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June 10, 2024, 03:48:37 PM
We know is very hard to stay a day without thinking. But over thinking is not good for our living. Over thinking have so many negative impact in our live. Over thinking can affect our mind set. It can make us not to be concentrated at such resulting to any bad happening. Sometimes the depression get from o er thinking can cause us to talk to people around us rudely, making us to look mannerless. Friends and family relationship is very important. Over thinking can cause to sheltered the relationship with people around us. Over thinking can also make us to be having negative feelings about things and people around us. Over thinking can cause us to lose our original statue.
Yes, you are absolutely right because there is no how that one would stay without thinking, although even the richest people's always have something to think about of course who are we not to think. But however I think we should always try as much as we can not to think too much despite any condition we find ourselves after all too much thinking know go fit solved our problem rather it will still cause more harm to our health.
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June 10, 2024, 04:47:56 AM
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I am very glad to hear your opinion. The race of life is one where success is almost impossible if done in haste. Because the most important thing for success is persistence and consistency. Consistency and steadiness in any work are more beneficial or better than haste. In haste many important matters are neglected.

Thank you! Let's not be making important decisions hastily, and it will help us to win in the end.
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June 05, 2024, 07:31:02 AM
We know is very hard to stay a day without thinking. But over thinking is not good for our living. Over thinking have so many negative impact in our live. Over thinking can affect our mind set. It can make us not to be concentrated at such resulting to any bad happening. Sometimes the depression get from o er thinking can cause us to talk to people around us rudely, making us to look mannerless. Friends and family relationship is very important. Over thinking can cause to sheltered the relationship with people around us. Over thinking can also make us to be having negative feelings about things and people around us. Over thinking can cause us to lose our original statue.
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June 04, 2024, 09:14:08 AM
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Those who wander aimlessly are equal to the dead and are passengers in a boat without a sailor. To this day those who have remained determined to achieve their goals have never been touched by extraneous or frivolous thoughts. So we should go ahead with our goals and be satisfied with the results we get.

Only don't set your goals too high is my advice. Then the satisfaction will be at hand. Go ahead slowly, little by little, and will reach even higher goals this way.
Yes brother you have rightly and logically said that if we cannot control our ambition then ambition will control us which will make our life hell. But happiness is inevitable only if we control our ambitions and prioritize satisfaction. There is a saying in our country that slow and steady wins the race. So working slowly and with the expectation of not giving up will bring success.

I love poker, and watching many hours of poker tournaments on YouTube I've noticed one thing: slow and steady wins in the end. And this saying of your country is right about real life too. It's hard to believe at first, but it's true.
I am very glad to hear your opinion. The race of life is one where success is almost impossible if done in haste. Because the most important thing for success is persistence and consistency. Consistency and steadiness in any work are more beneficial or better than haste. In haste many important matters are neglected.
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June 03, 2024, 02:04:57 PM
I disagree with you, thinking a lot is not a bad thing, the main thing is to have the right thoughts, and that is another matter. Let's say a person has his own business, he thinks about it every day and every hour, but he is not dying from it, he is just looking for a way to make his business prosper, I think this is a very useful quality. By the way, https://www.makini.io/ is a great resource in this case, it's a universal API for industrial systems. Flexible and adaptable to a wide range of applications. Data can be transmitted, retrieved and retrieved in real time using web interceptors. Advanced maintenance, inventory optimization, industrial aftermarket and more, you can read all of this in detail on their website, highly recommended
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June 03, 2024, 07:32:31 AM
Overthinking has been a big problem in most of the peoples life. Gives you a negative attitude, affects your relations with friends, family etc. How can you possibly stop yourself from overthinking when probably you have no control of what to think?
Overthinking is like a deadly disease that can secretly kill if one is not well guilded and council. Overthink may occur as result of disappointment, betray by a trusted person or even hardship and poverty can lead one to having restless mind.
 If you find yourself in such situation ensure you occupy yourself with something that will relief your mind from thinking such as music, comedy movie and game or better still go around people or look for someone you can chat with. Secondly, if you are having restlessness because of overthinking ensure you don't stay in isolated place because it can only increasing the level of your thinking and many people have died as a result of isolating themselves from people whenever they are in the situation that make them to overthink.
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June 03, 2024, 02:11:17 AM
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Those who wander aimlessly are equal to the dead and are passengers in a boat without a sailor. To this day those who have remained determined to achieve their goals have never been touched by extraneous or frivolous thoughts. So we should go ahead with our goals and be satisfied with the results we get.

Only don't set your goals too high is my advice. Then the satisfaction will be at hand. Go ahead slowly, little by little, and will reach even higher goals this way.
Yes brother you have rightly and logically said that if we cannot control our ambition then ambition will control us which will make our life hell. But happiness is inevitable only if we control our ambitions and prioritize satisfaction. There is a saying in our country that slow and steady wins the race. So working slowly and with the expectation of not giving up will bring success.

I love poker, and watching many hours of poker tournaments on YouTube I've noticed one thing: slow and steady wins in the end. And this saying of your country is right about real life too. It's hard to believe at first, but it's true.
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June 01, 2024, 04:49:17 AM
Normally as a human being we always have something to think about, but sometimes we really need to control our self because overthinking always lead one to early grave if you don't control our self, although too much thinking always cause sleepless night because sometimes you would not even have appite to eat why because your mind is not at rest.
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May 31, 2024, 10:17:07 PM
"The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment is a book by Eckhart Tolle. It presents itself as a discussion about how people interact with themselves and others. The concept of self reflection and presence in the moment are presented along with simple exercises for the achievement of its principles."
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May 29, 2024, 10:53:08 AM
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Those who wander aimlessly are equal to the dead and are passengers in a boat without a sailor. To this day those who have remained determined to achieve their goals have never been touched by extraneous or frivolous thoughts. So we should go ahead with our goals and be satisfied with the results we get.

Only don't set your goals too high is my advice. Then the satisfaction will be at hand. Go ahead slowly, little by little, and will reach even higher goals this way.
Yes brother you have rightly and logically said that if we cannot control our ambition then ambition will control us which will make our life hell. But happiness is inevitable only if we control our ambitions and prioritize satisfaction. There is a saying in our country that slow and steady wins the race. So working slowly and with the expectation of not giving up will bring success.
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May 28, 2024, 08:35:21 AM
I know it is not possible for human to stay without thinking. Thinking is allowed but over thinking is not good at all.
To me there are some ways I always stay away from over thinking anytime I noticed to be thinking too much.
I get myself involved in any of the activities I like doing like playing football. Anytime I see myself to be over thinking, I quickly get my football and look for any body around to play with. By so doing I am getting myself off the thinking mode.

Anytime I am over thinking, I also go out to associate with friends or people around to catch gist with them. I make sure I engage myself in any discussion or topic raise in other to keep my mind busy.
Sometimes I also like playing music. Naturally I love music so much. So I tried as much as possible to listen to good music with good lyrics and meaning.
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May 27, 2024, 02:25:06 PM
One thing I did before is every morning, I list down at least 10 things that I am thankful for the day before.  It trains my brain to have that positive mental attitude.  Moreover, it helps me to reflect that there are many good things happening around me, I just need to have the eye to see and ears to listen.
This is good.

If this really helps you, keep on doing that. This is a gesture of being grateful to what you have and that counter the thoughts of being an overthinker.

Keep on practicing this and soon even you have no list at all, you'd be grateful by just even waking up in the morning and let the day work on its own without having to worry.
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May 25, 2024, 12:46:55 PM
You need to consider the bigger picture. Once you've considered the bigger picture, there's an even bigger picture after that. It's a constant cycle of overcomplication that leads you to the conclusion that life is actually super simple. You can and have the capacity to be a simple person through monotony, routine, discipline, whatever. It's what you choose at the end of the day!

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May 25, 2024, 10:46:06 AM
One thing I did before is every morning, I list down at least 10 things that I am thankful for the day before.  It trains my brain to have that positive mental attitude.  Moreover, it helps me to reflect that there are many good things happening around me, I just need to have the eye to see and ears to listen.

That's good ideas actually many people see this as normal thing to occur to human but it's been generated by so much unrealistic things that can never have their ways in your life leads to the problem of over thinking, the best is to eliminate any thoughts that is contrary to your life agenda, don't involved in too many tasks that may seem unfinished by you all this can speedy the elimination of over thinking.
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May 24, 2024, 11:55:41 AM
One thing I did before is every morning, I list down at least 10 things that I am thankful for the day before.  It trains my brain to have that positive mental attitude.  Moreover, it helps me to reflect that there are many good things happening around me, I just need to have the eye to see and ears to listen.
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May 24, 2024, 04:56:37 AM
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Those who wander aimlessly are equal to the dead and are passengers in a boat without a sailor. To this day those who have remained determined to achieve their goals have never been touched by extraneous or frivolous thoughts. So we should go ahead with our goals and be satisfied with the results we get.

Only don't set your goals too high is my advice. Then the satisfaction will be at hand. Go ahead slowly, little by little, and will reach even higher goals this way.
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May 23, 2024, 11:12:37 PM
I have learned from my mentor that if you wanted to stop overthinking then you must have someone in your side that can assure you of safety and love, and for me this is why my Wife helps me in everything as how my mother used to when I was a kid.

so  find your either bestfriend or partner? you choose but that would be a big help.
The name of friendship is trust which is based on helping each other, standing by each other in danger, being together in happiness and sadness and friendship influences our whole life wherever we are. Friendship is like a mirror in which you can see yourself. When any great thing happens in life it is because of friendship, so in any limitation in our life, the company of friendship works like a magic wand, making the mind voluptuous. When we realize that we are indulging in overthinking, relief will surely happen if we come in touch with friends.
Great elaboration here mate, how you amazed me with that complete explanation how friendship  helps a lot for people
to deal with this kind of problem because for me? this is  a  serious problem that everyone must take a look
and not just a simple matter because this will  end to suicide if not treated well.
try to seek for a help whenever we feel like we are dealing with this so help will come and do not take this solely for better result.
Yes brother, when excessive thinking leads a person to commit suicide then he must be taken to a specialist to deal with any kind of bad situation. Since no matter reaches its peak suddenly, when a person is affected by such a problem he should be aware of it, and also give himself time to spend time with friends under the open sky. In this way slowly he will get rid of the problem.
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May 23, 2024, 11:12:55 AM
Just focus on what is more important in your life and forget about Irrelevant things .
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May 20, 2024, 06:40:21 AM
I have learned from my mentor that if you wanted to stop overthinking then you must have someone in your side that can assure you of safety and love, and for me this is why my Wife helps me in everything as how my mother used to when I was a kid.

so  find your either bestfriend or partner? you choose but that would be a big help.
The name of friendship is trust which is based on helping each other, standing by each other in danger, being together in happiness and sadness and friendship influences our whole life wherever we are. Friendship is like a mirror in which you can see yourself. When any great thing happens in life it is because of friendship, so in any limitation in our life, the company of friendship works like a magic wand, making the mind voluptuous. When we realize that we are indulging in overthinking, relief will surely happen if we come in touch with friends.
Great elaboration here mate, how you amazed me with that complete explanation how friendship  helps a lot for people
to deal with this kind of problem because for me? this is  a  serious problem that everyone must take a look
and not just a simple matter because this will  end to suicide if not treated well.
try to seek for a help whenever we feel like we are dealing with this so help will come and do not take this solely for better result.
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May 20, 2024, 03:46:17 AM
Overthinking has been a big problem in most of the peoples life. Gives you a negative attitude, affects your relations with friends, family etc. How can you possibly stop yourself from overthinking when probably you have no control of what to think?
There are many reasons why a person becomes overthinking, one of which is trauma, maybe he or she has experienced something bad or seen a bad condition, which causes uncontrollable overthinking. Overthinking is part of insecurity and depression, so it is important to manage your own thoughts, continue read good books and always discuss problems with those closest to you to get natural healing
or this can also be a sign of less security , some people experienced being taking advantaged
before and that leads them to overthink in many thing specially those in which near to come and
they are not comfortable .

One thing that's helped me is trying to focus on the present moment instead of getting lost in what-ifs. Mindfulness techniques, like deep breathing or meditation, can be super useful for this.
that is really a much effective way mate , to focus in the present and let the future comes
but make sure that you are also ready facing whats coming.
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