Topic: Keeping your gambling habit a secret. - page 37. (Read 8311 times)

I think keeping your activities as a gambler a secret is also a positive thing when you try to keep it a secret because in this case the treatment or view of each person to gamblers is a little different. I don't know about other countries but in the country I live in, especially in the area I live in, the stigma of "gambler" is seen as someone who has a bad habit and is viewed differently.
Even though there is no prohibition for us to gamble because it is the right of each person but still the view will be bad so that when we say clearly that we are a gambler then surely we will be labelled as a bad person.
For some people it may not be a problem and tend to ignore people's judgement but for others of course it is very disturbing so it is better to keep it secret than we end up being seen differently.

Keeping your gambling habits secret that will make you to be addicted in gambling and you will be spending more than your income, so gambling is something I know very well that when you keep having secret of gambling you will in same time being addicted in gambling some for we not be addicted we have to make a template of gambling so that we will not be a committed member of gambling, what I want you to understand concerning gambling is that it, have to do with senses or wisdom, so people doesn't belive how gambling works but they engage on it to make a secret money

Keeping everything discreet, having particular aims but not been able to reach is often painful. Addiction is the worst stage of gambling, they have absolutely no limitation to losses, they keep losing and tendering to have hope which will make us to continue wagering without targets. Gambling is for every mature mind out there, but we should gamble with the appropriate techniques and ensuring we have calculated risks management. It's not all about having a partner, we are opportune to many solid opportunities but we have to take things really early, because no one knows what we do expects.

When you are single then you can spend your money in whatever way you want as you do not really have a responsibility towards anyone else but yourself, but when you are married and you have kids then this is no longer acceptable, your partner needs to know every single one of the expenses you make, now if you are only gambling a few dollars here and there then it may not necessary to tell them about your gambling, but if you are spending an important amount then they need to know as if you get addicted then you could destroy your family.

You are very lucky in this respect because I have seen most gambler's wives do not like gambling. Because gamblers can't give proper time with them. But since you do controlled gambling and your wife also knows about it, you will get enough family support which is not possible for everyone. I personally try gambling occasionally but never share it with anyone. Because if I win some may praise me but if I lose they will scold me. But I believe that if a gambler keeps these three things that are gambling, family and his work in accordingly then he will be able to gamble smoothly.

Big problem will be brought to the table, if addiction already exist then surely it will be tough to handle, I'm sure there are many experienced gamblers who suffer in this kind of problem but do manage to resolve it and find a good way to continue, while for other people they are trying to hide but there's always something that will open it up when the needs or demand for keeping inside the casino is already activated and you can't no longer balance your finances as more is being use for gambling participation.

This is reality once a man involve into gambling and he become an addict of a specific game. Which is we all know that life is like tire sometimes we are on the top but sometimes we are on the bottom which means not all the time we have a lot of money. So the main thing here is that once a man involve in gambling and he don't have little expenses money then he became an aggressive and make a way until their budget funds will use in gambling.

It's a great way of looking at things, I also think the same, I think that people who want to keep their game secret is because they think a lot about others, and they Care about the opinion of others, this is something that we will always do for to have Something more focused, at least for me, I don't give it importance, everything I do is Under my Responsibility without Regard to what others think, and it is something that should always be like that, there are many people who have certain problems about everything nature, be it personality, whatever I have to do with it, a person has to be free, they cannot be looking for other things, always the best so that they can do great things, me because the truth is my personality is quite shameless and like me I tell the truth in front of me, because at least that sincerity is what helps me to always be Clear in my Things, I am not Hiding Anything , for that reason I always do my things like that, each person is free to be as You want, if you want to hide that you play in a casino, then you will have your reasons, or you give Importance to Other People , something that I am not like that and that is why I am somewhat Daring,  but I have Seen this Problem , not with the thing about the casino, on the part of the Best ones , I don't know why they don't care what other people say about them, I don't understand the reason, in my case I am very Transparent, I think this is one of the reasons why people don't mess with me In my daily life it is because Sony is very Sincere, it is me and now and in the forum too, and I say something, as long as one as a person does not mess with anyone, No one should mess with you, because why, and that should Always be like That .

A person who wants to have conflicts with Someone then looks for them and if he says it upfront, not hidden, like cowards, then I think things are about that, whoever wants to hide that he does some type of things , then let him do it , yes He wants to hide that he is in a casino , and if he is happy Being that Way, then he should Do it.

That's what you should never do, you need to control yourself when it comes to that. Think of your family first.
If you don't have funds for your gambling habit and reach the point when you're already spending the budget that is for your family, I think you have a problem. You are too addicted to gambling and I don't think you should not hide it from your wife, you need to tell her that you have a problem about gambling, I'm sure she will help you because she is your wife, you have family and friends that will help you instead of fighting and reaching divorce

It's best to promote only positive content as much as possible. There's no intention to vilify gambling activities, but gambling isn't considered a favorable pursuit by the majority. Sharing gambling activities on social media has the potential to pique the interest of some individuals, and the most undesirable consequence is when they end up losing everything due to gambling.

Sharing gambling activities with family might not be a major issue. However, transparency with family members is essential, and at the very least, involve them as a safeguard to prevent us from falling too deep into the world of gambling.

This form of enjoyment doesn't need to be widely disseminated, as the fewer people who are aware of it, the better.

Well that's right guys, besides the fact that they are afraid of being caught because they are afraid of being scolded, on the other hand there are also several other reasons where they hide it because they are afraid of being borrowed money by others including some of their closest colleagues, but I don't think that their friends always borrow from them, and if they borrow it only when the gambler wins, I have been in such a position when I was hanging out with friends and then I gambled and won then they definitely asked for rations for snacks or borrowed for other purposes, it really happened guys you are right.

I think it's better that way, meaning if they have won then it's better for them to spend the money for other purposes in the real world, meaning they should enjoy the money instead of reallocating the budget to gamble and lose again, it often happens. So basically enjoy the winnings and if you want to gamble again then you can leave a little bit of money in the casino wallet for you to gamble later. The issue of some friends asking for a share of their other friends' winnings I think is like a common thing in every pool.

It is indeed a big mistake if someone uses money that is used for the family because it will make it difficult for the family to meet their living needs. It would be safer if they created a separate budget for gambling so they don't interfere with their family's expenses. And as long as he can stay within his limits, his family's finances will not be affected and he can gamble safely. But it's best not to hide his gambling activities from other people because that will make him experience difficulties, especially if he slowly becomes addicted. If he can tell the truth about his gambling activities to his family and they can also accept it, it won't be a problem because he will try to always stay within his limits.

Never ever make yourself that make use of the amount which are really that intended for family funds or something that it is really that allocated for emergencies and daily living because once you had do have already compromised these money then pretty sure that you are really that endangering your own family when emergency or problem do comes and this what makes things even more shit if you dont have the funds that you could really make use of just because you had been able to make it use on gambling which arent supposed to be done in the first place. Gambling habit and trying out to hide it from your wife? Its not bad as long you dont
compromise your salary on losing it all because if you do then follow up questions would really be asked, then what would be your main reason on where those funds go? This is where things becomes messy once you do
caught yourself on such scenario or condition and  this is something that should be avoided and its better to play on moderation and be transparent with your wife when it comes to spending money.

Gambling with money used for family work is the biggest mistake. A person is safe to gamble as long as they spend their own money. This picture is usually seen in addicted gamblers who do not consider what might happen if they lose money. Also, if a man shares his gambling with his wife then he will never get support from his wife most of the time. So many do not even want to tell their wives about this. Best of all, if a gambler gambles with a certain amount of money, he does not need to be accountable to others. Gambling is good if you inform your wife but most women consider gambling from negative aspects.

And sometimes the only reason why other people knew that they win the game because they brag it, if they will let others know their secret then expect that people will lend money once you won in a game, without giving them reason they will not know it and they will not lend some money. We can share other things to people and yet we can make it as a secret too.

Maybe that's also the reason why I'm more secretive about my gambling to anyone, including sharing about my winnings, usually people who often win at gambling are very happy to share their stories on their social media while the people around them turn out to be good people towards them just to got a loan, in the end there was a dispute because he lent money to his friend and ended up fighting because of the debt.

I am a person who can never give debt to my friends because it makes me tired of having to collect it so I prefer to share with my friends without them borrowing money from me, so I am more closed when I win big from gambling, I can treat them eating big without knowing I won gambling. If I buy anything, it will never be a problem from my gambling winnings because I am a hard worker so people will assume that it is the result of my work, not winning gambling, but it would be strange for the unemployed to win gambling.

Some people try to keep their game very secret,because they may fear of being caught and loan asked by their friends and family members.But day after day, the gambler may be captured by the activities of money used on buying the luxurious item or the property using the money which he received from the gambling.The gambler can’t able to hold the full money without using in the real world.So spending is enough to capture from his friends,if the close friend had found your winning.Surely he will ask the loan and which he say to pay in a week.

Well maybe it's a stupid act that will only waste time because it will get caught anyway, but to be honest I wouldn't really say they are stupid because I think what they do is natural because there will definitely be fear at the beginning, they are afraid of getting caught and afraid of becoming a problem in their family so they think for a while it's better to hide it, I think their assumptions are like that at first even though in the end they will also get caught.

The impact of gambling will indeed be very detrimental to anyone, including the people around him will also definitely be carried away by feeling the negative, especially in household matters which are now increasingly divorced because the economy has decreased due to gambling. as I said above, talking about everything will be the best solution for them and if they dare to be honest then maybe your wife will not be too angry, because you have told the truth before it's too late, so you and your wife will be able to find the best solution there. This is a better alternative than them continuing to keep their bad habits a secret.

That is a mistake a husband should avoid because it is money for his family's needs. He should not use his money to gamble because there is a possibility that his money will run out and he will not be able to meet his family's needs. He can only use money to gamble that he has budgeted for gambling. The husband also should not hide his gambling activities from his wife because later, there could be arguments in the household, triggering bigger problems. Maybe he can tell his wife that he likes gambling and she will give her best advice to her husband. If possible, his wife will provide other solutions so that her husband doesn't gamble anymore and can allocate his money for his living needs. It would be a good solution for his family.