Exactly, better decision making and avoiding things that may harmed not just us but more on the side where people around us is also needed to be considered, being engage into gambling is not an easy task to stop, there are people who got addicted and have that big problem which includes their relationship with their close friends and love ones, something that we really don't want to happen to us, we can avoid things if we wisely choose our decision not to engage that deep with gambling.
As long as we don't ignore our daily obligations, especially if we are family members or the breadwinner, I do not see anything wrong with hiding our love of gaming. Because some people don't want others to know that they gamble because it's their job.
It's also possible that they're keeping it a secret because they don't want to ruin their family or cause another argument with their husband; either scenario is possible. There are thus several explanations for why it is kept a secret.
And at that time his wife began to find out that he was a gambler, even though he was trying to cover up his gambling to his wife, over time he would definitely be found out, because one day he lost, there would definitely be a fight in his family.
You can't cover anything if you already using money that allocated to something important, that kind of gesture only proves that addiction is already present, since you can't control yourself and you are already willing to use money that should be used to a much important thing compared using it with your gambling activities.