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July 30, 2023, 02:26:19 PM
Human brain is not naturally fixed when continuous gambling occurs. For this one should take a break after gambling in order not to get addicted to gambling. A gambler can spend time in a variety of ways during this break. Overall he should take some time away from gambling. One can go for a walk somewhere far away or one can play computer games it depends on one's desire. In this context when a gambler takes a break for some time, he can resume gambling with passion.
And that break can be longer or shorter, depending on how severe the addiction of the gambler. It's always recommended to find other ways to entertain our selves only to get distracted from gambling but we must be careful dealing on those activities because we could also get addicted on them.

We might be gambling free already but we have another problem to solved. I think that's tiring. It's like we are stuck in a loop. To gamble with passion sound serious. I think this is a bad idea as this can make us attach to the activity easily. Some cured addicted gamblers are afraid to try gambling again but this was fine. As they, prevention is better than cure.
legendary
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July 30, 2023, 02:08:24 PM
As I've said, only few who are likely to win, I'm not saying there's a lot of gamblers that do. Well, that's a fact if we lose considering the house always win but as you've said it's better to have some plans then I'd say for you to win you better have a very dedicated plan just for winning but I'd say even with careful planning that wouldn't be enough considering the outcome will not be predicted.

We might have read that line frequently before and personally know that it is a lot more safer if we make a plan before gambling, yet as a human, we always fail and somehow we are also destined to fail first mainly if we are already having a good feeling after winning consecutively because failing will be our best teacher to make a better development next time. Still, just like what you have said, it doesn't give us any certainty.
While without a doubt experience can be the best teacher, if we have to learn everything by experiencing ourselves then our progress will be very slow, it is important to try to learn things by using the experiences of others as well, as doing so ourselves can be incredibly expensive, so someone that can learn to control themselves by just listening to the stories of other gamblers that were unable to do so has in fact gotten massive gains, as they will never lose a massive amount of money when playing at any casino they may like.
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July 30, 2023, 08:57:08 AM
someone who plays gambling he must know the expenses he will use, don't waste too much of your money because of gambling addiction. we play gambling must be disciplined and responsible because if we are not thorough and careful then problems will come to us.
what we need to remember is that we are gamblers, don't be too greedy because greed will harm ourselves and that is not very good.
Actually it's more easy to say than done but when you're in the situation that you're somehow addicted to it, I think that's a different story. I think those who stay discipline are either on the breakeven of what they gambled or they are winning but I do think that they are just few out there.
I would rule out such persons making a constant win throughout the year,otherwise this people would be on the increase,other gamblers would have done the same and since we are seeing the break even as the highest achievement for people who continuously gamble that means that being in profit constantly through gambling is impossible,even in games where skill is more relevant than luck,one dose of bad luck and all your wins are out of the way here also.

I think plan all you want but if you don't stick religiously to it then it won't have any real effect,we will be still struggling and losing in the long term against the casinos.
As I've said, only few who are likely to win, I'm not saying there's a lot of gamblers that do. Well, that's a fact if we lose considering the house always win but as you've said it's better to have some plans then I'd say for you to win you better have a very dedicated plan just for winning but I'd say even with careful planning that wouldn't be enough considering the outcome will not be predicted.

We might have read that line frequently before and personally know that it is a lot more safer if we make a plan before gambling, yet as a human, we always fail and somehow we are also destined to fail first mainly if we are already having a good feeling after winning consecutively because failing will be our best teacher to make a better development next time. Still, just like what you have said, it doesn't give us any certainty.
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July 29, 2023, 01:10:41 PM
Verily, those ensnared by the allure of gambling shall find wisdom in your discourse. Setting a budgetary boundary shall thwart reckless expenditure in the realms of chance.

Yet, for those as yet untainted by the siren song of gambling, it is prudent to abstain. Allocating specific funds for such pursuits, be it weekly or monthly, shall inexorably lead to a habitual indulgence in the game. Alas, this may entice a proclivity towards gambling in those hitherto unaccustomed to such endeavors.

In essence, ensure that the gambling you partake in remains under your dominion.
legendary
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July 29, 2023, 01:04:24 PM
If we planned our gambling bet we should not be going crazy after when we have not meet up our target in gambling, what i expected every gambler is to make table of how much should be spend in gambling and how much should go investment, because money we loses in gambling continuously if we gather it together it will sum up to start a little business. I'm say play gamble with experience, don't use all you have for casino gambling

You can't just simply say that gamblers should go that way. Gamblers have different approaches to gambling.

There are already lots of advice, suggestions, and recommendations on how to deal properly with gambling but still, the worst experiences occur because, after all, "gambling wouldn't be called gambling" in the first place if everything will be smooth here regardless if the gambler will play with care or not.

For me just allow these gamblers to feel the worst in gambling. That will help them how to deal properly with gambling in the long run.

It's either they will learn from it or will become sh*t later on.
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When it comes to learning the ropes of gambling, I don't agree with your "sink or swim" philosophy. Addiction and financial devastation are only two of the many dire consequences that can result. Although there is no better teacher than hard knocks, experience can be a harsh one. Wouldn't it be preferable, instead, to teach people who might gamble how to do so safely and responsibly? It's possible that much suffering and remorse may be avoided if people had access to information explaining the odds and encouraging them to set personal boundaries
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July 29, 2023, 12:15:03 PM
And indeed, that is the reality that we must accept so that we don't become addicted to gambling. We can only risk the money we can afford so we don't have to take excessive risks and experience too many losses. If we can do it well, gambling will not be able to tempt us because we can spend money well and without having to experience gambling addiction like other gamblers. Setting limits and trying to maintain those limits is an important thing that should not be forgotten so that we don't experience big losses and also avoid gambling addiction.
But in fact many gamblers lose control even if they set a spending limit on the gambling budget. The average gambler gets addicted and forgets that they have ruined their own plans for fun, that's because the orientation of their game has changed to multiply money with wins.

It is not easy to control yourself and your passion for gambling especially if you start thinking that you will win x amount on the next try, it is a temptation that often makes gamblers lose more money. Some will chase wins to cover their losses, but most still fail. So in conclusion, gambling is a game where you run the risk of losing money, so gamble as much as you can afford to lose and don't gamble for money.

A lot can happen once you are already in the middle of your activity and it will be a matter of who got the strong mindset to initiate their plan correctly, and that is to leave the table regardless of the result. Most gamblers will ultimately fail if they are exceeding their limits specially if they are already enjoying the game and felt the good pleasure of winning, at that point, they are already off their supposed course because of the fact and will soon start too realize that they are already beyond the lines if they have lost everything.
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July 29, 2023, 11:41:11 AM
It's always been said over time that peeps better gamble responsibly...
It doesn't pay anyone to keep to themselves their ideas on how they're able to solve them addiction problems and spend less on gambling too. I remember seeing peeps suffering as a result of thinking that alot more could be done if they keep playing - so a grownup man stood in front of me and wagered away 250k naira, and he ended up begging for the least TPfare to go home with .... That was bad. According to him, he's got a wife and two kids at home, how was he gonna survive???
I find such people not to be normal because if you are normal and have the ability to think critically, when you know you have a family at home, a wife, and kids, and you are the only one they have to take care of them, you would never gamble all the money that you have got and make yourself totally broke, that is nothing but foolishness. Even if a person thinks that they could win and double the money, there is always the possibility of losing as well.

This is exactly the reason why people always say that you should only gamble with what you can afford to lose if you are gambling away all the money and then begging for some money so that you can catch the bus and go home, there can be no person who can be more miserable than you.
legendary
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July 29, 2023, 09:36:38 AM
Gambling is gambling, investment is investment. Both are different and it depends on each people how much they want to allocate their money for gambling and how much they use for investing.

As what you said , I think it's not a gambing game any more. As my opinion, gambling is a less controlling of mind action, just base on the probability 50/50. So, if you can control your emotion and use strategies and analysis in gambling, it may be a work like trading forex or crypto.
There's nothing like that, controlling your emotion will make you not gamble more than you can afford to lose, there's no strategy in gambling is working and analysis is only based on past performance, past players, etc while every season there's always something new.

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July 29, 2023, 08:43:13 AM
someone who plays gambling he must know the expenses he will use, don't waste too much of your money because of gambling addiction. we play gambling must be disciplined and responsible because if we are not thorough and careful then problems will come to us.
what we need to remember is that we are gamblers, don't be too greedy because greed will harm ourselves and that is not very good.
Actually it's more easy to say than done but when you're in the situation that you're somehow addicted to it, I think that's a different story. I think those who stay discipline are either on the breakeven of what they gambled or they are winning but I do think that they are just few out there.
I would rule out such persons making a constant win throughout the year,otherwise this people would be on the increase,other gamblers would have done the same and since we are seeing the break even as the highest achievement for people who continuously gamble that means that being in profit constantly through gambling is impossible,even in games where skill is more relevant than luck,one dose of bad luck and all your wins are out of the way here also.

I think plan all you want but if you don't stick religiously to it then it won't have any real effect,we will be still struggling and losing in the long term against the casinos.
As I've said, only few who are likely to win, I'm not saying there's a lot of gamblers that do. Well, that's a fact if we lose considering the house always win but as you've said it's better to have some plans then I'd say for you to win you better have a very dedicated plan just for winning but I'd say even with careful planning that wouldn't be enough considering the outcome will not be predicted.
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July 29, 2023, 07:27:16 AM
People don't have statistics to play gamble and that is why some of the gambling enthusiasm do experience (shege in gambling... meaning much loses in a gambling) so it's good for gamblers to know a specific amount that should go out in their wallet weekly or monthly.

As what you said , I think it's not a gambing game any more. As my opinion, gambling is a less controlling of mind action, just base on the probability 50/50. So, if you can control your emotion and use strategies and analysis in gambling, it may be a work like trading forex or crypto.
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July 29, 2023, 06:59:05 AM
If you are running a business how will you know how much you are making every month if you are not keeping records? If you are running a family how will you know the exact amount you are spending on them from your monthly income or paycheck? If you can't do this how will you even be able to safe some money aside? Or how will you invest some money? Many people have this problem unfortunately,  a life without a math is prone to failure, said my late father, who also used to say that, in everything you plan to do always do some calculations first.

You need to know the expenses that always come your way every month and how much from your paycheck will fix the expenses, this should always come first before gambling, things that have high risks like gambling should always come last, this is the only way you will maintain a responsible man.

Between losing a gambling game and going back to your family and your job like nothing happened or losing a gambling game and losing your family and probably your job too, choose one, this is the difference between an irresponsible gambler and a responsible one.
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July 29, 2023, 06:48:24 AM
When it comes to gambling, it is all about luck. When you're lucky even the worst prediction you make will bring you money. The bad part you'll endup losing everything even when you're 100% sure on your prediction but you don't have the luck. From my understanding whatever the care we take and have statistics we'll fail if we don't have the luck. For this reason some limits being set for the day/week/month as suggested by the OP seems to be the better choice.
Luck doesn't strike always that is why winning in gambling isn't on our hands and the more we gamble, the more possible that we lose. If we think that we can earn from doing this, I don't think we have to pursue it because no matter what we do, it is all the same - we definitely still lose.
Gamble responsibly is the best thing to do. If we know how to manage our emotions from not falling into addiction, we can enjoy gambling really. But if not, we are facing hell and huge losses.
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July 29, 2023, 06:24:49 AM
If we planned our gambling bet we should not be going crazy after when we have not meet up our target in gambling,

Is this even possible? Even newbie or experienced gamblers I doubt won't go crazy if they can't meet their respective targets.

Then why do they gamble in the first place if not expecting something in return?

Plan our gambling? It doesn't make sense to do. Just keep ourselves disciplined and know our limits.
The reason why you are sounding this way is that people who gamble never complained to your hearing how they expected to win a gambling and what they budgeted with the money they suppose win in a gambling, many people go crazy after they did not win in gambling because all their hope is that they will win in gambling and when you look at those set of gamblers you can note that they are desperate in the gambling, what I know is that gambling is all about risk and is not what to depend on. but I don't know people that plays gambling but people around me always complain of their lost.
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July 29, 2023, 05:57:10 AM
If we planned our gambling bet we should not be going crazy after when we have not meet up our target in gambling,

Is this even possible? Even newbie or experienced gamblers I doubt won't go crazy if they can't meet their respective targets.

Then why do they gamble in the first place if not expecting something in return?

Plan our gambling? It doesn't make sense to do. Just keep ourselves disciplined and know our limits.
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July 29, 2023, 05:52:28 AM
someone who plays gambling he must know the expenses he will use, don't waste too much of your money because of gambling addiction. we play gambling must be disciplined and responsible because if we are not thorough and careful then problems will come to us.
what we need to remember is that we are gamblers, don't be too greedy because greed will harm ourselves and that is not very good.
Actually it's more easy to say than done but when you're in the situation that you're somehow addicted to it, I think that's a different story. I think those who stay discipline are either on the breakeven of what they gambled or they are winning but I do think that they are just few out there.

I would rule out such persons making a constant win throughout the year,otherwise this people would be on the increase,other gamblers would have done the same and since we are seeing the break even as the highest achievement for people who continuously gamble that means that being in profit constantly through gambling is impossible,even in games where skill is more relevant than luck,one dose of bad luck and all your wins are out of the way here also.

I think plan all you want but if you don't stick religiously to it then it won't have any real effect,we will be still struggling and losing in the long term against the casinos.
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July 29, 2023, 05:45:42 AM
If we planned our gambling bet we should not be going crazy after when we have not meet up our target in gambling, what i expected every gambler is to make table of how much should be spend in gambling and how much should go investment, because money we loses in gambling continuously if we gather it together it will sum up to start a little business. I'm say play gamble with experience, don't use all you have for casino gambling

If we show that we are unable to plan well how we should gamble and get the best desired results from it, gambling itself will take over and plan itself for us, but we may not like the way we may landed with such opinion because not what we expect may come forth in that, we have to learn how to enroll on a coordinate gambling lifestyle and have different experience from what others have which is not common, we should gamble at the best time to do that, engage in doing other things in life at their appropriate time as well and give each aspect the priority they deserve without one being affected for the other.
Even if I do not have all the experiences of gambling myself, I have lived in a place where 70% of the male adults are gamblers and I can assure you, I know quite well how they behave and how addiction happens.
The best way to avoid addiction is not to be very interested in the gambling business.
The more you are very concerned about it, it will be very difficult to leave it.
So, the best thing to do is to follow it up as a fun and not a source of income, by so doing you have other things that will consume the majority of your time.
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July 29, 2023, 05:18:26 AM
But in fact many gamblers lose control even if they set a spending limit on the gambling budget. The average gambler gets addicted and forgets that they have ruined their own plans for fun, that's because the orientation of their game has changed to multiply money with wins.

It is not easy to control yourself and your passion for gambling especially if you start thinking that you will win x amount on the next try, it is a temptation that often makes gamblers lose more money. Some will chase wins to cover their losses, but most still fail. So in conclusion, gambling is a game where you run the risk of losing money, so gamble as much as you can afford to lose and don't gamble for money.
Because they don't have good self-control, they lose control and end up going over the gambling budget. Especially if they can have fun while playing gambling so they can lose control of gambling, we may have experienced this before, so we experience more defeats than usual.

Only by continuing to learn to control ourselves can we do so that we can stay on the right track where we can manage the money we use for gambling. And the temptation of gambling indeed is what often makes us forget to take care of ourselves and not exceed the budget limit for gambling. And don't forget to use the money you can afford to gamble so that if you lose that money, you won't be too sad because you already know the risks.
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July 29, 2023, 03:52:49 AM
someone who plays gambling he must know the expenses he will use, don't waste too much of your money because of gambling addiction. we play gambling must be disciplined and responsible because if we are not thorough and careful then problems will come to us.
what we need to remember is that we are gamblers, don't be too greedy because greed will harm ourselves and that is not very good.
Actually it's more easy to say than done but when you're in the situation that you're somehow addicted to it, I think that's a different story. I think those who stay discipline are either on the breakeven of what they gambled or they are winning but I do think that they are just few out there.
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July 29, 2023, 03:21:25 AM
And we know that a gambler that chases his losses will end up with a bad result. Too many stories that have been told that each gambler that won't stop will have the same ending as the others that have ended with a failure and disappointment. I think every gambler is aware of that if they won't stop but, it just so happen that stopping is a hard thing to do when you're attached and invested to your activity and had dedicated a lot of time on it.

To be fair, I have seen some successful stories when a gambler goes after their losses in a so-called "revenge gambling" spree. They have claimed to recover their money and even getting some additional winnings.

Though, even those those are cases of success, eventually the revenge gambling will inevitably end up in what you have described: a long downfall into a spiral of disappointed and loss of money.
There's possibility that a very few gamblers will have their revenge gambling happen successfully. But this isn't for everyone, it happens rarely, and the typical result that we see is when most of them have that disappointment and you're right that aside from that, losing more money.

In the worst case scenario, those stories could encourage others to do the same, it is easy to leave greed to take over one's mind.
True to that and that's going to give them more idea that they should go for it. And have the basic mindset that, if that happens to the other gamblers and they have successfully recovered, what is it for them for not trying since they're already losing?
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July 29, 2023, 12:37:41 AM
someone who plays gambling he must know the expenses he will use, don't waste too much of your money because of gambling addiction. we play gambling must be disciplined and responsible because if we are not thorough and careful then problems will come to us.
what we need to remember is that we are gamblers, don't be too greedy because greed will harm ourselves and that is not very good.
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