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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

- Seek medical attention
- Talk to your friends/closed ones about it.
- The sooner you realize the better
- Take an initiative

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

It's very subjective. I bet most of the people here won't even bother telling their wives that they gamble. Blaming somebody else doesn't help the situation.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 05:56:58 PM

Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 05:31:55 AM

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Yes, I really am addicted to a certain game on the past, but I'm an honest guy, I really can't help forcing myself to argue with my wife so I just ended up not playing anymore, but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

Now that I can say that I have a control to myself but yet I can also say I'm still addicted to it.

I don't always argue with her for I really respect her feelings. Sometimes women can really help men with their problems.

And yeah, it's really hard to go to the rehab, I feel like I'm going to be crazy the moment I stepped into their door.

You’re not an honest man mate,because you are keeping secret from your wife and not just simple secret its a vices that you know she will disagree,sorry to tell this but you are cheating on her admit it or not i am just being true here for the sake of you partnership because being a husband like you I don’t want my wife as well to cheat or do secret things that i know wasn’t good for our live being husband and wife,i hope you consider this as an Brotherly Advice since e have both same past being a gambling addict but i cross the border and become occasional gambler.and mostly when i wanna play i make sure she knows or much better if she will go with me so lessen the opportunity of losing higher amount lol

Hope you understand my point here mate

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 16, 2019, 12:03:17 AM

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You might be right about that, maybe she could find any, but still whenever I see my friends playing I really can't stop myself being jealous that's why I'm still playing secretly. I do have a secret salary besides from my work and that's what I'm spending through my games. It really gives me the feeling of being relieved and some what release my stress, I find myself enjoying with my friends.

Though this might be a problem to myself but I want to get rid of it as soon as I can, I don't also want ending up being ZERO on my pocket.

I hope that does not happen, you keep full control to yourself and exactly doing it just for pure fun instead of getting pushed to place a bet. Feeling the push inside to bet is very dangerous.

I wish you good luck bud.

Cheers :-)

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yes yes that happens me in last year.i think it's normal as i remember when i lose thousands of Dollars i got frustrated even did not sleep for day or two,then i faces family problems a lot can't explain more sorry Embarrassed

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Everyone had an addiction habits. It depends on us how to handle your "level" of addiction. If it was me who got addicted in gambling sites to the point that our savings have been touched, then hold back and think many times that there is something wrong with yourself and you have to lie low, take a step back and regain yourself.

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Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 06:17:28 PM

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You might be right about that, maybe she could find any, but still whenever I see my friends playing I really can't stop myself being jealous that's why I'm still playing secretly. I do have a secret salary besides from my work and that's what I'm spending through my games. It really gives me the feeling of being relieved and some what release my stress, I find myself enjoying with my friends.

Though this might be a problem to myself but I want to get rid of it as soon as I can, I don't also want ending up being ZERO on my pocket.

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Quote from: Little Mouse on February 15, 2019, 12:42:55 PM

I would try to make me realized how bad is gambling addiction and try to leave the gambling addiction. I think I would be able to make me realized the situation and was able to leave it. So, no worries for me.

it's a good choice, usually people who hear bad effects, like poor or something else then the player will think twice to play, and it's worthed to stop in addiction, I won't discuss it with my partner or my wife, because it's embarrassing, and I won't discuss for how I play again

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 05:56:58 PM

~snip~
but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

~snip~

You really need to talk to her about it. How long you will go secretly? Someday she will manage to learn it and that will hurt her. She seems very important to you which she should be so just tell her that after all these you still secretly try betting. May be she will find a solution for you.

I hope you sober. Good luck.

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Quote from: AB de Royse777 on February 15, 2019, 05:31:55 AM

Have you ever been addicted with gambling? Without having the real experience you will failed to realize the real life scenario. It's easy to talk about something and argue whole day but when you experience something then you have your own way of feelings.

I hope you were never been addicted to gambling. It's really a very bad habit and very hard to rehab.

Cheers :-)

Yes, I really am addicted to a certain game on the past, but I'm an honest guy, I really can't help forcing myself to argue with my wife so I just ended up not playing anymore, but the thing is whenever I get some money I play secretly Tongue

Now that I can say that I have a control to myself but yet I can also say I'm still addicted to it.

I don't always argue with her for I really respect her feelings. Sometimes women can really help men with their problems.

And yeah, it's really hard to go to the rehab, I feel like I'm going to be crazy the moment I stepped into their door.

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I would try to make me realized how bad is gambling addiction and try to leave the gambling addiction. I think I would be able to make me realized the situation and was able to leave it. So, no worries for me.

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Quote from: NavI_027 on February 15, 2019, 06:04:35 AM

Quote from: Pffrt on February 15, 2019, 01:07:45 AM

First of all, I don't have wife, so I am not a le to discuss with, kidding. I would definitely try to leave and go for a vacation so that my addiction get vanished. I would definitely be successful too.

You know that is not so simple. Having a vacation is a good way to forget gambling but temporarily only, for me it is not a permanent solution. When you go back there is no assurance that you now forget it all the things you get used to, what more to happen is that you will probably become more ravenous to gamble because your body and mind miss the excitement and the atmosphere coming from it.

So if ever you get addicted, much better if you will seek guidance (either coming from a professional or just your family) at the same time while having a vacation. Doing recreational activities could help as well.

Vacation will help I guess, if the person admits that he already an addict taking time to rest out and have fun with his family or friends can give him
some time to relax and think about those possible things that can move him away, as you said addicted person needs personal guidance but how sure
it can help if the person is not willing to work it out, every single pieces count when you are trying to heal your problem, but the best thing is your
willingness to let everything go.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

we could not understand the type of addiction that we are in the gambling because addiction is different for different people some people addicted to gambling format and some of us are addicted to money making so the solution is based on their addiction and how they will get involved in this field I also get addicted but not so much.

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Quote from: Pffrt on February 15, 2019, 01:07:45 AM

First of all, I don't have wife, so I am not a le to discuss with, kidding. I would definitely try to leave and go for a vacation so that my addiction get vanished. I would definitely be successful too.

You know that is not so simple. Having a vacation is a good way to forget gambling but temporarily only, for me it is not a permanent solution. When you go back there is no assurance that you now forget it all the things you get used to, what more to happen is that you will probably become more ravenous to gamble because your body and mind miss the excitement and the atmosphere coming from it.

So if ever you get addicted, much better if you will seek guidance (either coming from a professional or just your family) at the same time while having a vacation. Doing recreational activities could help as well.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

First of all one needs to realise that he is addicted. Profound realisation of self limitation and weaknesses isn't an easy task.
Psychological blockade called denial will take its effect, efficiently locking a person within the problem, without any awareness of it.
True self honesty may be insufficient to deal with the trauma, help from outside seems mandatory. As you said, a person emotionally close to addicted one, has the power to wake anger, self-awareness and as a result acceptance. Easier said than done, that's why professional help may come in handy.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 15, 2019, 05:20:40 AM

I'm really confused on how things will be fine without going to rehabilitation center... Huh

the solutions presented to this thread still has to be proven with the attitude of the person involve. If she/he cannot get rid of it then the unlimited number of misfortunes will be happening to him/her.

Have you ever been addicted with gambling? Without having the real experience you will failed to realize the real life scenario. It's easy to talk about something and argue whole day but when you experience something then you have your own way of feelings.

I hope you were never been addicted to gambling. It's really a very bad habit and very hard to rehab.

Cheers :-)

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Quote from: ralle14 on February 15, 2019, 03:15:41 AM

Few years ago I was addicted to gambling playing on different casinos. What I would do to stop myself from gambling even more is to find a way on how could I waste my time like doing more irl activities (errands, chores, etc) until the day ends.

Well I also doubt your solution, what if ypu have done all of the things that you can do? Just as you said to @Pffrt, it should be just for the meantime. Then what about after that? You're already addicted...

I'm really confused on how things will be fine without going to rehabilitation center... Huh

the solutions presented to this thread still has to be proven with the attitude of the person involve. If she/he cannot get rid of it then the unlimited number of misfortunes will be happening to him/her.

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Few years ago I was addicted to gambling playing on different casinos. What I would do to stop myself from gambling even more is to find a way on how could I waste my time like doing more irl activities (errands, chores, etc) until the day ends.

Quote from: Pffrt on February 15, 2019, 01:07:45 AM

First of all, I don't have wife, so I am not a le to discuss with, kidding. I would definitely try to leave and go for a vacation so that my addiction get vanished. I would definitely be successful too.

It's easy to say that your solution will work (maybe for brief period) but if you're in the situation where you're already addicted, I doubt that going on a vacation would stop your addiction permanently.

Quote from: maydna on February 15, 2019, 02:01:16 AM

Maybe you can give your money to them and ask them to gather the money to place big bets. I am sure that if one or two of your friends know about football betting, you and your friends will have a bigger chance to win the game. But it just a suggestion for you to try in sports betting and you don't have to follow my suggestion if you are afraid to become addicted. You could continue to playing gambling as a part to get fun only and don't play too long in every game.

If omo and his friends combine all of their gambling money to go big that's playing for profits and not for fun anymore.

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Quote from: omonuyak on February 14, 2019, 02:43:21 PM

I can easily get addicted and that is why I am avoiding gambling and do it as fun and not to make profits. I have many rich friends that football betting is running their life and I am not happy about it.

Maybe you can give your money to them and ask them to gather the money to place big bets. I am sure that if one or two of your friends know about football betting, you and your friends will have a bigger chance to win the game. But it just a suggestion for you to try in sports betting and you don't have to follow my suggestion if you are afraid to become addicted. You could continue to playing gambling as a part to get fun only and don't play too long in every game.

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First of all, I don't have wife, so I am not a le to discuss with, kidding. I would definitely try to leave and go for a vacation so that my addiction get vanished. I would definitely be successful too.

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Quote from: joeperry on February 14, 2019, 11:16:52 PM

2. I don't have money and realize that gambling ruined my life and in result I will not going to do gambling anymore.

For me that was the most effective way to stop gambling addiction yet the worst one also. If a gambler reach a point of null — whose all of pockets become empty, loved ones already stay away from him and feeling miserable — then that's the time when introspection comes. That's the time when he will think all of the bad decisions and missed opportunities in his existence thus resulting to a renunciation. I hope all people will not experience this but if it is the only thing which makes them repent then so be it, sometimes you really need to fall down and rise again to become a better person.

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