Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 22. (Read 3810 times)

There are many couples who might never allow their husbands/wives to be involved in gambling, because they know the impact of gambling can bring problems in their lives, especially if the couple only relies on mediocre salaries for gambling. To meet daily needs is so difficult and involved in gambling will only make new problems for their lives. Unlike the case when the large income they get from routine jobs and does not affect the course of their daily lives and maybe cases like this can be accepted by our partners.

You are one of the lucky men if the wife allows you to gamble because in the area where I live there is very rare for a wife who allowed her husband to gamble. Regulating the gambling budget is very important, so as not to cause problems in the household and usually gamblers will be very difficult to regulate the gambling budget, because of the great desire to get a victory in every gambling they play. Except gambling as you do because it has a certain time and not too addicted.

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If ever they have a child, the woman will not let his husband spend even a penny on gambling. All the money husband's money will go to the wife that's for sure. But if the case is they both do gambling, that's really a huge problem if they have even a little understanding. Especially it's all about money. If you have a family, better to stop gambling to avoid affecting your relationship.

If parents or any family members gamble in front of kids then kids will definitely involved in gambling very quickly. Gamblers cannot be a respectable person in society if they gamble openly.  Because gambling is considered a bad habit, it is possible to win huge amounts of money in a short period of time. Because of this gambling addiction does not easily release a gambler. And as it is a bad habit, it also affects the relationship in many ways.

If both of them are gambling, meaning active in gambling then I think maybe one or both of them have been given a win by the casino and they consider it very profitable to help their economy, and after that well maybe you also know they continue to gamble and will definitely allocate a lot of money that should be used for living needs instead diverted to gambling with the aim of wanting to win like yesterday. For the beginning, the impact may still not be felt because they can still be called beginners and their money is still quite a lot, the danger is when they start to get into the wrong mindset, for example losing and then not accepting the defeat, then obviously they will return to gambling with emotions and revenge intentions, there is the danger. Because something that is difficult to predict, let alone just luck, will not always be in accordance with what they want, that is very clear.

Yes, that's right, if everyone does that then whatever the impact including the biggest risk they have to dare to face it, it's their own family's responsibility for being too careless. For the problem of togetherness, in my opinion, whether something like that happens or not, it's still the name of a family, anything will be lived together, I think it's not more points but it's natural and should be one.

If both of them gamble, then their goal is to really go make money otherwise they'd just stay at home and play together by themselves. Sooner their kids can join them, it's all in the family. But then they will understand if one occasionally goes to a casino or plays online, they may even share an account so yep it's a family affair. Why not? It bonds them together an d a family stays together. This is where you can see a positive effect I guess.  

Not many women give their husbands the freedom to gamble, but when a husband know if his wife is gambling, they can experience the same thing. If one of you doesn't agree, it's best to stop, because one day it will cause big problems in the family if you continued gambling. However, if the wife gives her husband the freedom to gamble, but with a maximum requirement of $xx for gambling, then the husband must follow these conditions. Thus, it can also prevent someone from getting into big trouble due to excessive gambling.

Since the society do not see gambling and what someone that want to take good care of it family supposed to be engaging in, we need to make sure that we keep our gambling habits to ourselves and we should not allow that to affect our family or allow people around us to know about our gambling interest. Gambling is not supposed to be supposed even to our relationship because it had ruined so many relationship because of so many reasons.

 Gambling lifestyle cam make people that are around us not to respect us again because they believe that people that gambled may not be responsible which is very wrong. Keep our gambling activities is the best option we can take to avoid unnecessary drastically from our partner.

You gotta have the most understanding partner to be able to do this.

Meanwhile, the rest of the gamblers are just keeping it secret from their wives because once they know their husbands still gamble, she'd be mad as hell. She isn't even thinking of going to a salon to pamper herself because she knows the economy is just not fit to have beauty rest. Hiding the gambling activity I think saves the relationship for now.

The importance of being open to each other and communicating well with your partner will help gambling become better, although maybe not many women like men who gamble, but believe me, if we are honest with our partner, he will definitely understand, just give him the trust to manage the gambling budget so that we not going too far because we need someone to remind us not to play too far.

I applied this to my wife where I asked her to manage all my gambling budget, after all there is no need to be in debt to anyone, it is better to gamble with money that we are ready to lose to have fun, after all my gambling habit is usually to fill my holiday time, not to make money, I always think of winning at gambling as a bonus. If I lose, just think of me paying for something that is fun for me. The point is to be open with our partner and honest so that it doesn't get messy, let alone make the relationship fall apart.

When you don't gamble responsibly, you become irresponsible to yourself and also to your family, and when you are no longer taking on the responsibility you are to carry out as a family man, you lose your value and rights in the family. When you lose value in your family and you turn out to be a liability in the family, the family will have to push you away because they don't need anyone who can't bring anything to the table; rather, they are expecting things to fall out of you and not the other way around. By doing so, you can see that you have broken the relations that you have between you and your family.
 
But when you gamble responsibly, you still know what you need to do every day as a responsible person; you don't gamble and forget your family bills and dues; you don't borrow to gamble, but rather you use a very small percentage of your earnings to gamble, which, whether you win or not, won't affect your financial livelihood. Such a gambling habit can't have any negative impact on a person's relationships; the method in which one uses to gamble will determine the detriment that will come afterward.

I think this is mail about just people being bad. Its good old issue with humans. Some people just can't establish proper relationships and friendships so they see their girlfriend/boyfriend exploitable. I really people with this mentality. Normal person wouldn't be asking money from his girlfriend to gamble 15 times. 1-2 at max! People should respect their partners. This is not related to gambling addiction so in my opinion. Gambling doesn't make people bad!

Everyone basically knows that irresponsible gambling will make their lives worse. Savings will be used up for gambling, relationships with family may become increasingly problematic and their lifestyle will be much more lazy to work in real life. Unfortunately when addiction is caused by excessive gambling it can be very difficult to control. Giving advice is much easier than quitting gambling and most people are only able to give advice theoretically and they may not delve into the psychology of addicted gamblers.

What's worse is that gambling can cause the accumulation of debt to become greater, the relationship between husband and wife becomes messy and in the end it will have a much worse impact on life. The phrase don't play near a well if you don't want to fell it, might be suitable to describe it all and the decision is entirely up to each individual.

It's evident that all addictions have some impact on our lives and relationships, to varying degrees. Gambling addiction, in particular, is exceptionally dangerous because the financial losses it can lead to pose a significant risk to our lives and our relationships with loved ones. I've seen a family member who lost everything, including their entire property and their family, due to gambling addiction. It's a truly dreadful situation, and rebuilding what was lost seems nearly impossible.

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

Most importantly, people can control themselves when gambling and not consider gambling a source of income. And if they can't control themselves in gambling and instead use a lot of money but lose, that will influence them. He will experience frustration if he loses a lot and wants to recover his losses at that time, but if his wish does not come true, he will continue to think about it. And when he is hanging out with other people, he is still thinking about his defeat and will not focus on his conversation with other people. It will disturb the person with other people because the conversation will be unclear and may trigger misunderstandings. And this will escalate if he still takes his frustration home and gets angry due to his defeat against people at home. And that's where a gambler's relationship with other people will become bad because they cannot control their emotions resulting from losing from gambling.

I'm sure you've heard of this, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it, and I'm sure you've heard of it. For types of gambling like slot machines or poker maybe you just come and play and get the final result of winning or losing, but for bets like sports most of them should know that this bet can be a little bit tricked, or I mean you can slightly increase your chances of winning with some analysis or skills that you have, and that will obviously be very useful. I think if they really don't want to lose too much then they can switch to gambling that's not entirely about luck, that would be better and would obviously be able to minimize your losses a little bit.

But yeah right, it also depends on each individual gambler, whether they can take advantage of this opportunity or will let it go by assuming that all gambling is the same just limited to luck. That's right, about the impact of course from both types of gambling is also quite significant, although you can increase the chances of winning but still defeat is very possible. I think it's better to start reducing it from now on, such as reducing the amount of budget, it's better.

Gambling is very dangerous to be taken as fun, the reason why people get involved is that they see it as a way of making fast money and also they take it as a reliable source of income. This courses a lot of issues when someone is addicted to gambling he can gamble with anything hoping to get more of that, this is where they normally fail. Gambling can affect a relationship, if anyone of them is a gambler. A real gambler is never afraid of anything to gamble with, they always have confidence of winning, but still that is the believe of a gambler

Absolutely I buy your conclusion, it is better doing it for fun than gambling for financial income. Gambling for fun will never affect your relationship.

This is none other than because their level of understanding is still lacking, in this case it does not mean that I demean those who are addicted to gambling, but they still ignore their obligations and responsibilities, especially if they are in a household relationship. Apart from the lack of understanding, the learning side is still very minimal, while in terms of experience I am sure everyone has almost the same experience in gambling, it's just that not everyone is able to learn from everything they have experienced in gambling. , so that in the end they just behave carelessly when playing gambling. This experience should be a reference for evaluation so that there is improvement in oneself and can change a person to be more mature.