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August 24, 2016, 10:37:27 PM
It is never easy to quit gambling due to human greed, when we win, we just want to win more and more, the only way to stop is only when you bust all your coins.

That's not true, quitting is not that hard...Even if you are greedy, you just need to experience a extreme loss that could make you think or have a second thought on your gambling habit... I just noticed, those who don't have obligation in life are the one's always get addicted to gambling, and sometimes those who has a problem...  Smiley
I agree, i have few friends addicted in gambling and they have no family of their own yet maybe thats the reason why they dont care even they lose their money its because they still have no family to spend their money with. btw, most of them has good monthly salary as career man.

I have friends who even have families and they are gambling very often. I even know one friend who gamble every single day. She will go to illegal gambling den and she has been caught and warned several times by the police. If they caught her in these den again, she may end up in jail but she still dont care.
That's quite a problem right there. There is only very little help you can give them, considering the case she's in. And my guess is that even if you want to help her, she may not want to accept your help because she is indeed very addicted to gambling. In my guessing, only time will come and play a role to help most of the addicted gamblers. But, how quick that help will come and save lives is the big real truth here. Always pray for better.
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August 24, 2016, 10:33:10 PM
same with you gambling is not easy for me
all strategy we try it but sometimes we getting lose
and yes thats gambling sometimes we'll win or lose
but if your decision to leave it, its good than you always regret with your losses
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August 24, 2016, 09:59:56 PM
If you have an addictive personality you should use that to your advantage and pick up a hobby in which that is a plus, if let´s say that you begin playing the piano and you liked it, playing more and more will only help you improve your playing, coordination, self-esteem, etc.

If you decided to quit gambling, musical instrument playing is a good way to fully get out of it, starting to study on your favorite piece I think will give you lots of sweat and needs a lot of time to make it, that way you have no time to gambling specially if your attention was shifted to that instrument... There will always be an ear worm that you could hear almost everytime and makes you want to play more...  Smiley
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August 24, 2016, 09:55:57 PM
Gambling is never easy to just give up on the spot. It is take patience and determination to quit.
It is probably the hardest thing for many too do and some usually don't until they have lost it all and can never recover. Lips sealed
People who have addicted to gambling should think that's not so easy to quit and hard to give advice for someone like that.
They couldn't stop it because winning makes them greedy and loses like something to paid, that keep people always coming to play again and again.
This is very true but the gambler has to want to give up this unnatural behavior to want to move forward into getting help if it that severe for them not to want to stop even when they have lost so much so far.

sometimes for some people only, hitting the rock bottom is the only way they will wake up from their mistakes and give them up. and in case of gamblers they have to lose a lot of money and hit that rock bottom of no money then give it up.
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August 24, 2016, 09:35:52 PM
If you have an addictive personality you should use that to your advantage and pick up a hobby in which that is a plus, if let´s say that you begin playing the piano and you liked it, playing more and more will only help you improve your playing, coordination, self-esteem, etc.
Yes make a new hobby considered as can entertain you, make you busy and can boost your self-steem.This step can forget and help you get out in gambling.Like the example above playing piano and my example is playing online games.


That is the best way to give up gambling for real. We know it that it is not going to be easy at all but if you have the will power to stop it then you are going to help yourself.

Why not find a girlfriend and put some time for her and for sure you are going to have something worth than gambling or if you can't.

Go back again to God and serve Him again for sure He is going to help you but you need to do the effort and the rest.
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August 24, 2016, 07:04:03 PM
If you have an addictive personality you should use that to your advantage and pick up a hobby in which that is a plus, if let´s say that you begin playing the piano and you liked it, playing more and more will only help you improve your playing, coordination, self-esteem, etc.
Yes make a new hobby considered as can entertain you, make you busy and can boost your self-steem.This step can forget and help you get out in gambling.Like the example above playing piano and my example is playing online games.
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August 24, 2016, 02:42:40 PM
If you have an addictive personality you should use that to your advantage and pick up a hobby in which that is a plus, if let´s say that you begin playing the piano and you liked it, playing more and more will only help you improve your playing, coordination, self-esteem, etc.
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August 24, 2016, 01:42:24 PM
Gambling is never easy to just give up on the spot. It is take patience and determination to quit.
It is probably the hardest thing for many too do and some usually don't until they have lost it all and can never recover. Lips sealed
People who have addicted to gambling should think that's not so easy to quit and hard to give advice for someone like that.
They couldn't stop it because winning makes them greedy and loses like something to paid, that keep people always coming to play again and again.
This is very true but the gambler has to want to give up this unnatural behavior to want to move forward into getting help if it that severe for them not to want to stop even when they have lost so much so far.
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August 24, 2016, 08:59:55 AM
It is true that giving up gambling its not as easy as people say, especially when you are already addicted to this activity, the best thing you can do is find support from your family and your friends to help you to stop, if this is too severe then you can ask the help from psychiatrist

the first thing is family, then a friends. whithout that, we can not stop gambling. but don't give up, i am sure there is a way to stop from gambling if you really want to stop.

Indeed the main thing in this case is the family, because the family is a force big enough to make us stop or do anything that makes our family happy. If we tell you and invite them to help you so sure your wishes will be quickly realized. But you also have to keep trying in removing the gambling addiction, because if you weaken then help family will not be useful
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August 24, 2016, 06:56:29 AM
It is true that giving up gambling its not as easy as people say, especially when you are already addicted to this activity, the best thing you can do is find support from your family and your friends to help you to stop, if this is too severe then you can ask the help from psychiatrist

the first thing is family, then a friends. whithout that, we can not stop gambling. but don't give up, i am sure there is a way to stop from gambling if you really want to stop.
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August 24, 2016, 06:52:11 AM
Well, it requires a very long time to quit gambling, even if you're really eager to get away from it. You definitely need a few weeks or months until you do not gamble anymore, but maybe you'll start playing again, although it was only once. You may need someone to start away from gambling
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August 24, 2016, 06:17:36 AM
The problem with gambling is that in general once you run out of money, you can't gamble anymore. However depending on how addicted you are you might resort to doing illegal things to obtain money to gamble. Or you might sell personal possessions such as your car, house, xbox to gamble  and both are very bad and will affect your life in a negative way.

That's the highest level of addiction when you sell your car, house, wife and xbox to just continue to gamble. It may look funny but these things like person who have sold their wife to just continue gambling have happened for real and that's the worst it can happen to a person and all because of his addiction in gambling. If this is the case even seeking for help will not help the person. His life has ended but he doesn't realize it yet, may God save us all from such misery.
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August 24, 2016, 05:37:13 AM
The problem with gambling is that in general once you run out of money, you can't gamble anymore. However depending on how addicted you are you might resort to doing illegal things to obtain money to gamble. Or you might sell personal possessions such as your car, house, xbox to gamble  and both are very bad and will affect your life in a negative way.
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August 24, 2016, 05:29:49 AM
Yes ,quiting gambling is not as easy as we think ,but there are many ways to make unstead of gambling fun exploring other kind og investing or reading interesting and good news or stories also will help us .

Its not easy to Quit in gambling
It is really not easy to quit in gambling, we should accept first that we really need to quit because it ruins our life. But of course it is depend on how addicted we are in gambling.
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August 24, 2016, 01:09:33 AM
its need time to quit gambling because its really hards for people which have addicting in gambling. actually if some one have strong intention and really want to quit gambling, first thing that you can do is tell this to your family and tells that you really need help to quit. i think your family will help you and they will support you to quit gambling.

If you are too addicted to gambling, you will keep thinking of gambling non stop. There is no one else that can be there for you the whole time except for your family. So family play a huge roll. However, you also need other supports like your friends and loves one to distract you from keep thinking about gambling. It may not be a long term solution but it will help you to slowly get away from gambling. Professional help is very important is where they will teach you how to control your urge better.
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August 24, 2016, 12:53:23 AM
It is never easy to quit gambling due to human greed, when we win, we just want to win more and more, the only way to stop is only when you bust all your coins.



Even after busting all coins, there are people who borrow and get involved into gambling with the hope that they will win. In my opinion one can have a fixed amount on gambling, after which whether he gets profit or loss needs to stop. If this is followed one can have a better concern with gambling.

Borrow some coin to gambling again is a really risky thing to do because you need to pay some interest in decent time meanwhile if you push your luck to deep you will lose everything. And because of that interest it will be a burden to you and you will not concentrate on your gambling because of you keep thinking on your bet how are you gonna pay them back. Btw giving up on gambling is not that easy to do since most of them are already addicted to gsmbling
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August 24, 2016, 12:30:54 AM
its need time to quit gambling because its really hards for people which have addicting in gambling. actually if some one have strong intention and really want to quit gambling, first thing that you can do is tell this to your family and tells that you really need help to quit. i think your family will help you and they will support you to quit gambling.
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August 23, 2016, 10:07:31 PM
It is true that giving up gambling its not as easy as people say, especially when you are already addicted to this activity, the best thing you can do is find support from your family and your friends to help you to stop, if this is too severe then you can ask the help from psychiatrist
Yeah that is the reality especially when you get addicted to it. Maybe people are just going to say that it is an easy thing to give up gambling.

But when you are going to do the application it is going to be a hard thing to do. And if you can't do it alone.

Then get some professional help or ask your friends to help you for giving up gambling.
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August 23, 2016, 09:14:20 PM
Well another thing you can do is try another addiction to get your mind off gambling. Like get a pet, or start some hobby. Or have a kid, that should keep you pretty busy for a while.
turning your self to another way around is the good way to moved away from gambling making your selg busy with another things will helps a lot if you really intend to move away you must practice self control and be more busy with your other life.

having a decent job and focus in your profession will help you turn away in gambling. and at the same you will have some profit by focusing in your career. and never visit a gambling site and turn off any notifications
that gambling casino send you through email or other means of advertisement. It is hard at first but you can do it with help of your friend and family.
so always maintain social relationship to avoid loneliness that sometimes trigger person for gambling
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August 23, 2016, 09:06:05 PM
It is true that giving up gambling its not as easy as people say, especially when you are already addicted to this activity, the best thing you can do is find support from your family and your friends to help you to stop, if this is too severe then you can ask the help from psychiatrist
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