Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 15. (Read 3434 times)

Most of the gamblers actually experience something like that because you have lost in gambling, if you know that your behavior is like that when you lose in gambling, you should fix it because this is bad behavior. You can't always be like that every time you go home. Learn how to control your emotions, and only gamble as much as you can afford to lose so your head doesn't get hot when you lose. You should enjoy it.

Emotion handling and control would really be totally different to each other on which it would really be that there are people who do easily control up themselves and there are ones who are really that impulsive
when it comes into this aspect on which it is something that you could say that there are people who are really that not able to control their emotions on the time that they do play gambling.
There are ones who are really that able to do so just because they've been aware on the things that they are dealing with.Whereas to those people who are impulsive and too emotional then it isnt really just that
limited that they are really that doing those reactions when dealing up with gambling but also in other things as well on which this one really imposes up that there's something wrong
when it comes to your behavior or simply with your emotion.

This is something which is really that hard to be changed up, on point because this would really be  that requiring up that kind of control and discipline on which it cant really be just that
done on a single day but rather it would really be something that you would really be needing to deal and actually do on a long term mannter before everything
could changed up.

Of course that's true, everyone has a different level of emotion and also there are even some or some of them who have a temperament which means they are sensitive and very easily provoked by their emotions, and that means everyone has different actions and some of the factors I mentioned above are very influential on what decisions or actions they will take when the situation is like that. Even though they may be able to reach a point of good control, it still won't happen spontaneously and means there must be a struggle to hold back all the negative things that come out of their mindset when the situation is hot.

If you gamble alone and without the company of others, especially your friends, then obviously you will not be able to withstand some out-of-control actions when the situation has started to heat up due to defeat, and honestly for myself I often gamble with my friend while chatting and enjoying a cup of coffee, he will give some advice when I start to get upset and that is very helpful.

Yeh, if you are good in that kind of control you will be able to enjoy your winnings, but because of greed most of the time, gambler decided to push for more thinking that they are really lucky and they can add more with their winnings, you need to keep yourself calm and not to sway to your emotions as winning is just a bonus and you need to make sure that you'll be able to make a good use of it.

Think of your purpose and try to keep that entertainment and not to seek for huge benefits, you'll need to stay focus if you don't want to suffer with huge losses becuase of your emotions.

Well, you are right about that. As much as possible, we should be able to control our emotions correctly when playing gambling. Especially when we experience winning, gamblers feel different emotions, one of which is that instead of stopping playing the game, they continue because of greed.

Others stop and take out what they won, and it's up to them if they want to treat their loved ones because they won gambling. as if they wanted to share their blessings obtained by winning gambling at the casino.

I'm not saying that everyone's the same, my point is that you have to feel that emotion and let it all out because it's not wrong to feel those things, the difference the processing of the emotion. What I mean is that if you're ecstatic or so happy after a win, your move on how you will continue playing or not is the control that I'm talking about or for when you're losing, are you going to let frustration and anger make you continue playing or you will decide then and there that you're going to stop gambling today. Discipline is the key to that control, now if you have a little of that or you're lacking in that department, wouldn't this be the right time to be learning about it and how you can have that discipline?

However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

Good for you, that's kind of awesome that you're able to control and be aware that you're starting to feel a certain emotion, you don't have to be so hard on yourself when it comes to controlling your emotions, remember that it's a natural thing for someone to feel that emotion. I don't think that feeling those emotions are a bad thing when you're gambling and if you're winning or losing, shouldn't that be the normal thing to happen for someone when they experience something, you have to check on yourself if you're not feeling those emotions or behavior because that means there's something wrong if not different with how you process emotion, these feelings are okay to feel, what our next action is what dictates how we will do things.

Indeed, changes in behavior and attitudes do not wait for someone to become addicted to gambling first because even if new gambler experiences certain conditions such as losing large amounts of course he will experience changes in attitude.
But for an addict, the changes may not be so visible because they will tend to remain silent and try to recover the situation and use what they have to achieve this achievement.
It just that I found something different about gambler who has quiet attitude or behavior in his daily life, he gambles, experiences big losses and becomes quieter person, even for some time he just locks himself up in his room.
This is completely incomprehensible difference.

Of course in gambling whatever money you have can be used up without any remaining if there is no control or good management, especially for an addict who will give it up and then regret it later.
And just giving advice will not be useful or even just useless, the first thing is that they must first have awareness of their activities which have bad impact.
That way it will be easier to overcome addiction problems.

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

It can help because your focus isn't on it and I agree that reducing the concentration there, this can give you the idea that you should just be chilled when you gamble and that your behavior won't be much affected if ever you get more losses. But we're all human beings and we've got ways of tackling things like what we do in gambling. It's disappointing whenever we lose and that's why our behavior changes when we are on that actuality.

This is known by many. We're gambling and the results vary, sometimes we win but many times we're going to lose just for us to take at least one win. But even with that, we're all okay with it because we chose to gamble and that's not going to take us away with it unless you can't control yourself anymore.

 As for me those are normal things in gambling. Whenever you loss there is transgression of anger and whoever talked nonsense at that time receive the anger from the loss gambler and when you win there would be smile full over your body. The behavioral change come into in two perspective. It is either positive or negative the positive change is the happy mode of the game and the negative change is the losing game of the gambler. Op so what was your behavioral changed of the game your loss or win? Gambling is subtle, because when you win you will be willing to play games every time and all the time and when the wins cash has been exhausted then you become to realize that you have misused the money and you can't get them back again. It is when the money finished thY your eyes will clear.

Everything can never be normal when the system is unfavorable to us and our plans. We tend to approach the system with more careful steps and earning big become very competitive and successful. Gambling is triggered when we've observed tough matches in the system. Winning bets brings joy to the face and when one doesn't earn quite reasonable amounts of winning, he grow to become sad and eager to replace his money, thereby resulting in the player wagering again and he will continue to lose until there's nothing left but the wise one have learnt their lesson between.

It has, of course. Despite my best efforts to hide it, my wins and losses in life not just in gambling have a behavioral impact on how I treat other people(it is pretty hard to hide).

Reducing your concentration on the games you have reserved or bet can help the behavioral effects of gambling to have less of an impact on you whether you win or lose. Don't assume that you will succeed every time you gamble on any game

Escaping from this kind of addiction is not possible if the player blames others for his losses. Dealing with gamblers with such an ill behavior; the transfer of aggression, affects the happiness of the people around him. Society loves to be safe from trouble, hence a gambler who attacks the happiness of others, after losing huge amounts in gambling, won't be loved. Distancing from our loved ones to a place where we'd hardly see people we know could help. Just like in the case of Goxcraft. Yet loneliness can be dangerous for the addict, as he'd pass through too many hardships, struggling to change. Going to therapy would help as they have new ways of healing gamblers in this state of life. Giving them assignments or tasks to complete. Endeavoring that the addict meets up with therapy sessions, could help him change. And redirect his actions to something better.

Staying lonely only puts the addict in a situation where he thinks nothing can be done to save him from the problem. That's why an addict who distances himself from loved ones and still gambles won't be able to change. Sharing our pains with others is also a reasonable method of changing to a better person. Whenever we are alone, we tend to keep ourselves busy with gambling. Therefore reducing our funds and risking our finances. Which isn't a great idea for an addict. Taking loans can be his next decision. Worsening the situation and increasing anxiety. So, the best thing is to get to this stage of addiction in the first instance. Not everybody would be lucky enough to escape it. Gambling addiction is very hard to cure, and therapists know this, as it'll be hard to switch the addiction to something else. Our main goal as gamblers is to derive joy through gambling, any opposition to that would introduce anger and tough days in the life of the gambler and his loved ones.

We do really get those feelings on which same as said that we are really just that humans on which it would really be just that normal that we would really be having those kind of emotions that we would really be able to feel on the time that we are winning and also when we are losing on which it would really be a swing up in between of those things on which i could say that it would be normal. It would turns out to be bad
on the time that you are really doing things on which it isnt someone that should do. Make yourself having that good control and dont let that anger and emotion would control you because if you do fail on doing
so then you are most likely be spending up tons in gambling on trying out to chase up with those losses on which it is something that wont really be recommended.

As long you do able to gain up that experience then you would really be finding yourself to be that having that control or emotional stability as you do go far ahead
just because you are already adapting with those scenarios and conditions on which someone would really be able to mainly experience when they do touch up gambling space.
If you do find yourself having that emotion instability then it would really be better that you should skip gambling for now.

You make a fair point that having your mood go up and down now and then is just part of being human.  We all get those feelings.  but I gotta say, if mood swings are triggered by gambling and losing money gambling is what seems to push your mood from good to bad real quick. That makes me think maybe gambling has turned into a bigger deal for anyone who experiences such mood swings than it should be. And that can mean real trouble down the line.  Gambling problems aren't anything to brush off.

It's called mood swings and we all get them from time to time. It's not a change of behavior! Change of behavior is more permanent, like when you become more violent in general, or more depressed. When you get that feeling of being angry and unloading on your family members after a loss, but it stops after a day or two and you come back to being normal, it's a mood swing. Go to a doctor, you can get drugs for that, but you can also treat it as a warning sign that gambling starts to affect your friends and family too through your own behavior. Maybe it's time to do something about it?

It's not uncommon for people to experience frustration and look for external aspects to blame, even when those aspects have no direct connection to their gambling activities. When facing continuous losses, acceptance of personal responsibility can be challenging. It's a negative sign when someone is not able to recognize this pattern and reflect on their actions. It's a crucial aspect of breaking free from the cycle of addiction by taking ownership of gambler's behavior.

It's a commendable achievement with moving towards minimizing or overcoming such addiction. Setting limits and recognizing when to step back from gambling is a crucial step towards responsible behavior. It doesn't only protect the financial matter but also contributes to overall mental and emotional health. Support circle, whether from friends, family, or professionals, can play a significant role in helping people navigate the challenges associated with gambling addiction.

Exactly, change in behaviors is expected when you are already engage deeply in gambling, especially when you are in the losing streak I can agree to what you said, sometimes you want to point figner and throw the blame to someone who don't have any relation with gambling but becuse you can't accept the fact that you keep losing over and over, you are trying to find the way to blame someone and exempt yourself as liable with your actions.

But it's good if you manage to escape from that kind of addiction and you are able now to minimize or realize what you done wrong and you are on the side where you already place your limitation.