"You are free to have whatever opinion you want of me, but I encourage you to take a look through the times I have been what you deem 'disrespectful', I cannot recall a single time I have not been proven right, but you are free to give me an example where I have been."
I never once accused you of being "disrespectful"? I quite clearly said I have
a high opinion of you and never used that word.
"but as someone who is religiously attached to rationality and objective truth I will continue to point out when you are wrong."
Apparently not? Since the word you've quoted and asked me to justify is not a word I used and not one I would use! You are professional, not disrespectful.
The only vague insult I levelled at you was completely true, that you can be a little "acerbic", as can CFB and Dom from time to time. It's no big deal, you don't need to defend yourself so passionately. It's ok to just shrug it off and say 'meh, yeah maybe we could have been a little bit more sensitive on occasion'. I also framed my comments with plenty of deserved compliments that you ignored. I'm a lot further from perfect than any of you I'm sure.
"ascerbic": sharp, sarcastic, sardonic, satirical, scathing, cutting, razor-edged, incisive, penetrating, piercing, biting, stinging, searing, keen...
If you're really attached to rationality and objective truth then I recommend you broaden the horizon and spend a very worthwhile 3 hours learning something from a true genius about non-violent communication.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YwXH4hNfgPgNVC changed my life. I was much more like you guys before I watched that video for the first time lol
. You'll never look at communication issues in the same way again.
It certainly helps make communication more effective and pleasant when we consider it from a "feelings and needs" perspective. Marshall passed away recently, but his legacy has grown into a global movement. You just need to get past the cringe-making song in the first 5 mins. Once you are half-way through you'll already see then genius of it, if you're half as smart as you seem to be
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I am not trying to teach you anything David, you are the one doing things to change the world, I'm just saying what I see and sharing what I know, and I'm obviously saying it poorly because I'm making you defensive instead of constructive. I suspect I need to go back and watch that video for the fifth time myself
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Much love to you David, I'm sorry you saw more of the criticism than compliments in my post, I really do appreciate what you do for the project and you can see that if you re-read my post again with a constructive frame of mind instead of a defensive one. I agree that your attitude has been somewhat necessary, although I do contend that NVC would have helped you handle it 'better'.