Granted, these are characteristics of narcissistic
mothers from a random website on the internet
1. Everything she does is deniable
2. She violates your boundaries.
3. She favoritizes.
4. She undermines
5. She demeans, criticizes and denigrates.
6. She makes you look crazy.
7. She's envious.
8. She's a liar in too many ways to count.
9. She has to be the center of attention all the time.
10. She manipulates your emotions in order to feed on your pain.
11. She's selfish and willful.
12. She's self-absorbed.
13. She is insanely defensive and is extremely sensitive to any criticism
14. She terrorizes
15. She's infantile and petty.
16. She's aggressive and shameless.
17. She "parentifies."
18. She's exploitative
19. She projects
20. She is never wrong about anything.
21. She seems to have no awareness that other people even have feelings.
22. She blames.
23. She destroys your relationships.
24. As a last resort she goes pathetic.
I'm not WebMD but I was going to highlight the ones where I thought you fit. I realized it would be easier to highlight the ones you didn't fit under, since there were so few. I decided that would look weird and just let folks decide for themselves.
Gleb, are you actually a doting narcissistic mother? Plot twist! You're Benny & Branny's mom trying to sabotage them?
Bullshit Source:
http://parrishmiller.com/narcissists.html 
