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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 02:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

I can break either mine or someone's head off while having a long losing streak because it's about losing temper and when anyone loses it, chances are he could either harm himself or others because he is so much into gambling he can't stop himself while trying to get back what he lost and if someone comes ahead asking him not to gamble, he starts thinking them as his enemies trying to stop him from getting his money back. But trust me, there's no way back once lost, so trying hard will only make us lose more in the long term.

You're with what you said because anyone that is addicted to something will see people that advice him to stop as an enemy. But there always a way in doing things because for every problem there's always a solution. However, take out ones losses on other is another situation which a gambler must desist from and accept that he's responsible for his losses due to his lack of understanding the game rules and not following the basic terms of making perfect gambling.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 02:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

I can break either mine or someone's head off while having a long losing streak because it's about losing temper and when anyone loses it, chances are he could either harm himself or others because he is so much into gambling he can't stop himself while trying to get back what he lost and if someone comes ahead asking him not to gamble, he starts thinking them as his enemies trying to stop him from getting his money back. But trust me, there's no way back once lost, so trying hard will only make us lose more in the long term.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 02:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

If you are afraid that you will not be able to handle a situation where you will be addicted then you should make everything possible of not making you addicted to gambling. What I do, is to try to be calm and keep my self-control high. There is no other to blame if i lose but only myself who made the decision that led to it.

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Quote from: JohnBitCo on February 19, 2019, 12:33:59 PM

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Lot of people are losing from gambling but yet they do not want to quit because they love gambling and they do not want to quit at any cost. Also I do not think that Fun is the main reason of gambling. People play gambling because they want to get quick money.

It's really subjective varies from individual to individual. As long as it does not get addicted and harming the player then it should be fine. If people were really gambling for money then gambling industry would not make any money at all. The bookies would need to shut down their business.

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Go on long fishing trip to somewhere remote or possibly take a job which removes you from the repeated mistake you are trying to overcome. Same as for many other things, alter your surrounding behaviour to the apparent addiction.
Theres always the job on the long haul transport ship that pays off but takes you away for months, gives you time to think things over and also earn money and reverse the damage

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Addicting to gambling is not a good thing and therefore I don't like to be addicted to it. I see to play gambling as fun and I don't attached any much feelings to it because some time people so much addict to it that it always become problems to them.

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Quote from: swogerino on February 19, 2019, 06:00:28 AM

There are not many possibilities when you get addicted, you either continue addiction which inevitably will make you life miserable or you ask to get help from your friends to bring you to professional centers of rehabilitation.

This is the real sad part when people look back at their life especially for the addictions they would like to come out as they would have lost huge money, relations, world have effect their health etc. In order to avoid this you will need to start developing interest in something else.

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Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 19, 2019, 05:19:05 AM

Quote from: bitcoinisbest on February 19, 2019, 05:04:31 AM

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This is the reason people have to get it right at the first place only as when you gamble you should do it for fun this will solve the problems as you will not run after money. But moment you want to make money from it all the problems start from their itself.

I do not think OP is making any money or even trying to make any money. OP is addicted to the gambling fun (My justification could be wrong though) and I am sure there are a lot of people like OP who does the same.

Lot of people are losing from gambling but yet they do not want to quit because they love gambling and they do not want to quit at any cost. Also I do not think that Fun is the main reason of gambling. People play gambling because they want to get quick money.

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I will figure out how to solve my addiction and if having a serious discussion with my wife or other family members is necessary to find a way to quit gambling, then I will do that because I don't want to sacrifice my family life for playing gambling. I will do whatever it takes to solve my addiction, and if it's difficult, I will ask my family to take attention to myself, so I can continue to leave my addiction.

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There are not many possibilities when you get addicted, you either continue addiction which inevitably will make you life miserable or you ask to get help from your friends to bring you to professional centers of rehabilitation.

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Quote from: bitcoinisbest on February 19, 2019, 05:04:31 AM

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This is the reason people have to get it right at the first place only as when you gamble you should do it for fun this will solve the problems as you will not run after money. But moment you want to make money from it all the problems start from their itself.

I do not think OP is making any money or even trying to make any money. OP is addicted to the gambling fun (My justification could be wrong though) and I am sure there are a lot of people like OP who does the same.

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Quote from: peter0425 on February 17, 2019, 07:11:28 AM

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Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 07:17:28 PM

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 06:56:58 PM

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

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You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

This is the reason people have to get it right at the first place only as when you gamble you should do it for fun this will solve the problems as you will not run after money. But moment you want to make money from it all the problems start from their itself.

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Quote from: peter0425 on February 17, 2019, 07:11:28 AM

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Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

Everyone has their own choices. We live with the consequences of our choices.

If I was OP then I would definitely speak with my partner however there are a lot of people like OP who will do that he is doing. When time will come may be they will resolve it with their partner. After all they are their partner. A silly habit like gambling is not gonna break up their relationships.

Good luck to OP.

Cheers :-)

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Quote from: sana54210 on February 17, 2019, 04:42:59 AM

Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 07:17:28 PM

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 06:56:58 PM

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but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

~snip~

You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Good for them though, but up to what point they're not gonna tell? Sooner they will be on lots of problem, financially, emotionally. Remember that if also involves a lot, just not the money you have lost. Yes they can manage but I believe that it will put a emotional toll on them, just saying and it might be too late as it will causes more complications, I reckon.

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Quote from: sana54210 on February 17, 2019, 04:42:59 AM

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That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

Man gotta do that he needs to do. Everyone of us has secrets which we hide from our partners. Who cares it's good or bad until it harms the relationship. I wish cab (short for cabalism13, I hope you don't mind) and other guys good luck.

Cheers :-)

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Quote from: niceboy999 on February 16, 2019, 04:44:56 AM

yes yes that happens me in last year.i think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry Embarrassed

Lol where did you loose the fund mate. There are people gamblers experience this same many time. Even i had such experience on directbet few years back.
I left the gambling after these things happen.
When I need to do bet for any league matches that time also I goes some gambling sites buddy.

well known online casino but can't blame casino for that.i lost because of over greedness,bad strategies and no control on my emotions.Though i can tell you in pm if you want to know more

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Quote from: niceboy999 on February 16, 2019, 04:44:56 AM

yes yes that happens me in last year.i think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry Embarrassed

Lol where did you loose the fund mate. There are people gamblers experience this same many time. Even i had such experience on directbet few years back.
I left the gambling after these things happen.
When I need to do bet for any league matches that time also I goes some gambling sites buddy.

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Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 07:17:28 PM

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 06:56:58 PM

~snip~
but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

~snip~

You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

That is not a single case here, I personally know a lot of people even my good friend as facing such situation, they never told their wives about gambling addiction, but they can manage the situation well, in fact they never play gambling out of their budget and that is the reason that they can manage both their gambling activities and can run their houses in a good manner. They even feel no need to tell families about their gambling addiction.

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Quote from: Patatas on February 16, 2019, 10:57:39 AM

I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

Well in my case, here on our place we don't really socialize with other people, that's why we don't have any friends near us. And most of mine were just online friends. So, it's only my wife that I can talk with it. It maybe like a suicide but, that's just that.

Well, to tell you honestly in any arguement that I have made with my wife, I never win, not a single chance, that's why in my part, she's the only one that can help me with my addiction. But as I said, I think I'll just handle this secretly first for I really still want to play some more of my games.

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Quote from: Patatas on February 16, 2019, 10:57:39 AM

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 02:20:25 PM

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

It's very subjective. I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

Blaming somebody would just add up on your bad image among other people and it doesn't really help at all. Telling your wife about your gambling activity would really just
like a suicide on my part.Why? They do know on what would happen on where your funds is the main thing would be mainly affected.No woman would be happy on that for sure.

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