Topic: Can divorced couple reunite?? - please share experience - page 4. (Read 943 times)

Mostly divorce always come from the side of the woman because it might feel like the man is having affairs outside, broken marriage is caused by lack of understanding of marriage and advice obtain from the female always break down family, marriage is union and if both parties is matured in brain disagreement will not exist in the marriage, some of the speration in marriage is as results of lack of understanding

I’ve heard that this can happen but I figure it is most likely the result of children or cost of living being much easier to handle as a couple. The old saying is that a relit cigarette never tastes as good. I’m sure there are examples of divorce making a relationship stronger, but I would be worried about the longer effects of mistrust.

As humans, in every relationship there is always misunderstanding between couples, many have serious bad experience which there is high level of expectations and disappointment, which causes them to separate. For example, a man marry a young girl, and after few years the  wife discovered that he already have children outside with another woman, this can lead to separation or divorce due to lack of trust.These is still possible that after divorce, both can still be reunited if they have the spirit of forgiveness and true love for each other.

Another way divorce can be reunited is through Islamic religion among the Hausa's in northern part of Nigeria, the practice allowed and permit reunited after divorce a woman, they can reunite again after divorce if the woman will agree to marry another man after the divorce from her first husband, she have to marry again with another man before her first husband can accept her back or before they can be reunited back according to the Islamic law.

Their is no curse upon any couples who decide to reunite after so many years of divorce; this is just something that's about the two people who are really coming together, and it's never anyone's business. 

It's only become a concern in a place where they live with so many traditional laws, laws that will forbid their daughters or sons from involving themselves in a divorced marriage, but those come with conditions like, during the time of the divorce, if the divorcée has any kind of affair outside of the marriage during this period of time, then their son can no longer have anything to do with the person. I have seen a tribe with such a law. 

Apart from that, I have seen many couples that got divorced and later came back together; it's just a matter of understanding between them, although they don't stay together for years before coming back together. 

Trust is broken and the reason of marriage was already cut and that's why divorced was made for these couples. They should have thought of it before deciding to file for divorce instead of going for a divorce then eventually they'll have a comeback and become stronger with their relationship. I just don't find that it should be like that because being in a relationship is a serious matter and even we have fall downs of our times, you need to think for so many times before both of you decide to partway. But then, it's in the agreement whether you want to be back in each other's arm but whatever the reason for the divorce, it's easy that those blaming and reasoning on why you've separated will come back to life. The lesson is before divorcing, don't decide when you're mad because you can really tell bad words to your significant other and you'll regret that later on. And it's much worse if there's a kid involve and it's overwhelming to see that this type of setup is like a norm these days, gone are the old days when 1:1 partner lasts long. People should consult the elderly on how to keep their marriage sacred and relationship last long.

It is not forbidden. There is something called reconciliation that can happen no matter how destroyed the relationship was, so far both parties are ready to commit to making the new relationship work, it will work. Couples who even reconcile have the strongest chance of staying longest together because sometimes the most serious conflict in any kind of relationship results in the best relationships or stronger relationships afterwards.

it happens to many families when they have kids, it's really possible especially if they consider the future of the kids.

or when both grow old already and are now seeking thier kids to take care of them and you will see both parents who were very mean to each other when they were in their 40s experiencing midlife crises are at peace reminiscing old memories they had together. seen it happen before my eyes.

What did you think causes divorce in marriage, it's all about misunderstanding between the couples, everyone want his own ambition and selfish interest gets to hold, if they cab settle this discrepancies and make amends, do away with ego or pride then there can be a marriage reunion or reignition of marria vows and they both can stay happily after, diverse is as a result of being frustrated and it can only cause depression, but reunion works out for those ready to amend on each other.

Of course, there are chances the couples can reunite again whenever they realized their mistakes and consider apologizing to each other. The only problem is when they decide to take revenge by looking for another partner and when they find happiness with them and that would gonna eventually ruin their past marriages because when a woman finds the right place with some other man, I don't think she will gonna go back to you again because of what she experienced from you that she don't really like rather she will continue to stay out of your sight and will learn to find happiness without you and I think that also goes for a man when he no longer finds the sweetness in their marriage.

Anyone can make mistakes, and come back and return everything that was certainly possible, if two people want it.

Reuniting of divorced marriage can only happen when there is fear of God among the couples because this will only happen after they realize the vow they made to each other on the alter the very day they got married and also most divorce today happens if maybe the husband is unable to carry out his responsibility as the man of the house this may warrant the wife to be in patients on the other hand most woman are not helpful to their husband only sitting at home and given instructions in our world is believed that one hand washes the other so if both party are likely to help each other in think theyes will build a better home and there will be no reason for divorce

There is nothing forbidden about getting back to your ex-wife or ex-husband. Though this is rare to see them come together and live under the same roof as husband and wife, some just stay friends after the divorce and nothing more.

The most well-known reason couples reunite is that they perceive and determine the issues that tormented their marriage. In the event that something didn't resolve in your marriage, something needs to change, or it won't figure out when you reunite. In the event that an issue has been settled, for example, absence of closeness or monetary pressure, couples may reconnect. Issues, for example, substance misuse, ignoring the marriage and over-zeroing in on profession, and depression because of absence of consideration from an accomplice — these are issues that can be settled with a promise to couples or potentially family treatment and making changes at home. In the event that funds have been the essential stressor, the non-working accomplice could seek after a task.
An individual with fixation could demonstrate a guarantee to temperance or treatment. An accomplice who disregarded his mate and youngsters could decrease his plan for getting work done.

Reuniting after divorce is really possible but it has lots of things need to consider. But before that, what is the real reason first why they get to that point. If the reason is to heavy especially like cheating, I guess its really hard to make it work again. The trust that loses on one of them is hard to build again. On the other hand  One reason that make divorce couple reunite is because of their children. After realizing their faults they slowly accept and forgive each other. And I believe that is the best thing to do so the children will grow with a complete family.

in my country I just saw a case of two famous people from my country who were married when they were young, had children, but years later the young man's wife cheated on him and because of that they separated for a few years that they reached the point of breaking up divorced, the young man found another woman and had a child, he even married another woman in the traditional way, although in my country this type of marriage has no legal effect, but after some time he left that woman and went back to live with the woman he he had married when he was young. even now that I am writing about it I am laughing at this story, because it is a very strange case

I keep asking myself how a couple like this can be living well with all these events that I told you, and a very interesting thing is that after the separation they just went back to living together, but they are no longer legally married, neither of them comments about the possibility of someday getting married again, my question: will someone you love really cheat? how can someone say they love person z but the next day they are cheating on person z. I can't understand it

and currently, society no longer gives more importance to marriage and fidelity, people get married, but when one of the parties has no money they get divorced, in europe, america marriages no longer last at least 1 year, these are very low cases, the most women in europe and america just want a rich man and have no interest in marriage

people who is separated from long time but there we are compatible due to two issues come up and separate them can come back together so the problem is that then come only take time for them to come back together but what will make them to come back together might be as a result of their children or advice from the both parents

Life is now becoming more flexible and nobody is ready to be submissive again. The woman that is means to be submissive and ready to make sure that the marriage works are now in the street doing what they like to make money. This is one of the problems we have in the society now. People are not ready to endure, they prefer scattering there marriage and getting divorce.

It's normal that there's a low percentage of divorced couples that reunite and the reason is simply both sides are not ready to make corrections and focus on the first reason they decide to marry in the first place which is love and it's the only thing that can overcome all the reason you stated.

Why not, anything is possible if both sides want to reunite. there are many reasons and considerations, whether it's because of the child, or both parties still have feelings for one another. everything can be realized, but it depends on the agreement of the two parties involved.

In my country, marriage is a sacred bond that can only be separated by death. but in the last few decades, everything has changed with the changes and developments in the times. there are many phenomena of divorce, especially when we refer to the marriage of public figures, such as famous artists.

But in essence, marriage is two souls becoming one and how the two partners sail the ark of their household, whether joy or sorrow. going through a marriage is not easy, because there will be where the hard times come, where there will always be disagreements. however, the marriage was not bad as you can see. because, you will feel how happiness comes, waiting for special moments, emotion, whatever it is that cannot be expressed in just words. which in essence marriage is not just limited to status, but more on a person's life partner until the end of his life.

Perfectly said..
Research shows that 10-15% of couples reunite after some years,  and you can see how little the percentage is. This shows that it seldomly happens. In all the stories I have read online about this,  I noticed it ends with the word remarry. So for every divorced couple to reunite, there most start afresh. this includes going through the whole marriage process over again,  and accepting to forget about each other's past and moving on completely into a new start. But the only thing I am perturbed about is filling for a court Toga since it involves the same couple. reason is to delete past divorced stories in the law court. To me, this also is important.