That’s right, there’s nothing to hide. This is exactly my point too. It’s possible that OP prefers solitude due to introversion which is perfectly fine. However, even then dishonesty isnt justified. The person close to them likely knows who they married and can respect personal boundaries while still providing space for individual activities. Indeed, sharing both positive and negative experiences can foster a supportive environment potentially helping to regulate compulsive gambling behaviors.
Yes the balancing is important, good you indicated that. Non gamblers should also know about the good aspects of gambling, how it could be beneficial to health, critical thinking, money and time management. Such conversation can be intriguing to a non gamblers and could result to a slight debate, between the gambler and the non gambler, on the doubts the non gambler will have upon hearing about the advantages of gambling. A lot of them know of the disadvantages of gambling, how it ruins people's finance and life. Developing their horizons of the health aspects of gambling, not to convince them into gambling, will increase the non gambler's interest on gambling discussions.
And as well could change their initial wrong thoughts on gambling to something better. Hence, gambling conversation shouldn't include a lie of any type. Sharing the reality of gambling with a spouse strengthens the bond between both friends and boost their understanding towards the need of helping a gambling addict. Non gamblers, a lot, have the initiative of blaming addicts that's why they hesitate on helping them when they mostly need it. Being aware of such needs and how it's an emotional problem, a non gambler would add extra efforts in changing or assisting a player in trouble to a better emotional condition. They'll also detect addiction easily, a form of addiction proof for any gambler.
Yes, highlighting the positive effects of gambling can indeed open up enlightening discussions. Its crucial for both gamblers and non gamblers to engage in these conversations openly without any misconceptions clouding their understanding.
Moreover when nongamblers understand the potential benefits and the skills that can be developed through gambling, it can reshape their views and foster a more supportive environment.
This doesn’t mean encouraging them to gamble but rather helping them see beyond the common negative stereotypes.
Besides, I think that sharing true comprehensive experiences with gambling not only strengthens relationships but also builds a foundation of trust and understanding. This way if a problem arises a nongambler is more likely to approach the situation with empathy and active support.
