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January 21, 2018, 09:46:59 PM
you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.
All human actions are based on their own preferences given that he is 18+ aged. Because only after that age he is capable of thinking in multiple ways and to foresee what are the consequence he may face for his actions. Gambling must be one of the action and it should be done only based on personal preferences and should not be due to some other suggestions/compulsion.

I am always playing gambling in a manner it should not affect any of my relationship. Because I value my relationships more than anything else hence I will not let gambling to affect it. Still, in some unfortunate situations gambling impacted my relationship but those were the situations which helped me to understand the real dangers of gambling.

As a gambler there are lots of things that we may encounter specially when to comes to relationships. Sometimes our partners will get jealous of it when we tend to be addicted. But we should not ignore it because at the end of the day our relationship to our spouse must be the number one priority. We go home to them and they are the reasons why we need to earn money.  When we gamble we should  see to it that we have done what we supposed to have done in our respective household and in our work area  because we dont want to ruin our lives. Family must come first then recreation.
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January 20, 2018, 09:12:24 AM
you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.
All human actions are based on their own preferences given that he is 18+ aged. Because only after that age he is capable of thinking in multiple ways and to foresee what are the consequence he may face for his actions. Gambling must be one of the action and it should be done only based on personal preferences and should not be due to some other suggestions/compulsion.

I am always playing gambling in a manner it should not affect any of my relationship. Because I value my relationships more than anything else hence I will not let gambling to affect it. Still, in some unfortunate situations gambling impacted my relationship but those were the situations which helped me to understand the real dangers of gambling.
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January 20, 2018, 07:13:53 AM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.


Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.
That's the reason also why China and South Korea bans crypto, though in terms of gambling its more of the countries beliefs or religion, it's due to greediness one can experience when they keep on doing gambling too much that can lead to addiction and self destruction, that can also affect their community.

Well you don't blame gambling for people's addiction. Each has his own decision making and whether you'll be addiced or not will mostly be up to you. I can understand if some religion doesn't allow gambling ever since, but a person has to be responsible for the results of his actions.
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January 19, 2018, 04:12:42 AM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.


Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.
That's the reason also why China and South Korea bans crypto, though in terms of gambling its more of the countries beliefs or religion, it's due to greediness one can experience when they keep on doing gambling too much that can lead to addiction and self destruction, that can also affect their community.
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January 17, 2018, 04:01:13 AM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.
Every gambler starts gambling as a non-addict but over the time due to frequent gambling they are becoming addicted to gambling and it is highly affecting their most of the relationships.

Gambling with your friends is a good idea but at the same time your friends may enforce you to keep gambling in some situations. If you are strict enough about that then you can continue your safe gambling. Gambling is by nature addictive, some times an addicted friend also will lead to disasters unexpectedly.
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January 16, 2018, 05:34:03 PM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.


Because people get addicted to it. That's why it's a big deal for governments to ban it. And also if people deposit their money into online gambling then the money goes into other countries and out of their country which is bad for them, because they want to keep money inside their borders not give it away.
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January 16, 2018, 04:47:24 PM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling.

But why is it happening? Gambling is not a bad deal. I like gambling with friends, and you can meet a lot of people if you are a gambler.

But i do not like those addicts who are always risking all their money.

And their families shouldn't look at them like if they are bad people, for me, it is fine.

Anyway, i am always trying to be far away from those addicts.
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January 16, 2018, 04:23:49 PM
Here in my county gambling offices are all in a hiding places where no body will get to see the participants let alone making it known  to the families and friends that you are in into gambling. Though in some other part of the world it is a normal practice that nobody participate in hiding or be afraid of people knowing that they are gamblers. 
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January 16, 2018, 03:35:07 PM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.
Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.
Hahaha! If you the two of them are addicted, yeah that is misery, it is okay to play with some spare time both of couples, but getting addicted into it is not good. Playing gambling is just your bonding but don't make gambling as your life. In this generation we need to be practical.
Lol! That would be fun then. If they lost everything they have because of gambling then they can sell one another to sustain their vices. It will be devastating for a couple to be both addicted in gambling. It bringd bad luck and they will reach nothing in their married life.
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January 16, 2018, 03:01:21 PM
It is something very hard to do, i do not like to go to gamble with friends or just with my girlfriend because i would feel like if i am under pressure at that time. But yes, when you make friends on the casino, it is much more better.
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January 16, 2018, 01:41:47 PM
I don't know of any such pairing or relationships where gambling is a common or share interest.  Gambling is still very much considered an activity of shame therefore many people prefer to keep their gambling hobbies as a secret or at least not tell people about it. Personally, i prefer to gamble alone and avoid the distraction of friends.  The only time i have gone gambling in a casino with friends was on a trip to Vegas a few years ago.   But then gambling in Vegas was part of the holiday experience rather than an attempt to win or really enjoy the activity.  
No brother what you are saying is only observed in developing countries or under developed countries.
But if you can research in developed countries, just see them. They have casinos better infrastructure than your business offices and hospitals etc. they prefer to gamble over the jobs. They found it important and intelligent of a person if he is good in gambling.
I guess you have watched it in movies only that how do the casino look like in any of the developed countries. They really look cool because they are places made for to entertain the visitors but the people who we see there are mostly of two types.
Directly associate with the casino i.e. people with jobs at casino who are paid for being at the casino to serve the clients.
The others are visitors/clients of the casino, who comes to casino for gambling after being done with their jobs and work etcetera to spend a quality time. They may be addicted or occasional gamblers.
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January 16, 2018, 12:21:24 PM
Well, this is nothing new! You know, you should not focus on people's relationship statuses because you will just end up stereotyping each of them. Perhaps, these people are good for each other especially so that they complement each other in terms of gambling strategies. Say, the weakness of one is the strength of the other and vice versa. Somewhere along the way what matters is the learning we get from each other. As businesspersons, our goal is to have growth in whatever we are up to. Hence, to gauge someone based on the latter's current relationship status is but a coy in the world of gambling. Gambling here is in general, not just in cryptocurrencies.
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January 16, 2018, 11:59:23 AM
That's fucked up in my eyes.
Maybe just for fun, but like addicts?? Crazy.
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January 16, 2018, 06:22:10 AM
I don't know of any such pairing or relationships where gambling is a common or share interest.  Gambling is still very much considered an activity of shame therefore many people prefer to keep their gambling hobbies as a secret or at least not tell people about it. Personally, i prefer to gamble alone and avoid the distraction of friends.  The only time i have gone gambling in a casino with friends was on a trip to Vegas a few years ago.   But then gambling in Vegas was part of the holiday experience rather than an attempt to win or really enjoy the activity.  
No brother what you are saying is only observed in developing countries or under developed countries.
But if you can research in developed countries, just see them. They have casinos better infrastructure than your business offices and hospitals etc. they prefer to gamble over the jobs. They found it important and intelligent of a person if he is good in gambling.
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January 16, 2018, 12:58:04 AM
No, it would be a sick situation, maybe all would be a disaster because you both are going to easily spend all your money in there. And it would be a chaos.. no offense, but gambler + gambler is not a good combination at all.
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January 15, 2018, 09:38:47 PM
As long we are responsible in our obligations it cannot affect our relationship while playing gambling.We need to control our addiction in playing gambling to not break our relationships with our family.Managing our time to our family and gambling is the best way for not too addicted on it.
The relationship with others reflects on how much you care about them and what you are trying to show. It's going to be a different aura if you try to have a relationship with someone that you don't know and doesn't want to be concerned anything about gambling because it might just be a concern for them. If you know what to do you won't have a problem with relationships.
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January 15, 2018, 07:24:32 PM
As long we are responsible in our obligations it cannot affect our relationship while playing gambling.We need to control our addiction in playing gambling to not break our relationships with our family.Managing our time to our family and gambling is the best way for not too addicted on it.
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January 15, 2018, 06:47:53 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

If you go on gambling make sure that you have to take care of your relationship to your family. Because l experience it before when I was addicted to gambling. My family relationships are destroyed.

Exactly, we must know when to draw the line between family job and gambling in order not to trespass and offend each other. I think a healthy family and relationship will lead to a good profitable gambling life.
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January 15, 2018, 04:35:40 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

If you go on gambling make sure that you have to take care of your relationship to your family. Because l experience it before when I was addicted to gambling. My family relationships are destroyed.
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January 15, 2018, 04:22:44 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.

It is very easy to get carries away in gambling because one will never know how quickly the money will move out from them and thus they will be back to zero. And if one becomes addicted to it they would like to spend more time on gambling effecting their relationship between their families.


Sure, most gamblers are unable to manage their normal lives with the gambling career because they are addicted and keep loosing money to the bookies instead of supporting the families with them. This goes in the long run to affect their relationships with friends and family at large.

Yeah! If someone is against on you about playing gambling it is very uncomfortable. Especially when you have wife and he is against about your playing gambling this is not right at all you need to cooperate with your wife since I believe that A happy wife, a happy life. In order to not ruin your relationship with your wife you need also to consider her not only your self. Because honoring each one of you is the best you have in your relationship. So, what? Gambling or Wife? It's bad but you need to choose your wife than ruined your life because of gambling.
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