Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 10. (Read 3434 times)

Whether you do like it or not, there would really be those impulsive actions that would happen along the way. We are just humans and we do really know that money is really that too important in things
in life on which it would really be something that would really be needed up for you to avoid on losing it that much but since we are dealing up with gambling then it would really be just that normal
to have those kind of approach and on the time that we do have a losing bet then this is where things starts to be messy on which those reactions would be common. We are just humans and
those reactions would really be natural. The main issue on here is about having that self control on which we know that not all would really be good at that.

Yes, there are people whose emotions cannot be controlled, but some are so temperamental that sometimes they do not control themselves and start messing with others, or they do not like not being seen, that happens a lot in physical cases, that's how I saw One day, a man who was older, he always played in the slots and what he did was merely say rude things, instead of making me angry, he actually made me laugh, because a person who says like 20 rude things in less than 1 minute is something wow, but of course it is not in the normal parameters, that is something inappropriate and I know that that offends others.

Just as there are people who are so temperamental, there are people who do not try to show it but are very reserved, this in the personal and physical sphere in an offline casino, so when you go to the online level of the online casinos, it may be that there is a open chat and things are different, and 'that's where they show and get rid of everything that frustrates them and that they couldn't do, that is something that can happen and should happen, we as people must Express things exactly as they are , for that reason we must do things well in a casino, Whether online or casino, because things are like that, we must have some Control , and sometimes it is so difficult to control those emotions that, well, sometimes they have to come out afloat, we are human and we all go through emotions, some express them at full speed.

Things are always good to be able to have peace of mind, I could say that when are behavioral changes when entering a casino? Well yes, there are , Everything changes , it's like Entering a State of football Where you are going to bet on your local team , Obviously one is going to Change and say things and Jokes that you normally don't say , this is what refers to Also behavioral Changes for me that are very Normal.

Well, I would partially agree with you bud, I personally have seen a gambler who won a sports bet, and got angry, and you might want to as what his anger was about? It's simple, he was simply angry because he thought the money he bet on the game was too small, and as a result, the amount of money he won was very small compared to what he anticipated for, or the amount of money he needed at that time to solve some of his life's issues  , it was a funny experience honestly, but real af.

Win or lose, happiness or sadness is always a personal thing, a person can choose to be happy regardless of his loses in gambling, while someone might still choose to be sad for whatever reason, after having won his bet.

There are only two behaviors that I see in gamblers who enter a casino, and these are the good and bad reactions. Which is where joy and sorrow depend on whether you win or lose? The mood of our emotions really depends on those two, right or wrong?

I have never seen a gambler win, and then the response of his emotions was that he got angry—nothing like that; instead, all the players in a casino were happy. It only gets very angry when the gambler knows that he has lost a lot of money.

I'm not addicted to gambling, but sometimes I've experienced that I felt annoyed because I only had a little in my balance, and in my mind, I didn't want to stop early, so I hoped
I'd win more so I could stay longer in gambling.

It's just that fast if I lose; my gambling money is quickly used up in less than 10 minutes, and I also felt disgusted, but that was only for myself; no one else saw it, and after that incident,
I didn't do it again. that feeling.

There are a lot of activities that could cause behavioral change in people however gambling should not be a part of it. Aside from the fact that gambling activities have both some financial Gains when we win and financial loss when we lose, it is is supposed to be a fun activity. Since gambling activities can be classified as fun activities, then logically it is not supposed to have negative behavioral effects on the gambler.
When a gambler tends to get certain negative changes in his characters, it is often a result of improper placement of priorities or due to the fact that he is actually abusing gambling by carrying out unhealthy gambling practices. Adults should be smart enough to know how to manage their gambling rate and activities.

Not seeing the change? Its terrible and real. In addition to losing money, they're losing themselves. Gambling pleasure? The desert mirage is transitory. No doubt, their irritation, impatience, and emotional rollercoaster are pulling them to depths they cant comprehend. When they lose, that anger? It fuels their life-destroying fire. Addiction is a long, twisting plunge into a hopeless void.

Remember that not letting gambling consume you is more important than enjoying it "good". Control is a daily battle, not simply a skill. Here, knowledge, awareness, and discipline are your finest weapons. Always remember that the house wins, but you decide what it takes.

As long as the gambler cannot control himself when gambling, he will experience a change in character, which he will not be able to notice because he is too engrossed in gambling to the point of not being able to notice the change. They do get pleasure from gambling, but they will become more irritable and impatient so that they will lose control of their emotions. If they gamble and experience loss, it also affects their emotions. They will immediately become angry and continue gambling to recover from their losses. If they do not realize this, they will slowly become addicted to gambling and will lose everything they have. That is why when playing gambling, we must not lose self-control because that is what is important so that we can enjoy gambling well.

Yes, I agree with you, even if they are gambling for the first time, it can change them. where the first time they gamble can make them addicted to gambling and as time goes by they can gamble frequently, this will also make them experience changes in attitudes and behavior, especially if their minds are already filled with winning at gambling, then It is very likely that they will experience changes in their attitudes and behavior gradually.

with gambling which has two possibilities, namely winning and losing, in my opinion these two things can make them addicted to gambling, over time they can become addicted to gambling, where in my opinion if they are addicted to gambling, I think they will have different attitudes and behavior. tend to be more stubborn, unable to accept reality, unable to accept advice from other people, even from their own family. and as you said, if they don't respond to gambling correctly then when they lose gambling it is likely that they will become emotional which triggers greater losses, so I think indeed gambling can change the attitudes and behavior of someone who gambles, but this change leads to negative not positive.

I think it's common for individuals to have this behavior, even not with gambling. We mostly feel irritable and frustrated when we cannot get our expected outcome, and on the other hand, we feel happy and generous. It's important to recognize this pattern and behavior to see if we should consider seeking support. Always maintain a healthy balance to avoid negative consequences of gambling addiction.

Of course gambling will change a person's character and behavior. If the person wins then he will be happy and his life will be filled with pleasure both for himself and shared with his family and those closest to him, but if he loses he will definitely feel angry and frustrated, and this is determined by how he controls his emotions. good and natural or not. If he can accept defeat, perhaps only he will suffer the consequences, but if he cannot control his emotions, it could be his family and those closest to him who will be affected by the defeat he suffers. it's natural, like unclear anger towards one's own family and that is something that is inappropriate if it really happens in our lives.
So when gambling we need good understanding and self-esteem to prevent new problems from arising in our own lives.

Gambling should really be fun and not something stressful and this is something that you shouldnt really be considering on playing on having those kind of emotions or potential problems that you are currently feeling out. You cant really be able to enjoy gambling at its finest and the worst thing that you might really be making out some actions which is really that showing that you are
really that becoming that impulsive and might be ending up on putting yourself at trouble. Human beings are naturally that emotional on which on the time that  you would be losing something
specially money then huge disappointments and anger could really be felt specially on gambling which it might be result into those actions which even yourself didnt believe
that you could actually done that. 

I cannot emphasize the need of reality checking. Gambling is a risky investment. The goal is amusement, not wealth. Thinking contrary sets us up for disappointment because the chances are against us. Winning is great, but gambling to double funds is perilous. Expecting every coin throw to land heads is like that. We can't disregard the house's advantage.

Gambling should be fun, not profitable. Gamble properly, understanding losses are inevitable. This perspective makes the experience fun and prevents the downward spiral of chasing losses.

Most times it is the hope that kills. It is so common for gamblers who are into sports betting. Sometimes these gamblers accumulate games for 3-4 days and the ticket will run and then getting to the last day, a game spoils the ticket and most times it is the least expected game that will spoil the ticket and then leave the gambler in a state of hopelessness and frustration because he placed his mind so much on winning the game and in some cases the gambler have even started booking another set of games with hope of staking the game from the winning he will get.  This can cause a lot for the gambler.

It is advisable to follow gambling with no expectation of winning because when there is no expectation you feel no worries and vice versa. This is like placing your mind on a promise made by someone to you, you will continue to be worried until the promise is fulfilled and sometimes you end up quarrelling the person when the promise has not been fulfilled. This is similar to gambling. When we place our minds we tend to be worried and so any money used for gambling should be seen as money thrown away. This can go a long way in controlling behavioural change.

Exactly, because when you have the goal of gambling to earn or multiply then obviously losing is something that is really difficult for you to accept, or that means it is not easy for you to accept the fact that you lose when in one of the sessions, this is because of the hopes and expectations that you put on winning so that when the final result does not match then obviously at least you will definitely feel disappointed or maybe even your emotions dominate and obviously this is not a happy or pleasant situation.

This is why it is important to have the right understanding and mindset on gambling, most people misunderstand what is meant by the chances of winning so that with this they think that gambling can be a place to earn, when in fact there is always the possibility of defeat which is completely unavoidable, and means that it is very possible for you when you put your hopes on the final result, especially on winning but it turns out that what happens is that you lose and lose money. Of course when you experience this kind of situation too often then obviously I think behavioral and character changes are very likely to occur in you, you can become more aggressive whether it is in gambling activities or in your life activities and those closest to you will be the first to feel the changes that occur in you.

In your statements you have used the word "profit" ! When you calculate gambling by money, you'll never be happy. And obviously it will make you disappointed most of the time when you loss your capital in gambling. Better to consider gambling for entertainment purpose only. Otherwise your behavior will be changed, sometimes good and sometimes it can be become worse. Don't let the gambling dominance over you. Otherwise you'll suffer due to gambling. And never stake higher amount never. Only stake the amount, what you don't care to lose.

Yes, in fact it is like that, but don't Believe it , I have seen People who are like That , Especially when they are in slot machines in Physical casinos, they are generally older and they or what they do is have a lot of fun , Where everything goes to them the day there in the slots, but sometimes they make the mistake of drinking Alcoholic Drinks and they hang around and spend hours there, when you see them they are drunk and spending money, but in an Impressive Way , it is Something that cannot be avoided See, because it is striking that at those ages you seem to be doing something else, because they are there doing everything so that things happen well for them, it is what amuses them and they usually enjoy it a lot, so sometimes this makes me feel like laugh, because you can't even talk to them, they only communicate with each Other , and of Course their Older people , they are People who Already know each Other and people who in some way have been Sharing with each Other.

The behavior of some people in the Casino is like that , they define their Groups , they are Only there to make this type of Things and well that is something that catches my Attention and on the Street there are other people who don't even speak to each Other , in this order of Ideas we see People who have very diverse Behaviors, and they Can make a Difference if they Focus on doing certain types of activities, so when we see those People we can realize that people take other attitudes, they talk to people as if They will know each other all their lives, but only those who play the slots, entering their world involves Spending all day in the Slots and playing for hours so that they see and Adap t, or one adapts to them, but I consider that it is a lot of work , they are people who only like to try and try until they find that winning Formula , but personally things like this for me are like a lot of Work , but the Behaviors of some People are Strange.

Mood swings are normal, but extreme mood swings are not normal. Every person can have good and bad moods based on the situations they are in and the thoughts that are revolving in their mind, but a person who is controlled by their emotions and is scolding or getting angry at others for very small things needs to change this. You can't keep getting aggressive with your family all the time because you have lost some money in gambling and you regret it, it's not their fault, and if you can't control yourself, just stop gambling, simple as that.

Gambling is not a way for anyone to earn money, those who try to achieve that through gambling will have to suffer the consequences. That's why, it's always said that one should only gamble with the money that they can afford to lose so that they don't have to face negative consequences in their lives.

The trouble increases, in all walks of life, once a person thinks of money in any activity he ventures into. Money is a secondary part of anything. In economics, it's said by Adam Smith that money makes people selfish that's why they can go to work every day. Without the need to make money, people wouldn't have been waking up in the morning, taking a shower, and queueing in traffic for hours till they got to their offices. The same thing applies to gambling. It's true people gamble for money. But, there is a fine line of difference between a gambler who is there to learn and a gambler who is only focused on money. The same applies in the corporate world. Most people are not comfortable with their job, not for anything else, because the pay is less. Have you noticed that when the pay gets increased the same person won't be happy, in the long run, because they have no initial aim of participating or being part of the company? Gamblers are like this too, most gamblers even when the money arrives would still get sad or frustrated in the long run for losing the whole money back to gambling.

They blame themselves forgetting that it's just the way it is for gamblers. The same experience serves as an experience to us as gamblers because it's not under our control anymore to just win and stop gambling. The game continues and doesn't stop anytime soon. If a newbie starts gambling with the sole aim of earning money and doesn't see or earn any bucks through gambling, he'd be uncomfortable with gambling or even stop gambling prematurely. But, if he gets few winnings, along the line, you'd notice that he'd continue gambling and wouldn't mind if he's losing more than he's won. The winning only registers in his head, that gambling indeed offers money to people and could be a source of earning money. Hence he'll put all his efforts into earning big through gambling. Added to the numerous big wins of other gamblers sampled on the casino websites. He won't have any reason to control himself until he gets himself into trouble or maybe gets aggressive due to anxiety.

The stress felt by someone who loses money from gambling can increase if he does not realize that he should stop his gambling activities. But because of the increasing stress and emotional factors, he is increasingly unwilling to leave gambling at a loss, and he still wants to turn things around by depositing more money than before. This person has lost control of himself, and if no one reminds him to stop immediately or pulls him out of gambling, he will get deeper into gambling.

This change will happen to everyone, but it depends on how each person reacts to it and manages their emotions so that it doesn't cause problems for them. That's why we have to continue to practice self-control when playing gambling so that we don't experience stress like other people have experienced and we can enjoy the gambling game.