Topic: Do not gamble with Loan Money~otherwise you will be in danger like me - page 13. (Read 4955 times)

One thing I like doing most is to always take a walk away when I am done with my time of gambling, this is because if you want to follow the outcome of your gambling session to determine what amount you deposits it's then means that you will be doing alot in the wrong direction and just as the tilted the thread loans comes as a result of inability of the gambler to quite gambling when he has already exusted his money.

This could be as a result a heavy loses, and excessive depositing, which on it own is a bad character already, but when it extended to taking loans, that have transformed into full blown gambling problems.

gambling is not a scenario of destroying someone's life but it depends on how a gambler can manage everything well and loan money is also not a bad scenario if it is used for something better when in dire need.

from the assumptions you say, I slightly disagree, but basically you are right that gambling or loan money can make a person's life very bad if they don't have a big responsibility for everything that has been done, like in these two cases, gambling can bring ruin to a person. If gamblers cannot gamble responsibly and loan money, it will also have a bad impact if they cannot act responsibly, thinking about the ability to return the money they have borrowed.

all of this is just about responsibility but still loan money and gambling should not be combined because both will be very bad in the long run when you have to return the money you borrowed but all the money has been lost due to losing at gambling and you will definitely regret it.

More accurately, the joy of gambling is peeled back layer by layer after the times we lose and when we get to the stage of getting involved in things like borrowing, that moment is just the moment when the wild beast within ourselves frantically searches for what has passed, screaming and advancing with too thoughtless heads, then responding without any response, once again the fierce beast was injured and needed to be cured by loans. It is also a salvation and responsibility for yourself, but it is not necessarily good to rush headlong into fighting. A little tolerance and peace will sometimes reduce a lot of loans and losses.

Yeh its 100% true. In gambling no one can give you surety to win that's abou luck and practice and dedication. But do it with you own money because you are risking money. If you are unavailable to make profit then that will be big problem to rutter loan. That's the reason don't take risk.

If a gambler plays game with his savings and stops there when he's got no money left, it'll be better than taking loan for gambling purpose. Meddling with our savings is wrong, but it's bitter to gamble with borrowed money. The fun of gambling disappears the moment we begin to wager borrowed money. The player will have to stay worried at all times, especially when he losses the money. Yes, with determinations, the gambler can save himself out of the trouble, but it's rare to solve. Unless the gambler has other good streams of income, that wouldn't be a torn in his flesh. Not having a clear plan or decisions about staying responsible as a gambler, may cause a dangerous experience for the gambler. The goal of such gamblers revolves around making profits, and whatever idea that pops to their mind would be utilized regardless of the risk. They jump over the need to have self-control, because it seems to them that the strategy will reduce their chances of winning big. I'd say participating in gambling for money, alone, affects the thoughts of the gambler. Most of them who reason this way, probably will lose their self-control. Thereby endangering their financial economy to an extent of being in deep trouble. Which may cost the happiness of the player and introduce them to addiction.

Reading other people's shared experiences can help us prevent the same incidents as those experienced by other people so that we can gamble comfortably. The important thing to avoid is not to borrow money to gamble because we don't know how to pay the debt, especially when we experience a big loss. We can allocate a certain amount of money each week or month to gamble so that we don't need to borrow money from other people. This helps us avoid problems with other people where other people won't chase us to pay our debts because we can allocate a certain amount of money for gambling. This is advice that every gambler should pay attention to, especially those who often borrow money from other people so they can stop it. Otherwise, they will only have difficulty paying back the money unless they can get money from their source of income to pay back the debt.

Yes, gambling using savings is clearly not the attitude of someone who can have sense of responsibility and is also wise, those who can have responsible attitude will never reduce or use some of their savings just for fun.
Savings are owned from the start with the aim of being able to make things easier when there are really important needs and savings are also supporting factor for everyone to have more feasible and stable gap in the future.
Maybe with the savings you can use it to build much bigger business, to be able to increase your investment and it would clearly be mistake to use your savings to have fun or gamble.

Self-control is also factor in being able to remain in safe condition, in the sense of not being careless in using too much money.
When self-control can be established well, gambler will only bet with the money he actually receives and will not use other money that might make him regret losing it.

gambling and borrowing money is a life ruin scenario. Never mind borrowing from a bank which definitely requires interest on the loan. Gambling by borrowing money from relatives or friends is also the same, although without interest.

If that happens, stop gambling and return to the real world to manage your finances. Don't get down and give up, instead you have to get up even harder so you can pay off the debt you incurred, but in the right way. rather than returning to gambling in the hope of making a profit and being able to pay off debts.

then after that everything is normal, please return to the world of gambling and always remember the disaster that happened to you before. just gamble for fun and use money you never use or money that won't interfere with your life. If you can, stop gambling.

It would be a good thing for you on at least be wary about real time experience of others on which you could really be able to reflect out into your own self on which it would really be just that able to make those realizations for yourself if you would really be just making use of your own common sense. Doesnt really need to see up others unfortunate conditions before you would be able to make yourself that make those realizations. We do know that gambling is really just that for fun and there's no way that you could really just that simply make yourself that
playing with a loaned amount of money or came from other sources on which you would be needing to repay it up on particular due time.
This is why it would be always best on making use of spare money and dont make yourself that desperate.

It is good as a gambler, you open your eyes and ears to see and hear as to know what is happening in the gambling world because there are lots of stories which you as a gambler could learn from after hearing about it. When you listen and hear from someone's experience as a gambler, that would give you guidelines on how to go about your own ways while gambling so that you so not be a victim of some certain circumstances that could befall you. Applying the precautionary measures to the issues you have heard from a gambler as their experience could help you scale through hurdles successfully when you encounter such in the course of gambling.

Touching your savings just to gamble should be a very clear sign that things are wrong with you, as that is money that should not be touched for any reason other than to make an investment or an emergency, and since gambling does not fall into any of those two categories, anyone that does that is sending a very clear signal that they are unable to control themselves and should do anything in their power to stop gambling before things get out of control.

True! That's one of the worst thing that you did because you used up your savings, in the end you might just end up in debt because you have already touched the money that you have. We can't say that even if we give an advice to someone, they will stay away from gambling, it's hard for them too but it depends on the situation and the determination of a gambler

What you are doing is also not very good because you are not gambling with all your savings balance. In this case, if you take the balance to zero, you may not get enough funds to support your family in the future. Moreover, gambling should not make you go bankrupt, but you should stop gambling when you face large losses. But for those who spend too much time in gambling, controlling themselves from gambling becomes a very difficult situation.

Well, I think there is no justification for taking a loan to gamble just because we have lost all our money in gambling but our gambling thirst is still not completed. Getting loan only to gamble will make even more probelm for the gambler in the case he loses all that money. I do not know why the gamblers do not think of the negative side too that if all the loan they had taken is lost in gambling, then how will they be able to return that loan ?
Not returning the loan will never be an option and the gambler will have to return the loan under any circumstances.


If only the gamblers could accept the losses, what else they need? I think one thing that is most difficult for the gamblers is to accept the loss or i would say digest the loss. The other day, I was thinking why is it so ?

I came to the conclusion that since money in involved in gambling and it is human nature that we do not afford to lose the money, so that's why our mind never accepts the loss. Either we try to play more in order to recover the loses or we may get depressed if the losses are not recovered for us in gambling.

If they have experienced losses that have cost them all their money, and they decide to take out a loan to continue gambling, they will only experience more losses. They will not be able to decide to stop gambling. They are desperate because they cannot win. Those who borrow money to gamble can lose all their money when they cannot control themselves and only want to chase wins while recovering their losses. It will be a very bad moment for them because they have already lost all their money, and they will also have to pay back the loan money while they already have nothing to return the money to.

Yes, because playing gambling, especially for a long time, can make us lose self-control because there is a tendency for us to want to recover from existing losses and still have the desire to win. We must avoid that, especially if we gamble with borrowed money, which will only cause bigger problems, so we must learn how to deal with them. And after experiencing defeat, we still want to continue gambling, and maybe we will borrow money from other people so we can play gambling again. If we do this continuously, sooner or later, we will experience a gambling addiction that we will not realize. We will fall into gambling to the point that we will lose everything we have because we cannot realize our mistakes.

That's the real problem unable to face and overcome that defeats you will keep on trying and deposit more money when you suffer from losing streak, thinking that in your next deal you'll be able to win it back, but unfortunately, the outcome will continue to suffer from more losing streak and unable to win anything back.

You should overcome that feeling not to dwell much with your losing session but instead try to move forward and accept that loss.

Gambling with borrowed money is indeed a mistake that occurs among gamblers who are addicted and chase their losses too much. Especially if they borrow large amounts of money it will be difficult to pay back the borrowed money and they will suffer even more because their gambling has made them even more miserable. Therefore, we must avoid gambling with borrowed money because it will make it more difficult for us to return the money. We must be able to accept losses that occur and not try to chase them if our own money has run out.

Most people share stories of their wins rather than stories of their failures, because with these wins they feel proud of their achievements so that it makes other people think about gambling too because who knows, they will get the same win. And this usually happens to beginners who are easily inspired by winning gambling and makes them gamble without thinking and cannot limit their expenses just because they gamble carelessly.

You are right, we all know the limits on the use of funds in gambling but when we are playing in gambling then addiction will take control to set limits on the use of unlimited funds for gambling, all gamblers experience this because they are affected by various impacts of gambling which will deposit funds again to gamble because you will not accept defeat and hope that the loss can be recovered from high bets, so you apply for a loan from a friend or even the bank to recover the loss from gambling but you have made a big mistake that if you lose you will lose everything and you have to pay off the debt and pay interest to the bank for several years.

On the time that  you would really be playing gambling and you do hate up on losing money then its not for you because once you do find yourself that impulsive then you would really be ending up on making those bad decisions on which this is something which isnt that recommended on doing so. You would really be that impulsive on which it would really be ending up for you to
make decisions or actions which arent supposed to do so because on the time that you are already taking some loans just for you to play gambling then its really that a bad thing.
You are really that worsening the situation and you are putting up yourself on such potential trouble that you might be facing ahead.

That is wise advice. But there are still many people who gamble more than they can afford, and it ends up giving them problems. In fact, they know that they can gamble using the money they can afford, but the problem is that when they have been gambling for a long time, they forget to control themselves. That makes them spend money that exceeds their limits, so they experience more losses.

And there are still people who gamble by borrowing money from other people. It will also cause bigger problems for them because when they lose, they will have difficulty paying back the money they borrowed. And they will get frustrated and have to find a way to get their money back.