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I think in your position and your present of mind your not front become addicted, always remember to avoid become addecting in gambling always set greed control and for money issue with your wife use extra money for the gambling habit do not bring huge of money reasy to lose to avoid discussing about it if the money gonna lose in gambling.
Addiction is curable, and if you notice it already better to ask for some help.
I know how to control and myself, if I get addicted too in gambling, i’ll probably stopped it since I have my family that is depending on me and I cannot afford to be broke for a long time. So I will just stay away from casinos and online gambling, I think its hard but i will do my best to stopped it for my family.
I know how to control and myself, if I get addicted too in gambling, i’ll probably stopped it since I have my family that is depending on me and I cannot afford to be broke for a long time. So I will just stay away from casinos and online gambling, I think its hard but i will do my best to stopped it for my family.
If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?
If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)
And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?
If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)
And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?
I have immense control over my mind and emotion so I won't get addicted to anything very easily. However, like you have asked, if I get addicted to gambling, I will personally won't discuss with my wife, rather I will try to get professional help. I will visit a psychiatrist for counselling so that I can come out of such addiction. Also I will stay from internet for an extended period of time and ask my wife to oversee my online activities. Because when wife yells, things come into shape quickly!!
Its hard to notice that you’re already addicted in gambling but if I continue to lose big money and becomes more depressed everyday, I will ask for some help with my family now. I know at first they will be mad at me because of what I’ve down but of course they will help me to stop that addiction. Family is the only option for me to become normal person again.
If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?
I will keep myself away from internet access.I will spend more time with family
I will go for a holiday.
I will keep myself away from any sports related updates (I was addicted to sports betting)
I will not go closer to the betting shops.
I always keep myself busy doing something else may be any kind of DIY
These are things I will do.
I been through this long ago and my friends and family made it happen for me to give up the addiction. Now a days I do gamble but it's just pure fun. I do spend more or less 50 to 100 quid for betting but when I was addicted there were days when I lost over 2 grand.
If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game.
I'll do the same and this is just me. Even I'm not addicted I used to blame people for my losses. But past is past and I'm good today and was able to overcome this kind of attitude. Becoming an addicted gambler would really change our attitude and I don't know what other worse thing that I can do 'IF' I become one again. I salute to those gamblers that remained to be calm and didn't blamed anyone for their losses, you're all guys the MVP. I guess it's all about the attitude. 
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I even loss a lot on the process but still remained calm and responsible.
Kept calm is very important even you are in the stage of addiction and always remember your responsibilities not follow by your emotion of being addicted. Ain't in the stage of addiction because I can handle my self to have set self-limitation.I even loss a lot on the process but still remained calm and responsible.
And blaming people of your possible loss is not a good habit you must change it, maybe you always find trouble of that.
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I even loss a lot on the process but still remained calm and responsible.
Kept calm is very important even you are in the stage of addiction and always remember your responsibilities not follow by your emotion of being addicted. Ain't in the stage of addiction because I can handle my self to have set self-limitation.I even loss a lot on the process but still remained calm and responsible.
And blaming people of your possible loss is not a good habit you must change it, maybe you always find trouble of that.
If you still think of a way how to overcome your addiction then you are not totally fall yet on the trap of being an "addicted". It's just that you are now categorized as "regular" gamblers. Same scenario with the addicted ones since you are obviously losing money on the way but in here, there is a side on your brain that still functioning to tell you what the heck is going on.
About the "attitude" honestly I don't know since even Im a regular gambler, Im not reached the point yet of doing unnecessary things. I mean, why should I. I even loss a lot on the process but still remained calm and responsible.
In here, we can conclude that different people really have different approach on being an "addicted" ones.
If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?
If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)
And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?
If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)
And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?
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