Topic: How to make friends ? - page 2. (Read 122598 times)

I have the same problem, I'm insanely boring

Go dancing and be yourself. Don't drink a ton and try to spark funny conversation

People must accept us for what we are and we don’t need to change to be liked

But the problem is our attitude if we are a good person or not,because in this way most of us relying to accept another friend

I guess you can access yourself if whats the problem about you,but if only being Boring is the issue,then try to be more approachable and not so serious type

Your best friend is your mother.
After her your father and brothers and sisters.
Never forget it.
Through this relationships you mature and learn how to become good friends with outside people.

When you are a good person
A lot of friends will come to you.
you are right.

I think making friends doesn’t related to any way ( easy ,difficult, fast, slowly, short, long ) it’s a destiny you don’t have even to think about the way to make friends or thinking about the kind of friends you would like to have.

At first you must be your self that means: do not try to change your caracters to make it appropriate to someone else willing , (don’t get suprised if someone even likes your bad side ) .

I would like to share my experience .

The Friendship for me is the good relation between two persons which doesn’t related to the place or time, you could make a start of friendship with someone who you met only one time, it’s related to how much you liked each other so it’s a spontaneous interaction without any expectations .

For me the best frienship is the one comes from the childhood. How kids make friends ?are they planning for that! , or searching about the way to make it! , I don’t think so. It could start during a game for example , so an interaction starts, they like the way they treat each other and the way they gather effort to face an adversary, these things stay in their mind after the game and that will be the start of their friendship, and that will make them wanted to meet again, that make them sharing experience and prouving their quality which attract more and more the others and then strengthen the friendship, experiences make best friendships .

I made on of my best friends 10 years ago, i had never though we could be a best friends , even we met each other every day ( he was my neighbor in dormatory), till the day when my friend proposed for me a trip to the montagne and my futur best friend was also in the group. During the trip we lived 2 events , the first was making the fire and i went with him to gather woods , and the second facing a risk in our comeback way because the bad weather in that day, after that day we started spend time together which make us living others experiences , i liked his characters and he did too , t’ill nowday we are a very closed friends .

I can say that all my friendships come in this way, so live you life normally , meet people without looking for a friendship and leave it to the destiny .

I myself have made a lot of friends while spending my time at my hobbies.

You must be honest
And find people who will help you in whatever you want
Wish you good

 The easiest friends to find in games, I agree with the previous author

Friends are not needed in life.

This is a complex issue , look for friends in places where you wonder is , of course, to be a friend you need to go through a lot so to call a person , because many people who seldom come to grief!

Making friends is very easy, you can help someone in the forum, be yourself, not be a liar, have good intentions with people,
I think that's enough. There are many people who only seek personal benefit,
but if you are not selfish, I think you will achieve much more.

Making friends and being able to keep them is an amazing thing we can do especially since having friends is tremendously important for our health and happiness.

In reality friendships are among the trickiest relationships out there. Unfortunately making and retaining friends isn’t always easy. But it can be done just keep in mind these tricks to being a good friend.

Be yourself and loosen up, pursuing hobbies and activities you enjoy allows you to meet people with similar interests. You need to make yourself available you first need to put yourself out there. Friends might come to you but that's not likely. Remember, friends might come knocking on your door but not while you sit at home alone and avoiding the world.

Always speak the truth, there’s nothing like a friend who can tell you things straight up. When a friend asks you a question about a new job or relationship, try to be as open as possible. This will help build a sense of trust, and your friend will be likely to reciprocate with honesty about their personal life.

Bond with your friends on a daily basis, if not make time to reconnect go on a hike go out to the movies. Something I like to do is create group outings to avoid any potential awkwardness. To me this is neat because it gives you a chance to reconnect your friendship while doing something you all enjoy.

Most importantly don’t take things personally when you invite a potentially new friend to coffee or a movie and they turn you down, don’t freak out. Maybe they really are busy with work; maybe family relationships already took up too much time. Know to value and respect the decisions of others.

You are right! remain true to yourself and right people will come to you,
It's the best way that you can do to find the right people that will stay beside you no matter what.

Get to know your friends’ friends. You can join them in their outings or just ask your friend to introduce you to them. If you are comfortable with your friends, there’s a good chance you will be comfortable with their friends too.

cliche but you really have to just be urself and the right people will come to you

I find going to language exchanges to work out super well. I've made many friends from there. There or gatherings on things i'm interested in! Meetup.com is a great way to meet up with different people.

After your uni days, you will find friendships are harder to make, this is partly due to the fact everybody around you is looking for an angle, some way to benefit from knowing you.. I have found this out a lot in my professional life.

Take the initiative and get to know more. Being active will give you more sympathy in the eyes of the enemy.

be yourself. Dont fool yourself and other people to like you