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June 06, 2024, 03:40:50 PM
The truth is that what is happening to him is alarming. If I were you, I would look for him everywhere, without money and on the street. It doesn't seem like a very good combination to me. However, whenever we are in a casino and by chance we have had too much to drink, it is not good to gamble. In your brother's case, first it was a huge irresponsibility, because that is not done. If he has a wife and children, spending money is not the right thing to do. I think that what he should do is find money however he can, even if it is borrowed, do the shopping and cover everything, and then let him see how he can pay, but that is not justified, it is totally irresponsible.
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June 06, 2024, 02:43:27 PM
Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels. 

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.
It's a vicious cycle; I can't imagine how addicted the OP's brother is that he didn't even take his family into account; that's unnacceptable. How does he not get a reality check after wasting away his whole salary? Gambling isn't at fault; this would also happen if alcohol were in place or anything else that wasn't done in moderation. Gambling every once in a while rarely causes issues; getting addicted to it is usually the result of a broader issue, such as depression or other mental health illnesses. I cannot find another reason for being so reckless, especially when you have a family to take care of.
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June 06, 2024, 02:30:54 PM
Well I would say gambling is not bad but when you let it control you then you just lost it, cause it can propel you to spend even money that shoudl be used for eating on gambling and you would always be low on cash and sad and on the edge, gambling addiction must be dealt with in its early stage and that's the best way to overcome it .
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June 06, 2024, 02:30:33 PM
Your brother is just an irresponsible gambler based on your story as he literally use all his hard earned money given that he has a family to feed. I don't do that kind of thing because I already learned from my past mistakes in gambling. He mismanaged his gambling funds and what happened to him right now serves not only him but all of us a lesson to spend only few percentages if we really cannot resist avoiding gambling. We should always prioritize our family over gambling and any other vices.
You are absolutely right because on anything we are doing today family comes first before any other thing, I think he really made a big mistake that is why is not really good for us to be too addicted into gambling because this is what too much addicted to gambling causes, although you would not be able to control your self again.

I think that this incident can really be used as an example and proof that when someone enters the addiction phase then they will not think of anything other than gambling, where there will be absolutely no hesitation in terms of making every decision especially when they have money, because the main thing that is on their mind is gambling and gambling, they will not back down before getting something they want like a win, but in the end yes of course like in the case told by the OP that the person went home empty-handed and spent all his salary and abandoned his family.

This is the reason why we always advise to be very careful and maintain a firm awareness when you or anyone tries to get involved in gambling, because if you let your guard down then you will most likely experience a change in mindset that ultimately puts faith and hope in winning in gambling and all that happens because of the many temptations that look tempting that will actually only lead you to addiction.
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June 06, 2024, 02:18:34 PM
Gambling is one of those things where once people get addicted it is very difficult to get out. You notice how many crimes a person has left the family to hide from the family. A person goes into hiding and pretends to be innocent due to debt or family quarrels. 

He became so addicted to gambling that eventually his children and his relatives, who were deprived of a family, all resented him. So all of us who participate in gambling must take care to take a break from gambling addiction, so everyone should retire from gambling for two to three days a week, then the gambling addiction will decrease a lot.
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June 06, 2024, 02:15:41 PM
Your brother is just an irresponsible gambler based on your story as he literally use all his hard earned money given that he has a family to feed. I don't do that kind of thing because I already learned from my past mistakes in gambling. He mismanaged his gambling funds and what happened to him right now serves not only him but all of us a lesson to spend only few percentages if we really cannot resist avoiding gambling. We should always prioritize our family over gambling and any other vices.
You are absolutely right because on anything we are doing today family comes first before any other thing, I think he really made a big mistake that is why is not really good for us to be too addicted into gambling because this is what too much addicted to gambling causes, although you would not be able to control your self again.
I don't think there is anything like being too addicted,if you are addicted,you are addicted,the thing carries a spirit,there is something behind gambling,that the moment you are into it,it controls your Brian and controls your actions that you find it difficult to think Straight.When one is addicted to gambling, every thinking that he does is about gambling,he makes sure  he keeps aside the money that will be used for his gambling,and even if the family does not eat,he doesn't care because he is already into it,and what would even consume him more is chasing loses,he already tries to win back his money that they've won,and that is where the whole problem comes.
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June 06, 2024, 02:06:49 PM
I don’t know if I’m still early on this, but I think and have every feeling that the family isn’t using the right approach to handle this very situation and they really need to recheck their steps so as not to drive the man which is your bro to depression and possible death as this is a very clear case of a sudden  addiction which is mostly as a result of debt or emotional traumas which out to be checked before it gets too late.

Firstly there are quiet some questions that you guys(the family) needs to ask and get the right answers to l, so you can have a better head light to saving your brother.and some of those questions include
- is this the first time your brother isn’t bringing back his salary?
- and also try to check the persons he’s been hanging out with lately
- also try checking the substance his been consuming lately
- and also try checking if his emotional stable
- also try checking if he has any debts his battling
- and also try checking how often his been gambling

I think these above questions and some more will help you guys bring your brother back to live except you’re ready to help him resume his responsibilities ( atleast in a typical Africa home).
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June 06, 2024, 02:03:00 PM
Your brother is just an irresponsible gambler based on your story as he literally use all his hard earned money given that he has a family to feed. I don't do that kind of thing because I already learned from my past mistakes in gambling. He mismanaged his gambling funds and what happened to him right now serves not only him but all of us a lesson to spend only few percentages if we really cannot resist avoiding gambling. We should always prioritize our family over gambling and any other vices.
You are absolutely right because on anything we are doing today family comes first before any other thing, I think he really made a big mistake that is why is not really good for us to be too addicted into gambling because this is what too much addicted to gambling causes, although you would not be able to control your self again.
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June 06, 2024, 01:56:36 PM
Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?


There is a high possibility that this person has been gambling for a long time, maybe he just kept it a secret from his family, or maybe because of greed he didn't realize that he had been gambling for some time and the money he earned was running out little by little. The best thing to do here is once we receive our salary, we go straight home so that the money we hold will not be used anymore, or if you really intend to gamble, maybe we should just set aside a sufficient amount for that because we don't know what will be the outcome of the gambling session we will do.
They did something very stupid to the point of sacrificing the needs of their children and wife. I agree with you. It seems that he has been keeping gambling a secret from his wife for quite a long time. It could be that he is eager to make up for his losses in gambling without thinking about the condition of his children and wife in the future. It could be that he was playing drunk, this is what made him lose control of his game. It's ironic to hear a story like this, if we want to channel our hobby into gambling, we should provide a budget that we spend so that we don't overdo it in gambling games.
Yeah because he might be chasing his previous losses or maybe he is totally new and his greediness leads him to losing all his money and didn't even think there is a family waiting for him which is for me quite irresponsible for a husband like him as he is only thinking of his own urge to gamble.

Of course it is reasonable enough, I always try to contact him especially to know how he is doing. Because his family is under a lot of tension, if he is in hiding then surely the lost money is likely to be recovered I never think of it. Gambling addicts lose money and never get it back, so that's why he's on the run. I tried to contact him to explain that if he has to recover the money it has to be from gambling and not income. But so far I am just in failure and can't find any means of communication to contact him
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June 06, 2024, 01:48:00 PM
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Gambling with your salary when you knkw that some persons depend on it for survival, and he was cool with it. We use our own hands to cause more problems for ourselves by gambling irresponsible.
When he decides to gamble on his main salary, then he can no longer distinguish between what is needed the most and which should actually be stopped.
Someone who is already an addict will use whatever money is important to them to play and bet.

Looking at the facts in my neighborhood, some of them do have the same story as the OP,
and others also use other people's money to gamble.

Eventually all will be gone because they are just addicted, have no gambling strategy and no management is done.
Professional gamblers alone can still lose, especially novice gamblers who rely only on luck to get in.
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June 06, 2024, 10:55:26 AM
Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?


There is a high possibility that this person has been gambling for a long time, maybe he just kept it a secret from his family, or maybe because of greed he didn't realize that he had been gambling for some time and the money he earned was running out little by little. The best thing to do here is once we receive our salary, we go straight home so that the money we hold will not be used anymore, or if you really intend to gamble, maybe we should just set aside a sufficient amount for that because we don't know what will be the outcome of the gambling session we will do.
They did something very stupid to the point of sacrificing the needs of their children and wife. I agree with you. It seems that he has been keeping gambling a secret from his wife for quite a long time. It could be that he is eager to make up for his losses in gambling without thinking about the condition of his children and wife in the future. It could be that he was playing drunk, this is what made him lose control of his game. It's ironic to hear a story like this, if we want to channel our hobby into gambling, we should provide a budget that we spend so that we don't overdo it in gambling games.
Yeah because he might be chasing his previous losses or maybe he is totally new and his greediness leads him to losing all his money and didn't even think there is a family waiting for him which is for me quite irresponsible for a husband like him as he is only thinking of his own urge to gamble.
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June 06, 2024, 10:38:04 AM
That's the power of greediness in gamble. After losing upto half of his salary there was still an option to walk out of there quietly but he chose to stay back to win all that has been lost, what's the essence of visiting the gambling hall in the first place after receiving his salary, that explains how addicted he is. I don't blame gamble for anything, I only blame the gamblers who have given themselves up to addiction and irresponsible gambling. If only they could think critically before making some important decision, I don't think anyone would be addicted. Depression from losing all your money to gamble has made lots of persons do things they ought not to do, like committing suicide and even involve themselves into some criminal activities in other to regain back what has been lost.

I would call it not the power of greediness, but wrong priorities in life. The guy has 4 kids to feed, educate, dress. What would they learn from their father? If there is a problem - run from it. If fathers intention was to use gambling to get more money, then he has chosen a wrong method. What makes this situation worse - the guy left his family and left many people worried. Totally irresponsible. That is what not an adult should do.

Yes, that's right, and I would also say that the man's biggest mistake was prioritizing something that should only be used as a joking activity without taking it too seriously, let alone placing too much hope in winning.

From his intentions, yes, it is indeed good, a father tries to dedicate himself to looking for various opportunities that can make money, but in the end, yes, he is wrong in choosing a method or choosing a place to earn income, because after all, it is a big mistake to put your intention and belief in gambling as a whole. always running randomly to determine the outcome, and as we heard from OP's story that in the end he lost his entire salary in a short time. And I would say that this is the possibility that will be experienced by someone who cannot use rational thinking and common sense well
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June 06, 2024, 10:22:39 AM
Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?


There is a high possibility that this person has been gambling for a long time, maybe he just kept it a secret from his family, or maybe because of greed he didn't realize that he had been gambling for some time and the money he earned was running out little by little. The best thing to do here is once we receive our salary, we go straight home so that the money we hold will not be used anymore, or if you really intend to gamble, maybe we should just set aside a sufficient amount for that because we don't know what will be the outcome of the gambling session we will do.
They did something very stupid to the point of sacrificing the needs of their children and wife. I agree with you. It seems that he has been keeping gambling a secret from his wife for quite a long time. It could be that he is eager to make up for his losses in gambling without thinking about the condition of his children and wife in the future. It could be that he was playing drunk, this is what made him lose control of his game. It's ironic to hear a story like this, if we want to channel our hobby into gambling, we should provide a budget that we spend so that we don't overdo it in gambling games.
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June 06, 2024, 10:14:42 AM
This is sad and  disheartening. Your brother took a wrong move and decision, at least he would have shared and allocated the money properly before using it to gamble, mehnn he has family to take of including his kids, like how on earth if not for anything at least the kids are already in the cycle. This is what leads to broken homes, lack of trust, Fight and issues in Families.
I believe he would realise himself now when there is still time, OP, you can make things up for the family and speak with your brother on how to help him.
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June 06, 2024, 10:02:34 AM
Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money? 
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

The above story is very sad to hear especially the above story is a daily picture of a gambling family. But one thing is very important that your brother should not be caught gambling with the salary he was getting while working in a private company especially as your brother is an educated working man I can't support this in any way. Your brother has nothing to say about humanity especially he does not consider the future of his family and children so he could never have done such a reckless act.
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June 06, 2024, 09:54:34 AM
I wont say your bother's decision on going to gamble with his salary was a big mistake. It might be that the needs for the month the salary wont be enough to cover them up and still remain for other purposes. Perhaps his intention was to gamble a little and get an extra money to work home happily with, knowing full well that he would be able to carter for the family and still have some money left. What your brother did wrong was to foolishly gamble wit all his salary, and the second thing is that he would have removed the money for feeding or i would say the money he was supposed to give his wife for the house upkeep before thinking of going to gamble. It is obvious that he is not a responsible gambler and he dont think before his action. The gamble here is not the mistake but your brother is the mistake. Let him quit it completely, because he is not addicted to it but he cant make good decisions in gamble.
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June 06, 2024, 09:52:56 AM
I tried to contact him today too but I can't get through, Contact Number, WhatsApp, I can't connect with these two. But I never imagined that a gambling addict could be so ruthless. Because his small children and his wife are under a lot of tension, may be rude, or may not leave the house if there is no quarrel. Now his wife is crying saying maybe she left home because of me. By uttering such words, he cried and is under great tension till now.
That must be hard for your brother and his wife because they have a big problem that must be solved. Your brother must go home and admitted that he is playing gambling using his salary and maybe he already becomes addicted to gambling. It's hard but that's the truth so his wife and other family members can starts to helps him to stops his habit from playing gambling. It needs helps from his family to solve the problem and you must find him and asks him to go home, no matters what's happens.

Even though he made a mistake before, if his wife and your family forgive him, he can start a new life with his family. He must quit gambling forever as he already see the effects for him and his family. It's a hard job for your family members but I believe you and your family can do that and convince your brother to comes back to his home and solve the problem.
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June 06, 2024, 09:51:33 AM
And that kind of behavior is no longer normal because he was the one who got angry with his wife when he found out that his wages were spent on gambling. Any wife would be angry when her husband did something like that. It would have been fine if your elder brother apologized, just in case that's not what happened, but he was still angry with his wife.
Actually this can be discussed with his wife that he gambles and needs to gamble for entertainment, I do the same thing gambling on weekends but I tell my wife to limit my gambling budget and I entrust her to manage my salary, so that when there is The trust we give to our partner and even being honest with him means that everything will be fine, but we need to remember that we must gamble for entertainment, not to make money, so we make fatal mistakes when we are addicted to gambling.

The biggest mistake a head of household makes is gambling secretly and being dishonest with his partner, that's why there is a lack of harmony in the family, that's why you have to be mentally prepared for gambling, don't think that gambling can be used as a place to get a steady income, that's wrong, there is no gambling that can make someone rich and make money all the time. The point is, in any family relationship, you have to be open and honest with each other.
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June 06, 2024, 09:45:52 AM
We cannot blame him, but the mistake already committed, imagine the capable of buying and sustaining with that salary, if you are married and have kids I guess making them your priority is a must because you need to save up for all their needs it a lifetime commitment and not just if you cant you will let go, base on your statement your brother hope will come back because he has a family as for now I guess even not your obligation still its better to support them because its family member its not good if you left them too. This mistake will cause a flaw in their relationship.
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June 06, 2024, 09:34:36 AM
That's the power of greediness in gamble. After losing upto half of his salary there was still an option to walk out of there quietly but he chose to stay back to win all that has been lost, what's the essence of visiting the gambling hall in the first place after receiving his salary, that explains how addicted he is. I don't blame gamble for anything, I only blame the gamblers who have given themselves up to addiction and irresponsible gambling. If only they could think critically before making some important decision, I don't think anyone would be addicted. Depression from losing all your money to gamble has made lots of persons do things they ought not to do, like committing suicide and even involve themselves into some criminal activities in other to regain back what has been lost.

I would call it not the power of greediness, but wrong priorities in life. The guy has 4 kids to feed, educate, dress. What would they learn from their father? If there is a problem - run from it. If fathers intention was to use gambling to get more money, then he has chosen a wrong method. What makes this situation worse - the guy left his family and left many people worried. Totally irresponsible. That is what not an adult should do.
Addiction is still the problem of that guy, because when you get addicted, you will hardly use your senses and you will allow your emotions control you in the wrong direction. Addiction has made him not to care about the feelings of his family, and this is the worst of it. Gambling with your salary when you knkw that some persons depend on it for survival, and he was cool with it. We use our own hands to cause more problems for ourselves by gambling irresponsible.
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