In my place, you can gamble on the wake which is normal and a form of sympathy. I was young that time and my dad was playing on the other table called "Mahjong", my Mom was playing "Bingo", and I'm playing card game (Tong-its) that time and it looks like my whole family are playing and aiming to win some money
When I grew up, gambling becomes our source of happiness but suddenly becomes our worst enemy because honestly my parents got separated because of gambling and until now they blame the addiction of my dad. I'm old enough now to realize that was a biggest mistake of my family, to let that addiction ruin our family. I promise to myself not to be like my dad, I will not expose my kids into gambling.
Will you do the same mistakes of my family or you will keep your kids or even yourself away from gambling?
Well, gambling with family is fun. It only depends from person to person if this will lead to a bad habit or if parents will not guide their kids properly. Even without a family of gamblers there are people who are addicted in gambling. Learn from your family's mistake, take note that gambling is not bad as it is intended as a source of entertainment.