Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 4. (Read 726 times)

in my country I just saw a case of two famous people from my country who were married when they were young, had children, but years later the young man's wife cheated on him and because of that they separated for a few years that they reached the point of breaking up divorced, the young man found another woman and had a child, he even married another woman in the traditional way, although in my country this type of marriage has no legal effect, but after some time he left that woman and went back to live with the woman he he had married when he was young. even now that I am writing about it I am laughing at this story, because it is a very strange case

I keep asking myself how a couple like this can be living well with all these events that I told you, and a very interesting thing is that after the separation they just went back to living together, but they are no longer legally married, neither of them comments about the possibility of someday getting married again, my question: will someone you love really cheat? how can someone say they love person z but the next day they are cheating on person z. I can't understand it

and currently, society no longer gives more importance to marriage and fidelity, people get married, but when one of the parties has no money they get divorced, in europe, america marriages no longer last at least 1 year, these are very low cases, the most women in europe and america just want a rich man and have no interest in marriage

people who is separated from long time but there we are compatible due to two issues come up and separate them can come back together so the problem is that then come only take time for them to come back together but what will make them to come back together might be as a result of their children or advice from the both parents

Life is now becoming more flexible and nobody is ready to be submissive again. The woman that is means to be submissive and ready to make sure that the marriage works are now in the street doing what they like to make money. This is one of the problems we have in the society now. People are not ready to endure, they prefer scattering there marriage and getting divorce.

It's normal that there's a low percentage of divorced couples that reunite and the reason is simply both sides are not ready to make corrections and focus on the first reason they decide to marry in the first place which is love and it's the only thing that can overcome all the reason you stated.

Why not, anything is possible if both sides want to reunite. there are many reasons and considerations, whether it's because of the child, or both parties still have feelings for one another. everything can be realized, but it depends on the agreement of the two parties involved.

In my country, marriage is a sacred bond that can only be separated by death. but in the last few decades, everything has changed with the changes and developments in the times. there are many phenomena of divorce, especially when we refer to the marriage of public figures, such as famous artists.

But in essence, marriage is two souls becoming one and how the two partners sail the ark of their household, whether joy or sorrow. going through a marriage is not easy, because there will be where the hard times come, where there will always be disagreements. however, the marriage was not bad as you can see. because, you will feel how happiness comes, waiting for special moments, emotion, whatever it is that cannot be expressed in just words. which in essence marriage is not just limited to status, but more on a person's life partner until the end of his life.

Perfectly said..
Research shows that 10-15% of couples reunite after some years,  and you can see how little the percentage is. This shows that it seldomly happens. In all the stories I have read online about this,  I noticed it ends with the word remarry. So for every divorced couple to reunite, there most start afresh. this includes going through the whole marriage process over again,  and accepting to forget about each other's past and moving on completely into a new start. But the only thing I am perturbed about is filling for a court Toga since it involves the same couple. reason is to delete past divorced stories in the law court. To me, this also is important.

Yes, the divorced couple can still reunite if they still love each other and are ready to make an amendment to what led to their divorce. An example is Sylvester Stallone and Jennifer Flavin, Jennifer Lopez, and Ben Affleck, etc.
With that said, if the man or woman keeps talking about the positive side of his/her ex then he/she still has something for the person and can make up if there's a chance.

It is an exaggeration to think that the re-marriage of two divorced partners may be prohibited under any legislation.

Personally, I consider that divorce is a healthy option in all cases, whether to end an uncomfortable relationship for one of the partners or to review the mistakes of the relationship and rebuild it on solid foundations. Often the decision to divorce is final, so the cases of remarriage of two divorced partners are almost negligible. On the other hand, it is better for the marriage decision to be carefully considered to avoid the remnants of a failed marriage.

It is not forbidden for divorced individuals to reconcile and resume their relationship, but it's important to consider the reasons for the initial divorce and whether those issues have been resolved or addressed. Reconciling after a divorce can be difficult and requires open communication, forgiveness, and a willingness to work through any problems that may arise. It's also important to consider the feelings and emotions of any current partners or children involved. Ultimately, the decision to reconcile should be made carefully and with the well-being of all parties involved in mind.

One thing I've noticed with relationship is that, people that have fallen in love before and later broke up, might always reunite if the opportunity knocks on the door.
Reasons will be, because they've had strong feelings for each other before now, they've understood their flaws, they are ready to make amends, they've known how to communicate with each other without saying a word, they can barely let go of the past they've had with each other, so they are constantly reminiscing the good old days, and lastly some partners feel those traits they enjoyed from their past partners cannot be gotten anywhere, So coming back together to start from where they stopped will be the best decision for them.

It is not forbidden to go back to each other and have a new start. I've seen stories of relationships that have gone through a lot and then still managed to break up, file for divorce, and then went silent for years. But in the end, they were still the ones that have feelings for each other.
Sometimes the reasoning is about the shared responsibility towards their children and then that builds up the fire again for them to understand and reminisce the times that they've been together. And that's why I believe that even with break ups or divorce or worst, as long as there's a chance, a couple can still be back together again.

You are right.. Thanks for your opinion. I have seen a situation where couple regret their decision but find it difficult to re-unite. this makes me feel that reunion after divorce is forbidden.
they sure do   realise their mistake after their needs are not met by their new lovers and at this moment they figure out their mistakes and then develop a the huge of fixing things.  But this seldom happens.

I have never been married, but I have gotten the impression that those couples that decide to go through divorce rarely come back together, instead take their chances by meeting new people who they believe are more compatible with.

Western society these latest years has become very used to the idea of being able to marry anyone and they divorce if things won't go as good as expected. It was not like that before, marriage was taken more seriously, I think.

Reunification is possible, but I would not bet on it happening often.

I'm not married but have been in a relationship for over 5 years now. We have had our fair share of fights over the course of our relationship, but we always managed to work things out and have never broken up for more than a few days. Our principle is to fix things and not give up the moment a problem arises. Life is tough, and you'll have to work through your problems together. I believe in second chances; depending on the reason for the breakup, if it wasn't cheating, maybe I'd consider getting back together with someone.

The broken marriages are increasing day by day, I don't know if the problem is coming from the men or we the women, and the reason most of this  couples are breaking up is just because of a minor issue which is fixable, but what I believe is that a divorce couple can reunite, but most women today don't want to be sumitive to their husbands, but is possible, it is just a matter of understanding, but the truth is if divorce couple come to an understanding their reunion will be more stronger than before.

I don’t have any experience with this but I can provide a neutral, unbiased opinion. I believe that a divorced couple can reunite, it’s definitely possible. A couple may divorce, go back into the dating scene & realise that they’ve made a huge mistake. They may realise that they still love each other & want to reunite.

A divorce isn’t a death sentence, it is not final. They can always get back together & maybe try to start the relationship again.

People tend not to know the worth of their spouses until they lose them. Sometimes we think that another man or woman will treat us better than our spouse and we end up divorcing our current partners. After the divorce, it might become clear that we have made a very big mistake because our former partner is far better than the one we ran to. This will lead to regret and the drive to divorce again and return to our first love.

But when the marriage ended on a bad note maybe due to domestic violence, adultery, or other unacceptable behavior, both parties might be glad the marriage ended. Nobody will be willing to go back to a relationship that was toxic or irresponsible. I have seen people that experienced the peace of mind after they divorced their partners. While some of them came back begging on their knees because they want their former spouse back.

Forbidden? In where and by whom?

But answer to the question is that every couple is different and not every coulple have same answer to that question.
But the question one would need to ask is: What has changed so that it would work this time?
There's usually a very good reason for breakup and if something fundamental hasn't changed, like personal growth and attitude towards the partnership. Then same problems as last time will appear to deal with. And most likely they will be dealed with same way, by divorce.

This days There are diverse news of broken marriages all over the world, with little news of reunion. Lately my friends uncle just resurrected an old relationship after 1 year in divorced zone. but on every disagreement with his new fiancee, He keeps reminding us about the positive side of his ex wife. This leaves me with the thought that he will still take her in if there is a chance, but such incidence is rare in our society, But I wonder if it is forbidden. I need more idea on this