Topic: Do your parents know about your gambling habit ? - page 2. (Read 1509 times)

Every parent today wants their children to stay away from gambling. But they have no idea why they should stay away from gambling. Moreover, every child of this time has enough IT knowledge, so they know how to manage gambling far from their father's mother, so there will be no hindrance in their gambling. Basically, if this environment prevails, no parent will be able to understand that their child is addicted to gambling. Every parent should have an idea of what their children like to do and they should be more careful to their children. If they are interested in gambling then providing practical knowledge about its positive and negative aspects.

       -   Right now, even if my parents find out that I gamble, they won't interfere with me because I'm an adult and they know that I know right from wrong. Also, even though they know that I gamble, they also have an idea that they can handle my gambling properly because I also explained it somehow.

Also, I rarely play gambling when I really have extra money, and when I don't have extra, I don't play because whatever budget I have, I don't really use it, and it's only reserved for that; it's really separate from gambling.

That's an initial reaction of a parent once they know that their child is into gambling. If I am going to be a parent in the future, I think I'll be like that kind of parent that will get mad at first  once I know that they're involved in any gambling activities particularly if they are in a young age which is not good for a child to be expose on some kind of activity. Maybe our children will listen to us  if we talk to them calmly and explain the pros and cons of gambling properly. Regardless of their age, there still a parents who always think about the welfare of their child.

I also expect that reaction because that will frustrate them because None of my parents got involved to gambling since they was born , both of them are gambling haters all their life but happy about their reaction when I needed them most , sorry for your parents reaction but I believe that it is a normal reaction because of what we have done.
and also it is our obligation to take all their madness because it is not easy to accept what is important that they still helper us out and make us a better person after that.

Yep, as before, I quite often chat about things happening in life with my family, even when I participate in lottery games and tell everyone about that win, and I just wanted to mention that it is a fun game that shows our luck. But the ways of transmission and reception are not in harmony, making things more negative in the family. Maybe at that time, people were happy and talked about winning, but then they thought everything was always easy and fell into deep pitfalls. I think not liking to admit mistakes is an instinct in each of us, and those who dare to admit mistakes may not receive sympathy, there may be other scorn attached. So there's a way to stay silent or the right time to understand each other better, but it's really not easy.

It happens a lot really. I myself had experience the same level of potential problem that you said. I learned from it that sometimes it's just better to not tell anyone about the things you are doing because your surroundings will talk about you and the possible things that can happen to you, the thing is most of those are on the negative side and won't bring you any positivity at all. Especially on gambling where it's unlikely to the majority of people to encourage you more in continuing doing it. I understand since it's a vice that why just not letting other people know that you are doing gambling activities is just better.

hahaha, for me, gambling activities are a private thing, I don't tell everyone about it so as not to damage the trust that my parents have given me, especially in our country, gambling is a negative thing (according to the religion I follow) and is considered  usually gamblers are people who have no future but are still very strong, besides there is no benefit in me telling my parents that I gamble because currently I prioritize openness with my partner and we support and supervise each other.

My family doesn't know about my gambling habit. I never want them to know about my gambling. I try my best not to let any information about my gambling get to them. There are some reasons if they know about gambling they will often ask me about it which I don't like. Moreover, everyone in the family will talk to me negatively. If I ever borrow money from someone for financial or other personal needs they will suspect me of gambling. That's why I never tell my parents anything about gambling. While this is the case for me, it can be different from others perspective.

Actually, my simple thoughts are that I don't want to impose my thoughts on anyone. For the sake of equality in family relationships, I can criticize people for being wrong, but I don't do that. I tried to put my thoughts into their role, and gradually understood why it was the family members who did not recognize their own mistakes, the limits of understanding that did not prevent them from realizing their own mistakes. having to pay a price and money is not enough to make someone realize what should be done. And at this age, I don't want anyone to have to stress anymore about their life views up to now, because it's simple, even if I know what's right or wrong and even if I try to change, if they don't like it. So I don't have to have the same opinion as them.

One of the factors that makes parents to have a serious concern on the gambling of their children is actually because of age, however if we are of age to make decisions on our own and to stand by it I see no reason why our parents will ask us to stop.

On less the person gambling habits is becoming so overwhelming for him that he thinks about nothing else but gambling all the time, so just like you say that your parents is fully aware about your gambling activities, perhaps the irrespective of how grown up you have become, the reason why they have not said anything was because you gamble very responsibly.

It was a good decision that you managed to hide it from your parents and family, after all in this world not many parents are happy and know that their child is a gambler because there are not many parents who like to hear and see their child gambling, if you Using your own money to gamble is even better so that it doesn't harm your parents when you lose at gambling.

As long as you can gamble with good control, there is no problem hiding your gambling activities because gambling is not important and must be published unless we are a streamer or influencer to attract interest and promote referrals. Maybe we need to publish our gambling activities, if we gamble for Personally, I don't think it's important that many people know that, because privacy is of course very important for ourselves, I also gamble in secret except for my wife and she is the person I trust to control my gambling budget.

First of all parents should not leave their children alone in the age of teenage because in such age they accept wrong activities and don't share their ideas with parents. I am not a part of gambling and I can proudly tell about my work to my parents and if I involved in gambling then I will conceal my this act from everyone as a result of which I will spoil my life and nobody will know about this.

Parents should keep check on their children and if they find their children to gamble then strictly ordered them to leave gambling because gambling is such a bad addiction  that it snatch the happiness of gamblers and he will loss all relationships due to such bad field. Lots of people go away from home in order to get education and then become engaged in something useless or bad therefore I will suggest that education can be obtained anywhere so educate your children in a location where you can keep check on them.

you should not say that to your family members who are addicted because it is just a waste because your grandfather or father will never listen to your advice because they know you are also a gambler just like you when your father banned smoking but you answered why should I stop smoking while father also smokes.

In this scenario, its up to you to make the decision, but the advice is that even if you are not a gambling addict and your family knows it, you want your grandfather or father to stop gambling, at least you should stop first before giving advice.

Yep, as long as you can make your parents feel secure about your decisions, like in my case, my family knows I gamble, but they know that I'm not addicted to it. But it doesn't stop at family opposition or support, but I myself am a person who witnessed my grandfather being a lottery addict and my father being a gambling addict, as well as having many times my family had creditors come to demand money from me, according to my memories. And actually, I wanted to advise them to stop, but I never said that to them. Maybe some bad images from gambling appeared in the family that made me more aware and didn't want me to turn myself into a bad person a gambling addict.

I won’t say that I have a gambling habit. Yes I do gamble occasionally for some extra profits whenever required. Gambling is just like investing for me. Yes it’s investing with some extra risk in it. Moreover I also gamble with funds which I can afford to lose. So I tell my parents that I invest in some types of schemes. I don’t specify them that I gamble. I am sure many of us does this.

Yes, my parents know that I am a gambler but they don't stop me or hear anything bad about me because I am of legal age. They only have reminders not to overdo it with gambling etc. Parents thing and that will not go away because they are still worried. Once my cousins ​​and I would compete in gambling and our parents were there, they could see that we were enjoying ourselves. Just remember not to overdo it when it comes to gambling, you should always control your emotions and yourself. When your parents see that you can handle it, you won't hear anything from them.

Children today are very intelligent, very fast and advance at a high level, so I consider that things when it comes to how to educate children are very varied, there are parents who are still very dedicated, but there are others who They prefer to give them a phone so they can play and let the parents do their things, it is like an entertainment measure, so things are not like that, now children need to do many other activities, get them into music, sports, where they can bounce all that energy, in a phone what you look for are problems, I think things should be done in a different way, parents have to pay more attention to their children, a phone at that age, makes them very skilled when it comes to phones , PC, everything, but practically they will become very dependent on that, it is not what they are looking for, parents must be much more responsible with their children, this is something that has to improve enormously.

Today's parents do things that can be a bit abstract, they leave their children alone at home and do not take the care they should with them, they do not supervise them, and they are only interested in ensuring that they are entertained, so it is easy for a Children tend to invent by searching for things on the Internet and inventing a lot, for example it is very easy for them to access any network to be able to have access to any type of games, and of course we must not rule out that when they enter casinos it is a danger. First because they are very curious, also if the father or mother leaves the phone there it is very easy for them to take it and start doing things, to invent, then this type of things is what an adult must supervise them, they in If they are not to blame, the fault lies with the parents who allow a child to take that attitude on a phone, tablet, or anything, this is something that must be provided so that he can have a better childhood, there is no other.

No, I don't think it's right at all for any parents to discover that their children gamble for a living; that's a bad reputation, in my opinion. Additionally, I don't think any parent will be happy if their children are gamblers; most parents who gamble won't like it because they think their children should be better than them. I once saw a father and son gamble, and I wondered if that was the best course of action for them to take. I never saw myself in this situation before, even when I was gambling, but I do stop when I know my parents won't like it when they find out that I'm doing this kind of thing. I therefore stop as soon as I can, just to avoid being involved in many issues.

Because nobody in my family has ever been found gambling, and I won't allow that to start with me, so no one knows about it. However, I have a strong feeling that their response won't be positive at all because the worst thing about losing money is that you can't expect someone to be happy if you're not winning. The majority of parents won't like it even if we always win.

If children can play it while always paying attention to self-control, that's fine and nothing wrong. But we know how gambling can tempt everyone and even adults are often influenced by gambling and forget to stop gambling, especially children who don't have good self-control and can be tempted by the offers they see. If children are tempted and become more frequent gamblers and experience gambling problems, who will be responsible? Is it the children or the parents? Obviously, the parents because will have a hard time taking care of their children who have become addicted to gambling.

At my age, my parents don't go through my phone, nor do they ask me where I am going; I am not also living with them in the same city. So, nothing to fear; even if my parents knew that I was a gambler today, they would believe that they had given me all the morals that's supposed to guide me in whatever decision I am taking. I have not been a compulsive gambler right from the start and have no intentions of becoming one. The only situation where my parents would feel pity for me is to find out that I am a compulsive gambler who is wasting all of my resources only on gambling.