Do you feel shameful for being a gambler? - page 82.

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Quote from: jossiel on January 14, 2017, 04:33:13 AM

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Quote from: FLoving on January 13, 2017, 04:49:56 PM

For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from your hands.

They don't know, but you do.

I don't get it why they should be ashamed if their family relatives will know that they are a gambler. Why not change the mindset of those people?

That not just because you are a gambler, you are not responsible for the things that you need to do. Just prioritize what matters most.

And show them that you are good in it especially in money management.

I don't understand why you have to be ashamed. My girlfriend knows that I gamble and even supports me with it. She sometimes advise me to stop in order to not feed my greed and thankfully she does, because it prevented me from losing more from what I lost. It's really sad to see people being ashamed. I guess you feel that because you are addicted to it, and still you shouldn't be ashamed. Instead, ask for help. They can help you.

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Quote from: OshiHugo on January 14, 2017, 03:56:51 AM

Quote from: FLoving on January 13, 2017, 04:49:56 PM

For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from your hands.

They don't know, but you do.

I don't get it why they should be ashamed if their family relatives will know that they are a gambler. Why not change the mindset of those people?

That not just because you are a gambler, you are not responsible for the things that you need to do. Just prioritize what matters most.

And show them that you are good in it especially in money management.

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Quote from: OshiHugo on January 13, 2017, 02:19:28 AM

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I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.

I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful

I disagree. No one would be able to make us feel ashamed if we truly thought
there was nothing wrong with what we are doing.

If we felt guilt/shame, then that means we, ourselves, think that what we do is wrong.

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Quote from: FLoving on January 13, 2017, 04:49:56 PM

For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from your hands.

They don't know, but you do.

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Quote from: game-protect on January 13, 2017, 05:02:21 PM

How many gamblers try to hide that they gamble? And what is your definition of "gambler"? Is someone who occassionally gamble, a gambler? Or do you mean addicted gamblers are gamblers? I feel in no way ashamed when I gamble and I never met anyone who do. But there are religions where gambling is prohibited like the consum of alcohol.

We are now in the modern age, most gambling games now are modern too, unlike in the stone age where they play even by hitting a stone with another.

What I mean is, gambling now doesn't look like it anymore, though the concept of betting is still there, that is why gamblers of today are not ashamed about it, unlike before that it's too obvious (pertaining to gambling with cards and other stuffs like that and alcoholics which drink it anywhere) and religions are the ones making lots of law to follow.

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Nope, I do not feel ashamed at all, I just gamble sometimes but not with high numbers and I think so now and than is not bad to do.

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How many gamblers try to hide that they gamble? And what is your definition of "gambler"? Is someone who occassionally gamble, a gambler? Or do you mean addicted gamblers are gamblers? I feel in no way ashamed when I gamble and I never met anyone who do. But there are religions where gambling is prohibited like the consum of alcohol.

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I don't expect gambling is a shameful thing. I feel good when i gamble.
Maybe i gamble because i need money, but sometimes i gamble for fun.
Then, I don't feel shameful for doing that.

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For those people who are feeling shameful while gambling bitcoin has brought a solution for them because in bitcoin gambling you can gamble anonymously. Not even your family member will know that you are gambling. But do not go to lose all as your relatives will ask about your money that where they gone from your hands.

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Quote from: Xenophoto on January 13, 2017, 04:59:58 AM

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No I do not feel shameful for it at all because its something that I love to do and I never do it with large amounts.

I don't feel shameful for being a gambler because it hasn't discredit me as a person and gambling is not a crime which i commited all I just wanted is fun and stress reliever unless I steal the bitcoin I used to gamble, that's probably shameful feelings. As long as you enjoyed playing for good purposes without being addicted and you can manage well with self control then nothing to shame with.

Yes me either, why would I feel shame with it if I'm just gambling for fun and sometimes hoping for a small amount of winning. I don't even commit any illegal or criminal act upon my gambling. And the most important thing is that, every time I gamble, I don't ask someone to give me money that I will gamble, it all came from my pocket.

you will be ashame of being a gambler if you are using money that didn't come from your pocket, like your parents money given to you for your allowances. if you doing that thing and didn't feel a little bit of shame, i think there is a little bit problem on that person. Being a gambler is actually a bad image because of money involvement but it is just a case to case basis because all people have different point of view in each situation.

So you think that it is bad to generazlie that gambling is bad?

I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.

I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful

They are right, and you know it. Gambling is really bad for you both mentally and financially. Mentally, gambling becomes your habit and you might end up considering gambling as your need. Financially, you're losing money and you'll continue to lose money in the long run. It's not about not thinking about what other people thinks about you but it's about taking care of yourself.

Quote from: Kasabus on January 13, 2017, 02:57:20 AM

Why would you care on what others might say to you?

Because as a normal person, it's actually hard not to care about what others say to you. Your behaviour and pretty much everything about you is affected by the environment. You can pretend that you don't care but deep inside, it affects you.

these factors are more in such area where gambling is banned and consider as illegal activity. people in such area do not like to expose themselves that they play gambling because in these area those people who play gambling are not consider as good people.

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Quote from: Kasabus on January 13, 2017, 02:57:20 AM

Quote from: OshiHugo on January 13, 2017, 02:19:28 AM

Quote from: Ipwich on January 12, 2017, 10:56:32 PM

Quote from: OshiHugo on January 12, 2017, 04:25:49 PM

Quote from: BlockEye on January 11, 2017, 11:18:00 PM

Quote from: tabas on January 11, 2017, 10:56:34 PM

Quote from: Wowcoin on January 10, 2017, 02:48:15 PM

Quote from: Pwerd on January 10, 2017, 11:22:50 AM

No I do not feel shameful for it at all because its something that I love to do and I never do it with large amounts.

I don't feel shameful for being a gambler because it hasn't discredit me as a person and gambling is not a crime which i commited all I just wanted is fun and stress reliever unless I steal the bitcoin I used to gamble, that's probably shameful feelings. As long as you enjoyed playing for good purposes without being addicted and you can manage well with self control then nothing to shame with.

Yes me either, why would I feel shame with it if I'm just gambling for fun and sometimes hoping for a small amount of winning. I don't even commit any illegal or criminal act upon my gambling. And the most important thing is that, every time I gamble, I don't ask someone to give me money that I will gamble, it all came from my pocket.

you will be ashame of being a gambler if you are using money that didn't come from your pocket, like your parents money given to you for your allowances. if you doing that thing and didn't feel a little bit of shame, i think there is a little bit problem on that person. Being a gambler is actually a bad image because of money involvement but it is just a case to case basis because all people have different point of view in each situation.

So you think that it is bad to generazlie that gambling is bad?

I know your question is not for me, but in general I would say gambling is not bad. It depends on your approach, and we know that it existed to give us entertainment, if you treat gambling that way, you will never have a problem and the longer you play the more you get entertain.

I agree but I am afraid that common people think that gambling is something really bad and that's why thy make us feel shameful

Why would you care on what others might say to you? Life is short my friend, you should not be living others life. You have the freedom and use it all you can, you are even luckier because you are part of the community, most people here are very positive, so make yourself a positive person too.

You care from the same reason why they care. I am not saying whether it is right or bad, but it is true. People care about other people. People can make other people feel shame even though there is no reason why. And it is up to you how you deal with that then. And that's basically the point of my question.

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is not shame but people will looked different to u and u dont let them know u are gambler ><

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