with gamblers, in my opinion, they are no longer strange about borrowing money, of course they will have problems that will make them difficult in the future. if they have debt, of course they have to pay it off, but gamblers who are addicted to gambling will not be able to easily pay and pay off their debt if they don't have money or when they have money, they might even have the thought of going back to gambling first to double up. their money and hope to win, the aim of which is to cover all losses including the debts that surround them. and when someone who is addicted has debts they will not be able to easily pay and repay them and if they are unable to live they may end their life and these debts become the responsibility of the people closest to them.
I agree with you, indeed if you don't have money then it's best not to gamble, let alone take actions that carry big risks such as borrowing money; I think they borrowed the money because they wanted to get a win that could help their financial problems. Apart from that, it is possible that the addict might run away and isolate themselves to avoid the debt that is chasing them, of course this is irresponsible, and as a result their family will be the one to help them.
This gambling thing? It's not only pushing a lever or rolling dice. That rabbit hole is dark and twisted. You hunt that first high, that win, but then it turns on you. You lose; you try to recover; you lose more; the next thing you know is debt drowning. It is similar to quicksand. You drop farther the more you fight. You start borrowing; probably from friends, relatives, then loan sharks. You are gambling your life, your relationships, your peace of mind, not only money now
The truth is, though, addiction is not a character defect. It is a true goddamn sickness of the brain. These people are sick not weak. Their need is for assistance rather than criticism. What then is our next action? We reach out. We offer support, understanding, therapy, whatever it takes. We have to help them to realize they are not alone and break the stigma. Everyone is fighting their own war. Be gentle, patient, and maybe just maybe we might help them back off the brink
It is true that many people say that the more we bet, the more money we lose and that's it. With those who chase victory, it can be said that they are digging a hole to bury themselves in, because by chasing victory, what will happen is that they will lose more. a lot of money and it will make them feel pressure if they keep losing money, every now and then they might be able to get a win but unfortunately the win they get won't be able to make them stop completely, because there are gamblers who can't wait when they get a win, they end up betting again. by increasing the number of bets which ultimately only results in the winnings that have been obtained being lost again and that is where their mentality can be affected which makes it possible for them to become stressed, especially if they are already in a lot of debt.
Indeed, for those who become addicted, it is a brain disease, where they are so completely influenced by gambling that they don't think about anything else, they only think about gambling and what they want to do. and being able to recover from this addiction is certainly not easy, even with help from someone who is an expert such as psychology, it does not guarantee that someone who is addicted can recover completely and be clean despite their addiction.