Topic: Can Gambling affect your relationship? - page 18. (Read 3810 times)

And even though he is not married, if he has a gambling habit, it can interfere with his relationships with other family members. He may be more closed to other family members because he feels he is an adult and can control his life. So he acts or gambles without anyone knowing. This will further endanger him and the rest of his family.

As his husband then of course you should really be doing your part on which being that responsible on whatever actions you would be making.Yes,you are the provider on which it would really be just that
normal that you would really be having that moderation and control when it comes to spending. Spending money on leisure things arent that bad as long it would really be that in control
and doesnt really compromise things specially when it comes to family financials which we know that it is really that something important.

you provide a good summary of your opinion about this and indeed if you already have family ties or are married and have the responsibility to provide for your family, it would be better to stay away from gambling to avoid very bad risks in the long or short term.

and for someone who is not married or is just dating and not married, it is up to them whether they want to take wise steps to avoid gambling or continue gambling, but for me reducing gambling activities and always using a small budget would be better.

Actually, the cause of the breakdown of a family or relationship does not lie solely in economic conditions, it could be due to other factor such as infidelity, a temperamental partner, lack of attention to the partner are also factors that cause the breakdown of a relationship, so gambling is not the only cause of the breakdown of a family.

Gambling addiction really has a big impact on your financial condition, but as long as you can use gambling wisely, I think your wife or partner will understand it provided not go beyond reasonable limit.

And it's best if they are not married, they don't need to waste their money on gambling or unnecessary things such as shopping for whatever they want. It's better to save the money to prepare for the future, especially if he will get married in the near future. He must learn to manage his life well and not need to gamble to try to earn a lot of money. But he can gamble with a small budget and stay within the limit to keepshis money.

And even though he is not married, if he has a gambling habit, it can interfere with his relationships with other family members. He may be more closed to other family members because he feels he is an adult and can control his life. So he acts or gambles without anyone knowing. This will further endanger him and the rest of his family.

you provide a good summary of your opinion about this and indeed if you already have family ties or are married and have the responsibility to provide for your family, it would be better to stay away from gambling to avoid very bad risks in the long or short term.

and for someone who is not married or is just dating and not married, it is up to them whether they want to take wise steps to avoid gambling or continue gambling, but for me reducing gambling activities and always using a small budget would be better.

If someone is married and his income is unstable, he should stay away from gambling and look for a better job to meet his daily needs. If he thinks of gambling to double it, it will not work well but he may end up losing and losing his money in gambling. But if he could get a better job, he could make money from his salary to make ends meet. Instead of gambling and not being able to make money, finding a job would be better for him.

If he already has a very large income, he shouldn't gamble because we know that gambling can give someone problems. Even though he can now control himself well, there are times when a person is weak and ends up gambling and he can lose control of himself. That's when he will find it easy to deposit more money to gamble and that's where problems after problems will start to emerge. He can find enjoyment from gambling that can make him return to gambling more often than when he first gambled.

all of this is due to insufficient financial factors to meet daily needs. I mean when someone is married and their income is unstable or they really need money every day and sometimes someone immediately thinks about gambling to double their money but that is a wrong thought but I often see people who are married have a bad mindset like this.

and for me it not matter if a gambler who is married is addicted to gambling if he has a very large income so that no matter what happens his finances remain stable and can meet his daily needs and that is very rare.
sometimes this mindset is very influential for a bettor and if he is married and is the head of the household it would be better to reduce his gambling activities and prioritize his relationship with his family rather than spending money on gambling which ends up having a bad relationship with his wife.

It still depends on your partner if it accepts you. Gambling will only be a problem if you are already addicted to it like if you have been in debt and you already have no time for other things like work or family. I've seen a lot of married couples whose wife are okay with the gambling activities of their husband because their husbands can gamble responsibly. So it is not about the partner it is about how you gamble so that it won't affect yourself or people around you.

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Gambling addiction can disrupt a person's financial condition and even his family if he is married. And if that happens, the family may experience small problems such as being unable to meet their living needs because the money is used for gambling. They use their money to gamble because they think they can win some money to meet their daily needs but that's not the reality.

Well, for rich gamblers, losing money doesn't impact to their financial capability which is why it never incurs problems. But for poor to middle-class people, that is a big deal and most of the time this would be a reason for a broken family and relationship. It is not because they don't understand their husband but it is because their husband doesn't understand the situation that they have. If you are a responsible husband/wife, you don't have to prioritize or spend more on gambling rather than use it to buy food.

Addiction to gambling is undoubtedly a severe problem that can negatively impact both our life and the lives of those around us. It's not only about the money; it's also about the relationships, mutual trust, and emotional health of all parties. Many people first attend casinos for amusement purposes, just for fun. However, it can turn into an addiction very rapidly, isn't that right? And when that occurs, the goal shifts from simply making money to enjoying the rush of the chase and the need to keep winning

Just the tip of the iceberg is financial difficulty. Relationships suffering is when the true anguish and devastation occur. Isn't the true suffering experienced when relationships are shattered, secrets are maintained, and conflicts arise? And isn't it true that trust is extremely difficult to regain once it has been damaged? It is imperative that we exercise caution, maintain awareness, and take action to stop gambling addiction before it starts. Because recovery can be a difficult and protracted process once it occurs

Well, for rich gamblers, losing money doesn't impact to their financial capability which is why it never incurs problems. But for poor to middle-class people, that is a big deal and most of the time this would be a reason for a broken family and relationship. It is not because they don't understand their husband but it is because their husband doesn't understand the situation that they have. If you are a responsible husband/wife, you don't have to prioritize or spend more on gambling rather than use it to buy food.

Well, for rich gamblers, losing money doesn't impact to their financial capability which is why it never incurs problems. But for poor to middle-class people, that is a big deal and most of the time this would be a reason for a broken family and relationship. It is not because they don't understand their husband but it is because their husband doesn't understand the situation that they have. If you are a responsible husband/wife, you don't have to prioritize or spend more on gambling rather than use it to buy food.

I totally agree to this. I have personally witnessed several wives who have been just looked totally fine with how addicted their husbands to gambling simply because they have enough money to feed the entire family and they are still able to buy their luxuries.
Gambling itself may not be the primary reason for a family to be broken, it's most probably just being 2nd to money.
I've also seen a lot of marital separations due to unemployment of the husband more than being a gambler.
But it could be the worst if someone who is broke and still managed to gamble lol.

A person can become more closed in nature when he has experienced a gambling addiction, one of which is from a financial perspective, everything he can do, such as having a lot of debt after being addicted to gambling, even to those closest to him (his partner).  He doesn't want to open up if he has spent a lot of money on gambling, this is always kept a secret, causing communication with his partner to become disharmonious

That is why we must be able to prevent gambling addiction so that it does not affect our lives with the people around us. We also don't want to see our relationships disrupted because we have a gambling addiction from previously just playing gambling to get entertainment and finally becoming a desire to win more money, which is difficult to obtain. With the gambling addiction that we experience, our finances will be disrupted because we use the money to gamble while we have difficulty making ends meet. Moreover, if someone does not want to be open with their partner, it worsens their relationship because it can trigger arguments between them. And if that's the case, everything can be destroyed because of the gambling addiction that we experience.

I think that any addiction, regardless of whether it is a casino crypt or not, will be harmful, it can degenerate any relationship, whether it is a couple alone or the family relationship that is involved, practically when it is the father of the family who is at fault. We tend to generalize things a lot, we can say or intuit that when things are about how to avoid things, it is better not to do them, but others say doing them because there is a tendency not to make it become an addiction. , this depends on the personality of the person, obviously anyone who happens to be one of the best can give a well-defined way of achieving good management within a casino, we cannot only manage to make inconvenient and invented bets, for example. It may work at one point, but then everything goes to waste, and I think that a person like that is addicted to money and loses control and gets carried away by impulses, and this is something that if the person doesn't He has willpower, because if he does nothing, things go out of control and everything is lost.

When a person is sad, sometimes the signs are obvious, they occur all at once, because they begin to see certain things that are needed, if there is a family, they realize that a need was not covered, when the reason is not sought, well If it begins to intrude because one did not eat this or those, and that is where the problems begin, in the beginning one can survive, with thus failures that are indicative, but with time and if it is not corrected quickly a person is capable of losing your family, because when you are the head of the household you should always be clear about your responsibility, you cannot invent that, we can be irresponsible alone, when there is no family or person in charge of us, but after a responsibility is acquired Socsas cannot be taken lightly, things have to be done very well and fulfill the family, the family comes first, the priority.

It still depends on your partner if it accepts you. Gambling will only be a problem if you are already addicted to it like if you have been in debt and you already have no time for other things like work or family.

I've seen a lot of married couples whose wife are okay with the gambling activities of their husband because their husbands can gamble responsibly. So it is not about the partner it is about how you gamble so that it won't affect yourself or people around you.

agree with this mate it will depends on the status of the relationship and also it depends on. Your partner cause once you are a gambler then your partner or let say  wife is a gambler too then both of you are don't have problem both of you already know your habits so your bonding is in gambling sites or casino. But in the other hand once you are a gambler then your wife don't have any experience or wants in gambling then it will affect your relationship cause your wife will hold you and say please don't gamble.

A person can become more closed in nature when he has experienced a gambling addiction, one of which is from a financial perspective, everything he can do, such as having a lot of debt after being addicted to gambling, even to those closest to him (his partner).  He doesn't want to open up if he has spent a lot of money on gambling, this is always kept a secret, causing communication with his partner to become disharmonious