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February 05, 2017, 08:16:29 AM
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In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!

Most of the gamblers not all, true they hide there identity being a gambler. But in some understanding of others, if they just want to have some fun only, I guess it can be consider as moderate player only. But if you play and become greedy in gambling and good manner and right conduct has been changed because of it. That's what you called shameful already and had became addicted unto it.
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February 05, 2017, 07:58:39 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because they think to be lucky and they feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is not thought as good thing.
- I think people are jealous of the gambler, because gamblers can make money from gambling and they were not
- Legal or illegal? not important. Important is that we can make money, Many people want to make money from gambling like us, but they do not, they are jealous of us because we are good at making money than them. We need not ashamed, we should be proud of it

they are not jealous, but most people view gambling as something not good, so it is normal that they view gambler as not a good person. Not a jealousy. And if illegal, people will also look at people who gamble as not a good person, because it is forbidden, but still do. Your statement suggests strongly vanity.

Well I don't think there's anything to be jealous at when most of the time you're losing money than winning. I agree that most of the time gambling or gamblers are being generalized because of the negative effects that irresponsible gambling does to people. I think there's nothing to be ashamed of with gambling, you just have to know the limits and be responsible with your gambling
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February 05, 2017, 07:57:29 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because they think to be lucky and they feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is not thought as good thing.
- I think people are jealous of the gambler, because gamblers can make money from gambling and they were not
- Legal or illegal? not important. Important is that we can make money, Many people want to make money from gambling like us, but they do not, they are jealous of us because we are good at making money than them. We need not ashamed, we should be proud of it

they are not jealous, but most people view gambling as something not good, so it is normal that they view gambler as not a good person. Not a jealousy. And if illegal, people will also look at people who gamble as not a good person, because it is forbidden, but still do. Your statement suggests strongly vanity.
I disagree with you, because gambling is a way for pleasure, I don't feel shame if i do gambling. As you said "most of people view gambling as something not good". People can't control you if you really enjoy what you did. Even if they see what you do is bad. Did you satisfy yourself first or satisfy others about you?
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February 05, 2017, 02:58:15 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because they think to be lucky and they feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is not thought as good thing.
- I think people are jealous of the gambler, because gamblers can make money from gambling and they were not
- Legal or illegal? not important. Important is that we can make money, Many people want to make money from gambling like us, but they do not, they are jealous of us because we are good at making money than them. We need not ashamed, we should be proud of it

they are not jealous, but most people view gambling as something not good, so it is normal that they view gambler as not a good person. Not a jealousy. And if illegal, people will also look at people who gamble as not a good person, because it is forbidden, but still do. Your statement suggests strongly vanity.
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February 05, 2017, 12:39:13 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because they think to be lucky and they feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is not thought as good thing.
- I think people are jealous of the gambler, because gamblers can make money from gambling and they were not
- Legal or illegal? not important. Important is that we can make money, Many people want to make money from gambling like us, but they do not, they are jealous of us because we are good at making money than them. We need not ashamed, we should be proud of it
I am sure that's not what they saw, it's more on the negative aspects I guess. Based on what I witnessed, there are gamblers who are not responsible enough, and when they lose, they will make a stupid decision like selling what they have just to gamble and that actions is what makes them desperate because of gambling.
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February 04, 2017, 10:45:09 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because they think to be lucky and they feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is not thought as good thing.
- I think people are jealous of the gambler, because gamblers can make money from gambling and they were not
- Legal or illegal? not important. Important is that we can make money, Many people want to make money from gambling like us, but they do not, they are jealous of us because we are good at making money than them. We need not ashamed, we should be proud of it
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February 04, 2017, 09:52:42 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
That's the biggest problem of today's society. They don't let people enjoy their life or let them do something they actually wanna do. I think the people who say to you that gambling is bad, illegal , etc they should ignore those people and enjoy their life.

Gambling and drugs and all the other things that are illegal are bad for the individual and/or for the society. Some believe that one must be able to do whatever they want to do as long as it doesn't affect other people. For example, one can do drugs and gamble whole day long as long as they don't hurt other people. It's their body, let them do whatever they want to do, right? That's what people must be thinking. When democracy was implemented, freedom was taken in a much different way than the government expected. Today, freedom means the sky is the limit. Freedom means that doing whatever you want without anyone interrupting you at all.

That's the very reason why people say "YOLO" and then do some shady activity that might put them to jail.
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February 04, 2017, 09:48:52 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
Yes if someone will win money in gambling then at that time he do not feel shame because he think to be lucky and he feel proud-full among others and he will tell to everyone in the time if he will not more gamble especially in the society where gambling is thought as good thing. While in bad gamblers society I think no one will feel to share it with any one and no one will like to show that he is gambling even if he will win.
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February 04, 2017, 06:30:35 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
That's the biggest problem of today's society. They don't let people enjoy their life or let them do something they actually wanna do. I think the people who say to you that gambling is bad, illegal , etc they should ignore those people and enjoy their life.
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February 04, 2017, 02:58:14 AM
in fact it was very cool, but it is illegal, so I think it would be embarrassing if you are known by many people that you're a gambler. well, very much look cool for a gambler, but when they fail, it will be very ugly. well, frankly it might be embarrassing.
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February 04, 2017, 02:43:29 AM
Gambling isn't good thing to do, so it will become very embarrassing if other people knowing that I do gamble everyday.

No it is not embarrassing thing to do. Maybe those people that are embarrass upon gambling are the ones that aren't responsible with their lives. There are some who are defaulting on loans because they did used the money they loan for gambling and now they are failing for paying with it because their main source is gambling and that's really shameful. But if you don't do that, there's nothing to be ashamed of.
You are right asking or taking loan on just to play gambling because you believe that you could able to make money with it then its really a shameful thing to do and most people will see that as an insane thing to do at all.You will surely suffer problem in the long run and even ruined your life even more in the end.

That's some of the reasons why we should be shameful to let other people that we are gambler. But if you are just a normal gambler that don't affect other people's wealth, trust and properties with your addiction then you are just fine and you shouldn't be ashamed to show to other people that you are a gambler otherwise everything seems to be fine.

its better to this mate, without disturbing anyone and use your own money there's nothing to be ashamed gambling in most gamblers mind its only for having some fun with good rewards if getting lucky so no matter what happen its you who's taking the risk of your money.

Yes you said it right and when we gamble by using other's people fund or assets then it will be surely a very shameful thing to let others know that we are gambling with their money. It's better to be a good gambler with dignity and lose a lot of money from your own pocket rather than lose nothing but gain insult from others.
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February 03, 2017, 02:17:10 PM
No i feel not shameful because it is my hobby.

Everyone has a hobby and this is my, so i dont hide it and everyone knew it.

When someone has a problem with my hobby, so it is not my problem.
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February 03, 2017, 12:48:35 PM
Yes i feel shamefull only when im loosin Smiley

I like to play gambling. So why i shame. But u have point many cultures consider gmbling as a sin. Some of thinks ''u dont deserve that money, u dont work for that money'' I dont know its deep.

I just like to play. It gives me exciting. All my friends are gambler. We like to bet horse racing and watch in hippodrome. May be i have normal friends feel shamefull Smiley
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February 03, 2017, 11:44:02 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
I do not think that gamblers will feel ashamed for sharing their winning experience but definitely they will feel ashamed for losing experience to share. It is common human nature to hide their losses so gamblers also will be feeling ashamed to share losses. But if gambling is in illegal activity then both winning and losses will be the same.
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February 03, 2017, 11:18:21 AM
People will have different feeling while playing gambling because they will feel shy to share the news to his friends and family when the won money through gambling. Because many people have feeling that gambling is an illegal activity.
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February 03, 2017, 10:56:26 AM
I don't think gambling is an illegal activities or something so I don't know why I should be shameful.It's my money and I think I have the right to do whatever I like.I know my few relative doesn't like gambling and try to stop me from gambling.But i don't care what they are saying.I love to do gambling and can't stop.
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February 03, 2017, 10:11:12 AM
No i never feel any shame on gambling because no one giving money for gambling. It's my money i am gambling, no one is ready to bear my loses. Winning are loosing will depend on luck, i am working very hard in my daily job, so i am finding my luck in order to make more money.
It is right that these are your money with which you gamble and almost all of the gamblers often gamble with their own money but you also have your family your wife and children they have right on you and your money you also have to think about them while deciding that it is your money. So if you will lose their money and they will be denied from their basic needs then you will definitely feel shameful.
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February 03, 2017, 09:30:46 AM
Well I don't see any reason of feeling shamefull. There are many people in this world who are so called millionaire or even billionaire. Do you all those rich guys earned their money through legal ways. I don't think anyone should be afraid of being a gambler not everyone should have interest what other people have.
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February 03, 2017, 08:39:25 AM
I dont feel shameful because gambling is not my life in the first place
I have my jobs and families and friends. i will be shameful if I borrow
money unable to pay because I lost, or steal just to play in a casino.
I gamble a lot but I made sure that all the bills paid and there are
food on the table.
Actaully this all can be true but the society can make you feel shameful for that

It is upto you to take what comes to you, if you are really feeling shamefull then better to stop it but what others tell should not bother you become what you are that you should be knowing to yourself and you should not be telling others the reasons will you are right
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February 03, 2017, 08:22:16 AM
I dont feel shameful because gambling is not my life in the first place
I have my jobs and families and friends. i will be shameful if I borrow
money unable to pay because I lost, or steal just to play in a casino.
I gamble a lot but I made sure that all the bills paid and there are
food on the table.
Actaully this all can be true but the society can make you feel shameful for that
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