Topic: Gay marriage will destabilise family life - page 12. (Read 10664 times)

I'm not afraid of that.

 As soon as they got their rights, you will be forbidden to teach children differently. I just have feeling many normal families will suffer. I won't be surprised that normal families in future will lose their kids if they teach them "wrong".
This will become hate preach.

Do you fear your kids become gay through school teachings?
Or what are you speaking of?

Exactly > You must teach your kids something that spitting to your heritage and culture.
This is will never pass in Russia and countries that respect normal way of life.
Nothing personal. Everyone fights for what he believe.

I don't think gay marriage can destabilize family and everything.. If talking about kids then it even might be a bit vice versa, because a gay couple has kids only if it really wants to. So, they'll do their best to take care of them, whereas heterosexual couples might hate their children for spoiling their life.

So having a family status recognized by the .gov and society is not a major right we - the "normal" population - have?

Tell me what exactly would that change in my or your family life?

I don't have anything against LGBT population, but this is evident that someone pushing their rights as main question everywhere. Agenda exist.
They already have all major rights as we all others have.
Why all others must accept changing in definition "what is family" in order to please some sexual minorities?
What is next?

This is just an attack on normal ordinary family unit.
Admitting rights to LGBT population to have a kids, i will not be father any longer but "PARENT 1"!  My kids in school must learn about same sex marriages and how this is good , and at the same time we can't teach them at home different because we can be punished for preaching hate..

when you look at the bigger picture it changes your mind..
anyway av a nice day and take it easy  

I never though about the first part because im hetero, but it makes a lot of sense.
You just cant get pregant by chance - so getting a kid for a homo couple is something the have definietly though about.
Today most kids that behave bad and are starting crimes are usually from a broken home without perspective for a good future.

What gets said about GAYS hurts me MY SON IS GAY he is such a good kid its unreal and
everyone who meets him always says how good he is..HE IS AN ASSET TO MANKIND NOT A BURDEN

Now for the proof that kids tend to do better if there parents are gay DO your research

some ways, gay parents may bring talents to the table that straight parents don't.

Gay parents "tend to be more motivated, more committed than heterosexual parents on average, because they chose to be parents," said Abbie Goldberg, a psychologist at Clark University in Massachusetts who researches gay and lesbian parenting. Gays and lesbians rarely become parents by accident, compared with an almost 50 percent accidental pregnancy rate among heterosexuals, Goldberg said. "That translates to greater commitment on average and more involvement."

And while research indicates that kids of gay parents show few differences in achievement, mental health, social functioning and other measures, these kids may have the advantage of open-mindedness, tolerance and role models for equitable relationships, according to some research. Not only that, but gays and lesbians are likely to provide homes for difficult-to-place children in the foster system, studies show. (Of course, this isn't to say that heterosexual parents can't bring these same qualities to the parenting table

when 2 gay couples have a child they have them to love to take care of them with all there hearts ..
 a lot of straight couples have children by accident . I.E BROKEN HOMES..
Gays want that child because its not an accident they have planned for it..

Don't get me wrong straight couples who have children can bring up there children just as good..
I am just saying that gay couples tend to do better FACT with there children
BECAUSE THEY ARE WANTED

So that study shows that there were an estimated 221 cases of abuse by gay couples (I think) over a 23 year period.  It was hard to find a number on the total amount of children in foster homes during that period, but there's an average of 400,000 children in one at any time.  That means using that conservative as possible number, there's a 0.055% chance of a child in there being molested by a gay person, or somewhere around 1 in 2,000.  With that number in mind, do you feel confident saying any given child would be better off in straight foster or state care than being adopted by a gay couple?

The child would be much better in a foster home or in an orphanage. If gay parents are rising the kid, then most probably he will be sexually abused, and he will end up as a pedophile when he grows up.

Gay Foster Parents More Apt to Molest (Vol. 17 No. 7 Nov 2002 Journal of the Family Research Institute).

Are Over A Third of Foster Parent Molestations Homosexual?

http://www.familyresearchinst.org/2009/02/are-over-a-third-of-foster-parent-molestations-homosexual/

Who is to decide what a 'real' family is?  If you take out the ability to have a biological child, a gay couple is just as capable of doing everything else as a straight couple is.  Hell, lots of children in foster homes need good places to stay, personally I'd rather have a gay couple take one in than a straight one go and make more kids.

It's stupid to compare LGBT rights to pedophiles.  One is doing things between consenting adults, one is taking away the innocence of a child.

I agree with this statement.
Now, we even have pedophilia movement, pedophiles also wants their rights.
Isn't it crazy?
For the sake of so called democracy and individual rights our governments destroying our social structure and order, destabilize family life etc.
Honestly, real family need support and help now, not Gay marriages.
In many countries we already see more and more divorces, less children and more elderly people.
Such trend, if continue, is road to destruction.
I hope our governments understand it and will do something about it.

Oh no, a child is going to grow up in a loving home that happens to have 2 people of the same sex married instead of a foster home!  The horror, the agony!  /s

Sorry to burst your bubble, but God doesn't exist.  We're here on this planet to make purpose for our self and enjoy life, if for some people that involves getting with somebody of the same sex who are you to say they shouldn't?

the child is traumatized for sure

my God
should not accept gay marriage

anyone ever seen porno gay?

I still have not seen, but only to imagine the disgust me

man marries a woman and reproduce bearing children

gays do not have children which in itself is already easy to see that men should not have sex between them

We are changing the natural order of things

If these people are 'married', I am sure they will be able to adopt.
What kind of life will be giving to these adopted kids?

It's not it's being discouraged not to have kids. These people can't have kids and nothing is wrong with that. Those who can, should, if they want it. But if they're not up for it. Then who are we to impose this on them.

Yeah, diseases and no kids are cool actually as it would reduce global population ^^