Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 23.

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Quote from: piebeyb on September 27, 2023, 09:18:12 AM

Quote from: lizarder on September 27, 2023, 08:30:53 AM

What's worse is that gambling can cause the accumulation of debt to become greater, the relationship between husband and wife becomes messy and in the end it will have a much worse impact on life. The phrase don't play near a well if you don't want to fell it, might be suitable to describe it all and the decision is entirely up to each individual.

The importance of being open to each other and communicating well with your partner will help gambling become better, although maybe not many women like men who gamble, but believe me, if we are honest with our partner, he will definitely understand, just give him the trust to manage the gambling budget so that we not going too far because we need someone to remind us not to play too far.

I applied this to my wife where I asked her to manage all my gambling budget, after all there is no need to be in debt to anyone, it is better to gamble with money that we are ready to lose to have fun, after all my gambling habit is usually to fill my holiday time, not to make money, I always think of winning at gambling as a bonus. If I lose, just think of me paying for something that is fun for me. The point is to be open with our partner and honest so that it doesn't get messy, let alone make the relationship fall apart.

You gotta have the most understanding partner to be able to do this.

Meanwhile, the rest of the gamblers are just keeping it secret from their wives because once they know their husbands still gamble, she'd be mad as hell. She isn't even thinking of going to a salon to pamper herself because she knows the economy is just not fit to have beauty rest. Hiding the gambling activity I think saves the relationship for now.

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Quote from: lizarder on September 27, 2023, 08:30:53 AM

What's worse is that gambling can cause the accumulation of debt to become greater, the relationship between husband and wife becomes messy and in the end it will have a much worse impact on life. The phrase don't play near a well if you don't want to fell it, might be suitable to describe it all and the decision is entirely up to each individual.

The importance of being open to each other and communicating well with your partner will help gambling become better, although maybe not many women like men who gamble, but believe me, if we are honest with our partner, he will definitely understand, just give him the trust to manage the gambling budget so that we not going too far because we need someone to remind us not to play too far.

I applied this to my wife where I asked her to manage all my gambling budget, after all there is no need to be in debt to anyone, it is better to gamble with money that we are ready to lose to have fun, after all my gambling habit is usually to fill my holiday time, not to make money, I always think of winning at gambling as a bonus. If I lose, just think of me paying for something that is fun for me. The point is to be open with our partner and honest so that it doesn't get messy, let alone make the relationship fall apart.

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When you don't gamble responsibly, you become irresponsible to yourself and also to your family, and when you are no longer taking on the responsibility you are to carry out as a family man, you lose your value and rights in the family. When you lose value in your family and you turn out to be a liability in the family, the family will have to push you away because they don't need anyone who can't bring anything to the table; rather, they are expecting things to fall out of you and not the other way around. By doing so, you can see that you have broken the relations that you have between you and your family.

But when you gamble responsibly, you still know what you need to do every day as a responsible person; you don't gamble and forget your family bills and dues; you don't borrow to gamble, but rather you use a very small percentage of your earnings to gamble, which, whether you win or not, won't affect your financial livelihood. Such a gambling habit can't have any negative impact on a person's relationships; the method in which one uses to gamble will determine the detriment that will come afterward.

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Quote from: yazher on September 27, 2023, 06:49:45 AM

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

I think this is mail about just people being bad. Its good old issue with humans. Some people just can't establish proper relationships and friendships so they see their girlfriend/boyfriend exploitable. I really people with this mentality. Normal person wouldn't be asking money from his girlfriend to gamble 15 times. 1-2 at max! People should respect their partners. This is not related to gambling addiction so in my opinion. Gambling doesn't make people bad!

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

Everyone basically knows that irresponsible gambling will make their lives worse. Savings will be used up for gambling, relationships with family may become increasingly problematic and their lifestyle will be much more lazy to work in real life. Unfortunately when addiction is caused by excessive gambling it can be very difficult to control. Giving advice is much easier than quitting gambling and most people are only able to give advice theoretically and they may not delve into the psychology of addicted gamblers.

What's worse is that gambling can cause the accumulation of debt to become greater, the relationship between husband and wife becomes messy and in the end it will have a much worse impact on life. The phrase don't play near a well if you don't want to fell it, might be suitable to describe it all and the decision is entirely up to each individual.

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Quote from: Tellek Garing on September 19, 2023, 10:48:36 AM

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

It's evident that all addictions have some impact on our lives and relationships, to varying degrees. Gambling addiction, in particular, is exceptionally dangerous because the financial losses it can lead to pose a significant risk to our lives and our relationships with loved ones. I've seen a family member who lost everything, including their entire property and their family, due to gambling addiction. It's a truly dreadful situation, and rebuilding what was lost seems nearly impossible.

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Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

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Quote from: Chilwell on September 27, 2023, 01:09:35 AM

Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

Gambling is very dangerous to be taken as fun, the reason why people get involved is that they see it as a way of making fast money and also they take it as a reliable source of income. This courses a lot of issues when someone is addicted to gambling he can gamble with anything hoping to get more of that, this is where they normally fail. Gambling can affect a relationship, if anyone of them is a gambler. A real gambler is never afraid of anything to gamble with, they always have confidence of winning, but still that is the believe of a gambler

Most importantly, people can control themselves when gambling and not consider gambling a source of income. And if they can't control themselves in gambling and instead use a lot of money but lose, that will influence them. He will experience frustration if he loses a lot and wants to recover his losses at that time, but if his wish does not come true, he will continue to think about it. And when he is hanging out with other people, he is still thinking about his defeat and will not focus on his conversation with other people. It will disturb the person with other people because the conversation will be unclear and may trigger misunderstandings. And this will escalate if he still takes his frustration home and gets angry due to his defeat against people at home. And that's where a gambler's relationship with other people will become bad because they cannot control their emotions resulting from losing from gambling.

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That's right, basically gambling is quite a lot, not just purely about luck but as you said there is also a little bit based on skill, and with that we can do a little bit of ways to be able to increase the chances of winning. That's right, like sports betting where we can do a little analysis before choosing a club that can win, and with that means it's true that this bet is not entirely about luck but still in addition to skills we also can't play without luck because maybe that will be able to complete the results of our bets winning or losing at the end of the session.

I honestly quite agree for these two bets and indeed not all bets are the same, but there is still a luck factor in it too. I think sports betting or poker is safer for you, especially to minimize losses so that they are not too big, because the risk here is not like gambling in general, such as slot machines or whatever it is that really only relies on luck.

Totally that would really be different and we could really be able to clasify both things whether its a pure luck based or something that could really be called to be a strategic based on which you could really be able to

take advantage since you could really be able to apply some analysis which is something that you cant do when dealing up with pure luck ones. This is why it would really vary because non all gamblers are really that addicted and not all are really that bound to lose. Of course there would really be those advantages depending on how you do deal with it and on what type of gambling you are dealing with.
Speaking about effects then it would really be in overall, doesnt matter whether you are playing which type because in speaking about gambling activity then expect that results could neither
have that effect towards your time and relationship with others or not.

We arent that dumb on not to point or notice out on whats those things along the way. Unless if you are really that a insensible person then you wont really be able
to feel out or would be able to point out on what are those problems that gradually molding.

I'm sure you've heard of this, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it. For types of gambling like slot machines or poker maybe you just come and play and get the final result of winning or losing, but for bets like sports most of them should know that this bet can be a little bit tricked, or I mean you can slightly increase your chances of winning with some analysis or skills that you have, and that will obviously be very useful. I think if they really don't want to lose too much then they can switch to gambling that's not entirely about luck, that would be better and would obviously be able to minimize your losses a little bit.

But yeah right, it also depends on each individual gambler, whether they can take advantage of this opportunity or will let it go by assuming that all gambling is the same just limited to luck. That's right, about the impact of course from both types of gambling is also quite significant, although you can increase the chances of winning but still defeat is very possible. I think it's better to start reducing it from now on, such as reducing the amount of budget, it's better.

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Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

Gambling is very dangerous to be taken as fun, the reason why people get involved is that they see it as a way of making fast money and also they take it as a reliable source of income. This courses a lot of issues when someone is addicted to gambling he can gamble with anything hoping to get more of that, this is where they normally fail. Gambling can affect a relationship, if anyone of them is a gambler. A real gambler is never afraid of anything to gamble with, they always have confidence of winning, but still that is the believe of a gambler

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Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

Exactly it could affect your relationship with your partner or even your family or friends, I think the best way is to control yourself while doing this and not fall into a greed that could ruin you financially.

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

Absolutely I buy your conclusion, it is better doing it for fun than gambling for financial income. Gambling for fun will never affect your relationship.

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Quote from: LUCKMCFLY on September 26, 2023, 12:25:05 PM

I have seen that there are adults up to 50-60 years old who look like they have never matured,

This is none other than because their level of understanding is still lacking, in this case it does not mean that I demean those who are addicted to gambling, but they still ignore their obligations and responsibilities, especially if they are in a household relationship. Apart from the lack of understanding, the learning side is still very minimal, while in terms of experience I am sure everyone has almost the same experience in gambling, it's just that not everyone is able to learn from everything they have experienced in gambling. , so that in the end they just behave carelessly when playing gambling. This experience should be a reference for evaluation so that there is improvement in oneself and can change a person to be more mature.

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Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

Exactly it could affect your relationship with your partner or even your family or friends, I think the best way is to control yourself while doing this and not fall into a greed that could ruin you financially.

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

Self-control is the primary factor that comes to the mind, I'm ready to keep everything to myself without alerting my partner. Doing what makes you happy is also part of our goals, keen on improving in areas we are performing poorly, more like fixing our weaknesses. Some individuals seen gambling as fun, most people have seen it as a more serious stream to generate income, which is totally wrong, better we get rid of that mentality. Not interfering our relationship with our gambling activities, ought to be kept distant, only striving for the best results whe gambling. Our partners should under from our own point of view, because we gamble inother to gain extra changes to our pockets.

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Quote from: deathcode on September 26, 2023, 04:10:58 PM

Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

You are right, I think gambling should actually be an activity that is only a means of entertainment for us or an activity that is done just to have fun and relieve fatigue by playing some games.
But because of the various difficulties, life burdens and financial problems they face, some people will definitely have unreasonable thoughts about looking for ways or shortcuts to overcome their financial problems. So as time goes by, the perception of gambling becomes a source of making money or a source of income.
In my opinion, gambling itself is not actually a wrong activity as long as the person carrying out the gambling activity can still think logically and be responsible for what he is doing.
It is better for everyone to be aware and have the idea that gambling is an activity that is done for fun, not to be used as a source of income and it is better for everyone to be aware that winnings from gambling are never guaranteed to be won because the winnings are just bonuses obtained from carry out the game activities that we do.

Once you do compromise those basic needs then this is where relationship would be affected.Leisure/entertainment would really be a different thing on which it would really be just that so normal
that you would really be able to identify which things are really that worth on dealing with or something that you could really be able to pass up and wont really be compromising something. Usually people would really be messing out their lives just because they do make out some bad decisions. Relationship would really be greatly affected on the time that you would really be that compromising on whatever things which are important or simply with those priorities. You would really be finding yourself that on a hard situation if you do compromise those things on which it is really just that normal that you would be facing up those consequences.If you dont like for these things to happen then it would really be wise that you should really be sensible in towards your actions specially on dealing with gambling. Gamble only on the amount which you can afford to lose and dont make yourself that go into go past beyond your limit because if you do so then you would really be finding
yourself on such tough situation.

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Is posible for gambling to affect people relationship because at some point alot still deoends on the generall outcome of the result of gambling on the individual life and how it affect their finances this is very important and should be properly considered while waiting or being active in being active with gambling.

To me, when it comes to gambling, finances matters and as long as your gambling activity does not bring in money, you should know that it will definitely affect your relationship with others and your spouse most especially.

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Quote from: Aikidoka on September 26, 2023, 03:21:49 PM

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

You are right, I think gambling should actually be an activity that is only a means of entertainment for us or an activity that is done just to have fun and relieve fatigue by playing some games.
But because of the various difficulties, life burdens and financial problems they face, some people will definitely have unreasonable thoughts about looking for ways or shortcuts to overcome their financial problems. So as time goes by, the perception of gambling becomes a source of making money or a source of income.
In my opinion, gambling itself is not actually a wrong activity as long as the person carrying out the gambling activity can still think logically and be responsible for what he is doing.
It is better for everyone to be aware and have the idea that gambling is an activity that is done for fun, not to be used as a source of income and it is better for everyone to be aware that winnings from gambling are never guaranteed to be won because the winnings are just bonuses obtained from carry out the game activities that we do.

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Quote from: nimogsm on September 26, 2023, 07:16:43 AM

Of course they can have an impact. because, as for me, the game should only be personal and only at one’s own expense, without involving anyone in the game and at the same time bringing discomfort to other people. If the problems from your losses begin to affect other people, the result will not be long in coming.

Exactly it could affect your relationship with your partner or even your family or friends, I think the best way is to control yourself while doing this and not fall into a greed that could ruin you financially.

It'll be better when you get involved in gambling, just by doing it for fun and not as taking it as a source of income.

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There is no problem if you're just the casual type of gambler who wants to spend a couple of bucks enjoying some dice or playing poker at a table and then when you're out of money, you're out as well. That's not an issue for some gamblers that know what they do and the limit that they're setting for themselves. The real problem starts when you gamble, you're also putting your heart and emotion on it and just like in relationships, you're not noticing that the actual relationship that you have are heavily affected when you're already out of yourself.

Yeah and that's the way it should be guys, obviously it's not a problem if they're just there for leisure on their day off and of course on top of that if they're responsible gamblers then if they end up losing they'll stop and leave and play again on their next day off when they have money they can account for if they lose. As we know that anyone should be like that, come only for entertainment and never more than that, then I make sure they will survive and will not be too down like other people who are addicted in general.

Well that's right, the problem point usually occurs when they experience defeat, they come with the wrong mindset in the sense of gambling for income and obviously that is a very wrong assumption, how can you come to make money in a place that is only limited to luck, it makes no sense. And well when they lose then they will definitely continue to chase victory to replace the defeat in the previous time, that's what usually happens when most of them end up experiencing addiction.

While many believe that it's impossible to make money from gambling as an actual gambler, can look at those pro and typical gamblers that make some and lose some. It really varies as per gambler if they have a specific game that they're making a lot of money. E.g poker and sportsbetting. These two are not just all about luck although luck still plays a part on it but most likely, it is the gambler's ability to look and create their own strategies depending on the situation in poker and the same goes in sportsbetting.

That's right, basically gambling is quite a lot, not just purely about luck but as you said there is also a little bit based on skill, and with that we can do a little bit of ways to be able to increase the chances of winning. That's right, like sports betting where we can do a little analysis before choosing a club that can win, and with that means it's true that this bet is not entirely about luck but still in addition to skills we also can't play without luck because maybe that will be able to complete the results of our bets winning or losing at the end of the session.

I honestly quite agree for these two bets and indeed not all bets are the same, but there is still a luck factor in it too. I think sports betting or poker is safer for you, especially to minimize losses so that they are not too big, because the risk here is not like gambling in general, such as slot machines or whatever it is that really only relies on luck.

Totally that would really be different and we could really be able to clasify both things whether its a pure luck based or something that could really be called to be a strategic based on which you could really be able to

take advantage since you could really be able to apply some analysis which is something that you cant do when dealing up with pure luck ones. This is why it would really vary because non all gamblers are really that addicted and not all are really that bound to lose. Of course there would really be those advantages depending on how you do deal with it and on what type of gambling you are dealing with.
Speaking about effects then it would really be in overall, doesnt matter whether you are playing which type because in speaking about gambling activity then expect that results could neither
have that effect towards your time and relationship with others or not.

We arent that dumb on not to point or notice out on whats those things along the way. Unless if you are really that a insensible person then you wont really be able
to feel out or would be able to point out on what are those problems that gradually molding.

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Gambling can only affect the relationship between two people when one leaves his or her duty to provide or take care of the other for gambling.

When this behavior begins (focusing more on gambling and showing less concern for the relationship), there is every chance that the relationship between those two people will be rocky because the man has abandoned his responsibility of providing to spend it on gambling and also has accumulated bills that have not yet been paid, and as a result, he sells some of the properties to gamble.

There will be conflict in the relationship when this happens, which could result in separation since the woman can't continue to live with a man who is an addicted gambler and has no regard for the relationship.

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Quote from: carlisle1 on September 25, 2023, 09:33:36 PM

Quote from: TobeyHolo on September 25, 2023, 04:48:51 AM

Don't really think its the gambling that causes relationship breakdowns, its when partners or family members are kept in the dark or deceived, which breaks the trust that's so essential in any relationship. It's up to us to make informed decisions, to be self-aware of our behaviors, and to ensure we're not crossing lines that jeopardize our relationships and personal well-being.

Meaning to say that there's a problem with handling the situation in your gambling activities, it can spark the problem and may affect your close
relation with your love ones.

Of course, if a gambler is immersed only in gambling, he will become alienated from his close ones after a while. But even sink in gambling the relationship can be kept in right position, it will basically depend on the gambler. If he gambles regularly and gives time to his relationship regularly then it will not have any negative effect. But what happens most of the time is that if someone spends more time than usual on gambling then he will be irregular in his other areas and some will look at him differently so he will fail to maintain his relationship.

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