Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 33. (Read 4700 times)

Choice is only a path man chooses for some certain reason or purpose. What defines you as a person is how belief in yourself, the faith you have in your capacity, how well you know yourself (self-worth), wisdom, the love you share with others, how you support and encourage yourself when you're down, and the people around you.

Yes, but 98% of the choices people make today are through the effect of society.
Gambling can be good and can also be bad but it all depends on personal knowledge about its concept and a mature level to accept the fact that gambling isn't an earning venue but a chance.

You have a point but if you gamble every well you'll know that at some point it's hard to be mindful of the level of gambling or maintain control if the gambler is not fully aware of the etiquette of gambling profitability and each gambler needs to find his/her own cause what works for A may not work for B.

I don't let people know and that's it, if you are someone who cares about what people will say then don't do it when they are present, things have change drastically in this world, we now have access to the internet, people can gamble in their home and offices if they want.

People in my country don't care about privacy when gambling, even when many old people don't look them as a responsible people but for someone like me who don't want people to judge me wrongfully I prefer to gamble in my privacy space.

It's easy to say that you don't care, but society level of mentality is different, and everyone isn't the same, it's like how the word of mouth is the most dangerous tool in south Korea, many people have committed suicide because of what people are saying about them.

If you don't care and you are ready for any thing that people thrown at you then don't hide your gambling activities, but if you are not so sure it's better to just avoid and gamble in your room.

I think the OP meant, first of all, the opinion of close people, and here this position “I don’t care about everyone, I myself know how to act” does not work. If you live in a family, then even some personal things concern not only you, and even more so potentially dangerous things like gambling.
If we are talking about strangers, then I again disagree with you - public criticism in this case is unacceptable because it is aggression. It would never occur to me to criticize any stranger and teach him about life (how to work, how to eat, how to play, etc.) because I know that this could end in a fight  I expect the same attitude towards myself - if someone intrusively shares their opinion for which I did not ask, he will get hit on the head.

Nope, I don't really care what people thinks of me when they found out that I am a gambler.
Some of the people who found out about my gambling habit ask me how often do I lose or win, some also ask if they could join me or ask me to play with their money instead since I am better than them in gambling.
What people thinks about you doesn't really matter, as long as you know you aren't doing anything wrong to other people

first of all, I very rarely gamble or access gambling outside the house and only enjoy gambling at home or in my room so no one will say anything except friends who know about my and my wife's gambling activities. I do all this, gambling doesn't need to be accessed in random places because it has a lot of risks and what you get is one of the risks of accessing gambling in public places and you should not pay attention to anything they say because it is your own fault for accessing gambling in public places an open place that you should access when there is no one beside you.

even though currently online gambling can be accessed from anywhere, I suggest you dont do it again because not everyone likes gambling or some people sometimes think gambling is a bad thing, so it would be better to open a gambling account when there are no people next to you that you dont know and on the one hand, this has a big risk because you dont know whether the person next to you is a good person or a criminal when you see you win and top up your balance a lot, of course bad people will rob your cellphone and that could happen.

so you dont need to do that anymore, if you want to watch the game, you need to see if there are many people next to you and look for a quiet seat to access the gambling and if someone says anything, dont pay attention because you are gambling using your own money.

Yes the point is to each their own on this issue, in any case and not in the world of gambling alone for myself honestly don't really care what other people say about anything I do, for me the most important thing is that I don't harm anyone in any way. If they comment in a way that is too much then I think it's likely that they are one of the people who envy us, but on the other hand as we know that gambling has a very negative perspective in the eyes of society which means that it will be possible for people to comment on our gambling activities, especially if they are one of the people who have never gambled and have the same perspective as the general public about the negative world of gambling. So that's one of the things that I don't really care about because I'm not harming other people like the idea that you said and also in addition maybe I will be a little bit reasonable because like I said about the overall negativity of gambling in the eyes of society.

Public critisism is okay, but I don't care if some people has a say about what I am doing, there is nothing they can do and I am not aggrieved by them. I don't even ask them for any amount for gambling, so I don't care what they will say or think. People will quickly judge and insulted you just because they knew that you're into gambling, that's how low they look at people who participated in any gambling activity.

It depends on who said it. Because I appreciate and understand the opinions of people who truly knows me (family and close friends) since they are just concern and it's understandable (even the words are not so nice to hear). However, if you're just someone who judge me based on what you see (and we're not even close) I just ignore it.

I'm just playing in moderation and I know better myself more than anyone else. So regardless of what they say I just ignore them. Because if you let yourself be affected it will only give you stress. Thus, as long as you're not doing anything wrong then you don't owe them an explanation.

LOL, same experience with same environment.
We are in the same country where all the behavior and work we do will be monitored by others and will be the subject of conversation, especially about gambling and work that is labeled as a negative job will become the subject of "GIBAH" or word of mouth gossip, so it will become a negative image of ourselves.

Such incidents even happened to myself a few years ago, where people said that I earned money and bought houses from gambling proceeds or other illegal work.
It wasn't annoying at first and left alone, but when it came to the offense far enough and wanted to report it to the police, I started making serious threats about what the person was talking about.

Sometimes it takes a strong enough reprimand so that others who don't know about anything about our work can understand and don't need to interfere,
this is a private realm and should not speculate carelessly.

To be honest, I don't want to and don't feel bothered by what people say about me gambling. But unfortunately I live in an environment where people sometimes get too involved and take care of other people's lives, and they always talk about what we do. So if these people know that I gamble then what will happen is that this news will be discussed by a large part of the community in my environment and the conversation will happen and last forever. would be famous if I were a gambler. while gambler is something that is labeled as something very bad. So even though I want to ignore it, it doesn't seem like it will last long if it continues to be discussed by lots of people all the time. ahahaha

I care more about what I think about myself (my habits, attitude, and behavior towards something). If I am not actually doing something right and I feel convinced that I am truly going off balance, I quickly tell myself the truth and readjust. I don't wait for people around me to start telling me what's good and what's not good before I stop. I don't usually care about what people say about me unless I am actually convinced within myself that what they are saying is just the truth.

There's a saying that my people always say, "Foolishness is when you keep lying to yourself every time." Meaning that if you must lie to others, always be sincere with yourself, know when you are doing the wrong thing, and also know when you are doing the right thing. As an adult, you should know what is good and bad, and you should also know something that can cause harm to you when you keep on doing it.

Sometimes, if you follow what people are saying, you could even cause harm to yourself because you are not acting like the original you.

Although there are things I would not do in public, examples are trading, checking my wallet, and perhaps looking through important stuff on my phone. As for looking through your bet results in public, I don't think it's unethical behavior; in my opinion, it's not a bad thing to do. It only crossed your mind to check, and you did.

Perhaps, as an adult, I don't see anyone reprimanding me for any unreasonable thing.

I wouldn't care about what other people said and would just ignore them. It's my business if I gamble. The important thing is that I don't bother them, and I'm still within my limits when it comes to gambling. They can say bad things about me and if I'm not as bad as they think and I can prove it, they will get embarrassed in front of people. I don't want that to happen, and if something like that happens, I will immediately leave rather than have a useless chat between us. We don't need to pay attention to other people who say those bad things and just let them be like that.

Even not on gambling even into those casual things that you are dealing into your life, i dont really have that kind of behavior on trying out to hear out other peoples sentiments and views.
Its none of their business on the things that you are doing, its your money and its your life then they dont have the rights on making out those kind of judgements on the things that you are dealing with.
When it comes to gambling then its your leisure that you are really that seeking on which it wont really be something right if  you do keep yourself that too mindful about other peoples sayings.
Its your money that had been used not theirs and it is really just that normal that you might be having those reactions but its better that you should ignore those stuffs
so that you wont really be finding yourself get getting stressed on the things that they've been keep on saying.

I ignore their opinion about me when it comes to how I gamble I'm not that sensitive to even bother with their opinion, as long as you are good and you are spending your own money you are good to go, sometimes its more depressing when you think about people's opinion because you have no control on other people's thinking and opinion.
You shouldn't brag or tell people about how you gamble, the less they know about how you gamble the better they have little to say because they don't know anything, some people are so judgemental because of their so-called morals.

I talk feedbacks positively. But if someone criticises me for no valid reasons, then I just ignore them blindly. According to me you yourself understand better only. You using your money to gamble and taking risk. Hence you will be very conscious while placing those bets. In this time, if someone gives you any suggestions then its good to take it, but if someone just criticises and blames you, then it’s better to ignore him and pay full attention towards the bet.

I don't care what anyone says about my gambling, or my gambling activities, basically I feel much better and in control of my gambling and activities. especially to the point of making fun of me, that I will never listen to at all, in fact I sometimes just ignore and leave without saying a word to those like that.

To be honest it depends on what is being said, whether it is advice or whatever if it is for me personally, and if it is advice I will listen to it when there are only two pairs of ears and 4 eyes, if more than that they are insulting me and my gambling that I do.

Well, I am neither one thing nor the other. I don't go around touting that I gamble, nor do I care if anyone notices it. In general it is better that your gambling is a private activity that you keep relatively secret unless you are a professional gambler who makes a living from it, which is not usually the case on the forum. But if someone finds out, who cares? I gamble responsibly and anyone who doesn't like it can go fuck themselves.

How come you can take it as offensive? he just react or express his thought about gambling. If he react like "Mate, you should avoid gambling because you will lose money", "Bro, gambling is bad/sins/haram, I don't want to see you're gambling" etc.

As long as he's not touching your business, that's fine.

What if I say Bitcoin is scam, will you ignores my account?

I try not to judge people publicly and I dont accept judgement from other people. I can listen to their opinion, but still stick to mine and my own experience. This happens not only in gambling. Dont eat that, it taste bad. Drink this instead of this because... Do this as this is better. If we talk about gambling, then I am too grown up to listen and care about someone else judging me doing something. And I am extremely against and dont accept when someone imposes his opinion.

I don't know what other people say, as long as the gambling activity we do doesn't cause harm to other people, there no need to care about what they say.
After all we gamble using our own money and all the risks and consequences of gambling are also the ones we feel or bear.
Forget what they say and do what makes you happy as long as you still use your personal money and don't bother them, sometimes people just get too involved in what we do but they don't think that we do it for fun.
Moreover, if we care too much about other people it will only make us less confident and fail to have firm attitude because we are considering what they say so all of this will only make us feel indecisive.
All our own decisions determine whether each decision is good or bad and also the activities we carry out, only we ourselves can determine it.
My only advice is to remain gambler who can be responsible for everything you do in gambling in order to minimize mistakes and problems, because they might laugh if we experience difficulties or experience problems from what we do.