriage, but those come with conditions like, during the time of the divorce, if the divorcée has any kind of affair outside of the marriage during this period of time, then their son can no longer have anything to do with the person. I have seen a tribe with such a law.
Apart from that, I have seen many couples that got divorced and later came back together; it's just a matter of understanding between them, although they don't stay together for years before coming back together.
It's only become a concern in a place where they live with so many traditional laws, laws that will forbid their daughters or sons from involving themselves in a divorced marriage, but those come with conditions like, during the time of the divorce, if the divorcée has any kind of affair outside of the marriage during this period of time, then their son can no longer have anything to do with the person. I have seen a tribe with such a law.
Apart from that, I have seen many couples that got divorced and later came back together; it's just a matter of understanding between them, although they don't stay together for years before coming back together.
Trust is broken and the reason of marriage was already cut and that's why divorced was made for these couples. They should have thought of it before deciding to file for divorce instead of going for a divorce then eventually they'll have a comeback and become stronger with their relationship. I just don't find that it should be like that because being in a relationship is a serious matter and even we have fall downs of our times, you need to think for so many times before both of you decide to partway. But then, it's in the agreement whether you want to be back in each other's arm but whatever the reason for the divorce, it's easy that those blaming and reasoning on why you've separated will come back to life. The lesson is before divorcing, don't decide when you're mad because you can really tell bad words to your significant other and you'll regret that later on. And it's much worse if there's a kid involve and it's overwhelming to see that this type of setup is like a norm these days, gone are the old days when 1:1 partner lasts long. People should consult the elderly on how to keep their marriage sacred and relationship last long.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
It is not forbidden. There is something called reconciliation that can happen no matter how destroyed the relationship was, so far both parties are ready to commit to making the new relationship work, it will work. Couples who even reconcile have the strongest chance of staying longest together because sometimes the most serious conflict in any kind of relationship results in the best relationships or stronger relationships afterwards.
it happens to many families when they have kids, it's really possible especially if they consider the future of the kids.
or when both grow old already and are now seeking thier kids to take care of them and you will see both parents who were very mean to each other when they were in their 40s experiencing midlife crises are at peace reminiscing old memories they had together. seen it happen before my eyes.
or when both grow old already and are now seeking thier kids to take care of them and you will see both parents who were very mean to each other when they were in their 40s experiencing midlife crises are at peace reminiscing old memories they had together. seen it happen before my eyes.
What did you think causes divorce in marriage, it's all about misunderstanding between the couples, everyone want his own ambition and selfish interest gets to hold, if they cab settle this discrepancies and make amends, do away with ego or pride then there can be a marriage reunion or reignition of marria vows and they both can stay happily after, diverse is as a result of being frustrated and it can only cause depression, but reunion works out for those ready to amend on each other.
Of course, there are chances the couples can reunite again whenever they realized their mistakes and consider apologizing to each other. The only problem is when they decide to take revenge by looking for another partner and when they find happiness with them and that would gonna eventually ruin their past marriages because when a woman finds the right place with some other man, I don't think she will gonna go back to you again because of what she experienced from you that she don't really like rather she will continue to stay out of your sight and will learn to find happiness without you and I think that also goes for a man when he no longer finds the sweetness in their marriage.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
Anyone can make mistakes, and come back and return everything that was certainly possible, if two people want it. 
Reuniting of divorced marriage can only happen when there is fear of God among the couples because this will only happen after they realize the vow they made to each other on the alter the very day they got married and also most divorce today happens if maybe the husband is unable to carry out his responsibility as the man of the house this may warrant the wife to be in patients on the other hand most woman are not helpful to their husband only sitting at home and given instructions in our world is believed that one hand washes the other so if both party are likely to help each other in think theyes will build a better home and there will be no reason for divorce
There is nothing forbidden about getting back to your ex-wife or ex-husband. Though this is rare to see them come together and live under the same roof as husband and wife, some just stay friends after the divorce and nothing more.
The most well-known reason couples reunite is that they perceive and determine the issues that tormented their marriage. In the event that something didn't resolve in your marriage, something needs to change, or it won't figure out when you reunite. In the event that an issue has been settled, for example, absence of closeness or monetary pressure, couples may reconnect. Issues, for example, substance misuse, ignoring the marriage and over-zeroing in on profession, and depression because of absence of consideration from an accomplice — these are issues that can be settled with a promise to couples or potentially family treatment and making changes at home. In the event that funds have been the essential stressor, the non-working accomplice could seek after a task.
An individual with fixation could demonstrate a guarantee to temperance or treatment. An accomplice who disregarded his mate and youngsters could decrease his plan for getting work done.
An individual with fixation could demonstrate a guarantee to temperance or treatment. An accomplice who disregarded his mate and youngsters could decrease his plan for getting work done.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
Forbidden? In where and by whom?But answer to the question is that every couple is different and not every coulple have same answer to that question.
But the question one would need to ask is: What has changed so that it would work this time?
There's usually a very good reason for breakup and if something fundamental hasn't changed, like personal growth and attitude towards the partnership. Then same problems as last time will appear to deal with. And most likely they will be dealed with same way, by divorce.
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