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Never even thought about keeping it a secret from my family. If you are responsible for your own budget and are responsible for what you do yourself, then why should there be any secrets? If there is an understanding of risks and competent budget management, then you will simply see what can bring you money, and where losses occur.

Your family must be really cool and understanding. Coming from a home that is religious doctrine would never understand a bit, society has set a standard for gamblers as irresponsible people that's why they don't show people that they gamble.


I don't know how things are in your country, but in our country many students combine studies with work to become independent of their parents.

In my place, you hardly see varsity students who don't use a sportsbook, they gamble to survive and gamble for fun combine even as they do their outside work to support their academics, sometimes I do feel it is too many Ads of bets they see that do contribute to this behaviour.

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If I found out that my child is gambling with the money I send him to live, I would be very upset. I believe that if a person decides to gamble, he should spend the money he has personally earned, not the money his parents give him. Think about it.
My country's minimum age to start gambling is 18, that's an adult. It is up to him to use it wisely as long he doesn't ask you for another upkeep.

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I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.
then what is the problem if her telling your parents when you are living on your own now? meaning you are still under your parents decisioning ? lol you can choose your own path and no one will dictate what you need to act for your life,
they are only here to advice you for something what is wrong and what is right.
I'm still in college and in another city, I'm currently in my final semester, my parents still send me money, if only my parents knew I was gambling then I'm afraid it would burden them and make everything difficult for me. We are a family that really respects customs and still adheres to the norm that those who are unmarried are under the control of their parents.

I don't know how things are in your country, but in our country many students combine studies with work to become independent of their parents.

If I found out that my child is gambling with the money I send him to live, I would be very upset. I believe that if a person decides to gamble, he should spend the money he has personally earned, not the money his parents give him. Think about it.
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I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.
then what is the problem if her telling your parents when you are living on your own now? meaning you are still under your parents decisioning ? lol you can choose your own path and no one will dictate what you need to act for your life,
they are only here to advice you for something what is wrong and what is right.
I'm still in college and in another city, I'm currently in my final semester, my parents still send me money, if only my parents knew I was gambling then I'm afraid it would burden them and make everything difficult for me. We are a family that really respects customs and still adheres to the norm that those who are unmarried are under the control of their parents.

I think it should be a rule of thumb that we only get to spend money in gambling such as in betting the money we worked hard for and really own. Personally, I find it disappointing the moment I know or see someone spending their parent's hard-earned money to luxurious activities that the former don't know about. If you are still under your parent's care, then you shouldn't use their money for not-so-important activities especially if they are giving it to you for other important purposes. It's hard to generate income, therefore someone must value every cent they didn't really worked hard for and only spend it for the things that their guardians told them to such as using an educational fund for education and not on drugs or other sort of vices.

Let's learn to respect our parent's efforts to make us go to college despite the high tuition fees. It's no joke to save especially with the inflation rate nowadays. Despite knowing that it's their responsibility to send us to school, we must learn how to appreciate and be grateful to them by fulfilling their obligations. We can show it to them by spending the money they give appropriately and of course, studying as much as you can, giving it your all if you are still studying.
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Never even thought about keeping it a secret from my family. If you are responsible for your own budget and are responsible for what you do yourself, then why should there be any secrets? If there is an understanding of risks and competent budget management, then you will simply see what can bring you money, and where losses occur.
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Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol
I can't advise you to keep gambling, and I also gamble, but if I had a family that I need to provide for and they solely depend on me, i think the best advice I can go e you is to stop gambling, that's how no one would find out about it, unless you are really good at it and you are in profit and you can bet with only what you can afford losing, but even in that case you might start losing control, I didn't answer your question but I hope I helped in someway.
Lucky for you that you have no family still so you can do anything with your money? but this does not give you enough reason to gamble much.

respect your funds and keep them intact , just take some part for your gambling activities and maintain big enough for your future.
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I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.
then what is the problem if her telling your parents when you are living on your own now? meaning you are still under your parents decisioning ? lol you can choose your own path and no one will dictate what you need to act for your life,
they are only here to advice you for something what is wrong and what is right.
I'm still in college and in another city, I'm currently in my final semester, my parents still send me money, if only my parents knew I was gambling then I'm afraid it would burden them and make everything difficult for me. We are a family that really respects customs and still adheres to the norm that those who are unmarried are under the control of their parents.
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I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.
then what is the problem if her telling your parents when you are living on your own now? meaning you are still under your parents decisioning ? lol you can choose your own path and no one will dictate what you need to act for your life,
they are only here to advice you for something what is wrong and what is right.
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The only reason I could think of why someone would be so worried of his wife/family knowing about his gambling activities is either because he is addicted or because he gambles with money he is supposed to spend on his family (depriving them from some necessities).
Instead of looking for ways to keep your gambling activities a secret, you should have the courage to talk to your wife about it. If she is a reasonable person then she will not object as long as you are gambling just for fun and do not spend more than you should.
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Hiding would rather be worsen up your relationship yet its never been recommendable that you should hide something from your wife.imho

Hiding something means that we are admitting that we are doing some crappy things that it needs to be hidden from our partner.

Just trust our partners that they will not go against us if we tell them that we are gambling.

In return, we should be responsible for those household responsibilities even while we do gambling.
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Well the argument won’t definitely stop because you keep hiding from her the truth. Just be honest and tell her about mate, after all your money is also her money since everything is conjugal when married. Who knows, she’ll be supporting you in some of your bets as long as you never gamble the funds reserved for the bills and emergency funds. That way, betting will be more exciting.
I agree with you. It is better telling the truth to wife. As long as, he limits the money for betting, I also believe his wife will accept it. But make sure to bet normally, make a certain time to bet, don't bet every time (timeless).

Anyway, I am not sure a wife wants to support her husband to betting or gambling, it is something impossible. But he may allow it with an agreement at least. I'm also a married man, my wife never supports me to bet or gamble. However, he allows me to bet as long as it doesn't bother my time for family, limit the funds, and know when the right time to bet is.


Most of the time where wives wont really be supporting on husbands that do get involved with gambling which is understandable considering that this do really imposes up some risk on getting wrekt on financial.

You cant really be sure that you would really be that able to handle yourself or make yourself avoid on possible addiction specially if you do engage with gambling on an active manner which is susceptible
into that kind of thing which it would be most likely your wife will really be telling that you should stop on what you are doing.

Hiding would rather be worsen up your relationship yet its never been recommendable that you should hide something from your wife.imho
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Well the argument won’t definitely stop because you keep hiding from her the truth. Just be honest and tell her about mate, after all your money is also her money since everything is conjugal when married. Who knows, she’ll be supporting you in some of your bets as long as you never gamble the funds reserved for the bills and emergency funds. That way, betting will be more exciting.
I agree with you. It is better telling the truth to wife. As long as, he limits the money for betting, I also believe his wife will accept it. But make sure to bet normally, make a certain time to bet, don't bet every time (timeless).

Anyway, I am not sure a wife wants to support her husband to betting or gambling, it is something impossible. But she may allow it with an agreement at least. I'm also a married man, my wife never supports me to bet or gamble. However, she allows me to bet as long as it doesn't bother my time for family, limit the funds, and know when the right time to bet is.

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I'm not married yet and I don't live with my family anymore and that's why I don't have to hide when I gamble. but the trick I used when I was living with my parents was to not allow anyone (including my parents and even my girlfriend) to touch my smartphone and laptop. I'm lucky enough to never tell my girlfriend about my gambling activities because she will definitely tell my parents when we fight lol.
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There is no way to hide it forever since your family member will know what you do on gambling websites sooner or later. My suggestion is to talk and explain the difference between addicted gambler and the gamblers put bets sometimes. Probably, they will understand and let you gamble with caution.
The reason why someone is hiding that he gambles is because of the acceptance and probably a family reputation that will make the guy hate that they're not a gambling family.

At first, they won't understand it but eventually, they'll come to tell you that you should do it moderately and the same goes for your wife. The really best way is to talk to them.

Because a time will come that you might get caught by any of them and you have no choice but to admit it since you're caught on act.
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Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol
Well the argument won’t definitely stop because you keep hiding from her the truth. Just be honest and tell her about mate, after all your money is also her money since everything is conjugal when married. Who knows, she’ll be supporting you in some of your bets as long as you never gamble the funds reserved for the bills and emergency funds. That way, betting will be more exciting.
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I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.
Bets at work? I think it is not a proper activity to do at work, only addicted gamblers who don't know where/when a suitable place to bet. TBH, I never bet once I am at work, I only bet when I have done my work/job. Betting or gambling should not bother our job, do it only in our spare time. Sure, to avoid our family knowing it, don't do it when we are gathering with them. Only bet when we are not with them, it can be at home or outside of our home.

The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.
Indeed. Once we are addicted, it has difficult to control ourselves. It may lead to betting excessively. It is no longer healthy betting without any consideration of whether it is at the proper place and at the right time, even worse if we never limit the number to bet daily.

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I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.
The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.
That would be the case but for a careless gambler such as playing gambling at home yet their wife noticed almost everything when there's a difference of the money you have left or let their wife see what they were doing. Although, it's not advisable to hide something from your spouse since most of the time they are going to ask when they already knew just to get what answer you would answer to them if ask. I guess there's no secret of what you are doing if you are a bit addicted to it, so I suggest to keep it moderately to avoid enough suspicion.
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I have a friend who bets on his phone at work, mainly on football matches and he does everything there. He bets using a separate account that he charges via ATM and doesn't do anything related to gambling at home. When he wants to check the matches he does it when he's outside shopping or taking out the trash.
The best way to keep it a secret is to not be addicted. A casual gambler won't have a problem with betting from time to time and never talking about it at home.
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The best thing to for you not allow your family member to know if you play gamble is to be always conscious to take take everything about gambling that will implicate you away from you. Like if you do play offline gamble you can always try not to allow slip to be with you, same thing goes to your phone too.
You wont really be that scared on hiding something if you arent compromising something yet gambling could really be just a past time of yours or stress reliever and as long you arent spending up that

much then it should be fine but there are people who do really see gambling as a negative thing and if your wife do tell that you should stop or quit then better follow it or else you do know on where
it would be heading but if you do tell everything on your wife and she doesnt care on what you do as long you dont forget your responsibility then lucky you but if not then you should stop
to avoid some argumentation.
To me - if you are not allowed to gamble make sure you don't gamble.
Because - when you play in stress and hiding you don't see the result they way you expect to get. Doing anything with free mind brings in different result than the occupied mind.
Agree on what you had said is that whenever you do hide something then you would definitely lose the essence of entertainment or enjoyment since you do know that you are hiding something and trying
your best on not on being caught by your wife or loved ones because if they do then you do know on what would gonna happen or something that you dont like to happen.So it would be better to stop
for good and would neither quit up gambling or would be telling to your wife that you are doing gambling and just like on what Oilacris said that usually your wife wont make out any
reaction as long you are doing your responsibility as a family man.
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The best thing to for you not allow your family member to know if you play gamble is to be always conscious to take take everything about gambling that will implicate you away from you. Like if you do play offline gamble you can always try not to allow slip to be with you, same thing goes to your phone too.
You wont really be that scared on hiding something if you arent compromising something yet gambling could really be just a past time of yours or stress reliever and as long you arent spending up that

much then it should be fine but there are people who do really see gambling as a negative thing and if your wife do tell that you should stop or quit then better follow it or else you do know on where
it would be heading but if you do tell everything on your wife and she doesnt care on what you do as long you dont forget your responsibility then lucky you but if not then you should stop
to avoid some argumentation.
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this is one of the funny threads and enough to make me laugh Grin. How should you hide from your wife to play gambling. do you always lose so you keep hiding? I don't recommend that you play gambling if your wife will be angry if she finds out. If you want to be completely anonymous, use all kinds of disguises from using incognito mode on the device you use for online gambling and using money that your wife never knows about, but that will be quite difficult. there must be another undetected flow of funds.
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