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Quote from: bittraffic on September 01, 2022, 10:06:34 PM

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

As a husband, you have every reason to decline some demands women bring but if you are a gambler and have free money to throw away to casinos, you should do everything at home to make them provide the little they always demand otherwise they will think you're running from your responsibility and wasting money on things that will make you lose what you are supposed to use at home.

Quote from: OgNasty on September 03, 2022, 03:37:20 PM

Why would you do something if you’re so ashamed of it that you can’t even be open and honest with your family or significant other? If you’ve gotten to the point where you’re hiding your behavior because you know it’s wrong, then you have an addiction, not a hobby. You should speak with someone and live a life you’re proud to take credit for.

Some women aren't understanding and don't want to take yes when it comes to gambling. If a man is engaged and becomes a family person, you have to settle down with some arguments for peace to reign sometimes.
Am I the only that thinks UFC aren't too addictive like the other sports, they are more of entertainment and fun than other sports gambling that can easily addict a gambler and lose focus.

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I don't suggest hiding it from your wife but there are several things that you can do to hide it. If you don't want to spend another money on buying another smartphone, Try logging in into the casino using incognito mode when you are alone. This way your wife won't find any history of gambling logs in your phone unless she is spying on you or techy enough to know.

Though, It's way more better to let your wife know about your gambling habits and explain to her about it. You can just buy her a gift whenever you win atleast your wife will be happy letting you bet and won't mind you doing gambling. Hiding things might end up on misunderstanding and could end up on more severe problems. Remember! Happy wife, Happy life!

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Sorry, but if you are by the side of someone who you have to hide things, it's better that you don't have that person by your side. People who keep insignificant secrets from their partners can also keep secrets of every proportions, which might prejudice the another person in real time without he/she knowing about it.

if you like gambling, just confess it. If your wife or family will like it or not, it's their problem. We don't have to hide our personalities, who we really are and what we like to do just to please others. Of course we have responsabilities and we always pay the consequences for every of our acts sooner or later, but transparency is necessary in every relationships, so they can bear fruits and evolve healthy. Otherwise, relationships are just a waste of time and energy for both sides.

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Quote from: Slow death on September 04, 2022, 08:10:15 AM

The problem with your strategy is the following:

- imagine that one day you earn 10 million dollars, but that same day you get very sick to the point that you end up in the hospital, in the hospital you get so weak that you can't speak but you can see and hear what people say and your wife and you start to regret that you don't have the money to pay the hospital costs so they can cure you, your wife doesn't know that you won 10 million dollars because you didn't tell her and never told her anything about gambling. at that time you will start feeling sorry for having lied and hidden about gambling. the problem with lying is that one day they always catch you and at that time the consequences are devastating

my advice: always tell the truth

Interesting story but the benefits are real that we must be honest with our partners even though the wife is difficult to accept the gambling activities that you do behind her back. But the situation from the above narrative is very different, because your wife will be very happy if you win the 10 million dollar jackpot and your wife will not confirm the details of the source of the funds. Whatever it is, honesty is the main thing for a long relationship, so stay honest even if it's hard to accept but he will get used to responding to the same problems.

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Quote from: bittraffic on September 01, 2022, 10:06:34 PM

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

The problem with your strategy is the following:

- imagine that one day you earn 10 million dollars, but that same day you get very sick to the point that you end up in the hospital, in the hospital you get so weak that you can't speak but you can see and hear what people say and your wife and you start to regret that you don't have the money to pay the hospital costs so they can cure you, your wife doesn't know that you won 10 million dollars because you didn't tell her and never told her anything about gambling. at that time you will start feeling sorry for having lied and hidden about gambling. the problem with lying is that one day they always catch you and at that time the consequences are devastating

my advice: always tell the truth

Quote from: Fredomago on September 03, 2022, 11:30:00 AM

For sure, if you can explain the situation, your wife might understand your case and if you are not that addicted yet, she can help in limiting the amount of money that you can use.

Much better to allow your wife to handle your savings good for money managements.

Most people know that at the end of the day the casinos are the only ones that make a profit, that's why a married woman will hardly accept that her husband stays playing in the casinos because they will be afraid of the husband losing everything. Every day there are always bad news talking bad about people who are playing, especially talking about addictions.

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Quote from: makishart on September 03, 2022, 07:01:28 PM

I meant if you wanna be a dishonest people and then your close people will not respect with your decision especially your wife. Being honest was a very important thing. I meant if you can't even say the truth with your wife and she will be marking your as a liar. People can be respect as long as yo are also become respect with them too. I think that i will say everything to my wife rather than being a dishonest person like that.
Remember that if you have been marry here. it doesn't matter what it is and you need to be honest with her

It's a partnership that you have sworn when you take a bow, if your wife tag you as a liar the respect will no longer be there, the most important spice of married life is trust, without trusting each other will push love away, I don't want to be emotional but it will be affected so better to think about it if you are still in doubt whether to tell your wife your gambling activities.

It's much better to hear all the hate and in worse case your wife might ask you to top right away, but you need to choose the right thing than losing a good life.

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Quote from: madnessteat on September 04, 2022, 05:26:30 AM

When two people live together for a long time, they begin to sense changes in their partner. For most gamblers, losing causes negative emotions that eventually spill over to their partner. If they don't know about their partner's gambling addiction they become suspicious and follow them and eventually find out the truth. Not everyone knows how to forgive cheating so I wouldn't do that.

I agree with your statement. Women are really smart. They take their time in finding evidences that will confirm their hypothesis or suspicion. In the OPs case, I am pretty sure the wife already knows but she is waiting for the perfect time to catch him red-handed. When you hide your addiction or a bad habit, the resultant consequences usually spills over to the other members of the family. What I would suggest the OP does for him to have rest of mind is to find the best time when the condition is just right to speak with his wife in an honest manner. She holds the cash and should give you a certain amount to gamble with. You shouldn't come back for more if you lose it.

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Quote from: bittraffic on September 01, 2022, 10:06:34 PM

Now, this would be something of a thread where users can give tips as to how we play online/offline without our family knowing it. Curious how you do it.

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

I don't think you should do that at all. What do you think will happen when your family/wife finds out that you are a gambling addict? I can tell you it won't be something pretty. If you are not overdoing it, then there shouldn't be any problem. If you are not an addict and your wife/family still would get mad, then you should tell your family that it is not their business. If it is your wife we are talking about here, then you should explain her what you are doing. If she is not agreeing with your actions, then you have two choices. Do what she says or leave her.

You would really be needing to tell everything into your wife or else then you would really be ending up with that kind of option whether you would be leaving gambling or your wife would leave you.
Its not something healthy if you are hiding something on your wife or family members specially this kind of activity does really spend out money but its actually on your own choice.
If you are still not get caught by your wife until now then just do on things which you do know that it could neither be good or bad.It totally depends on you.
In overall then i wouldnt really be tending to have something to be hidden specially from my wife.

Spending your own money is something, getting addicted to spending is something else. Especially if you are not getting anything in return for the money that you are spending. Your wife don't necessarily need to know about the ice-cream you ate while you are at work but if you spent half of your monthly income in a casino now that's something she needs to know about because no matter how you look at it, you can't explain it in a good way. If the wife finds about it on her own, that will be a very good reason to end that marriage.

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If you don’t want your wife or family member to know that you betting online is just to do it when ever every one is not around or rather arrange your games and go to any betting shop to stake your game , I bet you once your wife or family members find out your funds are been used for gambling is going to be a long discussion and argument and almost every of your actions will be monitored so the best thing is just to go to betting shops or play while they are not around or go to the rest room to play your game or rather go out of the house to safe your self the stress.

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i personally think that having a personal phone for the gambling purpose lol. it must be using pennies to bet. i meant if you are using big amounts of money to do that and your wife knew about that and that will be a disaster. that's why saying it with your wife might become the best thing for now. if you can be a honest person and im sure she will give a positive feedback about that as long as you have not surpassed your limit

I support the idea of carrying your wife along in gambling, it will give you peace of mind to bet and not hiding around and bet nonsense. There might be disadvantages of carrying your wife along, example your wife will make you not to stake a high amount of money. When you go for high stake, she will remind you of an uncompleted project in the house Grin

The presence of your wife will be your regulator which I believe is fine.

If you are sure that your wife will not be angry seeing you gambling then why not? But if you already knew the attitude of you wife that she isn't into that activity then you better do it discreetly. In my case I am lucky to have an understanding wife. She is not angry whenever she sees me gambling and she even encourages me to deposit more lol but that is because I am always on a budget when it comes to gambling.

Of course, before I do this I will make sure that I already paid the house bills and already gave most of my salary to her. If all husbands are like that then I don't think there will be a terror wife but sometimes husbands are avoiding their responsibility on their family.

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Quote from: Mr. Magkaisa on September 04, 2022, 03:10:55 AM

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When two people live together for a long time, they begin to sense changes in their partner. For most gamblers, losing causes negative emotions that eventually spill over to their partner. If they don't know about their partner's gambling addiction they become suspicious and follow them and eventually find out the truth. Not everyone knows how to forgive cheating so I wouldn't do that.

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Quote from: Gozie51 on September 02, 2022, 04:53:34 PM

I don't think any of this will make much of difference if you are hidding certain things from your spouse then you have created a enough room for suspicious and distrust in the family. There is no need , how can you confine a phone to the car for betting sake. Lol what if the woman is going to the car from time to time or taking a ride with the husband ? Don't underrate women, they have the "seventh" sense still functioning, they have that kind of sense to sniff out when something is just not right.

I guess, you mean, that most women have what is called "Premonition" or in other words "Strong feeling" The kind that no matter what the man explains, the wife won't believe it. In that regard, I seem to agree with what you said. But, the man will be surprised because he has been doing it for several years, in short, the husband is good at hiding nonsense hehe.

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Simple mate, Just make sure that you have a Funds that she has no Idea , I mean from Sideline of Crypto income , so you can gamble online without here noticing.

You can play inside Bathroom? or even outside your house pretending that you are playing Online game lol.

Off the sounds and delete the History of searching and never installed Apps , delete every after playing lol.

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Quote from: fortunecrypto on September 03, 2022, 09:37:14 AM

It's hard when your wife finds out about your gambling habit after a huge loss it will cause disagreement and quarrel, so tell this before the worse happens, you can't control your gambling all the time, there will come a time when you need to exceed your allocated time or lose money, you can talk your wife about it and will let you if you request to play in allocated time and money, you cannot keep a secret forever, better stop now or tell her about it.

Most people afraid to their wife since most likely their wife would force them to completely stop gambling, the thing is they're still want to gamble and don't want to get controlled by their wife. So they will keep gamble and hide it from their wife, this will make a trust issue between both of them which is not good. This is why consultant is very important in this matter, you should need a third party who have better answer than you both.

I agree with that trust issue if your wife finds out your problem instead of you telling them the situation, you can't control the outcome of your gambling activities in worse case scenario you can lose all your savings and that can start ruining your family, it's unacceptable for your wife that because of your gambling problem they will be involved and they will suffer. Though instead of 3rd party you can start telling the truth before things go behind your control.

I can exactly relate on this , because In my first year of crypto gambling? i tried Hiding to my wife because surely She will never agree because that time she is in her delivery time for our baby , but after she finds out? we almost lost our relationship as i turned out spending every single money in my pocket.

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For sure, if you can explain the situation, your wife might understand your case and if you are not that addicted yet, she can help in limiting the amount of money that you can use.

Much better to allow your wife to handle your savings good for money managements.

if given a chance to start over again? this is surely what will I do to prevent those problem we faced back then.

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Quote from: TimeTeller on September 03, 2022, 06:47:36 PM

Quote from: bisdak40 on September 03, 2022, 06:32:37 PM

Based on my personal experience, it's very hard to keep this secret from everybody, especially your wife. The more you hide, the more you are prone to lose so better tell her that you are doing this gambling activity and explain that it is for fun and you only gamble extra money that you have, if she listens then good if she insists that you stop it then it is up to you how to convince her that this is just for fun.

Bottom line, you should tell to avoid surprises in the future as this will not be a secret all the time.

Honesty will also give you at peace when you're playing.
At least you are not hiding and always looking over your shoulder.
Whatever you agreed upon with your wife, is much better than hiding it.
Because you will be discovered also later on, and that will give you much trouble.

our wife will suffer everything if we lose or win in gambling because they are the one who is responsible in budgeting and taking care of us and our children .
why need to hide from Her?
maybe having an agreement will save the day? have a deal if how much you can spend and when you can play, with those it is not only gambling but also limiting your chances to be addicted and be irresponsible father and husband.

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Quote from: bittraffic on September 01, 2022, 10:06:34 PM

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

Well, it's best to be honest to your wife if you really gamble. IMO, it's not fun to play if you're doing it secretly just because you don't want to argue with your wife if she become aware of what you're doing. Be open, its not healthy in the relationship if the partner is hiding something. Moreover if you're in her shoes how would you feel? Hence, talk to her and gamble with her permission if possible.

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I meant if you wanna be a dishonest people and then your close people will not respect with your decision especially your wife. Being honest was a very important thing. I meant if you can't even say the truth with your wife and she will be marking your as a liar. People can be respect as long as yo are also become respect with them too. I think that i will say everything to my wife rather than being a dishonest person like that.
Remember that if you have been marry here. it doesn't matter what it is and you need to be honest with her

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No need to hide if theres no argument over what you can or cannot 'spend'. All gambling money should be considering spending and then your winnings is what you get to keep. Not keeping a solid record book or line between money for bills and leisure money will invariably lead to upset in a family for fairly obvious reasons, applies to anything but with gambling the lines may get confusing as you will sometimes double your money or more.
I do believe in taking some winnings off the table so they cannot be lost, never roll over everything to the next bet but cant tell people they they have to learn personally to some extent.

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Quote from: bisdak40 on September 03, 2022, 06:32:37 PM

Based on my personal experience, it's very hard to keep this secret from everybody, especially your wife. The more you hide, the more you are prone to lose so better tell her that you are doing this gambling activity and explain that it is for fun and you only gamble extra money that you have, if she listens then good if she insists that you stop it then it is up to you how to convince her that this is just for fun.

Bottom line, you should tell to avoid surprises in the future as this will not be a secret all the time.

Honesty will also give you at peace when you're playing.
At least you are not hiding and always looking over your shoulder.
Whatever you agreed upon with your wife, is much better than hiding it.
Because you will be discovered also later on, and that will give you much trouble.

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Quote from: bittraffic on September 01, 2022, 10:06:34 PM

My wife suspected me for almost a year already when I was watching a UFC channel on youtube where they suggest who to bet. Of course, I said No when she asked if I was betting. From then on I just hold my phone whenever she is not around. It's a long argument when your wife suggests buying this or that on amazon yet you gambling your funds. lol

Based on my personal experience, it's very hard to keep this secret from everybody, especially your wife. The more you hide, the more you are prone to lose so better tell her that you are doing this gambling activity and explain that it is for fun and you only gamble extra money that you have, if she listens then good if she insists that you stop it then it is up to you how to convince her that this is just for fun.

Bottom line, you should tell to avoid surprises in the future as this will not be a secret all the time.

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