Topic: gambling winner identity - page 7. (Read 1264 times)
Am certain he was not being truth to say the wife would be lazy if she knew of the $$$, am sure his hiding his prize money from family and friends that are more likely to pester him for a share from those millions... But i like his costume it gives him some privacy and continuity of his old life style if he chooses to lay low!
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We should not look at the man's actin had bad or trying to keep the money aways from his family but here he is the better person that understand his family and knows what could happen after if they finally know that he won such a huge amount of money. Since he is able to predict his family and knows what could become of them then he is right and that act of covering his face keeping it anonymous is better because if he revealed his family, his friends, family even enemy might cover after him.
do know the behavior and values of our own family.If you do see that there's a probability for this thing to happen which it would make them lazy then as a family guy
or being a father which you would not be that dumb for not to notice it or being advanced.We might be right or might be wrong but he knows on whats best.
He isnt only that avoiding on his own family possible laziness but also for the sake of safety and security in overall not only on him but also into other family members
which i could say that it isn't a bad idea or decision that had been made.
this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;
source tweet
The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.
what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
We should not look at the man's actin had bad or trying to keep the money aways from his family but here he is the better person that understand his family and knows what could happen after if they finally know that he won such a huge amount of money. source tweet
The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.
what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
Since he is able to predict his family and knows what could become of them then he is right and that act of covering his face keeping it anonymous is better because if he revealed his family, his friends, family even enemy might cover after him.
We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.
^Definitely right, this man who won a big amount probably knows better about his family and this is not a betrayal to his family as long as his intention is good and for the sake of his family. If I were put in his shoe, I will do the same, because this security reason is not about me, it is also about my family, those people who are around will probably have negative intentions toward my family and relatives for kidnap ransom once they heard that there is a lot of money. That is why those who won lottery jackpot prizes hide their identity for safety precautions. 
It's understandable that he doesn't want to show his face in public. But totally hiding it to his wife? Not sure if that would be the right move here. And so I'm 50/50 for his reasons behind, maybe it was good, or something is not right that he doesn't want to share it with his family.
Although we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.
Being secretive on having lots of money you had as a husband then it would be hard to resist on not to buy things for your family like having a brand new car or brand new house which would raise up lots of questionsAlthough we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.
from your wife on where you do get all of those money which you would eventually be revealing out that you had won the lottery but the question is, would you be willing to tell all the amount?
For husbands out there, then it would really be a difficult test of being faithful into our wives.
It's understandable that he doesn't want to show his face in public. But totally hiding it to his wife? Not sure if that would be the right move here. And so I'm 50/50 for his reasons behind, maybe it was good, or something is not right that he doesn't want to share it with his family.
Although we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.
Although we don't want to be judgemental here, but the case involves a lot of money and who knows, human greed knows no boundaries. Again, I can't understand why he will do such an act to conceal and be secretive about it from his family.
We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.
We are all thriving to have a better life.It would be a good idea that you would pretend that you would be building up some business or had some good work online that pays bigand on 5 years time you had pretend that you do make huge earnings which you could gradually make some property spending or purchase which it would really be giving
out a convenience for your family.Yes, we are doing our best on whats for the good for the family which it would be just normal that there might be hesitation
on some people on trusting them up that much but well its their choice and its their money after all.
And we can only conclude that he doesn't want his family know because maybe they will live a lavish lifestyle because of this huge windfall. And perhaps he wanted, specially for this children to experience what life is, again, maybe he was brought to be like this before by his parents as well. He wants to infuse to them that they need to work hard if they want to achieved their dream and not being granted because they are rich because of his father winning the lottery.
What do you mean by you don't want them to lavish the money? The money is in your account and how will they be able to lavish the money, you should just make sure you satisfy them. So even after making money, you want your children to still suffer, I don't think that's proper, as a father you should provide for your children and take care of them and you don't expect them to be suffering because you want them to achieve their dreams. You can still train them well with money and they will still active their dreams. I see no reason why you will win a huge amount and your family members will still be suffering.
The first reason, his relatives coming and knocking on the door to ask for money.
It sounds somehow, how will I be having money then I won't be able to assist my relatives it's kind of bad, how will I feel to have money and my relatives are suffering and I can't assist them, I know you can't really satisfy everyone but you should try your best for them, they are your relatives.
We can’t simply judge him by doing this, there’s a saying that even your family can betray you so this is a good action to avoid any family problem. He can simply make a good living slowly, like purchasing a house or even a car in the time frame of 5 years though I hope he can trust his wife and make a good business together, beside that money is for your family after all.
I may be slight to give the idea to my family that we've got so much money but I won't be vulgar to them at first.
Maybe it will take time for me to make that as a secret but eventually, I will reveal it to them that I've won. Well, that's one big event to my life if that really happens.
I wish that I can get so much money so that I can give it to them.
Maybe it will take time for me to make that as a secret but eventually, I will reveal it to them that I've won. Well, that's one big event to my life if that really happens.
I wish that I can get so much money so that I can give it to them.
The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.
what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
Not on the sense that you arent trusting your wife but we know that money could change a person, im not saying that all people would end up the same but in most cases it would really make you lazy.
The thing you should also mind is that the one you are holding which you wont be ending up on having that lavish spending.Sooner or later it would really be still
be known by family members.Where you would be storing up those money? on your sole bank account? How long you would be keeping this secret?
The man has quite the reason as to why he went disguised in claiming his prize, but whatever those reasons are, winners shouldn't have their identities be in public specially if it involves winning a huge amount. It puts their lives in danger, puts their personal relationship in fragile bridges, and also just gives away a lot of information to other people that might have some interest on the winnings of that person. I believe that there should be a law against publishing public details of winners of whatever contest that involves money, or if there is one they should strengthen its implementation.
I'm actually more curious whether there is an obligation for lottery winners to be documented when giving prizes? If not, then my guess is just for fun.
As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got, meaning to enjoy it for himself, it is better to educate the family to be able to use money properly than to hide it just because of fear of his wife and children being lazy, hopefully not something bad happened to him because it could be that neither he nor his family ended up enjoying anything because of stupid reasons like that
I am also thinking in the same direction, because in this case is it really necessary to do so. But on the other hand I also understand a little because when they spend a large enough amount for the lottery or lottery maybe they need documentation for their report that the winner is real lol.As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got, meaning to enjoy it for himself, it is better to educate the family to be able to use money properly than to hide it just because of fear of his wife and children being lazy, hopefully not something bad happened to him because it could be that neither he nor his family ended up enjoying anything because of stupid reasons like that
But for the person who wins in this case it's actually not the first time I've seen people hide when they make big profits from something like this.
I think he doesn't trust his family or he has other plans which are why he doesn't want to involve his family in the first place the first that you should know is his family he should trust all the members of his family and why does he think that they will change
he just needs to tell his family and be honest with his feeling and his thoughts if his children have a good upbringing they will not turns out what he thinks they might turn out, he should just be honest, whatever he has his family should have a part of it.
he just needs to tell his family and be honest with his feeling and his thoughts if his children have a good upbringing they will not turns out what he thinks they might turn out, he should just be honest, whatever he has his family should have a part of it.
Many people change their lifestyle if they already have the money and with this, I see nothing wrong here beside he will not leave his family just because of this, he can tell it to them at the right time. We don’t know the background of his family and probably something is wrong on handling their finances, and this guy knows how to do it properly. Congrats on your winnings and I hope he will use this money wisely and I just hope that they remain family.
thank you to all who have given their opinions, all of your opinions are really extraordinary and make all sense. I only think from a woman's point of view;
I do sound old-fashioned, but every couple should enjoy the ups and downs in life together and not keep a fatal secret because we don't know when someone's life will end.
- I would support my partner to do the same (as the man did) if he did it to hide his identity from others instead of a partner who accompanies him for life and helps him in doing things every day.
- $30 million is not something that can be easily spent, whether he has no intention of passing it on to his wife and children or making his wife and children happy while they are still alive in this world. what if it turns out that the man plans to marry again with his winning money, or he already has another woman and wants to have fun with the lottery-winning money.
I do sound old-fashioned, but every couple should enjoy the ups and downs in life together and not keep a fatal secret because we don't know when someone's life will end.
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what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
He probably didnt want the lottery company to try to convince him that is why he didnt tell them the real reason why he did what he did.
You think about it, how possible is it for someone to be spending[ a whooping $30 million without his family enjoying from it? he's probably going to buy a house, buy a car, is his family not going to live in that new house with him? are they not going to ride in the new car with him?
He did what he did to hide his identity from the general public not his wife and children, and if i am him or maybe i won such an amount of money, i tell you i would do the same.
On one hand I would feel happy to share the good news with my family so we could all celebrate the money, but keeping the secret also have its own advantages.
Financial privacy means it would be less likely for bad people to approach us and try to scam us and abuse us or even threat us for money.
That "family getting lazy" thing is very situacional, many Asian cultures frown upon the laziness and celebrate hard work, there is a high chance this person is one of those strict parents who want his children to study and work hard and never to become entitled. In that case, I can agree to certain extend to what he did to conceal his identity.
Financial privacy means it would be less likely for bad people to approach us and try to scam us and abuse us or even threat us for money.
That "family getting lazy" thing is very situacional, many Asian cultures frown upon the laziness and celebrate hard work, there is a high chance this person is one of those strict parents who want his children to study and work hard and never to become entitled. In that case, I can agree to certain extend to what he did to conceal his identity.
The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.
what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
Many families have been robbed and killed for an amount not even up to $10,000, not to even talk of 30million that many will be ready to do anything just to be in possession of such huge sum of money. So to me, i see nothing wrong with the idea of the man trying to play safe and not putting either his life or that of his family members in danger if the news happens to goes public and they get to know he was the winner of the $30million.. As he is likely to be prone to risk and attack from robbers. So staying anonymous was indeed the best of idea what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??
What I am going to say is a bit off topic, but still related to the discussion.
In my country, and I'm sure that it is the same in many others, there are some Apps that let you buy lottery, and they keep your ticket in deposit. I think that, in the event you win really big (Euromillions, for example), your personal data may be leaked by them, because they will be worth a lot for advertisers, for example.
I doubt whether this is even legal, but you know... So I don't like to use these Apps, because I'm afraid that, if I win big, my life may end being crazy because of potentially omnipresent unwanted spam.
In my country, and I'm sure that it is the same in many others, there are some Apps that let you buy lottery, and they keep your ticket in deposit. I think that, in the event you win really big (Euromillions, for example), your personal data may be leaked by them, because they will be worth a lot for advertisers, for example.
I doubt whether this is even legal, but you know... So I don't like to use these Apps, because I'm afraid that, if I win big, my life may end being crazy because of potentially omnipresent unwanted spam.
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