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December 19, 2023, 09:52:15 AM
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Those who can't accept any risky will find it difficult to control their emotions and will likely be easily offended when in advised people closest to them about their irresponsible behavior, and in fact this case often occurs in society, especially for those who are married and there are also those who divorce just because their husband is temperamental and a gambling addicts.

Where I live it also happens frequently and the cause is gambling. However, gambling here is not online gambling which causes divorce, mostly it is cockfighting and billiards. I don't know what the betting system is in billiards, whether they play and bet or someone else plays for them. What is clear is that billiards here are not used for sport or just a hobbies, but for gambling. With the majority working as farmers and drivers, perhaps they will have more financial difficulties which will make their wives not accept their gambling activities.
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December 19, 2023, 09:23:05 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.

There is also another that lost a big amount of money and he decide to put the blame on a co-worker, he stole some.money at work to repay the money he lost in gambling, and make the co-worker look like the culprit, he was arrested and during questioning he confessed it all.

Gambling can change the way you think, either for good or for worse, if you don't risk what you are not ready to lose you won't have any problem, you can only misbehave if you lose money that you aren't prepared to lose, this is also what drives people to committing suicide.

What you said is worrying for other gamblers who suddenly change their mood when they lose a lot of money after gambling online in a casino. But it is possible that such situations do happen.

That's why we should limit the amount of money we bring to the casino as much as possible, and there is no need to bring a large amount of money. Such criminal events are no longer the normal activities of a gambler. Having a gambling addiction does nothing good at all.

At the same time, it is better to take cash and not have credit and debit cards with you. It is also better not to have apps on your phone that allow you to quickly take out a loan or loan. I consider this approach to be the most balanced decision. Because casino situations are different, and if you lose 10 times in a row, while spending your entire deposit, then of course you will want to play again. And at the same time, this will be the wrong desire, even if mathematically it will seem that you need to play again. Being strict about money at the casino is the best remedy for getting addicted.
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December 19, 2023, 08:52:31 AM

A gambler who cannot control himself usually acts like that, winning or losing has a big influence on a gambler's attitude and in my opinion this is what gamblers should pay attention to. They are allowed to gamble as long as they don't involve emotions if they lose, let alone take it out on the people around them. This is really a bad attitude. Indeed, when you win, the feeling of happiness arises because you have made a profit and that is a natural trait within us. but when we lose we must be able to restrain ourselves from being carried away by emotions which will cause a breakdown in household harmony.

And it's true, like your advice, it's better to stop gambling if it makes you emotional. OP has to do everything for the sake of the family because gambling causes more losses than profits. But if the aim is to find entertainment, it's not a problem as long as you can manage your finances and use as little as possible so that it doesn't spend a lot of money. Your advice is good for OP and can be used for gamblers here who behave the same as OP.

This is on point.

Most of the time, gamblers are really carried away by their emotions during the peak and low points in their life. Winning and losing significantly impacts most gambler's behavior and attitude because they are too emotional to begin with. Instead of controlling their emotions, they are swayed which leads to displaying extreme happiness, sadness, or even anger. But if you are going to be a player, you must have the emotional quotient to resist the negative display of behavior. Otherwise, it will destroy you and your relationship with the people around you.

It's true that you should just totally leave gambling if you don't have what it takes to show emotions that are too strong especially if it affects others aside from you. Winning or losing, you must keep your composure as a responsible gambler.

And that's something that most gamblers are unable to succeed in. Having that same composure when they already attach to gambling, there's always changes in terms of behavior, since emotions mostly dominate the person when they already engage or the engagement is that truly far, better to re-assess if you notice that there are changes in how you act.

You can enjoy gambling, but if you see that it is already dominating you, make sure to pause and if you think you can't handle things, better to quit and stop your gambling participation.

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December 19, 2023, 08:48:57 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.

There is also another that lost a big amount of money and he decide to put the blame on a co-worker, he stole some.money at work to repay the money he lost in gambling, and make the co-worker look like the culprit, he was arrested and during questioning he confessed it all.

Gambling can change the way you think, either for good or for worse, if you don't risk what you are not ready to lose you won't have any problem, you can only misbehave if you lose money that you aren't prepared to lose, this is also what drives people to committing suicide.

What you said is worrying for other gamblers who suddenly change their mood when they lose a lot of money after gambling online in a casino. But it is possible that such situations do happen.

That's why we should limit the amount of money we bring to the casino as much as possible, and there is no need to bring a large amount of money. Such criminal events are no longer the normal activities of a gambler. Having a gambling addiction does nothing good at all.
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December 19, 2023, 08:26:03 AM

Yes, you are right on this one on which if you do know that you are really just that spending on the amount on which you can afford to lose then you would really be having that much calmer mind comparing into those people who had been using already those important funds or money on which already allocated for something then you would really be having that kind of emotion spike on the time that you would really be losing those funds on which it is really that something you can compare when you are really that being too impulsive when you are using those funds which you cant afford to lose. There are ones who do really be able to handle out themselves with gambling when it comes to emotion but not all would really be that able to do that and this is why we do see that there are
ones who do get easily addicted due on being too impulsive.

Of course, a minimal amount of budget will be able to keep your mental and psychological calm and awake, that's what is more recommended because with that I think you will be enough to avoid the name of addiction, because you are able to accept the condition of defeat because the money you bet is able to account for you. That's very important to note because usually someone will easily do things out of control when they don't accept defeat which ultimately makes them act out of control and instead put a much larger amount because they want to pursue a break-even point that is almost impossible.

I think most of the gamblers will not be able to hold all their emotions when they face such conditions, not only in gambling but in real life as well and I admit I am also quite difficult when I have to hold back to vent emotions because of something. If there are no emotions in humans then I think there will be no people who enter addiction, because emotions are the starting point for people to act out of control which makes them finally trapped in a cycle of addiction consciously and unconsciously. So the point is that the amount of the budget is really important and must be considered.

Indeed, right, the amount of your set budget and that self-control will both give you the barometer not to fall in any type of addiction. I'm pretty sure that if that's an easy task to do, we will not see too many people addicted to gambling. Neither are you just enjoying yourself nor aiming to make money. Both carry that emotion behind. It's more about how you manage to stay with your plan and keep that emotion out of the picture. Once you exceed if ever that there's an unnecessary situation, always remember to pause and take that break to reset your composure.

It's more about the way you take that challenge and how good you are at keeping the balance inside you. The more pressure you get, the more focused you should be. Keep it in mind that sway in any behavioral only takes place when adrenaline has already altered inside.

Yes it always starts with the smallest things that we or they never expect, like I said it starts with putting a large budget amount that certainly can't be accounted for losing then obviously over time if they can't change their aggressive approach then obviously subconsciously I'm sure they will end up addicted, which is why you may also often hear the idea of advice that always use a small budget amount or the intention is that it won't be a problem for you if the result is losing.

Not only that but I think you'll also avoid some of the other stresses of losing if you only put small amounts in, you'll usually feel more calm and awake and also obviously in terms of mindfulness you can definitely maintain that in every session if you approach it correctly. With the awareness that they have then I think they are less likely to do things that are out of control, setting limits, reducing the amount of budget and also by not setting any expectations I think those are some important points that all gamblers should consider and be encouraged to do if they really want to survive and avoid addiction.
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December 19, 2023, 06:48:13 AM

Escaping from this kind of addiction is not possible if the player blames others for his losses. Dealing with gamblers with such an ill behavior; the transfer of aggression, affects the happiness of the people around him. Society loves to be safe from trouble, hence a gambler who attacks the happiness of others, after losing huge amounts in gambling, won't be loved. Distancing from our loved ones to a place where we'd hardly see people we know could help. Just like in the case of Goxcraft. Yet loneliness can be dangerous for the addict, as he'd pass through too many hardships, struggling to change. Going to therapy would help as they have new ways of healing gamblers in this state of life. Giving them assignments or tasks to complete. Endeavoring that the addict meets up with therapy sessions, could help him change. And redirect his actions to something better.

Staying lonely only puts the addict in a situation where he thinks nothing can be done to save him from the problem. That's why an addict who distances himself from loved ones and still gambles won't be able to change. Sharing our pains with others is also a reasonable method of changing to a better person. Whenever we are alone, we tend to keep ourselves busy with gambling. Therefore reducing our funds and risking our finances. Which isn't a great idea for an addict. Taking loans can be his next decision. Worsening the situation and increasing anxiety. So, the best thing is not to get to this stage of addiction in the first instance. Not everybody would be lucky enough to escape it. Gambling addiction is very hard to cure, and therapists know this, as it'll be hard to switch the addiction to something else. Our main goal as gamblers is to derive joy through gambling, any opposition to that would introduce anger and tough days in the life of the gambler and his loved ones.
Whenever a player starts playing and is in a possible addiction it is difficult for him to manage his emotions, in fact what led him to an addiction is the same fact that he could not control his emotions, I had seen in a thread where a person Is she guilty of being a seradict? Maybe yes, we are adults, it is assumed that someone who plays in a casino is an addicted person, right? But when we are in a place that has to do with luck and considering that things are hard enough to win, then You have to put a lot of emphasis on not doing much because you want to improve the game, the addicted player will always find excuses to play, some say that they discovered how to win, and how to beat the system, which is totally false, so in this case order of ideas a person with this type of problem has to be treated quickly, whether with a psychologist or doing any other type of activity.

In a casino, when we see a person with an addiction, it can be said that many of them know how to hide it, but if not, there are others who are very obvious, they can see you and ask for money like that out of nowhere, now if you are known, friend or something, well, with more reason they can ask you for money, that is something that we have to see and sometimes addiction makes them lose all kinds of pain, that is something that cannot be avoided, the very addiction takes away everything those prejudices, then we could also think that when a person becomes aware that everything can change, sometimes they resist, they do not agree with the conditions, with the criteria of those who know and they can become very brave if they realize that they should lower the intensity of gambling a little, but things should be like that because otherwise you can have quite a few consequences for everything, because not only do you lose money, some lose friends, others family, that's just the worst thing in the world, some even they die.

Addiction puts lots of underlying problems in the life of the gambler and the emotional trauma addicts face through gambling, hardly erases from their memory. Even when they're done with therapy and choose to avoid gambling. If you've hung out with them, you'd notice that their memory has been flooded with lots of agony and anguish, which they won't stop talking about when with a close friend. Gamblers who try to avoid these ill treatments from family and friends, tend to hide their addiction. Because losing our loved ones isn't an easy experience in life, and it hurts the most when we are aware that these people left due to the result of our actions. Surviving gambling addiction is difficult, but possible, removing the memory it creates is impossible as it's cemented in our brain and that of our loved ones, who were affected by the addict's ill behavior. The addicts disturb their mental peace. Continuously asking for money, with no meaningful results or explanation for what they did with their money.

Remember whenever we abuse a privilege it's almost like hurting ourselves indirectly. These loved ones can't sleep at night without wondering about whether to send the money or not. This affects the lifestyle of the addict's loved ones and could deter their productivity. Hence, they can't help, but avoid the addict, to suffer alone, as they wouldn't want to be affected by the problem of their addicted brother or husband. However, the thoughts we have on addicts get different, when we understand that they are not in control of their actions and emotions. Mental disorder is a chronicle disease and can lead to physical pains and then to death. It also costs lots of funds to cure, as it may take many months for the addict to be completely gambling-free.  So if the person is capable of changing his decisions, then his addiction hasn't gotten too deep, and such a player could be considered lucky and needs to be helped immediately, or if he can lower gradually the rate at which he gambles, then he won't cross to the side of addiction where the addict won't be able to help himself.


Well, in itself, every time a person becomes Addicted , things are very Difficult, they are quite complicated and they can make many people able or willing to see things very badly , because in itself this addiction is a serious problem, as you can see. It has been said that there are cases where there is no control over the people who suffer from it , they go into depression so much that some people stop living, and for that reason , when you notice an option to have this, it is good that you can do something quickly , that is to say, Every time you have the suspicion that there is a risk of an Addiction because it could Happen that the person is in a very bad moment in his life and needs all the necessary action to overcome it, I say that a person when he is like this then he has to have all help, leave what you have and take Advantage of it so that that Person Receives all the tension , the reasons why you Started with the Addiction at that moment no longer matter , what is interesting is that you can acquire a way to get rid of it , then It's cool , this is something delicate.

Some people sometimes do not notice it , they notice it and because they almost have no Money to face a problem like this , in every game of chance the problems will always be involved, and the way some people solve it, that is, when a person He faced this thing about the casinos and he was losing and he doesn't know how to deal well with what they can do. It is hard for him to be able to defeat himself if he is addicted , because sometimes the person's attitude towards himself can be normal, when changes occur. In their personality given by the game of chance, the person will think that these are normal Things and that they are under the same influence of doing things like that, I could say that until now when you have this type of things you have to attack quickly because it is the Beginning , and of course the most Alarming thing are the changes in Attitude , behavior and above all the changes that there is less money for things and that the Person stops buying or doing Certain necessary things that are very Basic in their life.
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December 19, 2023, 06:43:00 AM

A gambler who cannot control himself usually acts like that, winning or losing has a big influence on a gambler's attitude and in my opinion this is what gamblers should pay attention to. They are allowed to gamble as long as they don't involve emotions if they lose, let alone take it out on the people around them. This is really a bad attitude. Indeed, when you win, the feeling of happiness arises because you have made a profit and that is a natural trait within us. but when we lose we must be able to restrain ourselves from being carried away by emotions which will cause a breakdown in household harmony.

And it's true, like your advice, it's better to stop gambling if it makes you emotional. OP has to do everything for the sake of the family because gambling causes more losses than profits. But if the aim is to find entertainment, it's not a problem as long as you can manage your finances and use as little as possible so that it doesn't spend a lot of money. Your advice is good for OP and can be used for gamblers here who behave the same as OP.

This is on point.

Most of the time, gamblers are really carried away by their emotions during the peak and low points in their life. Winning and losing significantly impacts most gambler's behavior and attitude because they are too emotional to begin with. Instead of controlling their emotions, they are swayed which leads to displaying extreme happiness, sadness, or even anger. But if you are going to be a player, you must have the emotional quotient to resist the negative display of behavior. Otherwise, it will destroy you and your relationship with the people around you.

It's true that you should just totally leave gambling if you don't have what it takes to show emotions that are too strong especially if it affects others aside from you. Winning or losing, you must keep your composure as a responsible gambler.
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December 19, 2023, 06:38:08 AM
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Gambling and Behavioral Change!!!
Once. It was just a momentary outburst of emotion that occurred naturally. Anger is an expression that arises because of the defeat that has occurred. When emotions make us angry, sometimes it is difficult to control and often happens when we are with people we know.
Not good, but that's what addicted gamblers often experience.
When winning, the emotional atmosphere is very happy and acts like a very wise person to almost everyone we know.
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December 19, 2023, 06:23:49 AM
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
Never make a promise when you are happy. Profit makes you happy because your brain releases feel-good chemicals when you earn money quickly. You also have to control your anger because your kids or other people shouldn't be affected by your loses. My personal suggestion for you is to stop gambling for profit, gamble for fun, that's all that matters. Every casino game has house edge, that gives them guaranteed advantage over you and also mathematically, the more you gamble, the less chance you have to win, so, don't think like the more I roll slots, the higher my chance will be to win the jackpot. Stop gambling for profit, that's the only advice that I can give you and then you other people around you won't be affected by the anger that gambling causes in you.
A gambler who cannot control himself usually acts like that, winning or losing has a big influence on a gambler's attitude and in my opinion this is what gamblers should pay attention to. They are allowed to gamble as long as they don't involve emotions if they lose, let alone take it out on the people around them. This is really a bad attitude. Indeed, when you win, the feeling of happiness arises because you have made a profit and that is a natural trait within us. but when we lose we must be able to restrain ourselves from being carried away by emotions which will cause a breakdown in household harmony.

And it's true, like your advice, it's better to stop gambling if it makes you emotional. OP has to do everything for the sake of the family because gambling causes more losses than profits. But if the aim is to find entertainment, it's not a problem as long as you can manage your finances and use as little as possible so that it doesn't spend a lot of money. Your advice is good for OP and can be used for gamblers here who behave the same as OP.

I agree with that, winning or losing someone will experience a change. especially if they lose, they will experience a very drastic change where this change is a bad change. someone who likes to gamble and of course the large percentage of defeats that are only obtained makes them change their attitude and behavior, because the defeats that are often obtained are sure they will be upset, it is impossible for them to be okay, at least they will definitely be annoyed with the defeats that are always obtained. This change in attitude can make them a more stubborn person, because their mindset can be damaged by gambling, and they will feel emotional behavior where they will always be angry even with trivial things. Many of them cannot hold their emotions when they lose, many of them are easily emotional when they lose because indeed who is not upset by the defeat of the percentage of upset because the defeat is large, it is natural that they are easily emotional, also not many people can hold their emotions when gambling only certain people do this, gamblers who are wise and have a good mindset maybe they will not be easily emotional, but people like this can also experience the same thing so it cannot be confirmed either.

quitting gambling is not easy, there are many things that must be passed and also must be faced and it is likely that they must be able to face things related to the process of stopping gambling, because in the process of stopping gambling there will be a process that can torment themselves, also they must be able to resist the temptation and desire to gamble, maybe the process will be difficult but if they have a strong determination and are consistent in their choices I think they can do it. Although many of them fail to quit gambling that is not a reason for them not to quit, quitting gambling is not wrong, because it will lead them to better things and make them a better person too. 
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December 19, 2023, 04:25:45 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.
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It would be really terrible if it hurt his parents. It can be assumed that this gambler has lost his mind already. Of course, I personally will always hope that if there is a serious problem, or if I don't agree with my parents' decisions/any words, I will always follow him rather than harm him, especially to save me from gambling. Indeed, I often see violence and changes in the habits of gamblers, but around me no one has tried to take action using a broken bottle to their father.
Sometimes gambling can cause a person behavior to change drastically from being disciplined, friendly and smiling. When fall into gambling, they will often become angry and have difficulty controlling these emotions. Yes, this really depends on a person character, for those who stick to the principle of accepting any risk in gambling then it won't be a big problems for gamblers.
Those who can't accept any risky will find it difficult to control their emotions and will likely be easily offended when in advised people closest to them about their irresponsible behavior, and in fact this case often occurs in society, especially for those who are married and there are also those who divorce just because their husband is temperamental and a gambling addicts.
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December 19, 2023, 03:17:45 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.

There is also another that lost a big amount of money and he decide to put the blame on a co-worker, he stole some.money at work to repay the money he lost in gambling, and make the co-worker look like the culprit, he was arrested and during questioning he confessed it all.

Gambling can change the way you think, either for good or for worse, if you don't risk what you are not ready to lose you won't have any problem, you can only misbehave if you lose money that you aren't prepared to lose, this is also what drives people to committing suicide.
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December 18, 2023, 08:42:34 PM
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
Never make a promise when you are happy. Profit makes you happy because your brain releases feel-good chemicals when you earn money quickly. You also have to control your anger because your kids or other people shouldn't be affected by your loses. My personal suggestion for you is to stop gambling for profit, gamble for fun, that's all that matters. Every casino game has house edge, that gives them guaranteed advantage over you and also mathematically, the more you gamble, the less chance you have to win, so, don't think like the more I roll slots, the higher my chance will be to win the jackpot. Stop gambling for profit, that's the only advice that I can give you and then you other people around you won't be affected by the anger that gambling causes in you.
A gambler who cannot control himself usually acts like that, winning or losing has a big influence on a gambler's attitude and in my opinion this is what gamblers should pay attention to. They are allowed to gamble as long as they don't involve emotions if they lose, let alone take it out on the people around them. This is really a bad attitude. Indeed, when you win, the feeling of happiness arises because you have made a profit and that is a natural trait within us. but when we lose we must be able to restrain ourselves from being carried away by emotions which will cause a breakdown in household harmony.

And it's true, like your advice, it's better to stop gambling if it makes you emotional. OP has to do everything for the sake of the family because gambling causes more losses than profits. But if the aim is to find entertainment, it's not a problem as long as you can manage your finances and use as little as possible so that it doesn't spend a lot of money. Your advice is good for OP and can be used for gamblers here who behave the same as OP.
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December 18, 2023, 11:43:46 AM
Just as trading can cause behavioral changes same with gambling, because any time you win there's this particular feeling You are feeling. And that same feeling can encourage to keep gambling that such wins will continue coming and then end up losing which is the worse, then anger will now come in when trying to get that particular amount you've loss because most of us are form of it. And that when you will lose more. So yeah it can cause behavioral change but we should try and control our emotions ones you loss try and stop for awhile even though there's a urge that u want to make that stake funds you loss. And try to clear your head first. Because it has happened to me a lot.

Glad to have read your response, the impulse to gamble again after a win has to do with the brain. The same applies to other financial activities on earth or even when a child performs well in class and gets rewarded they'll put in extra effort to do better next time. Since the brain is programmed that way, most gamblers are expected to control their actions, or else they'll lose out on their winning. Then after losing out money, the gambler begins to feel bad, and change his behavior against people around him. Especially in a situation where the gambler wouldn't be able to control himself to stop gambling, he'll continue to suffer such pains. While gambling we need to observe our brain reactions to both wins and losses. These things matter as the end product could be very toxic and it'll be great to limit ourselves from becoming a victim of addiction. Instead of yelling at kids around us, the reaction can be reversed to be positive.

Playing with those kids, telling stories, and solving problems together is the fastest method of cooling the brain. It's my best therapy for stress. Gamblers are faced with too much stress, and they won't know the solution or ways of cooling off their brain to think straight and better. When in the right state of mind, a gambler can make good decisions, which would yield him joy, make him money, and stabilize his urge to gamble more. Abstaining from maintaining our mental health would only get our gambling experience into a bad mode. And such gamblers who continue exhibiting transfer of aggression are already considered addicts, because they'll run back to gambling whenever they feel bad, hoping that a win would bring joy to them. Therefore, the gambler needs to change his focus on something else, that is not gambling. People around him can help in administering counseling to the gambler and also advise kids to stop going close to such a person, during the healing process. So that they won't get harmed.
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December 18, 2023, 11:06:33 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.
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It would be really terrible if it hurt his parents. It can be assumed that this gambler has lost his mind already. Of course, I personally will always hope that if there is a serious problem, or if I don't agree with my parents' decisions/any words, I will always follow him rather than harm him, especially to save me from gambling. Indeed, I often see violence and changes in the habits of gamblers, but around me no one has tried to take action using a broken bottle to their father.
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December 18, 2023, 10:15:43 AM
I think that being addicted into some things or activities like in gambling, has nothing to do with behavioural change or also known as bipolar disorder. For example me, I have this condition even before I discovered crypto gambling.

However, it can make our condition worse or can be triggered easily because of it and other similar activities where patience is involved, since it was hard to win in gambling and most of the times, we can lose our hard-earned money with it. But reducing the amount involved and the time spent can help. And then we can add in diverting our attention into other things/activities, right after our gambling sessions.
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December 18, 2023, 10:00:35 AM
Just as trading can cause behavioral changes same with gambling, because any time you win there's this particular feeling You are feeling. And that same feeling can encourage to keep gambling that such wins will continue coming and then end up losing which is the worse, then anger will now come in when trying to get that particular amount you've loss because most of us are form of it. And that when you will lose more. So yeah it can cause behavioral change but we should try and control our emotions ones you loss try and stop for awhile even though there's a urge that u want to make that stake funds you loss. And try to clear your head first. Because it has happened to me alot.
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December 18, 2023, 09:46:42 AM
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
That's a common thing experienced by someone in my opinion and not just when it has to do with gambling, where when something pleasant happens their attitude will be very sweet to the people closest to them, and conversely when something unpleasant happens then even a trivial thing can trigger it. to be angry with anyone we meet.
I also feel the same thing when I win, there is a feeling of happy, even though I don't change my attitude to be more patient and so on, but when I lose, it actually disturbs my concentration at work, that's why it's very important to gamble when you have free time, not at work or when you're going to work, so it doesn't disturb your concentration when the results did not match expectations because we lost.

When someone experiences defeat while gambling, sometimes this can encourage them to continue gambling, because they want to avenge their previous defeat. And quite a few also think that if you often experience defeat, a big win will be closer to being achieved.

Just one loss can make someone behave badly and return to gambling. Especially when he wins..! And when someone gets a big win in gambling, this sometimes encourages someone to bet even crazier, making him even more ambitious to chase bigger wins than before. Because according to him luck was on his side.

And what you say is true, we have to be really wise in managing our time, and don't let gambling become an activity that has a bad impact on ourselves and interferes with other activities. It is indeed difficult to be able to do that, but when we cannot manage our time well, the situation we face will be even more difficult.
Gambling is indeed a fun and entertaining activity, but when we cannot control it well, this gambling will only make us more miserable.
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December 18, 2023, 09:33:31 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.

There is also another that lost a big amount of money and he decide to put the blame on a co-worker, he stole some.money at work to repay the money he lost in gambling, and make the co-worker look like the culprit, he was arrested and during questioning he confessed it all.

Gambling can change the way you think, either for good or for worse, if you don't risk what you are not ready to lose you won't have any problem, you can only misbehave if you lose money that you aren't prepared to lose, this is also what drives people to committing suicide.
This incident is very ironic, I can't imagine someone who hits or criticizes his father until he experiences life-threatening pain and his father is in critical condition in hospital, and many other cases have an impact on changing behavior towards your parents and family, they have lost their mind to hit anything what they saw and their anger was so high that it was uncontrollable, all due to losing at gambling. Gambling addicts who act criminally should be estranged from their families because they can do anything unexpected, unless they realize the mistake of stopping gambling and are willing to be rehabilitated to recover from gambling addiction.
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December 18, 2023, 09:21:49 AM
For better or for worse gambling will definitely affect you mood and behavior. I've seen the most common example being that people are more neurotic and hasty with their decisions, sometimes even hysterical just cause they couldn't for the life of them not let gambling rule their lives. On the other hand I've seen people become more responsible with their money, with some even being able to set up spending allocations and budgets as well as financial planning which they got from gambling.

Gambling can change you. but don't let it be for the worse. We have enough people in the looney bins already, make sure you don't become one of them.
The remark that "For better or for worse gambling will definitely affect your mood and behaviour" is not always applicable as you quoted it, it depends on the gambler, his plan for gambling and the mindset at which he is gambling as well. For me, I always say it's relative because, for example, I don't feel a single thing when I gamble with casinos. Do you know why? It's because I don't ever believe that I can make big money from it. So, this mindset has been helping me for so long and has helped me to prepare my mind and my budget for casinos accurately without mixed psychological feelings. Nowadays, I bet with a very low amount of money with casinos, this is because my mind has been resolved on the fun part that I can derive from it, but not money.

This is why I am convinced and I say it practically that I feel nothing about casino betting. I just don't have a better feeling for the money made and a worse feeling for the money lost as you put it. But for my sportsbook betting, yes, I must say that it often affects my emotions a bit, it's a bit because I mostly gain in it, though I do not bet anyhow, I carefully select my games and I do not put my mind in the result no matter what the outcome states. Maybe that is why it doesn't affect me, and I implore everyone to do the same. The better part is that I do not bet huge money on regular matches but only on crucial matches like the matches that decide the final. UCL final is an example. So, people should try to tame their feelings as much as they can, it's possible, it's about planning and discipline and how they can control their feelings and bet reasonably.
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December 18, 2023, 05:10:18 AM
I know of someone who came back home after losing some money and used a broken bottle on his father because he shouted on him and tried to scold him for his irresponsible way of living, the father landed in a hospital but he nearly lost his life, the son later revealed that he lost a lot of money in gambling and he was so mad that he could do anything to harm anyone.

There is also another that lost a big amount of money and he decide to put the blame on a co-worker, he stole some.money at work to repay the money he lost in gambling, and make the co-worker look like the culprit, he was arrested and during questioning he confessed it all.

Gambling can change the way you think, either for good or for worse, if you don't risk what you are not ready to lose you won't have any problem, you can only misbehave if you lose money that you aren't prepared to lose, this is also what drives people to committing suicide.
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