If you do play gambling with high expectation or really have that mindset that you could be ending up on winning or making money then this place isnt for you as the things you would mainly encounter will really be that definitely against into your expectations and this is why it would be best that you should really accept on what are the things that could happen along the way.
You shouldn't really be that making yourself that expecting too much on things which arent supposed to be that way. Having high expectation but on the time that reality make you that realize that it was never been easy on making money with gambling specially if you arent that lucky enough. There are really people who are really that too much abusing those kind of thoughts until they would be busting out themselves.
They really have to change their expectations about winning from gambling because it will only make them deeper into gambling, and there is a possibility that they will experience even more losses. We can only use gambling as entertainment and nothing more because if we use gambling excessively, we will experience losses and lose money, which many people have felt. Those who still have high expectations about gambling will not realize that it has given them loss after loss, but they continue their gambling activities. Making money from gambling is never easy because they have to keep gambling without stopping, and that can result in losing more and more money.
In a way it is really ironic that those that are unable to accept their losses and keep gambling hoping to recover their money are the ones that will lose the most of it, while those that can deal with the losses they got, as they know very well that gambling is just another hobby for them, will be the ones that will gamble responsibly and only lose what they can afford to lose, and while losing control like this once or twice is still acceptable, if this becomes common place, it would be better for those people to leave gambling behind as it is obvious they cannot really deal with it.
Those who cannot accept their defeat will return to gambling and continue to hope to win. But no matter how hard they try, they probably won't be able to win even if they add more money to gambling easily. Gambling is entertainment and not a job that can make money, but they can gamble responsibly so they don't lose much money. These are the people who can accept their losses so that they will not experience serious problems from gambling because they only use gambling as entertainment. But when they feel they can no longer control themselves or start not being able to use gambling as entertainment, they must immediately stop gambling for a while or even permanently. If they still gamble, it is feared that they will really lose control of themselves in gambling and could suffer even bigger losses.
Don't you know what happened to them?
They have big goals and ambitions in making money from gambling and from this they cannot accept all their losses until they end up trying to recover their losses.
The goals and ambitions that are so big towards achieving profit will clearly not be able to accept when defeat occurs, over time the attitude of recovering from defeats that is always done ultimately makes them become addicted to gambling.
The impact of not being able to accept defeat is so great and can influence every gambler to make more frequent mistakes, but they all do it without realizing it because they have lost what is called self-control.
If we never think about making money from gambling then it is clear that we can always have sense of responsibility and wise attitude and that way whatever results we get will always bring happiness.
Losing is not the saddest thing as long as we gamble within limits and can use the money we are prepared to lose, it just that most gamblers use savings or money used for living needs as betting capital.
This makes it difficult for every gambler to accept their losses.
We don't know what happens to them, but perhaps they will experience bankruptcy that they never imagined because they will continue gambling until finally, there is no money left, and that makes them lose all their money. If they still can't accept the loss, they might keep gambling, and when they don't have any money, they might borrow money from other people, which will only create new problems for them. The goal and ambition to win from gambling make them forget that gambling is just for fun and not to make money, so they will fall deeper into gambling without being able to get out easily. That will only make them become gamblers who are addicted to gambling, and if that happens, it will be difficult to cure them.
However accepting loss is difficult, but we must be able to try to accept it because that is the result we will receive for playing gambling. We cannot refuse it, but we can reduce the number of losses so they do not become large by limiting our gambling activities. For this reason, we must have responsibility and discipline that can control us when playing gambling and prevent large losses. Accepting defeat and always remembering that it is a normal thing experienced by all gamblers will make us aware that gambling is still entertainment, and we don't need to gamble too seriously so that we don't experience bigger losses.
I think that not gambling any longer is not a solution. For instance, if I sell my laptop and use the money to gamble and then lose it, if I stop gambling, does it take away the fact that my laptop was sold and used for gambling? Of course not. The problem remains with the gambler whether he stops or not. If he stops, he must seek another alternative, either selling another property to replace his laptop if the laptop is so important to him or borrowing money. If he borrows money, he becomes a debtor and must seek a way to pay it back. On the other hand, if he continues gambling maybe he will win. But then, instead of advocating that a gambler shouldn`t gamble anymore because of the possibility of experiencing more loss, it will be more profitable for the gambler to set a limitation and stick to it.
Selling the laptop and using the money to continue gambling is not a solution because he could lose all his money while he no longer has the laptop. And it's not fun if we lose, and we have to be able to reduce the number of losses so that they don't get bigger. Indeed, we will lose, but we will not experience a big loss, so it is a loss that we can accept. And because of the loss, we can advise them not to gamble and save their money to increase the amount of other money so that they will have more money. But if they really want to continue gambling, they should have limits on how they use their money and always adhere to them so that they don't gamble excessively.
