Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 2. (Read 943 times)
Don't know much about divorce but from what I've heard it's okay for divorced couples to reunite. After the divorce they may realize their mistakes and therefore decide to stay together again. If a husband wishes to remarry his wife after divorcing her. But the only legal system for him is to do halal. But there are some sharia, they have to get married again according to sharia.
If you can leave with the fact that someone dipped his dropper into your wife, or your husband used his magic wand for others then go ahead, reunite.
I don't have experience of divorce, neither have a withnessed a divorced couple that came back together as husband and wife again, but I believe that it's possible, because marriage should be by choice. I think that it'll be very rare for divorced couples to reunite and marry again, even if they later realize that it was a mistake for them to go their separate ways, they'll still move on because of their pride, and they'll hope to meet someone better. I don't think that it's a good idea for divorced couples to come back and remarry again, because they might live in fear of offending each other again, to avoid another divorce, and this might remove the excitement in the marriage.
I don’t think it is forbidden. If may they both find the love in each other again, they can definitely give it a try. Think of it like a breakup and then they get back together (even if this is more than that). It is a rare thing but it’s beautiful because they get back together as they should have been, and if they have any kids, the kids don’t have to suffer anymore for their separation.
IMO they can if the decide to do so, they may have identify each other lapses and decide to work on themselves to stay stay together, marriage is a union that takes understand for both partners to be together, it takes understanding for both partners to stay without excalated issues, normally we should understand that it is not an easy thing for partners to stay together without problems but allowing it to grow to the extent seeking for divorce is another issue together but I know for sure that there is know problem that's not solvable is just a matter of both party coming together unify once again and let go of their individual differences.
This is majorly based on the agreement between the two of they want to come back and reunite maybe because of the bond or children they have together. It is very important to understand that sometimes it could be very difficult for a couple that have separated and gone their different ways to come together again especially when they both have the ego of not want to agree with each other. The love between them also matters if it still exists for a new bond to be formed again.
It's possible cause not all divorce was because of the other party wanted to get some property, some happened because of a cheating party and the other did such cause of anger, and if they really loved each other then they is a place for reconciliation and they could amend thigns and go towards a better part of life.
Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.
Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.
Yes I concur , divorce is not a death sentence that separate couple permanently as long life exist between the two divorce individual possiblity of reuniting can occur. Human operate with conscious mind at the point your your conscience begin to correct you in your errors the person may desire to go back and correct any mistake he/she has made, beside divorce come through conversation and can also reunite by conversation.
Some divorce is as result of persuasion not conceptional by the opponent during divorce the two parties can't be at fault it's fault from one person and the inability to accept correction at that point, but when correction is taken as at when the man heart or the woman heart navigate the truth reunion may take place so far live still exist among them.
it is no longer a rare thing when someone reunites with their ex. because in whatever country it is, there is no prohibition for someone to reunite with their ex, whether it is after 1 year or more, the most important thing is how committed the couple is and how they have been able to accept their partner's mistakes in the past and have forgiven them.
but maybe this will be a problem if the person is a christian, because in the christian religion a couple is not allowed to divorce. but in the islamic religion, this is fine, as long as the ex-wife/husband agrees to hold the remarriage contract in the mosque.
but maybe this will be a problem if the person is a christian, because in the christian religion a couple is not allowed to divorce. but in the islamic religion, this is fine, as long as the ex-wife/husband agrees to hold the remarriage contract in the mosque.
It's possible cause not all divorce was because of the other party wanted to get some property, some happened because of a cheating party and the other did such cause of anger, and if they really loved each other then they is a place for reconciliation and they could amend thigns and go towards a better part of life.
Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.
Yeah so couples divorced can get back together just the same way broken relationship can amend.
IMO they can if the decide to do so, they may have identify each other lapses and decide to work on themselves to stay stay together, marriage is a union that takes understand for both partners to be together, it takes understanding for both partners to stay without excalated issues, normally we should understand that it is not an easy thing for partners to stay together without problems but allowing it to grow to the extent seeking for divorce is another issue together but I know for sure that there is know problem that's not solvable is just a matter of both party coming together unify once again and let go of their individual differences.
Divorce decisions are not permanent. Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together. People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.
IMO, that a couple decided to divorce doesn't mean they can't come together again no it doesn't, if they decide to go their separate ways legally and later decides to come back later I nothing is wrong about that since they are both adults who knows what they want. Yeah I think I have heard of a case where the divorced couples got back together and started dating again when they realized they can't stay without each other.
However, it is rare to see divorced partners coming together again. This is because they must have seen some dislikes in the person that they cannot cope with, which must have to divorce. The moment they are done, they find a partner to continue their lives with. Some of them might have even seen someone that they want to settle down with, and that was why they went for divorce.
But in most cases this never happen because there are issues of personal likes and dislikes with many other aspects are also involved which create serious misuse and then things never gone as they have so they usually decide to stay away from this all and try to live their own life with other options which give them better and suitable way for life.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
Not a good idea to divorce. The best alternative to divorce is to live seperatetly without getting married to another, and they can later comeback together when the issues that caused the seperation are sorted out. You can actually seperate without divorce, and to seperate in this case is to live apart from each other without saying you are nolonger husband and wife.
A couple may only divorce due to infidelity(sexual affair outside of marriage) otherwise there was never a divorce in the first place even if a court granted it... it's illegal annulment. So they can still come together if non has slept with another man/woman after the "divorce".
Your piece of work is too economical of words. You would have stated the obvious. But that would not stop me from contributing my ideas.
Marriage perse is a Divine contraption contracted by God almighty. So no person could put it apart except death. I'm coming from the christain perspectives. Though the couples come from different background, God has the ability to unite them together, and such unity is binding for life.
But where there is a disagreement between the two, major or minor, leading to divorce, reunion is permissible by the Almighty God. So what God allows, no societal ordinances could contravene, it becomes null and void in it's entirety.
Marriage perse is a Divine contraption contracted by God almighty. So no person could put it apart except death. I'm coming from the christain perspectives. Though the couples come from different background, God has the ability to unite them together, and such unity is binding for life.
But where there is a disagreement between the two, major or minor, leading to divorce, reunion is permissible by the Almighty God. So what God allows, no societal ordinances could contravene, it becomes null and void in it's entirety.
Divorce decisions are not permanent. Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together. People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.
IMO, that a couple decided to divorce doesn't mean they can't come together again no it doesn't, if they decide to go their separate ways legally and later decides to come back later I nothing is wrong about that since they are both adults who knows what they want. Yeah I think I have heard of a case where the divorced couples got back together and started dating again when they realized they can't stay without each other.
However, it is rare to see divorced partners coming together again. This is because they must have seen some dislikes in the person that they cannot cope with, which must have to divorce. The moment they are done, they find a partner to continue their lives with. Some of them might have even seen someone that they want to settle down with, and that was why they went for divorce.
Divorce decisions are not permanent. Couples who are divorce can always come together if they decide to come together. People getting divorced doesn't mean they can't fall in love again to come together to live as husband and wife. I have seen some couples who got divorced but after some year they got united again.
IMO, that a couple decided to divorce doesn't mean they can't come together again no it doesn't, if they decide to go their separate ways legally and later decides to come back later I nothing is wrong about that since they are both adults who knows what they want. Yeah I think I have heard of a case where the divorced couples got back together and started dating again when they realized they can't stay without each other.
A divorce isn’t a death sentence, it is not final. They can always get back together & maybe try to start the relationship again.
This is just simple truth about divorce as you spoken 99% of my mind. I see Divorce just as just a simple mistake, its error was not corrected at the point of occurance. Person who make mistake of divorce can't still correct it's error by reuniting as long they are both alive and have come to agree where they disagree.
I don't have any statistical data at hand though, but I have got the impression those couples who decided to break up and separste their ways are very unlikely to reunite, it is possible, but not likely.
Usually, when divorced people start again by their own they may start dating and hanging around with other people they would like to start a new relationship.
Those stories about divorced couples reunited are something out of a Hollywood movie, it has kind of been implied into the popular culture of the population through the broadcast in the media. It is important to realize, it is not the norm but rather the exception when a couple come together again.
Actually, it is funny you mention this scenario, because I have got a cousin who may actuslly get together with his spouse after years of separation, if they do, it would be something like a little miracle.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
The broken marriages are increasing day by day, I don't know if the problem is coming from the men or we the women, and the reason most of this couples are breaking up is just because of a minor issue which is fixable, but what I believe is that a divorce couple can reunite, but most women today don't want to be sumitive to their husbands, but is possible, it is just a matter of understanding, but the truth is if divorce couple come to an understanding their reunion will be more stronger than before.Marriage isn't as easy as people take it to be. It's a union between two different people with different characters coming together. For a marriage to last forever, both couple must learn to tolerate each other. There is no way issue won't happen but the ability to settle it easily make the marriage stay long. Love nowadays lack tolerance and endurance and these are reason we see alot of broken home this days. Nothing bad if a divorced couple reunite, so far they have learnt from their early mistakes and have decided to always try to tolerance each other.
A divorce isn’t a death sentence, it is not final. They can always get back together & maybe try to start the relationship again.
This is just simple truth about divorce as you spoken 99% of my mind. I see Divorce just as just a simple mistake, its error was not corrected at the point of occurance. Person who make mistake of divorce can't still correct it's error by reuniting as long they are both alive and have come to agree where they disagree.
It's possible for divorced couples to reunite and probably remarry, although I've not witnessed it personally, but I know that it can happen, maybe in the case where they've tried other relationships and come to understand that they're more compatible and getting divorced was a mistake. I believe the reason why it's not popular for divorced couples to reunite even when they realized that it was a mistake to divorce in the first place is due to pride, what will people say when they see them together again after publicly going their separate ways. So I believe that even when they realize that they shouldn't have divorced they'll still want to move on, in the hope of finding someone else that'll fill the vacuum that the divorced partner has created.
This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
The answer is yes, divorced couple can still reunite depending on reason why they divorced, my uncle divorced his wife because of her bad behavior towards his family and himself but now they have reunite and come together because of their children.
No matter what happens between two couples if they want to reunite they can and no body will say anything about it
But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this
First, Is not forbidden.Marriage is based on Understandings, Tolerance, Care and also Adaptation.
If you can't adapt to situations it weakens the marriage and lead it straight to divorce,
If you can't tolerate your partner,it also leads same way. Same goes to Understanding. They all work together, if 1 is lacking and not fixed,it will surely end in divorce in time.
For a couple to reunite,they should be ready and agree to put all these in check, else is nearly impossible.
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