Though it almost got me díscouraged, however instead of being discouraged, I'm open to learning ways or how to get the Merits and grow on here, my questions are what I'm i doing wrongly? How can i improve it and also where is the best board to write on if i need these Merits coming?
The person is right for saying that but he is not completely right. The reason why he advice you not rush is that you will probably want to take shortcut to learn things that might later hurt you later in the future like using AI to make posts because you don't understand anything about crypto, plagiarism other people's work because you have no idea about what was been discussed and what to reply, these will be find out later by some prominent members of the forum that hunt for people that violate these rules.
However, if you are a good and a fast learner, you should go beyond anything that is been taught you but make sure that you don't break any forum rules, learning and putting your reputation in line and doing your thing will cost you nothing in this forum and lastly, be a thick skin person here if you want to last and don't get emotional when someone attack you, that's why here is called a forum.