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Oshi.io
January 15, 2017, 05:02:00 AM
I live in a place where gambling is characterized as illegal, even though my government not so strict in this regard, so I would be very embarrassed if others knowing my bad habits. It would be very different if in my country, gambling is perfectly legal, so I do not need to feel embarrassed.
yes we have the same problem. gambling is also forbidden in our area, and is not consider as honorable activity in our are, therefore i also like to play gambling in hidden form. i do not want my family to know about my gambling activity.
in such areas where gambling is not banned even there people do not like to play gambling openly and same is my case, i also do not want my family to know about my gambling habit as in our society it is not consider as good activity therefore i like to hide my this habit openly.
Well that's exactly what I have been thinking about. Anyone the same?
Btw. would you mid if they found out?
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January 14, 2017, 08:42:38 PM
from the start im not ashamed that im a gambler instead im a proud gambler because they can see my successful on gambling they can see that i already have my own agency and being a gambler wont eat your money its all depends on your luck, and your knowledge regarding the gambling youre playing. much better if you start gambling with your friends before going in a casino or you can start gambling in gambling sites using bitcoins. ive already done investing huge money in bitcoin and i still having a profit with it by gambling.
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January 14, 2017, 06:47:50 PM
I live in a place where gambling is characterized as illegal, even though my government not so strict in this regard, so I would be very embarrassed if others knowing my bad habits. It would be very different if in my country, gambling is perfectly legal, so I do not need to feel embarrassed.
yes we have the same problem. gambling is also forbidden in our area, and is not consider as honorable activity in our are, therefore i also like to play gambling in hidden form. i do not want my family to know about my gambling activity.
in such areas where gambling is not banned even there people do not like to play gambling openly and same is my case, i also do not want my family to know about my gambling habit as in our society it is not consider as good activity therefore i like to hide my this habit openly.
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Oshi.io
January 14, 2017, 05:20:24 PM
- I think everyone has a different opinion, we should not impose our thoughts to another person
- You feel ashamed or not, no problem
- You live for yourself, for your family, do not care what others think about you
And those are the points of this discussion.

why we don't have any one who can share there picks when betting in any sportsbets as we do have gambling discussions here its also good to share our picks. and allow the community to win with that.
There are many threads with tips Wink
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January 14, 2017, 01:20:29 PM
I live in a place where gambling is characterized as illegal, even though my government not so strict in this regard, so I would be very embarrassed if others knowing my bad habits. It would be very different if in my country, gambling is perfectly legal, so I do not need to feel embarrassed.
yes we have the same problem. gambling is also forbidden in our area, and is not consider as honorable activity in our are, therefore i also like to play gambling in hidden form. i do not want my family to know about my gambling activity.
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January 14, 2017, 11:47:46 AM
I live in a place where gambling is characterized as illegal, even though my government not so strict in this regard, so I would be very embarrassed if others knowing my bad habits. It would be very different if in my country, gambling is perfectly legal, so I do not need to feel embarrassed.
The same situation is in my country that is why I cannot gamble openly in my country and if someone is caught it is shameful for them. But we are allowed to gamble online. There are a number of gambling websites in which none one is locked all of them are available for us and we can gamble online.
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January 14, 2017, 11:35:47 AM
I live in a place where gambling is characterized as illegal, even though my government not so strict in this regard, so I would be very embarrassed if others knowing my bad habits. It would be very different if in my country, gambling is perfectly legal, so I do not need to feel embarrassed.
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January 14, 2017, 10:57:21 AM
I have never been ashamed, I have not felt sorry for losing, I am not as grateful as the pilgrims, gambling is a very old habit for me, I am proud to be a gambler. lol Smiley


"who cares?" about what we are doing... We do it because we want it and not that we are forced to do it... Actually I have a lot of friends who are gamblers, they are into cock fighting, cards and many more, but what they always say when someone is telling them about their habit, what they always answer is "who cares?, am I using their money in my betting, am I aggravating anyone by my betting?"...  Smiley

Yeah that's right. There's nothing to be ashamed of if you're betting on your own hard earned money as long as it doesn't affect your family and things that are more important. The thing is that there are some people, because of too much gambling, put more time and money in it and even go beyond their means like borrowing or selling personal things just to support their gambling instead of prioritizing their families. Some of these people even have children that experiences all the consequences when it happens. That's when gambling becomes very shameful for some people
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January 14, 2017, 10:49:28 AM
- I think everyone has a different opinion, we should not impose our thoughts to another person
- You feel ashamed or not, no problem
- You live for yourself, for your family, do not care what others think about you
And those are the points of this discussion.

why we don't have any one who can share there picks when betting in any sportsbets as we do have gambling discussions here its also good to share our picks. and allow the community to win with that.
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Oshi.io
January 14, 2017, 10:16:18 AM
- I think everyone has a different opinion, we should not impose our thoughts to another person
- You feel ashamed or not, no problem
- You live for yourself, for your family, do not care what others think about you
And those are the points of this discussion.
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January 14, 2017, 09:52:18 AM
I have never been ashamed, I have not felt sorry for losing, I am not as grateful as the pilgrims, gambling is a very old habit for me, I am proud to be a gambler. lol Smiley


"who cares?" about what we are doing... We do it because we want it and not that we are forced to do it... Actually I have a lot of friends who are gamblers, they are into cock fighting, cards and many more, but what they always say when someone is telling them about their habit, what they always answer is "who cares?, am I using their money in my betting, am I aggravating anyone by my betting?"...  Smiley
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January 14, 2017, 09:42:29 AM
For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from  your hands.
They don't know, but you do.

I don't get it why they should be ashamed if their family relatives will know that they are a gambler. Why not change the mindset of those people?

That not just because you are a gambler, you are not responsible for the things that you need to do. Just prioritize what matters most.

And show them that you are good in it especially in money management.
I don't understand why you have to be ashamed. My girlfriend knows that I gamble and even supports me with it. She sometimes advise me to stop in order to not feed my greed and thankfully she does, because it prevented me from losing more from what I lost. It's really sad to see people being ashamed. I guess you feel that because you are addicted to it, and still you shouldn't be ashamed. Instead, ask for help. They can help you.

this is because your girlfriends is really love you so she give advise to you to stop for playing gambling and she do the right thing that gambling can makes you to loss much of money and you become addicting person in gambling. and maybe that person feel ashamed if other people will rejected that person to make relationship because in many country, gambling related with drunk and its a bad habit that we can see.

Of course. I think what you need is another person's point of view so that you can assess the situation depending on what can possibly happen. People love that kind of support and probably will develop into the better relationships. Having a bad habit will destroy your life, better make it balanced so that you can know what to do in the future.
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January 14, 2017, 07:53:17 AM
I have never been ashamed, I have not felt sorry for losing, I am not as grateful as the pilgrims, gambling is a very old habit for me, I am proud to be a gambler. lol Smiley
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January 14, 2017, 07:47:37 AM
- I think everyone has a different opinion, we should not impose our thoughts to another person
- You feel ashamed or not, no problem
- You live for yourself, for your family, do not care what others think about you
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January 14, 2017, 07:33:17 AM
For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from  your hands.
They don't know, but you do.

I don't get it why they should be ashamed if their family relatives will know that they are a gambler. Why not change the mindset of those people?

That not just because you are a gambler, you are not responsible for the things that you need to do. Just prioritize what matters most.

And show them that you are good in it especially in money management.
I don't understand why you have to be ashamed. My girlfriend knows that I gamble and even supports me with it. She sometimes advise me to stop in order to not feed my greed and thankfully she does, because it prevented me from losing more from what I lost. It's really sad to see people being ashamed. I guess you feel that because you are addicted to it, and still you shouldn't be ashamed. Instead, ask for help. They can help you.

this is because your girlfriends is really love you so she give advise to you to stop for playing gambling and she do the right thing that gambling can makes you to loss much of money and you become addicting person in gambling. and maybe that person feel ashamed if other people will rejected that person to make relationship because in many country, gambling related with drunk and its a bad habit that we can see.
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January 14, 2017, 07:13:09 AM
For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from  your hands.
They don't know, but you do.

I don't get it why they should be ashamed if their family relatives will know that they are a gambler. Why not change the mindset of those people?

That not just because you are a gambler, you are not responsible for the things that you need to do. Just prioritize what matters most.

And show them that you are good in it especially in money management.
I don't understand why you have to be ashamed. My girlfriend knows that I gamble and even supports me with it. She sometimes advise me to stop in order to not feed my greed and thankfully she does, because it prevented me from losing more from what I lost. It's really sad to see people being ashamed. I guess you feel that because you are addicted to it, and still you shouldn't be ashamed. Instead, ask for help. They can help you.
There are some societies in the world where gambling is considered as a source of entertainment so in these places people do not feel shameful while there are some societies in the world where gambling is just considered as a way to lose money so in those places people do not look better at gamblers. In those places gamblers often feel shameful.
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January 14, 2017, 07:01:34 AM
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I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.
I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful
I disagree. No one would be able to make us feel ashamed if we truly thought
there was nothing wrong with what we are doing.

If we felt guilt/shame, then that means we, ourselves, think that what we do is wrong.

Yeah but if everyone tells you that something is bad later or sooner you will start believing it's bad and then feel shameful about it :/
Sorry, Nope.  Grin
I make up my own mind, really quite hard-headed at times.
But, we don't need anyone to tell us what is wrong or what is right. I believe we'd know that ourselves.

If everyone keeps telling me that something I do is wrong, but I believe otherwise? Then, it all goes through one ear and out the other.
i like that idea, well no one can say which one is correct since we are the one controlling ourselves i'm sure the word gambling in most peoples are bad but considering them in your own perception will not change the fact that you are enjoying in what you are doing and as long as you are not bothering them nothing counts their thinking.
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Oshi.io
January 14, 2017, 05:44:30 AM
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I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.
I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful
I disagree. No one would be able to make us feel ashamed if we truly thought
there was nothing wrong with what we are doing.

If we felt guilt/shame, then that means we, ourselves, think that what we do is wrong.

Yeah but if everyone tells you that something is bad later or sooner you will start believing it's bad and then feel shameful about it :/
Sorry, Nope.  Grin
I make up my own mind, really quite hard-headed at times.
But, we don't need anyone to tell us what is wrong or what is right. I believe we'd know that ourselves.

If everyone keeps telling me that something I do is wrong, but I believe otherwise? Then, it all goes through one ear and out the other.

Well remeber that I am taling in general. I know that people interested in crypoto and gambling usually have their own mind, but in general this is true. It's just psychology and sociology - if there is some general thought after certain time it will become a truth.  And that's why for example during midlaged gay people were treated as ill. Even though there was the same number gay people as nowadays, everyone told you that it is bad and then you belived it.
The truth is what people believe in.
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Crypto.games
January 14, 2017, 05:30:27 AM
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I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.
I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful
I disagree. No one would be able to make us feel ashamed if we truly thought
there was nothing wrong with what we are doing.

If we felt guilt/shame, then that means we, ourselves, think that what we do is wrong.

Yeah but if everyone tells you that something is bad later or sooner you will start believing it's bad and then feel shameful about it :/
Sorry, Nope.  Grin
I make up my own mind, really quite hard-headed at times.
But, we don't need anyone to tell us what is wrong or what is right. I believe we'd know that ourselves.

If everyone keeps telling me that something I do is wrong, but I believe otherwise? Then, it all goes through one ear and out the other.
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Oshi.io
January 14, 2017, 04:46:57 AM
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I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.
I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful
I disagree. No one would be able to make us feel ashamed if we truly thought
there was nothing wrong with what we are doing.

If we felt guilt/shame, then that means we, ourselves, think that what we do is wrong.

Yeah but if everyone tells you that something is bad later or sooner you will start believing it's bad and then feel shamefuk about it :/
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