I see that we need to return to first principles, Myrkul.
Correct me it I'm wrong, as I'm sure you will, but isn't one of the core principles of an AnCap society that every adult is soverign over their own affairs?
If that is true, is it not also true that my views about how I raise my children are a matter between myself, my wife and my children?
Just as you are soverign over your own affairs, and can raise your children as you see fit, as I have no say in your affairs; correct?
Do you not see the contradiction in your own philosophy? One the one hand, you profess that men should be able to govern themselves (for which I agree) and see no problem with taking that to it's absolute (for which I don't agree); but on the other hand, you also profess that there is a "right" way and a "wrong" way to raise children. Sure, you have the right to believe that, even to profess that; but you don't have the right to
impose your beliefs upon others. Should you choose to do so, and cannot get compliance with words alone, you have professed a
moral obligation to use force. Granted, violence is the last argument of the sovereign, but it is also about as likely to be his last argument ever.
I do see the contradiction of anarchism, for it fundementally assumes that every adult has, not just the right, but also the
willingness and
ability to self-govern. (This ability also presumes self-censorship, as in the skinhead in the barfight example; while none of us has the right to not be offended, offending others still has natural consequences) The root problem with this theory is that there will always be a subset of people for which this assumption does not apply. Some will grow into it, others never will, but never can all the people be able to self-govern at the same time. So what is the pensive ancap to do? If you really believe that corporeal punishment is child abuse, are you not obligated to intervene? But how, if every adult is
presumed capable of self-government, and is sovereign over his own affairs? If you step in personally, and things go sour, do you imagine that my children will be
thankful that you have relieved them of a tyranical parent? Or is it more likely that you would have started a blood feud between my surviving family members and your own? This is not a trivial question, since we can't assume that everyone who lives in an ancap society would agree with your own belief system.
Granted, our real world has many contradictions. Yet one sign of maturity is the ability to incorporate such contradictions into one's worldview.
And to the "point" about my not being a good Christain because I don't see the "Golden Rule" in the same context that you do, the best understanding in English for the Golden Rule is not "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (otherwise you have this very event..
http://www.dilbert.com/strips/2012-12-09/ ) it's more correct to say "Do
not do unto others for which you would
not have done to you". The distinction is not trivial.