Topic: Do your parents know about your gambling habit ? - page 2. (Read 1172 times)

That's an initial reaction of a parent once they know that their child is into gambling. If I am going to be a parent in the future, I think I'll be like that kind of parent that will get mad at first  once I know that they're involved in any gambling activities particularly if they are in a young age which is not good for a child to be expose on some kind of activity. Maybe our children will listen to us  if we talk to them calmly and explain the pros and cons of gambling properly. Regardless of their age, there still a parents who always think about the welfare of their child.

Actually, my simple thoughts are that I don't want to impose my thoughts on anyone. For the sake of equality in family relationships, I can criticize people for being wrong, but I don't do that. I tried to put my thoughts into their role, and gradually understood why it was the family members who did not recognize their own mistakes, the limits of understanding that did not prevent them from realizing their own mistakes. having to pay a price and money is not enough to make someone realize what should be done. And at this age, I don't want anyone to have to stress anymore about their life views up to now, because it's simple, even if I know what's right or wrong and even if I try to change, if they don't like it. So I don't have to have the same opinion as them.

I also expect that reaction because that will frustrate them because None of my parents got involved to gambling since they was born , both of them are gambling haters all their life but happy about their reaction when I needed them most , sorry for your parents reaction but I believe that it is a normal reaction because of what we have done.
and also it is our obligation to take all their madness because it is not easy to accept what is important that they still helper us out and make us a better person after that.

Telling my parents that I utilized some hours of my working days to place wagers on games, trust me when I say, they would be really mad at me. Ofcourse they would do what they're expected to as any other responsible parents, shouting and giving me advises about th strict negative consequences that follows, for me, I've chosen to remain mute with my activities cornering the gambling system. Addiction is definitely not easy to stop, but with the provided aides from our parents and love ones, quitting can be made easier because we already have in mind and determined to quit notwithstanding the current attributes that follows.

hahaha, for me, gambling activities are a private thing, I don't tell everyone about it so as not to damage the trust that my parents have given me, especially in our country, gambling is a negative thing (according to the religion I follow) and is considered  usually gamblers are people who have no future but are still very strong, besides there is no benefit in me telling my parents that I gamble because currently I prioritize openness with my partner and we support and supervise each other.

It happens a lot really. I myself had experience the same level of potential problem that you said. I learned from it that sometimes it's just better to not tell anyone about the things you are doing because your surroundings will talk about you and the possible things that can happen to you, the thing is most of those are on the negative side and won't bring you any positivity at all. Especially on gambling where it's unlikely to the majority of people to encourage you more in continuing doing it. I understand since it's a vice that why just not letting other people know that you are doing gambling activities is just better.

My family doesn't know about my gambling habit. I never want them to know about my gambling. I try my best not to let any information about my gambling get to them. There are some reasons if they know about gambling they will often ask me about it which I don't like. Moreover, everyone in the family will talk to me negatively. If I ever borrow money from someone for financial or other personal needs they will suspect me of gambling. That's why I never tell my parents anything about gambling. While this is the case for me, it can be different from others perspective.

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Actually, my simple thoughts are that I don't want to impose my thoughts on anyone. For the sake of equality in family relationships, I can criticize people for being wrong, but I don't do that. I tried to put my thoughts into their role, and gradually understood why it was the family members who did not recognize their own mistakes, the limits of understanding that did not prevent them from realizing their own mistakes. having to pay a price and money is not enough to make someone realize what should be done. And at this age, I don't want anyone to have to stress anymore about their life views up to now, because it's simple, even if I know what's right or wrong and even if I try to change, if they don't like it. So I don't have to have the same opinion as them.

you should not say that to your family members who are addicted because it is just a waste because your grandfather or father will never listen to your advice because they know you are also a gambler just like you when your father banned smoking but you answered why should I stop smoking while father also smokes.

In this scenario, its up to you to make the decision, but the advice is that even if you are not a gambling addict and your family knows it, you want your grandfather or father to stop gambling, at least you should stop first before giving advice.

Yes, my parents know that I am a gambler but they don't stop me or hear anything bad about me because I am of legal age.

Because nobody in my family has ever been found gambling, and I won't allow that to start with me, so no one knows about it. However, I have a strong feeling that their response won't be positive at all because the worst thing about losing money is that you can't expect someone to be happy if you're not winning. The majority of parents won't like it even if we always win.

Yes, my parents know that I am a gambler but they don't stop me or hear anything bad about me because I am of legal age. They only have reminders not to overdo it with gambling etc. Parents thing and that will not go away because they are still worried. Once my cousins ​​and I would compete in gambling and our parents were there, they could see that we were enjoying ourselves. Just remember not to overdo it when it comes to gambling, you should always control your emotions and yourself. When your parents see that you can handle it, you won't hear anything from them.

Yep, as long as you can make your parents feel secure about your decisions, like in my case, my family knows I gamble, but they know that I'm not addicted to it. But it doesn't stop at family opposition or support, but I myself am a person who witnessed my grandfather being a lottery addict and my father being a gambling addict, as well as having many times my family had creditors come to demand money from me, according to my memories. And actually, I wanted to advise them to stop, but I never said that to them. Maybe some bad images from gambling appeared in the family that made me more aware and didn't want me to turn myself into a bad person a gambling addict.

Children today are very intelligent, very fast and advance at a high level, so I consider that things when it comes to how to educate children are very varied, there are parents who are still very dedicated, but there are others who They prefer to give them a phone so they can play and let the parents do their things, it is like an entertainment measure, so things are not like that, now children need to do many other activities, get them into music, sports, where they can bounce all that energy, in a phone what you look for are problems, I think things should be done in a different way, parents have to pay more attention to their children, a phone at that age, makes them very skilled when it comes to phones , PC, everything, but practically they will become very dependent on that, it is not what they are looking for, parents must be much more responsible with their children, this is something that has to improve enormously.

Today's parents do things that can be a bit abstract, they leave their children alone at home and do not take the care they should with them, they do not supervise them, and they are only interested in ensuring that they are entertained, so it is easy for a Children tend to invent by searching for things on the Internet and inventing a lot, for example it is very easy for them to access any network to be able to have access to any type of games, and of course we must not rule out that when they enter casinos it is a danger. First because they are very curious, also if the father or mother leaves the phone there it is very easy for them to take it and start doing things, to invent, then this type of things is what an adult must supervise them, they in If they are not to blame, the fault lies with the parents who allow a child to take that attitude on a phone, tablet, or anything, this is something that must be provided so that he can have a better childhood, there is no other.

I won’t say that I have a gambling habit. Yes I do gamble occasionally for some extra profits whenever required. Gambling is just like investing for me. Yes it’s investing with some extra risk in it. Moreover I also gamble with funds which I can afford to lose. So I tell my parents that I invest in some types of schemes. I don’t specify them that I gamble. I am sure many of us does this.

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?