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Quote from: Japinat on February 12, 2019, 08:59:00 PM

I wouldn't waste my time talking to my wife, she'll not understand anyway.
Gambling is a man's game and usually a wife would not understand it unless he herself is also a gambler.

Yes she will not understand but if you explained to her for sure things will be sort with her,our wife must be our best friend because above anyone they are our strength,they are the one who can help us to understand things that we accidentally did specially wrong doings

For me i will talk to her ,i will confess and seek for advices because she is the most affected on this problem ,involving money matter our wife is the other hand that will feed our children’s

But i will try to do anything that i will never cross this bridge for all i want is my family’s goodwill

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Why would you blame someone else when you lose a game? That's one of the silliest things I've ever heard, I really don't understand the thinking behind that.
You really shouldn't blame anyone but yourself for losing a game, if your actions caused you to lose that game.

I don't see how anyone else's actions could cause you to lose a game. Except maybe in poker, but even there it's a combination of your own actions and someone else's.

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Since this question only if and i will answer with my personal opinion that if i was being an addicted then i will asking my family to help me to cure my addiction because family influence will have big impact to cure addictions and i will more dicipline to heal it because addictions is dangerous disease and for long term effect it can ruin my life and my family so be honest about my conditions probably can help me to cure my disease

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

This is a hard question to answer, specially for addicted one because majority of them doesn't want to admit their addiction.

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing.

It's a bold move, but this should be a case to case basis. Not everyone's wife will totally agree with this approved.

Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

True. I have been in this situation before, I blame everyone, all the people from behind, even someone who sits beside me in a slot machine. lol. Until I realized that I've been too much in gambling because of that attitude, so what I do is control and reduced my gambling and be a responsible gambler. I don't want to be another person who's going to ruined his life, so I decided to just play and have fun and not worry about my winnings.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

I am sure that I will get get addicted to anything any more. Yes, I was addicted to forex trading and lost some big money by the years of 2007 to 2008. I have learned some very big big lessons after ward about the life and people hence I believe I will never get addicted to anything including girls and drugs.

In recent times, I have noticed that I am searching for gambling strategies after heard about some stories on big winning in few gambling houses. But, within two days I just started about studying how houses may cheat us and then I stopped looking for methods to crack profits. Similarly, I have noticed that I am taking alcohol more frequently (yes, my name is beerloover), and once I realized I was getting addicted to that, I started to focus on my trading and now I am drinking yearly once or twice.

I request gamblers here NOT to focus on what you will do after got addicted but must focus on how to prevent addictions even you stay as a gambler. Prevention is always better than curing.

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It's going to be difficult to admit to your partner if you're addicted, so that's the first problem here. I don't believed that someone will simply sit and talk to someone that they have lost so much money in gambling. I'll possibility cover things as much as I can, to avoid arguments until I start and wake up from my addiction. Good thing though that me and my partner are into gambling casino's and we go play at the same time so we know the effects and the money involved, so at the end of the day, there's no argument. If I'm in your shoes though, I will quit gambling slowly before everything is too late.

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Quote from: CryptopreneurBrainboss on February 13, 2019, 04:17:31 AM

I gamble with precaution like they say "Precaution is better than cure" so that's how i keep my gambling habit in check.

its not precaution its prevention . " prevention is better than cure " but we dont exactly need to avoid or stop playing a gambling in order to not get addicted because addiction can be controllable .

in my case im a regular player of online gambling but i never get experienced to be addicted with it because i have a time management . i divide my time to do other important things .

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

Seek professional help from experts in handling addiction. I won't take my problem to friends or family members to avoid unnecessary argument on how I'm wasting my money, i feel I'm already getting addicted to cryptocurreny and adding gambling to it will just end my life. I gamble with precaution like they say "Prevention is better than cure" so i prevent myself from getting addicted by taking some precautions.

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Hmm if assuming that I get addicted un poker for example, I think of so many things that could possibly happen to me. First, maybe I will stop studying not only because of wasting a lot of money coming from the losses I got from gambling but also because I already lose my time and interest to it. I also see myself becoming a robber or drug pusher or a person who desperately do anything just to earn money. And since luck is not on eveyone's hands then I might end up as a beggar or at least a broke and helpless teenager who regret his bad decisions in life and now jealous to his batch mates who are succesful in the present Sad

Anyway, that's only a what if. I guess I will never be that kind of person since I knoe to myself that I am disciplined and have self-control Grin

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

It will be serious if you ask me,I will mentally get disturbed a lot if I am addicted to something and it will feel like a hell and I experienced that addiction on something other than gambling but in gambling it will be much worse since I have to give more money whenever I want to get happiness from it and it will keep eating all my saving,then assets and my life as well.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

If I realized that i am already a addict then i will not choose to talk to my wife about how much to spend instead i will asked her to help me out,i will seek for other family members for better solutions as I believe that addiction can be cured if we are willing to accept the reality and will be open for advices and help from people who loves us most

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

Geeting addicted in one thing and realising that you are addicted is another thing.
If I realise that I'm adicted,I would seek for professional help and try to stay away from money whatsoever.
My wife will spend all the money in our household. Grin

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Quote from: Dreamchaser21 on February 12, 2019, 04:19:53 PM

Its hard to notice that you’re already addicted in gambling but if I continue to lose big money and becomes more depressed everyday, I will ask for some help with my family now. I know at first they will be mad at me because of what I’ve down but of course they will help me to stop that addiction. Family is the only option for me to become normal person again.

The first step is to inform others the real situation what has happened and in what state of mind the person is. Because this will give others the thought to think the real state of yours and accordingly things would be done in order to set free from the addiction.

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Quote from: shoreno on February 12, 2019, 10:28:19 PM

Quote from: Japinat on February 12, 2019, 08:59:00 PM

I wouldn't waste my time talking to my wife, she'll not understand anyway.

she will . its better to confront your problems with her if that really bothers you because that can release stress build up .

Husband knows their wife and not other people.
When you want to be help, go seek some help to those you trust and comfortable in sharing your problem.

If I would be addicted, the first person I would go is my parents, they know me better and they have more experience than me
so I'm sure I can get some advise and the real help. No parents that wouldn't care for their children, though we mature in the world
but as long as they are still alive, they will always do their responsibility to guide us.

We should be honest and accept that we seek for help, otherwise, any advise we will receive will become useless.

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I will tell my family about my addicting so they can find a solution for me, and maybe I will ask someone in my family to carry my money and don't give it to me, and he will manage that money for my daily needs. Besides that, I will ask someone always to follow me wherever I go, always reminds me in every time I want to come back to the gambling. And if necessary, I will ask them to go with me to go to a psychiatrist. I will try everything to quit gambling because I love my family and I don't want to lose everything I have.

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Quote from: cabalism13 on February 12, 2019, 01:20:25 PM

If you're the one who gets addicted, what possibilities can you do?

If you're gonna ask me, maybe I'll first have a serious discussion with my wife bout the money that I will gonna spend at the casinos then later on we could have an endless arguement that can lead us into nothing. If I get addicted maybe there is also a possibility that I will certainly blame people whenever I lose on a game. (That's the attitude that I have and I don't want it to show.)

And you? Would you be the same? Or even worst?

I probable end up jobless first because i will not concentrate in my work. Poor performance can lead to being fired. Next, since i wasnt earning, i will end up being bankrupt. This is the moment i will consult my family. After a lot of confrontation and rehabilitation, hopefuly will be better after a year. But i know this wouldnt happen because i stay away to being addict as much as possible.

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Quote from: Japinat on February 12, 2019, 08:59:00 PM

I wouldn't waste my time talking to my wife, she'll not understand anyway.

she will . its better to confront your problems with her if that really bothers you because that can release stress build up .

Quote from: Japinat on February 12, 2019, 08:59:00 PM

Gambling is a man's game and usually a wife would not understand it unless he herself is also a gambler.

gambling is not only for men but its for all genders though its not for all ages and for all countries . here on our place i can see many females playing card based games and bingo every single day .

Quote from: Japinat on February 12, 2019, 08:59:00 PM

I might seek some guidance to my fellow gambler who have been able to control themselves in gambling who those who
have been been to cure themselves from addiction, and I prefer to take to people which are family members or a close friends.

i think your fellow gamblers is also addicted to gambling and cannot give you an honest advice because they cant also cure their selves . you better talk to your family members because they are more effective .

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I wouldn't waste my time talking to my wife, she'll not understand anyway.
Gambling is a man's game and usually a wife would not understand it unless he herself is also a gambler.

I might seek some guidance to my fellow gambler who have been able to control themselves in gambling who those who
have been been to cure themselves from addiction, and I prefer to take to people which are family members or a close friends.

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Depends how deeply I become addicted to gambling. I do already gamble on a rather regular basis, and I find it pretty unlikely I'll ever dig myself into a hole financially through gambling, but if I ever do become addicted I'll just find a way to stop spending money on gambling by doing something like preoccupying myself with something else that will actually help me acquire more money or try to get professional help. I'm not addicted to anything right now besides possibly caffeine through coffee consumption, though, but I do know and have all the resources I need to get help at my fingertips.

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If you will be able to control yourself from being too obsessive about playing gambling then you won't have a problem if you are addicted already to gambling. Being responsible for what have you done in the first place is your goal after failing to multiply your bankroll in the hope of playing gambling. Blaming isn't the answer to your question if you think that would fix everything because eventually all the people that you blame will leave you and you might end up being alone living on your own.

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