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Quote from: Shinpako09 on February 09, 2018, 10:53:27 PM

I haven't been on that kind of relationship but i've seen couples here in our place both played gambling and I can say it's not that good coz sometimes they lost both and no one will stop them or atleast instruct them that it is wrong as they are both a gamblers.

Yeah you are right,if both of them are gamblers then they can't able to have a healthy life if both of them addicted to it or losing continiously,So gambling will affect the realtionships if they are exceed their limits otherwise it a great fun to spend time together.

We can gambling but when time comes that gambling will dictate us that means we lose control and it's not good for us.
It will destroy relationship as you will lose time to things you love to do before and we know family time is very valuable but gambling will take that from you.

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Quote from: Shinpako09 on February 09, 2018, 10:53:27 PM

I haven't been on that kind of relationship but i've seen couples here in our place both played gambling and I can say it's not that good coz sometimes they lost both and no one will stop them or atleast instruct them that it is wrong as they are both a gamblers.

Yeah you are right,if both of them are gamblers then they can't able to have a healthy life if both of them addicted to it or losing continiously,So gambling will affect the realtionships if they are exceed their limits otherwise it a great fun to spend time together.

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Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Gambling and relationship should not be together because most of families Now is a broken home. We have to control ourselves in gambling. We have to face our family first before gambling. Gambling is not good in relationship.

That's mostly problem in gambling if all family involved in gambling, what i mean maybe the cause of arguments or cause of fights each other because of losing money to each gambler. But it depends upon if all members of the family having a work each then maybe that right to get involved in gambling.

But some of them they used gambling as a family bonding it is okay if they have a limit in gambling not to lose their all money on gambling.
Much better if they put limitation in spending money on gambling.

We often see the elder brother or sister involve in gambling, but they never let their younger brothers or sister to start gambling. They know the fact about gambling and therefore they try to keep them away from gambling. In fact gambling is a game of luck and most probably we lose our money in gambling because we never remain as lucky for every time.

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It's indeed a bit strange. Sometimes an awkward moment.
But in our place that's not normal. We value good moral and right conduct.
We don't let children of today see us that way.

For me, much better to have a good relationship.

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I haven't been on that kind of relationship but i've seen couples here in our place both played gambling and I can say it's not that good coz sometimes they lost both and no one will stop them or atleast instruct them that it is wrong as they are both a gamblers.

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Quote from: ELEL_ELEL on February 09, 2018, 05:50:40 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Gambling and relationship should not be together because most of families Now is a broken home. We have to control ourselves in gambling. We have to face our family first before gambling. Gambling is not good in relationship.

That's mostly problem in gambling if all family involved in gambling, what i mean maybe the cause of arguments or cause of fights each other because of losing money to each gambler. But it depends upon if all members of the family having a work each then maybe that right to get involved in gambling.

But some of them they used gambling as a family bonding it is okay if they have a limit in gambling not to lose their all money on gambling.
Much better if they put limitation in spending money on gambling.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Gambling and relationship should not be together because most of families Now is a broken home. We have to control ourselves in gambling. We have to face our family first before gambling. Gambling is not good in relationship.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

My father is a gambler.. ever since i was little, as much as i could remember, he is hooked with gambling. It was never easy if someone in your family is addicted to gambling. The roots of all the fights they had with my mom. Unstable financial status during that time since my mom was a plain housewife and my dad had to gamble as a source of income. But most of the time he end up losing all his money.. it was difficult but me and my sisters struggle to finish college. Good thing our mom never give up on us and somehow our father helps with schools finances despite of his addiction in gambling..it was never easy but we survive.

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Quote from: Opekin on February 03, 2018, 08:27:44 AM

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

Not only gambling involving money in relationship can create problems, therefore i think it is better to keep the both at distance from each other. You should give preference to your relation over gambling, and through this way you can protect save your relation, because i have seen so many people who lost their good friends because of gambling.

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Quote from: gabmen on February 04, 2018, 09:40:58 AM

Lol. They may have a strong bond but dry bank accounts. Imagine how hard it will be for example if they had kids and they're both in a casino shredding away money that can be used for their family. It probably is okay if they don't have any kids yet but still, no one will try to restrain the other because both of them have the same outlook towards gambling.

You made a god point there. It made me rethink something about marriage. Both partners should be actually in different profession so that if the demand of one of the profession declines, other person can make up. Regarding spending the money for household expenses on gambling, that is really a bad idea. People not able to control the erge to spend huge amount of money in gambling should remain single.

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Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 04:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

I definitely agree with you, but maybe the other person was mad not because their relationship was not that strong, maybe it is because the other one was trying to help the other one to overcome his addiction to gambling, because if you are going to forgive all the time, that person who is addicted to gambling wouldn't learn his lessons.

There is no such good or bad relationship upon gambling it depends on how we are going to handle it. We have to set our priorities and do not ever forget that everything we are doing is for our family. So do not allow to destroy your relationship with your love ones because of gambling. Make them your inspiration.

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Quote from: Opekin on February 03, 2018, 08:27:44 AM

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

I have a little bit different opinion in this regard. Even if the couple has a strong relationship between them but when one will lose money or something else to beloved one, there will be a feeling of distrusting coming from inner side which will be saying to him that he’s not your faithful friend. I think that feeling will make their bond weaker than it was before gambling. I am saying this because I have experienced this thing many times in my life.

Quote from: nelsledma on February 08, 2018, 04:24:57 AM

I don't really like this idea of having a partner with same disease as me.

That sounds like a great thought. Having your partner into a profitable business must be a good idea but not into same frustrating area where you may catch your life time failures too.

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Quote from: Opekin on February 03, 2018, 08:27:44 AM

Quote from: Rrtt on February 02, 2018, 09:01:55 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

Precisely, if they use this habits to make a stronger bonds then they will enjoy their healthy relationship as they will continue enjoying their partnership alongside with this activity, there's no danger if they both have good limitations and money management to avoid huge loses, if they can deal with that then they will build strong relationship ahead of them.

And how often you see someone with Limitations and good money management? It is very easy to say this but in reality a hell of a task. Now suppose that the couple starts enjoying this game more as together as they used to individually, how can you expect them to stay in limits afterwards? They would rather spend more time and money enjoying the game together. I don't really like this idea of having a partner with same disease as me.

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Quote from: Opekin on February 03, 2018, 08:27:44 AM

Quote from: Rrtt on February 02, 2018, 09:01:55 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

Precisely, if they use this habits to make a stronger bonds then they will enjoy their healthy relationship as they will continue enjoying their partnership alongside with this activity, there's no danger if they both have good limitations and money management to avoid huge loses, if they can deal with that then they will build strong relationship ahead of them.

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Quote from: BlockEye on February 01, 2018, 10:37:43 AM

Quote from: guoyu78 on February 01, 2018, 03:59:41 AM

Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 04:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

Maybe many of you have seen such couples who are one separated only for the reason that gambling had imparted between them. The boy is more curious about gambling than his girlfriend and she is always expecting him to be more concerned about him over everything. And this made the scene a little disturbed and such relationships just break without any delay.

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Quote from: Opekin on February 03, 2018, 08:27:44 AM

Quote from: Rrtt on February 02, 2018, 09:01:55 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

Lol. They may have a strong bond but dry bank accounts. Imagine how hard it will be for example if they had kids and they're both in a casino shredding away money that can be used for their family. It probably is okay if they don't have any kids yet but still, no one will try to restrain the other because both of them have the same outlook towards gambling.

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Quote from: BlockEye on February 01, 2018, 10:37:43 AM

Quote from: guoyu78 on February 01, 2018, 03:59:41 AM

Quote from: ApocalypseNow on January 29, 2018, 04:26:50 AM

I have known some couple that this girl's boyfriend is very addicted in gambling and because of that the girl left the guy. The nightmare of the girl started when the guy threatens her to give money or else he will spread her naked pics in the social media. The guy was prisoned by the way but we can see gambling addiction really put relationships to hell.

Now that you have mentioned it, I am afraid I cannot stop myself from discussing this problem of our society. You know what, I also come across many such cases on daily basis where a girl’s naked photos are used as a weapon to make her slave according to the wish of pic holder.

First of all, it is the fault of the girl who gave away such pics. It is very unethical and unnecessary. Secondly, no real man would do such a low act. But above all, both genders should avoid gambling.

It's not fair to blame someone, relationship should felt secure and respected, it just mean that their relationship were not that strong enough that it can easily break through gambling, that man maybe gets too addicted in gambling that his girlfriend and threatening someone will not lead into any good outcome. Avoid gambling if they knew they can't control it or if there's anyone in the relationship who can't control one another.

I definitely agree with you, but maybe the other person was mad not because their relationship was not that strong, maybe it is because the other one was trying to help the other one to overcome his addiction to gambling, because if you are going to forgive all the time, that person who is addicted to gambling wouldn't learn his lessons.

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Quote from: Rrtt on February 02, 2018, 09:01:55 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 08:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

In my own opinion i don't like if both of you (couple) are into gambling. If it involves money and the lack of it usually shakes up the relationship. Good if you keep on winning but when you start to lose that's the time when your relation will be dented and usually leads to break-up. Have seen that myself.

I think there are only two different views that may result to a couple who both gamble. One is that they will have strong bond that may result to stronger relationship. Their hobby, which is gambling may be a good experience that they may enjoy and share together. On the other hand, this may also be the cause of their misunderstanding that may affect their relationship

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To have a friend or someone close to you who is sharing the same thing you are doing is very important and comforting. You feel that you have someone that is with you when you lose or you win and that you can exchange experiences with.

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Quote from: krishnaverma on February 02, 2018, 01:45:50 AM

This is not strange but I think very probable. It might sound funny but I got a lot of female friends in casinos as well. You have to act confident and follow the basics though. Here you are taking advantage of the fact that both of you have some common interest. This gives you a topic to start the conversation.

If a spouse equally like gambling indeed can give an interesting conversation because in talking about it would be the same and will exchanged information about the gambling, but I think that if the couple both the same like gambling then will give you a problem in itself as if receiving a whopping then both of them will do things that can hurt without there were given the right because if one doesn’t like gambling mala will definitely reminded to stop and minimizing the loss of gambled

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