Topic: Know when to stop - page 28. (Read 4606 times)

I agree with you, therefore of course we have to consider all the actions we take to avoid problems. Of course someone who has a good mindset, in my opinion they won't do things that will cause problems such as triggering their emotions to rise. However, in my opinion, this still happens a lot among gamblers, usually many of whom still dare to take their actions rashly and don't consider them properly, thus causing problems which in the end make it difficult for them and even harm themselves.

This really needs to be paid attention to from the start, because there are gamblers who gamble excessively, when they gamble by bringing a certain amount of money to gamble and are ready to lose, but when they gamble and lose but almost win, it could make them gamble again by depositing money at the casino again. It's true what you said, if they are like that, of course they have done something bad, especially by taking out loans to gamble, it is a disaster that they have deliberately invited which can destroy their own lives and even those of their families or relatives. They should be able to know how much money they can spend. and when they lose they have to stop gambling, because if they continue it is not guaranteed that the situation will improve.

that's what I think, we should be able to introspect ourselves. and I think by doing that maybe big losses will not occur, by realizing that we are just players at the bottom with luck that is not necessarily on our side so it is not easy to win, especially by depositing money back at the gambling casino in my opinion this is an exaggeration . knowing when to stop is a must, in my opinion not only when they lose, when they win they also have to be able to know when they stop, because continuing their gambling can also trigger big problems.

that's true, they can stop gambling when they lose or win by doing other things that essentially don't lead to gambling, in fact I think many young people have started doing activities including sports or hanging out because they prefer to gamble, and of course this is not a positive value, if they become less active, of course it will be bad for their health. In my opinion, what must be done is to have something that acts as a deterrent or wall to prevent them from gambling again, and also with the self-control that you said will help them to avoid big losses.

Yes, this is intended to emphasize preventive measures, I am sure that all gamblers will never want to lose or suffer losses, but unfortunately most gamblers cannot pay more attention to preventive measures so how can they possibly minimize the risk of losing if basically they always ignore some precautions. Of course that's true, and I think in gambling there is nothing more important than precautions.

In fact, you can win at any time in a certain amount if you are lucky enough, but what is more certain is that you are very likely to experience consecutive losses if you cannot control everything and also apply good limits and self-control. However, being a healthy gambler in gambling activities is better than those who are too aggressive and end up addicted, all of this is for your own interests and safety too, because since we don't do it then who will? This means that other people will never care about what we experience in the gambling activities that we do, and maybe they will only come when we are lucky by getting a winning amount.

I think what we mean by the phrase about stopping is that a person should get time to think about his profits and losses. This is a very important thing, for example, a long series of losses indicates that our strategies are becoming inadequate for the reality in which we find ourselves. Perhaps something has changed in the world or in the game. Some trends have emerged that we do not take into account. These may even be seasonal trends, but even these are very important. It is possible that there is something wrong with our psyche. Sometimes you need to take time to stop and think for a while. Maybe we should even meditate. You know, people who find themselves in a long streak of failures begin to meditate intuitively.

It is true not to deposit another amount of money when we have lost because that could cause us to experience an even bigger loss than before and make us regret it even more. We should be able to introspect ourselves when we experience defeat so that we can realize that we have been gambling using more money. If they realize that they have lost a lot of money by gambling, they don't need to gamble anymore or don't need to use a lot of money anymore. They must know when to stop gambling, especially after experiencing defeat and do not need to deposit any more money but choose to rest first. We really have to decide well and don't regret it later.

If they have other activities, they can do these activities as a diversion from gambling so that they will not gamble too often. This really helps someone not to get too deep into gambling and can still take care of himself when he is gambling. With the many temptations they will encounter from gambling, it would be better for them to have better self-control so that when they are gambling, they don't gamble excessively. This will prevent them from losing more money because they have created a barrier that functions to prevent excessive gambling.

Lols..., do you know how much he/she has lose before having such winning. But he will never tell you he loses. It's better we should learn to introduce people to gambling telling the the risk that comes with it so they won't blame us if they eventually lose out.


Keep trying. But remember to manage your risk as you try. Don't be push because of the big money you want to win to make you bet with what you can't avoid to lose. If you are destine to meet your fortune through gambling, I will definitely make it there one day. I also never win big in gambling but hope for the best one day.

It is always good to do any kind of things to stop, we are people who are not afraid to have anything to do and it will generate a better action, or so, every time we do something that is destined to happen, well we must stop, if It's bad, for example there are times when we are on a good streak, and what we do is generate more emotions if we don't stop what we will achieve is that we will lose a lot more money, therefore every time we manage to make a good profit, we have to buy, or at least bet with little money so that our loss is not significant, because a gain is a gain, then we must make and withdraw quickly without thinking about it so much, in this order of days we must always consider that for any of these eventualities the Money is the most important thing, for us being in a casino what we must take care of most is our money, there is no other way , that is why it is so important to say things here.

When we are in a casino one of the most important things is to know how much money we can spend, so as not to spend extra what we should not, in Almost the cases that are mostly pure addictions it is because the players cannot control their money , they always remain Decapitalized. and they can't do anything else to recover, the quickest way out they see is to lend Money to be Able to play and try to recover what they lost, but that is the Worst thing they can do since when they do something like that, the only thing they achieve is lose more and possibly that money they lent, then the bears become like an ant for the person, because not only what they had is lost, they also lose what they borrowed, and if they resort to lending more money to banks, friends and any other person or third party , the Debts will be enormous and that is something we should not do, because it enters the field of total irresponsibility, because the Person is aware of everything that is done.

You are correct. I picked interest in gambling when a friend won #15million. My friend has always told me that gambling pays but then I will always tell him I don't have an interest until the day he won big.

After I joined I have been hoping to win big also but till date I haven't gotten that win. At a point, I stopped. So, it is true that most people don't understand the nitty-gritty of the game before delving into it.

That's the big problem when a gambling player doesn't know when to stop. These are the classes and types of gamblers who always chase their gambling losses, and those who do this are those who have gambling addictions.

That's why we should know how to limit our gambling money. In this way, we can practice self-discipline and control our emotions when we lose a large amount of money playing gambling, which is usually what makes gamblers difficult to manage.

Most problem about gamblers is that they mostly run in into gambling when they hear a friend making winnings from it. Most times gamblers don't tell friends about their lost, they rather make mouth about their winnings. This make people around them think that is how it goes often. So most gamblers don't understand the risk in gambling before they jump into it.

Those who are gambling for the sake of just having fun do not invest too much in gambling, or should I say, they don't invest more than what they can afford to lose to gambling, so for them, we can't really say that they lose their bankroll, since it's like paying for a service, they get what they pay for, which is the fun derived from the game they played in their gambling activities.

And speaking about winning in gambling, let's just say that winning is all about how lucky a gambler is, does not matter how much, for sometimes, even winning a small amount could still turn out to be a struggle for some gamblers in some circumstances, hence, why some gamblers will be losing more than they win for a certain period of time.
If winning small amount was that easy, most gamblers will definitely be in the green since they are win small amount cumulatively until it becomes big amount.

Kenny Rogers was right with the song. And even if the gambler doesn't know when to walk away, eventually he will because all things comes to an end eventually irrespective of the outcome as mentioned. But walking away on your own accord after coming to a logical conclusion is the best for the gambler.

Stopping immediately can create or cause a huge withdrawal syndrome that could have a high negative impact on the gambler and force them to keeping gambling harder. It should be gone gradually and in stages. It could be done with the help of a therapist, a trusted friend that would hold the gambler responsible for their gambling or any other person deemed fit enough by the gambler to assist them in their journey to recovery that is if they are struggling with stopping.

Easy to say but when you are on the actual condition on which you are really that basically trying out to make those small bets but on the time that emotions would really be kicking in then this is where you would really be starting on making those small to bigger ones on which it would really be just that normal that you should really be having those impulsive approach and reactions
on which it would really be causing up those kind of actions on which it would really be making things even more that possibly could end up on a disaster.
People do usually stop on the time that they would really be having no money that they could pulled out into their pockets on which they would literally stop
on the time that they are on such situation.

Things like this happen mostly to those that are desperately in need of money and maybe see gambling as a safe heaven for money doubling, because those are the one's that would feel so tensioned and mostly depressed cause they've lost all they got to the only hope they've got in getting funds, cause of eagerness to make money whereas they've got no gambling skills. Why i said that is cause, someone that's a skilled gambler would be wise enough not to invested everything they've got, so they’ll apply the risk management of gambling.
 An experienced gambler that applys the risk management of gambling and is skilled at what he does, have more chances of winning, let's say about 60 to 70% chances of winning which means they win more than they loss, those are the punters. Well there are several gambling skills most of them use, there are those that stake high on little odds on daily run and their are those that play long slips with little odds and stake very little funds to win big.

Why is it that when we lose a bet, we need to stop and it becomes too big an event that we have lost the bet ?
Only if we have placed small amount in each bet according to our portfolio, then there is no way we can feel too much tension after placing a bet or losing such a bet.

Theoretically, one may never need to stop if one is following the money management skills in his gambling. If you are an experienced gamblers. you should know how gambling works and how to save your capital.

That is if we are betting a huge amount. However If the amount is only small, one loss is not enough yet to satisfy our selves. But don't worry because when we are betting like this, we already/only allocated enough money as our capital. This is usually the money that we can intend to lose, if we are unlucky. Winning small amount in gambling is easy but sometimes we can also win big amounts effortlessly.

Many only find it hard to stop after, so they still end up as a loser. Although If our goal in gambling is only to have fun and pass the time, we won't ever call our selves a loser if are unfortunate and ended up losing all of our bankroll.

That's what gambling supposed to, a gambler shouldn't feel if he's losing his money through gambling.

Using a same logic, we never want to lose any money when we're still alive.

Don't take a vacation, you will spend money and get nothing.
Don't visit zoo, event, carnival etc, you will spend money and get nothing.
Don't visit bar, nightclub, etc, you will spend more money just for fancy place and high tax, buy through store instead.

If someone can't take any loss in gambling, they won't happy to gamble.

Actually the thing you do really only need is to have that self control and and self awareness and moderation on which you wont really be needing any guides or advises around on what you should gonna do. You do have that own self will on what are the things that you should really gonna need to do. You wont really be just that making yourself that too dumb or blind about your addiction towards gambling then you could really just been able to completely stop if you are really that eager on doing so. This is why it would really be that best that you should
only be playing gambling for the sake of fun and not really just that making yourself that way too impulsive because of those kind of false hopes
that you do have towards gambling. Know when to stop then you wont really be finding yourself at such great trouble.

Obviously, especially for those who have lost a lot, or we can also find out what exactly their goal is to come to gambling from how their financial situation is, if you have one of your friends who likes to gamble and then he has financial problems when he has entered gambling activities then I think we can already conclude that he has the wrong and inadvisable goals in his gambling activities so that bad effects come to them.

All this happens because they have the mindset that gambling is a place to earn, usually the first win is what makes them misunderstand what is meant by the chances of winning, the incredible sensation they get when they win completely changes their point of view and beliefs so that they put their hopes on the results at the end of the session, when someone has the wrong understanding and mindset on gambling then obviously there is no stopping or resting because as you said that they don't want to miss any opportunity and always think that luck will come so they continue to gamble to realize their wishes and I think they will only stop when the money is gone. Yes I understand it's very difficult to tell them that their approach is wrong and they always assume that what they are doing is right.

One of the most important factor a successful gambler should acknowledge is>>>

* Know that everyday is not going to be such a day you won so, gamble carefully.

* Be concious because an eagerness to gain more could return your winnings back to the gambling sites account

* Be aware that exciting moments to continue betting with the emotions of your winning could render you regrets.

* Do not base your predictions with the pattern that had you winning because the gambling system is reprogrammed and reconfigured whereas you would get different results even on your the same betting pattern.

* Of all, be aware that you won by luck and not my your profession or you betting strategies.

Hence, be aware that if you cant not be accountable with the sum of money you won, then your winning is not profitable. So, you just have to stop gambling after considering the above. Although you could gamble other times but take control of your winning emotions.

There are a lot of different ways of self-control, and the most wonderful of them I read right here on the forum: This is also an option to hang a real bill on the monitor in order to understand that it is not numbers that are being played in the casino, but real money. You can also write down an amount on a piece of paper, more than which you cannot lose.

But the most important thing is a sincere desire to be able to control yourself, and you need it to outweigh greed.