Topic: Do your parents know about your gambling habit ? - page 9. (Read 1509 times)
I’ve discussed gambling with my parents a few times but can’t say that my Mother ever approved. She would always tell me that nobody ever wins in gambling and would seemingly be annoyed when I enjoyed watching games with money on the line. She always worked hard for her money though, so throwing it away so recklessly was hard to understand.
When i was a 14 years old, that is when my classmate introduced me to this gambling because he came out from a wealthy family, and his father is not against it in their family because sometimes their father always ask them some games to choose for him, and the ones his children will pick from the games, will be the ones his father will win, and he will surely give the children some money to enjoy themselves in school, and that is how I follow my classmate to start gamble, and my mother cut me on a faithful day when she was using my phone to do something because her phone was developing some fault at the moment, that made her to see some of the games I was waiting for their results to come out to do cash out, but she made me go through hell , that made me to vow that I will grow mature before I will start gambling.
Yes, they know it. But they are very friendly about that because they knows that, I'm not an addicted gambler. Honestly speaking I don't gamble that much anymore. I just gamble when I'm bored or when I need some fun. It's not my main work. And why does it matter if they knows or not? I'm fully grown an adult now. I have my own freedom. Your question mostly applies for under aged children.
Honestly this is a question that is most applicable to children who were still independent under their parents, an adult can do anything he likes and choose to gamble or not with or without his parents permission as long as he's being responsible enough for the family, why this is in most cases not encouraged is because of those who have taken gambling to the next phase by being addicted and irresponsible for the family and theirselves, but a full grown up adult don't have to fear of letting his parents know he gambles if he's responsible.
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Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
Are you asking this question for under aged people? Because I don't think it's bad for an adult to gamble unless it turns into an addiction. I think the public with gambling addiction needs monitoring if it is for them.However, to answer your question, I will not say that no one in my family knows that I have a gambling habit. Because I don't do it too much, just mostly I do sports betting when I have an idea about the games of those teams and sometimes I gamble if the teams I like. I'm actually not that much of a regular gambler. Apart from that my family be it my parents or my wife none of them will take this well as far as I can tell. Because in our region gambling is considered a crime.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
I am one of those grown up people, and my answer is YES, they know that I gamble and see me most of the time. Their reaction is normal, they just saw a normal adult playing gambling. Parents/Guardian will not react if they see an adult or even if it's their son playing gambling. Parents know that they should not treat an adult as a kid anymore. Being an adult means that we have our own knowledge and capability to decide by ourself. But I know, unless I get to the point that I can't control myself in gambling anymore. They will react for sure.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
No. Why on earth would I disclose that information to them? As an adult, I can earn money ethically and gamble for entertainment only with small amounts. Some parents may try to interfere with your gambling habits even if you gamble responsibly. So think carefully if you want to disclose those habits of yours. And I think as long as I'm not addicted to it, I will not tell my habits.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
My Biological Father wasn't angry, as far as I don't steal to gamble, I don't go around begging to gamble and also being addicted to the point that, I'll have to sell my cellphone in order to player virtual games. That I didn't do.
2020 during COVID-19 ( With Gambling ) I won correct scores which I used to buy foodstuffs ,( Heck! 2020 was bloody tough )
So he's fine with me gambling.
My Father in the Lord ( Pastor ) Caught me in the act! Then I wad actually staying with him. He considered Gambling bad and called those seen sinners. Man, I was not permitted to have dinner that night all because I was caught gambling.
As much as you're not addicted, know when to stop and start all over again, that's good. You should do well with saving profits you get from em too.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
No. I am an adult who does not require nor want the approval of my parents. I know what is good and what is bad for me. I also understand risks and responsibilities. That is what it means to be an adult, essentially. So I do not think that anyone above a certain age should still be a manchild/womanchild.
Furthermore, you make it sound like gambling is something to be ashamed of. There is a world of difference between problematic and non-problematic gambling. An indulgence is not a habit and a habit is not an addiction.
When you are an adult and don't live with your parents, every activity you do is always outside your parents' supervision, including your gambling habits. Parents always supervise their children from childhood to adolescence. When you enter adulthood and start earning your own income, you are free to use the money you earn anywhere that makes you happy. Parents can only advise what is best for their children, you are free to choose your path in life as long as it doesn't interfere with other people's lives.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
You are right. Many youngsters do not live with their parents and do what they like. For me though, it was not the case because most of the Indian youngsters live with their family.
Even after getting married they still live with their parents and so my parents know most of the things I do except gambling.
But my brother knows about it and he's okay with it because I am not addicted to it. He knows I play for fun and I am sure my parents won't have an obligation too.
As long as we are in control and don't cross our limits I think nobody will be bothered.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
before I got married and had children, I used to have a very dark life in the world of gambling and I once told about my experience in another thread and that when my whole family, including my parents, knew about my gambling activities and they were really worried because I had become an addict who was a little crazy about gambling, but since I recovered and can gamble more maturely and have a wife, everything is fine, my parents worry has become normal because I have become better. even if I gamble online when I visit my parents house, it has become a normal thing and dont worry my parents anymore because overall they really understand how to be more responsible when I gamble, even though sometimes I still lose control, but everything its fine, even my wife also knows about my gambling activities. Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
If you are responsible for all your actions and you have a job of your own you don't have to tell them about your gambling habit but if they found out about your gambling habit you can explain to them that you are already a grown-up man and you are independent enough and have a mind of your own, its right for parents to worry about your gambling habit if they found out but if they see that you are not the type that will become a compulsive gambler they will trust you.
It's important that we are a responsible gamble so our parents will not worry if you're going to go astray.
Gambling is not supposed to be for kinds. Many casinos and gambling companies do not allow children to register or use their services. Consequently, anyone up to the age of gambling is supposed to be able to make his decisions with little to no interference from parents or anyone.
If it is just my parents knowing that I am into gambling, they do and not that they really have any way to interfere as I'm independent and can take my decisions.
If it is just my parents knowing that I am into gambling, they do and not that they really have any way to interfere as I'm independent and can take my decisions.
I think you're mistaken the point op is coming from. The post is not talking about parents interference or the casino allowing the underage to play. Op is talking about the reaction of your parents when they discovered that you're gambling or what their reaction would be if they found out that you are into gambling. Considering, the negative vibes and effect of gambling in our society, most parents will feel embarrassed or express disappointment when they discovered that their child engaged in gambling. But, on the other hand, it depends on the society one belongs to. Especially in Africa society where religion is a basis of judgment, parents will react in unpleasant way upon that discovery.
I personally will not like my parents to be aware of my gambling habit despite the fact that they have no say or the right to interfere in my personal life but to maintain my reputation in their sight.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
Yes. But they have nothing against it since i'm old enough to handle myself. Of course they're concern, often advice me and that's understandable. However, as a grown up individual they know that I am a responsible person because I also have a family of my own.Well, if you're still depending on your parents, you should be open. Our parents knows what's best for their children, therefore if you're still living with them, follow their advice and don't keep your gambling habit a secret.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
Actually yes they know I am open with them with this activities so that they will not get worried about what we are doing. Sometimes we need those advice given by our parents so accept whatever words they are saying since all action they do is for our own good. We might feel harsh if sometimes they don't like those things what they do but in the end of the day we should think about that their disagreement with those actions we do is just for us and they just see something that might not result good to us in long run.
But try to make them understand that you are playing just for fun and if they see you having a good time and make gambling as your stress reliever then for sure they can understand you and somehow let you gamble in moderation.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
For grown-up people who are already living outside their parents' home, does it matter if they are gambling or not? I just don't get it. Or do you come from a place where parents still play a major role in your life decisions even if you are already a grown-up person?
Personally, my parents know that I am betting regularly, especially my father since sometimes I use my online betting account for his own bets. No big deal though, I don't have to tell them and they don't have to ask me. It doesn't matter since I am a grown-up man and I have my own source of living. I have no debts to my parents and I am betting responsibly.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
No, for me, any gambling related activity is not that important for them to know. As long I can handle myself in gambling and I know my limits, it's enough reason not to let them know. Besides, I can already picture their reaction, and what words I can get from them. They are actually the type of people who do not like gambling ever since. Letting them know will only put me in a bad mood As you mean and personally I say that adult men have the right to privacy to do anything as long as they can control it, after all, not many parents want to know about the activities of their adult children unless they are still underage, of course they are still under parental control, where They must know what activities they usually do, so parents are obliged to guide them properly.
Adult men don't live with their parents, how can they know you are gambling when you don't live together, even if you live together, is it possible to gamble in front of your parents, I don't think there will be many people who do that, although there are, it could be that he is already an addict so it's difficult to be controlled so that he plays gambling in front of his parents without caring about their suggestions and advice. but personally, until now my parents have never known that I gamble because they don't need to know that and so far my gambling is still under control so there won't be any problems.
Adult men don't live with their parents, how can they know you are gambling when you don't live together, even if you live together, is it possible to gamble in front of your parents, I don't think there will be many people who do that, although there are, it could be that he is already an addict so it's difficult to be controlled so that he plays gambling in front of his parents without caring about their suggestions and advice. but personally, until now my parents have never known that I gamble because they don't need to know that and so far my gambling is still under control so there won't be any problems.
Right to privacy I agree but we are talking about parents not neighbors. Parents are not going to make it public even if you share this with them like others.
Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?
My parents are quite conservative type so I have this feeling that if I tell them that I’m into gambling, they will never be glad and for sure they will just keep reminding me to stop gambling before losing everything. So I keep it to myself and when I started winning significant profits, and share some of them, that’s when they found out that I’m into gambling and to my surprise, they’re not against with it as long as I know how to control my finances and put some limits into my losses so I won’t literally end up with gambling addiction. I believe the role of the parents in gambling is not actually to discourage their children not to engage in gambling, but to educate them on how to deal with the risks and be prepared with inevitable losses as gambling will certainly make us lose than win. Because whether we like it or not, adult people will eventually be hooked with gambling and there’s no wrong with it as long as responsible gambling is always observed and practiced.
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