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January 15, 2018, 04:07:05 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.

It is very easy to get carries away in gambling because one will never know how quickly the money will move out from them and thus they will be back to zero. And if one becomes addicted to it they would like to spend more time on gambling effecting their relationship between their families.


Sure, most gamblers are unable to manage their normal lives with the gambling career because they are addicted and keep loosing money to the bookies instead of supporting the families with them. This goes in the long run to affect their relationships with friends and family at large.
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January 15, 2018, 12:36:00 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.

It is very easy to get carries away in gambling because one will never know how quickly the money will move out from them and thus they will be back to zero. And if one becomes addicted to it they would like to spend more time on gambling effecting their relationship between their families.


Its really not healthy if both parties are heavily involved in gambling. I can still hear my parents till know telling me to get out of gambling because it will bring hardship at the end, which is true for me.

If can ruin the family, specially the kids if both parents are into gambling and lost all their hard earn money because they are addicted to it. And I don't think that there will be a positive results at the end. Better get out early to not ruin your relationships with you kids and your family.
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January 15, 2018, 12:09:03 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.

It is very easy to get carries away in gambling because one will never know how quickly the money will move out from them and thus they will be back to zero. And if one becomes addicted to it they would like to spend more time on gambling effecting their relationship between their families.
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January 15, 2018, 12:07:54 PM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.
Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.
Hahaha! If you the two of them are addicted, yeah that is misery, it is okay to play with some spare time both of couples, but getting addicted into it is not good. Playing gambling is just your bonding but don't make gambling as your life. In this generation we need to be practical.
I think this kind of couples we see very rarely. Suppose if both addicted people are in relationship i can't imagine how they will handle and how they will live there life. I never saw this kind of people in my life. If any of one person in family addicted to gambling, it would affect the owl family in that both addicted means what will happen just think once.
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January 15, 2018, 11:50:21 AM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
we me and my husband are gambling, but i am proud to say that even we are gambling we are not being addicted in gambling we are just enjoying our life in this society and gambling is  part of our life and we are not that one in relationships that gambling and being not responsible in our childrens. we are proud responsible parents even we are gambling knowing our duties and responsibilities.
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January 15, 2018, 11:13:27 AM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.
Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.
Hahaha! If you the two of them are addicted, yeah that is misery, it is okay to play with some spare time both of couples, but getting addicted into it is not good. Playing gambling is just your bonding but don't make gambling as your life. In this generation we need to be practical.
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January 14, 2018, 10:44:46 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

your question seems odd and hard to understand but i try to figure it out and answer. ive had a friend who is really addicted in gambling especially in card games and we oftenly go out together just to search or opponent in order to start gamble but we dont feel weird at all and infact we rather have a confidence to play gambling if were always together however gambling is still gambling and it doesnt related to something like this or any superstitious belief that we may think of.
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January 14, 2018, 10:30:43 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
For me gambling can affect the life we ​​have. Gambling is not a useful thing and if there is someone who plays gambling and still has a relationship with us then I think it is something that can make things worse. Gambling is very risky and not something we have to do, there are many other things that are far more useful. Gambling can affect many conditions and I'm sure no one is successful because of gambling.
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January 14, 2018, 09:38:49 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.

Women into gambling are very few compared to men though. But I agree with the advice above, gambling is fun as long as it remain a fun activity.
I believe many men hide their addiction to their wife, and this is not good in the long term.
Casino games should remain fun and a possibility to earn a bit of money with some extra money you can afford to lose  Wink
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January 14, 2018, 08:38:51 PM
If gambling only appeals to one person in a relationship, then that relationship won't be healthy and could even turn out badly if the other person is really against it.

What more if both couple are addicted in gambling. Gambling is really not good for a family because it can ruin your family easily specially when the both of our parents always go to gamble. If you really love your family, you will choose good relationships than to gamble. We have a lot of resources to make money, so better to do it on a right way.
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January 14, 2018, 05:13:51 PM
gambling always be recognized as bad habit and only several people can accept their couple is gamblers but i personally never hearing in in my neighborhood there are some people who being gamblers couples but in my opinion as long as they can enjoyed every part of their activities and life normal i think that's no problem moreover if the husbands and their wife are lucky each other then they can double their winning
Definitely right. What is wrong if couples do gamble as long as there are limitations in time and in money or bitcoin. That is their way to bond because they enjoyed each moment. What is wrong is if a person was just forced her/his partner to join or to accompany him/her. Even me and my friends played poker in our house sometimes together with my husband.
idk why some people shun away games like poker by calling it unethical gambling, they seem to fail to realize its just a game, its not always about gambling money, sometimes its just about spending some good time with friends and family.
Gambling isn't always recognized as a bad habit, its just that mostly the outcome of gambling money is not good, people get easily addicted and end up loosing their whole life at stupid stakes. So people made gambling a "taboo" to prevent this from happening. As far as you know what you're doing, its not as bad as they portray it.
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January 14, 2018, 04:18:20 PM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.

This is not healthy for their relationship because greed may lead them to a bigger problem. Yeah having fun in gambling is ok but if you always go to casinos its addiction. If you really love each other you will lead your partner to stop doing that because you know the effect of that if you both continue doing it, well I hope every couple can control their emotion so they will not broke and be separated.
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January 14, 2018, 02:47:34 PM
Family of gamblers? It's really weird when we're having a family like that but maybe it could be amazing if both of you are winning ?

There are whole families of drug addicts just like alcoholics, so what's wrong with just a family of gamblers? Yeah, it sounds kind of ridiculous and weird when you come to think of it and picture it in your mind, I agree, but shouldn't birds of a feather flock together after all? As the saying goes, every Jack has his Jill, and I think Blackjack should have his Blackjill too.
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January 14, 2018, 12:41:18 PM
I don't know of any such pairing or relationships where gambling is a common or share interest.  Gambling is still very much considered an activity of shame therefore many people prefer to keep their gambling hobbies as a secret or at least not tell people about it. Personally, i prefer to gamble alone and avoid the distraction of friends.  The only time i have gone gambling in a casino with friends was on a trip to Vegas a few years ago.   But then gambling in Vegas was part of the holiday experience rather than an attempt to win or really enjoy the activity.  
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January 08, 2018, 07:48:38 AM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yes when people have been together they have been in part of gamble. Like gamble,you need to sacrifice just to earn for everything and show an effort to make all the risk and problem be solve. Stated that it can be a gamble when you are able to have relationship it is the bif fact of life...sacrifices is needed to make your both life prosper and wealth.
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January 08, 2018, 07:41:55 AM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.
Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.
I hope I don't meet someone or couples who are broke because they would try to ask for money and promise to pay it back. That's scary because you know that they would just gamble it and the risk is pretty high compared to average investments. I have friends that came from there and they were buried in debt.

That is really scared that both are saying that they will borrow money so that they could gamble. It is okay to the both couples if they do play gambling games as long as they have time to each other and not addicted to it that  is like  they will borrow money just to play the game. Now We could say that it could be their bonding time and also past time so that is only it  and nothing should be addicted to. It is scared if both of you addicted to it and no one is controling.
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December 29, 2017, 01:47:52 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yeah i have a really close friend of mine who is a gambler and there is nothing sort of weird about that. We even play together sometimes and its great. But , on the other hand i also have relative of mine who also gamble and even knows about me so here comes a bit of awkwardness and i feel really embarrassing and clumsy in front of him. I kind of avoid having too much talk with him.

I guess family sees gambling differently from what a friend or someone outside your family might see. Maybe the family expected so much from you after their investment in you but a friend you meet on the streets who might probably not know how you started out life will be cool with anything including your gambling lifestyle.
Regardless of the popularity and attraction in gambling, there are still many people who consider gambling an unethical thing. Your family will not like it when they come to know that you gamble. They will always advise you to stay away from it, or minimize it. They will want you to do any business activity but gambling. On the other hand, friends will get impressed by your gambling habit.

Gambling ruining lives has good number of stories floating around and being heard quite soon within few weeks apart, so it does gets into notice of elders who wants to save or invest rather than just doing something which nearly wastes it within few minutes or hours. My friends also does not encourage hardcore gambling, but they do bet on games of badminton etc where they just use the money as prize money. I won't say its gambling but kind of betting and a safe and good one.
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December 29, 2017, 12:00:43 PM
gambling always be recognized as bad habit and only several people can accept their couple is gamblers but i personally never hearing in in my neighborhood there are some people who being gamblers couples but in my opinion as long as they can enjoyed every part of their activities and life normal i think that's no problem moreover if the husbands and their wife are lucky each other then they can double their winning
Definitely right. What is wrong if couples do gamble as long as there are limitations in time and in money or bitcoin. That is their way to bond because they enjoyed each moment. What is wrong is if a person was just forced her/his partner to join or to accompany him/her. Even me and my friends played poker in our house sometimes together with my husband.
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December 29, 2017, 07:06:49 AM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yeah i have a really close friend of mine who is a gambler and there is nothing sort of weird about that. We even play together sometimes and its great. But , on the other hand i also have relative of mine who also gamble and even knows about me so here comes a bit of awkwardness and i feel really embarrassing and clumsy in front of him. I kind of avoid having too much talk with him.

I guess family sees gambling differently from what a friend or someone outside your family might see. Maybe the family expected so much from you after their investment in you but a friend you meet on the streets who might probably not know how you started out life will be cool with anything including your gambling lifestyle.
Regardless of the popularity and attraction in gambling, there are still many people who consider gambling an unethical thing. Your family will not like it when they come to know that you gamble. They will always advise you to stay away from it, or minimize it. They will want you to do any business activity but gambling. On the other hand, friends will get impressed by your gambling habit.
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December 28, 2017, 03:38:29 PM
i have plenty of friends and neighbors who are both partners are gamblers they both play and enjoyed it,for me it's okay as long as they understand each other.
Yes, because it is important that both of them wants the same things it is very good for a couple than the other one are gambler while the other are not so there are possibilities that they don't undesirable each other.
Most couples are gambling are fucking brokes because if both lose they gonna sell everything in their house to sastified their gambling addicted . One is enough, two is misery.
I hope I don't meet someone or couples who are broke because they would try to ask for money and promise to pay it back. That's scary because you know that they would just gamble it and the risk is pretty high compared to average investments. I have friends that came from there and they were buried in debt.

It is to be expected. I have seen several couples who are fond of gambling and is living in poverty.  What is bad is that thier children does not deserve this kind of living.  they should have stopped gambling and focus more on the profit generating activities.  Gambling might be a good way to strengthen bond but it also work to weaken relationship when things gone wrong and they can't moderate their gambling activities and as a result they often have arguments since they are lacking money for their daily needs.
Yes, sometimes gambling can destroy any relationship and this is primarily because of time issue, since you already give priority most of the time to gamble then the time for your family will be neglected and worst of all if time comes that you will get addicted that even the family financial will be compromise.
This is problem with all gamblers. Majority of them are ruining their relations, they already two that their families are going away from them or they intentionally losing their families and relations but still they don’t want to understand this factor. So better is to take care of themselves and their relations. Money is nothing without your relations so be aware of this.
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