Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 18. (Read 4469 times)

Wrong assumptions would really be ending up whether a disaster or the right call on which most of the time when it comes to gambling then having those kind of thoughts really do end up negatively.
This is why it would really be that better that you should really be sensible on what are the things that you are doing specially that getting in touch or dealing with gambling on which we do know that it is really that imposing such risks and lots of people do really fail on trying out to control themselves and this is why disasters do really happen in the end of the line. Gambling could really affect with your familys relationship on which it would really be just that so normal that if finances had already that ended up on getting compromised or affected then it would be that normal that
needs and wants are already that been in concern.

No wife will really be happy on seeing that your children is really that suffering when it comes to their needs just because their father is really that too irresponsible when it comes to spending.
Its never been recommendable that you would really be that secretive towards your gambling activity because on the time that you would get caught then for sure it would really might
result into divorce if its not been fixed or been properly be resolved out. We dont know on what would happen because decisions be made will really vary.

Addicts are the worst set of gamblers, these category are ready to place wager with their last money on them, having no plans for the future. Allowing gambling to interfere with my relation is so out of the picture, because I anticipate in this gambling in discreetly mode, ensuring I've cover my tracks before returning home, that's one of the reasons I do not place wagers online though it seems as the easiest way to gamble but considering my family and also my partner, it wouldn't be a wise idea because they stated clearly that they don't pick interest in gambling.

It could do the opposite if you can find a good game to play together like Bridge or something.  I like poker, that could be viable when playing together depends how seriously you want to take it but its only divisive when talking about money imo.

Taking into consideration that the bears that are present in a casino, among those, if a player falls into addiction and only wonder what could happen to him, I personally would prefer anything to losing family, children, and putting them at risk, and even less playing a game, in a casino, for something that has nothing to do with it, in this aspect things can get ugly, because a game makes it happen anywhere in the world where it is, for that reason we can do other things. things, activities to avoid addiction at all costs, control, not losing money, is a good option, if a person realizes that they are in the casino and that they do not win anything, that they lose all the time, and that they begin to making bets with money that I shouldn't risk, that for me is already an addiction problem, because I can spend it at the moment, but how are I going to get more money? lending money? putting yourself in trouble to comply? These things should not be taken lightly, they should be accepted as what they are, it is a problem, being an addict represents a problem for every relationship, even if it is a dating relationship, where what is basically needed is to be quite clear with things, to come out , walk , share with her, take her to some places, because those things are what you look for, there is no other way.

An addicted player just does things for the sake of doing them, as long as playing is what matters to them, I don't see that there is any other way for the players to see it well, for me a person who is in that problem has to look for the faster solution if you lose your job , family , everything.

Sport for me is the best ally, it always has been, that's why I always recommend it to people who become addicted, because a tired body, they don't feel like playing, it's impossible, because what they give is the desire to rest, see TV , sleep , that is what you are looking for, so that you have no other option than to think about playing in a casino.

Without a doubt betting 75% of your income is a very bad sign, as I doubt the average person puts 75% of their income into anything, so there is a clear imbalance in the way they are spending their money, but at the same time this indicates someone else is taking the slack for them and are helping them economically so they can assign so much money to gambling over a long period like that, otherwise they will be living on the streets regardless of how high their salary could be.

Gambling can affect relationships in both good and bad ways. It depends on what an individual player does in a casino. As long as he is not an addict, we know that a gambling addict has no control over what he does.

And everyone is a gambling addict who can no longer control what he calls self-control and self-discipline. Instead, such a person who is addicted to gambling has damaged his personal personality, and the same affects his family badly because there are others that even lead to the destruction or separation of the couple.

Yes, although initially they may believe and think that gambling will not affect everything around them including relationships with some of their closest people. but I say that it's just their feelings because they have entered the addiction phase so there they like to justify all means, assume that their mindset is correct when in reality it is very ridiculous. As we know that those who are already addicted bring a very strange mindset, thinking that they will be able to make money from gambling, is it true? have you proven it? I say no, how can you want to make money in a place that only relies on luck to be able to win, it makes no sense. The fact is you keep losing and losing everything you have, there's no doubt you've borrowed from people just to gamble and you're doing it for something that doesn't even give you any guarantees.

It is very clear that the negative impact of gambling is not only you who will feel it but the people around you will also definitely be carried away by the negative flow. Yes for those who are already addicted, as I said above there is no doubt at all to spend money just to gamble, the salary they get from working for a month they will spend just for one or two days gambling, not healthy. Basically, it is quite difficult if they are already addicted, they need help from people around them to justify their wrong mindset.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

In fact there are some people who get rich from gambling, most of them are professional poker players, sports bettor and lucky people who won lottery then stop gambling. It is possible to get rich from gambling but the chance is small especially if we are talking about luck based game.


So the one that disrupt the relationship is not the gambling, but the ability to control emotions. Emotions might changed up and down because of many things (not only gambling), even your job may make unable to control your emotion. The point is, gambling will not affect your relationship unless your partner hates gambling much while you are gambling and you hide it from her.

Not really, I think gamblers who have become addicts won't have time to have a partner because they will spend more time gambling so I think it would disrupt the relationship if the gambler was in a relationship with someone but it doesn't seem possible to do that because The average addicted gambler is only busy thinking about gambling rather than making love.

Except for gamblers who can still control their time gambling, maybe they have more time to have a relationship and have time to date so they won't get emotional easily just because they lost at gambling, usually people who can control their time gambling will also definitely be able to control their emotions both when gambling and playing. with someone he is in a relationship with.

Of course the hope of getting rich by gambling is just empty talk. No one can get rich from gambling, even if the amount may be very small (like someone who wins the lottery). Additionally, most people will spend the money they got from the previous day's jackpot. So win or lose, the money will still go to the casino because it can't stop after getting a big win

I think if we only have one source of income and no extra money then it is better not to gamble. Gamble if we have excess money so that our lives are not disturbed mentally and socially because of gambling. Never gamble with money from debt, because it will end worse

That is why if someone wants to get married, they must be able to choose a partner who can understand their situation and accept whatever the conditions are. This is important so that he does not experience arguments with his partner and can live happily with his partner. And it is true that by having a partner, our lives can be more organized and we can plan a good future with them and have children who will pass on the goodness that we have taught them and later, they will teach it to their children.

And if we already have a harmonious relationship with our partner, we don't need to spend time gambling. We should use money for daily needs because that will disrupt our family expenses. We must be able to really manage our family finances. That way, we will not experience difficulties in marriage and can enjoy what we get with our family well.

You're right to say that. But it won't be like that because there are still girls who will accept their partner as they are and not think too much about someone's wealth. They can help their partner work for their home life, which is difficult to find in this day and age.

And if you are still gambling while building a relationship with your partner, this might disrupt your relationship with him, especially when experiencing a big loss. Your emotions will increase and if there is something you don't want, you might get angry and that could trigger a fight between you.

Allowing oneself to be convinced that he can make money or get rich through gambling is one of the highest forms of stupidity in disguise. Because the conviction will make you ready to do anything to have access to every available money that meets your eye so you can use it for gamble just in the quest to make wealth from it

People like that ends up not having close friends, relatives/family or spouse because they must have been sting financially by your gambling addiction behavior in one way or the other and they just can't keep on enduring your addiction which makes isolation from you their best solution ruining a once loving relationship.

Well that again goes back to the character of the girl you're in a relationship with? You see, some ladies do not care about your source of income or what you do to get those cash. All they are after is the affluent itself. Can you afford to sponsor their bills and make them feel good behind the close doors. That's what some girls are after.

I have encountered ladies, and it's even becoming more increasingly popular, that will show you they love you but you already knew what they love in you. Not your character, your outlook but your resources and generosity. They can go extra miles to show you love but the moment those things disappear, they vanishes too.


One aspect where you can fire me on is the inability to control my expenses on the love of my life. Especially when I noticed she's not their for the money. I'm more of an introvert than an extrovert, despite that I try to strike a balance between the two. I love to show that love and respect for my wife and lady when it comes to spending
.I see it as a mark of respect to know what she wants and provide it for her. I know sometimes it is good to always be on a budget, to spend. Unfortunately, that's one aspect I'm struggling to adopt.

I have also noticed from my own observations and judgments that ladies generally have more discipline in terms of expenses than men. And that's why when you find a lady lavishing money and spending extravagantly, you can easily guess at the source of the money. 80% of such money comes from the boyfriend or husband and not their hard earned money.

That's right, of course gambling activities will greatly disturb the economic or economic factors in the family, there will be a lot of negative impacts that they will feel in terms of finance, and this is especially for those men who have full responsibility in the family for financial matters to support their families, honestly this is very feared and if they cannot stop their bad activities then it is very possible that things that are not wanted will happen. For example, now there are quite a lot of cases in households in terms of gambling, not even infrequently they end up separating because they are not strong with the economy that is getting weaker due to one of their families entering into gambling addiction.

And yes I understand it's very difficult to get out of the addiction zone, but there is no other choice for them but to stop, because if not then obviously the impact as I have mentioned above is very likely to occur. So the point is that it's better for you to stop now, it's hard but you can start slowly and keep fighting, keep your mind away from something that can make you gamble, get out of the gambling environment. I think for those who are not married and still in the dating phase I think there is no harm in stopping gambling, the relationship is not a benchmark for you to stop, and even if you are still living alone there is no harm in stopping because it is better, and yes it is true that reducing gambling activities and also by reducing the budget can be an effective way to stop slowly.

Agreed, if you are gambling but also providing for the family, spending time with them, not always angry or shouting or scolding everyone in the house, and giving time and attention to your partner, you should be good and your partner or family wouldn't have any problems.

The thing is, when you get addicted, you basically forget the count of the money or time you are spending on your gambling activities and that is where the problems begin. When you are gambling with a limit, you are all okay, but as soon as you start gambling excessively, spending a lot of money and time on it, not providing very well for the family, and don't have any time for them, then your relationship will surely be in danger.

This is why on the time that i do have plans on getting married then i would definitely choose up a certain girl which does have those qualities of being not that materialistic and something that have that a good practical view on things around and do really give out importance on how she spend and not really that wasting up money on which it would really be reflecting out when it comes to her qualities on which i could say that it is one of the things i do really look at before tending to tied up myself with married life which we know that having a partner something like this would really be that be a good
characteristic which would really be that building a secured future when it comes to finances.

As his husband then of course you should really be doing your part on which being that responsible on whatever actions you would be making.Yes,you are the provider on which it would really be just that
normal that you would really be having that moderation and control when it comes to spending. Spending money on leisure things arent that bad as long it would really be that in control
and doesnt really compromise things specially when it comes to family financials which we know that it is really that something important.

And it's best if they are not married, they don't need to waste their money on gambling or unnecessary things such as shopping for whatever they want. It's better to save the money to prepare for the future, especially if he will get married in the near future. He must learn to manage his life well and not need to gamble to try to earn a lot of money. But he can gamble with a small budget and stay within the limit to keepshis money.

And even though he is not married, if he has a gambling habit, it can interfere with his relationships with other family members. He may be more closed to other family members because he feels he is an adult and can control his life. So he acts or gambles without anyone knowing. This will further endanger him and the rest of his family.

you provide a good summary of your opinion about this and indeed if you already have family ties or are married and have the responsibility to provide for your family, it would be better to stay away from gambling to avoid very bad risks in the long or short term.

and for someone who is not married or is just dating and not married, it is up to them whether they want to take wise steps to avoid gambling or continue gambling, but for me reducing gambling activities and always using a small budget would be better.

If someone is married and his income is unstable, he should stay away from gambling and look for a better job to meet his daily needs. If he thinks of gambling to double it, it will not work well but he may end up losing and losing his money in gambling. But if he could get a better job, he could make money from his salary to make ends meet. Instead of gambling and not being able to make money, finding a job would be better for him.

If he already has a very large income, he shouldn't gamble because we know that gambling can give someone problems. Even though he can now control himself well, there are times when a person is weak and ends up gambling and he can lose control of himself. That's when he will find it easy to deposit more money to gamble and that's where problems after problems will start to emerge. He can find enjoyment from gambling that can make him return to gambling more often than when he first gambled.