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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

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Quote from: krishnaverma on February 02, 2018, 12:45:50 AM

This is not strange but I think very probable. It might sound funny but I got a lot of female friends in casinos as well. You have to act confident and follow the basics though. Here you are taking advantage of the fact that both of you have some common interest. This gives you a topic to start the conversation.

unfortunately, I don't get any of female friends in the casino but I have many friends which are female and male on the gambling sites so I think I can make relationships on that site. I think I can take the advantage of the gambling site which is getting a new friend and enjoy the games although I cannot win in every round and I think it is fine for me.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Gambling is not good when this is your life already.Because if you're an addict to gambling you're family might destroy because you have no time for your family. Many families Now are broken home because of addiction in gambling. And lm one of them because it starts like that.We have misundrstanding always because we have so many debts until we separated. So that's a lesson in my life that l can't forget.

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This is not strange but I think very probable. It might sound funny but I got a lot of female friends in casinos as well. You have to act confident and follow the basics though. Here you are taking advantage of the fact that both of you have some common interest. This gives you a topic to start the conversation.

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Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 03:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

it wont really be worth a thing that gambling would really mess your life and relation to someone because of it. Blaming is common because our emotions is the main reason why we do such act but we should really not come to a point where we destroy even important things like relation among people either on our family or our loved ones.

Gambling was destroy relationship of the family, sometimes thru gambling, many families will separated because instead of caring family they become careless because they were become addicted in playing games and losing money. Instead using it for their family they were losing it to the casinos.

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Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 03:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

it wont really be worth a thing that gambling would really mess your life and relation to someone because of it. Blaming is common because our emotions is the main reason why we do such act but we should really not come to a point where we destroy even important things like relation among people either on our family or our loved ones.

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Quote from: guoyu78 on February 01, 2018, 02:59:41 AM

Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 03:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

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Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 03:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

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Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 03:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

It's sad the extent to which addiction can lead gamblers and this lady i think should have tried to help him right at the early stages because she must have been aware since he was able to ask her for money. Getting a psychologist to help this guy earlier would have been the best but for all you know maybe this lady might have been enjoying a lot from the boyfriend when he was winning.

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I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

i know some couple that both gambler,actually they are my uncle and his wife,they have met in casino and got married,until now they are together but had changed their life when their daughter born,they realize what would be the future of isabel(the daughter)if they continued the vices ,now they are focusing in raising isabel and doing job as well

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Quote from: Uno17 on January 28, 2018, 08:17:36 AM

It is commonly happen that compulsive gambling tends to ruin relationship because it affects many aspects in life, such as financial problem may possibly arise, arguments towards one another surely be there and mood swings maybe arise most of the time especially if the gambler had lose, so in other word gambling disorder will surely affect your relationship towards your wife, husband or children, parents and other family members.it’s sad to know when you end up with nothing and nobody with you...

There's nothing wrong if that happen or even the whole family are just involved gambling, IF they have a mindset or just having a limitation of amount that they can afford to lose. There's the saying that " The birds the same feather are flock together". Maybe through gambling they can have a family bonding, so for me there's nothing wrong if you set a limit in gambling. Grin

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It is commonly happen that compulsive gambling tends to ruin relationship because it affects many aspects in life, such as financial problem may possibly arise, arguments towards one another surely be there and mood swings maybe arise most of the time especially if the gambler had lose, so in other word gambling disorder will surely affect your relationship towards your wife, husband or children, parents and other family members.it’s sad to know when you end up with nothing and nobody with you...

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Quote from: leexhin on January 23, 2018, 02:40:06 AM

My wife and I are both bitcoon gambler but we also set our limits on gambling,
Sometimes we even make funs because of it when she lose's some money I would make fun of it and she would be mad for a while.

Lol, that's crazy. To be honest, I will never tell my wife or my family members about my gambling habit. Gambling is considered as bad habit here in my place so reveal our gambling activity to our relatives will cause some problems.

Its good that in a relationship you support each other but I think in not a good way. Gambling is really addicting and it can cause big problem to your family even you set limits. Better to stop it and start focusing on the future of your child which really matters. We should know our priority before making any decision, because in reality we should not waste our time for such activities.

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Quote from: emberbekas on January 23, 2018, 06:49:25 AM

Quote from: leexhin on January 23, 2018, 02:40:06 AM

My wife and I are both bitcoon gambler but we also set our limits on gambling,
Sometimes we even make funs because of it when she lose's some money I would make fun of it and she would be mad for a while.

Lol, that's crazy. To be honest, I will never tell my wife or my family members about my gambling habit. Gambling is considered as bad habit here in my place so reveal our gambling activity to our relatives will cause some problems.

Same here I don't tell my parents and my girlfriend whenever I gamble because I don't want them to think that I am a gambler and my parents would never want me to gamble so its better to just keep it to myself.

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Quote from: cipher-x_09 on January 26, 2018, 07:37:39 AM

I personally think it is kinda cool both people who both have the same hobbit and specially gambling because this is rarely to see, this is actually kinda great for as long as both of them are not that very much addictive and both the limitations meanings they know went to stop. Gambling is actually not that bad, it is only getting bad image becauae of people who don't know when to stop.

But I less agreed, because if they are gambled then I’m sure they’re not going to get happiness in a relationship because usually gambled it will make the connection was becoming romantic and will only waste of money in have could even spent all the only to gambled

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I personally think it is kinda cool both people who both have the same hobbit and specially gambling because this is rarely to see, this is actually kinda great for as long as both of them are not that very much addictive and both the limitations meanings they know went to stop. Gambling is actually not that bad, it is only getting bad image becauae of people who don't know when to stop.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

That’s why they always say that one of the secrets for a lasting committment is for you both to share the same characteristics or same wants and needs. Its important that couples try to embrace what the other one would like, however I still think that being in a place where a person is uncomfortable in this they might need to consider what is more important gambling and gaming or love.

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Quote from: leexhin on January 23, 2018, 02:40:06 AM

My wife and I are both bitcoon gambler but we also set our limits on gambling,
Sometimes we even make funs because of it when she lose's some money I would make fun of it and she would be mad for a while.

As long as your both in control and have excess budget for gambling then that's a good bonding, my partner and I likes playing poker and dice a lot before, when were not that busy we really took time to play together, it's nice that you both enjoyed doing same stuffs. Though I don't really think that gambling is a big issue when your both setting limits and didn't get too addicted on it.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

That may not be a good coupling, I believe. There needs to be someone with a more controlled mindset who will keep the other in check. Or else both may just lose control and gamble away all day

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