If looking for the wrong one is indeed the culprit, namely the gambler, he is responsible for whatever decisions he makes, even with controlling his emotions, finances and other ha there is no one who can help him except himself, including his behavior towards the people around him.
Ha like this should be realized by the perpetrators of gambling, but unfortunately people who are addicted to excess they turn a deaf ear and ignore anything and that's the reason why addicts will be claimed as a bad influence on society, people like this must come to the point where he can't do anything else and realize that he must make changes in his life to live better.
That's right, the one who can help is themselves if they themselves cannot restrain themselves then they themselves make themselves in big problems such as finances that become messy. The actions taken are entirely our own responsibility, besides that the risks involved in gambling must also be borne by ourselves, such as the risk of losing money which is certain that it must be borne by ourselves, because there are gamblers who compensate others for the risks that occur. To be honest, if they can consider the actions they will take, maybe there will be no losses or problems, especially when they are addicted, of course the problem is themselves and they will find it difficult to get out of it.
With those who are addicted, they tend to close their ears because there must be people who advise them but the addicted person will not listen, even if the offender listens to the advice, he will not take the action that is in the advice, with him addicted he will only focus on the gambling he does. It is difficult for addicts to realize even if other people try to help, unless there is awareness from themselves that can make them realize and not continue anymore.
The house always wins, its as simple as that. Its your money, you wanna gamble it away? Thats your choice. But remember, you made that decision. Nobody forced you. I see these guys, they get in too deep, lose everything. Start blaming everyone else but themselves. Thats loser talk. You gotta take responsibility.
The worst part? They wont listen to reason. You try to help them, they shut you out. Its like a disease. They're addicted to losing. They gotta look in the mirror and say, "Hey, this is my problem, and I gotta fix it." Personal growth, thats the key. You gotta trust yourself, trust your gut. And you gotta trust the people who are trying to help you. You listen to them, you open your mind, you start to change. Thats how you win. Not at the tables, but in life.
