Lies told to cover up gambling habit - page 5.

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Quote from: junder on July 26, 2024, 04:05:57 AM

Quote from: Rabata on July 25, 2024, 11:42:36 PM

People have such bad ideas about gambling since long ago. Anyone who gambles is scolded or looked down upon. If there is a family member especially husband or wife they get worried because in gambling everyone has a common idea that they will turn into addicted gamblers. And thinking like this, one behaves abnormally towards others. I also never want to open up about my gambling. Because I know that once my gambling is known there will be a lot of criticism about me which will annoy me. So I don't like any kind of trouble which is why I resort to lies to hide my gambling. As long as my family members don't find out about my gambling habits, I can be free.

from the many eyes of the public, gambling is indeed seen as a bad thing, with many people and cases that have occurred because they have experienced life destruction. even though gambling is not entirely bad, I like to gamble reasonably because there are limits and thoughts that do not misinterpret and consider gambling as it should be, it makes me fine. I will continue to apply a healthy mindset with the gambling that is done because I also do not want to experience bad things with the gambling that I do.

I myself hide gambling from my family because they certainly have a bad view of gambling, but if the gambling that I do does not cause me problems then that's okay, but hiding the gambling that I do from my family is a must because if they find out it will be a problem even though the gambling that I do does not cause problems. it all depends on ourselves who do it.

Yes, overall, society does have a bad stigma towards gambling activities, none other than that it happens because there are indeed many gamblers who experience negative impacts in gambling such as those who have entered the addiction phase who experience problems especially in their financial balance so that sometimes it is difficult for them to meet their living needs because of the excessive approach to gambling, but if we think further using common sense, maybe we will say that actually what is bad is not gambling but the behavior of the gamblers themselves who try to treat gambling in the wrong way from the start.

On the other hand, I see that you have a fairly accurate view and understanding of gambling by only treating the activity reasonably or in the sense that it is not excessive, that's good and will certainly keep you fine as long as you can maintain such a reasonable understanding and approach.

Another thing related to hiding gambling from others, especially from family, is that it is actually a choice, because it depends on where you live, if for example you live in a country that legalizes gambling then maybe people will not be too concerned that you are involved in the activity, but on the other hand if you are in a country that prohibits the activity which generally has a bad stigma towards gambling activities then yes hiding it might be a better idea, with the note that you can still control and manage your gambling habits well in the sense of not being excessive.

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Quote from: Rabata on July 25, 2024, 11:42:36 PM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

People have such bad ideas about gambling since long ago. Anyone who gambles is scolded or looked down upon. If there is a family member especially husband or wife they get worried because in gambling everyone has a common idea that they will turn into addicted gamblers. And thinking like this, one behaves abnormally towards others. I also never want to open up about my gambling. Because I know that once my gambling is known there will be a lot of criticism about me which will annoy me. So I don't like any kind of trouble which is why I resort to lies to hide my gambling. As long as my family members don't find out about my gambling habits, I can be free.

from the many eyes of the public, gambling is indeed seen as a bad thing, with many people and cases that have occurred because they have experienced life destruction. even though gambling is not entirely bad, I like to gamble reasonably because there are limits and thoughts that do not misinterpret and consider gambling as it should be, it makes me fine. I will continue to apply a healthy mindset with the gambling that is done because I also do not want to experience bad things with the gambling that I do.

I myself hide gambling from my family because they certainly have a bad view of gambling, but if the gambling that I do does not cause me problems then that's okay, but hiding the gambling that I do from my family is a must because if they find out it will be a problem even though the gambling that I do does not cause problems. it all depends on ourselves who do it.

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Quote from: Odohu on July 25, 2024, 11:47:59 PM

Quote from: Iranus on July 25, 2024, 11:37:30 PM

If your wife doesn't like gambling but it helps you have fun and relieve stress, then lying to gamble is not necessarily a bad thing. As long as you know what you are doing and stop at the right time to not let things get out of control and not affect your family. Lying in that case is not bad.

I think gambling should be discussed with the potential wife even before the marriage. She has the right to know because gambling can influence you in many ways, both in your finances and your character. There has been many topics about the impact of gambling on behaviors such as domestic violence. Telling your family about your gambling will do more good than harm because it will make you a more responsible gambler and you would not want it to appear like gambling is what is taking your money and making you unable to meet your financial obligations as a man. In addition to this, telling your wife about your gambling will offer you the opportunity to explain things to her and clarify any misunderstanding assuming she is among those who believe that gambling is bad. I remember convincing my mum that gambling was not that bad which made her stopped scolding me when I was a younger gambler.

For me, communication is a very important thing in a family, so as much as possible we have to communicate everything so that there are no misunderstandings that cause problems to come. Both wife and husband must be open about something, they have to tell so that communication between them is very good. I see many people whose families end up being destroyed because of lack of communication. Regarding gambling, this is very closely related to our finances, and we know that money is a very sensitive thing and many households do not survive because of financial problems. So as much as possible we have to be open with our partners, especially something related to money. If we are the head of the household, maybe we are the ones who are obliged to provide for our family and indeed we are also the ones who earn money, but again if we are good at communicating it, I think it will be fine.

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Quote from: Iranus on July 25, 2024, 11:37:30 PM

If your wife doesn't like gambling but it helps you have fun and relieve stress, then lying to gamble is not necessarily a bad thing. As long as you know what you are doing and stop at the right time to not let things get out of control and not affect your family. Lying in that case is not bad.

I think gambling should be discussed with the potential wife even before the marriage. She has the right to know because gambling can influence you in many ways, both in your finances and your character. There has been many topics about the impact of gambling on behaviors such as domestic violence. Telling your family about your gambling will do more good than harm because it will make you a more responsible gambler and you would not want it to appear like gambling is what is taking your money and making you unable to meet your financial obligations as a man. In addition to this, telling your wife about your gambling will offer you the opportunity to explain things to her and clarify any misunderstanding assuming she is among those who believe that gambling is bad. I remember convincing my mum that gambling was not that bad which made her stopped scolding me when I was a younger gambler.

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Quote from: Mr.suevie on July 25, 2024, 02:05:25 PM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..

After reading that post, I quickly remembered what I did some years back when I was still pretty much new to gambling and was kind of obsessed with it at that time, I remember it was on Sunday late morning after we came back from church, I darely needed to play some gambling game, but the children were running around the house making lots of noise, the little one will not stop climbing me, we've already had breakfast and my wife was busy watching a movie.
I left her and the children in the sitting room, took my phone and laptop and went into our third room reserved for visitors and locked myself in there, and started gambling, I was playing slot and casino games, and in between, I was also analyzing some upcoming sports matches to find suitable ones to place bet on.

More than 1 hour later, my wife came looking for me, and possibly was surprised i locked myself in the guest room, she inquired to know why, I told her I was studying some very important course online, and needed no disturbance at all, that was why I went to the guest room, she stood there, whether she believed or not, I do not know, I just know that she went her way after some seconds 😂😂.

So, when I came across that post on reddit, I couldn't help but laugh really hard, and also imagined how many of us gamblers out there are telling one lie or the other just to cover up our gambling habit..

I have a friend who lost a huge amount of money to gambling, and returning home that night, he lied to his wife that he was robbed, when the woman (being suspecious) asked why he was not beaten by the robbers, he got angry at her and almost beat her that night 🤣.

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

Doing it secretly means he's battling with gambling addiction, nothing can be hidden under the sun, sooner or later the truth will eventually come out so there's no need to continue hiding it from his spouse, he should seek help before it's too late, isolating yourself and gambling means you are not doing it for fun purposes, it major be a major setback on your finances if not handled properly...if you are addicted to this point talk to people about problems instead of hiding it, it's better that way.

You are right that if a player tries to hide himself in gambling then he is a win addict. Because of which she is shy to reveal this to her family and what friends and here she avoids by lying but inside she is killing herself. Of course, I think it is possible to discuss this matter with your wife if you have friends and family members before you separate yourself. There is no point in hiding yourself by gambling financially and harming your family, but exposing yourself to everyone so that one can restore the assets of the gambler, using various tactics. Gambling addiction can be solved by talking to people if responsible and experienced advice is taken.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

People have such bad ideas about gambling since long ago. Anyone who gambles is scolded or looked down upon. If there is a family member especially husband or wife they get worried because in gambling everyone has a common idea that they will turn into addicted gamblers. And thinking like this, one behaves abnormally towards others. I also never want to open up about my gambling. Because I know that once my gambling is known there will be a lot of criticism about me which will annoy me. So I don't like any kind of trouble which is why I resort to lies to hide my gambling. As long as my family members don't find out about my gambling habits, I can be free.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on July 25, 2024, 10:49:26 PM

Quote from: betswift on July 25, 2024, 08:16:50 AM

In my opinion, it's better to tell the truth from the get-go. That way, nobody will be hurt and everybody will be happy knowing there are no hidden doors from one another.

Telling the truth is a good ways that we can do because we will not hurts other people especially our couple because we can honest to them without anything we hide. We don't have to make a bad situation by lie to them because that can attract us in a trouble that can makes our relationship will be bad. We must know that tells the truth can helps us to avoids misunderstanding with other people.

If you hide something from your wife or husband, they will know by themselves because they have a sense that we lie to them. Many people who married have this experience so no matter how good they hide a matter, their couple will know and that can makes a big problem to both of your. You needs to thinks to hide your gambling activity or tells your couple so maybe they will gives you a solution that can avoids you from the gambling addiction but they allow you to playing gambling but with moderation.

Everyone knows that telling the truth is best, especially in a marital relationship, but things don't always work out best when we tell the truth. I do not encourage us to lie, but always telling the truth is not necessarily a good thing.

As in my case, because of the nature of my work and to get business contracts, I need to satisfy my partners. I regularly drank alcohol and participated in men's entertainment activities all night long with the aim of maintaining relationships and achieving profitable contracts for my business. Do you think if I told my wife the truth and we would be okay? I don't think every wife accepts and understands that, so in this case I will lie to ensure family happiness.

If your wife doesn't like gambling but it helps you have fun and relieve stress, then lying to gamble is not necessarily a bad thing. As long as you know what you are doing and stop at the right time to not let things get out of control and not affect your family. Lying in that case is not bad.

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Quote from: Mr.suevie on July 25, 2024, 02:05:25 PM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..

After reading that post, I quickly remembered what I did some years back when I was still pretty much new to gambling and was kind of obsessed with it at that time, I remember it was on Sunday late morning after we came back from church, I darely needed to play some gambling game, but the children were running around the house making lots of noise, the little one will not stop climbing me, we've already had breakfast and my wife was busy watching a movie.
I left her and the children in the sitting room, took my phone and laptop and went into our third room reserved for visitors and locked myself in there, and started gambling, I was playing slot and casino games, and in between, I was also analyzing some upcoming sports matches to find suitable ones to place bet on.

More than 1 hour later, my wife came looking for me, and possibly was surprised i locked myself in the guest room, she inquired to know why, I told her I was studying some very important course online, and needed no disturbance at all, that was why I went to the guest room, she stood there, whether she believed or not, I do not know, I just know that she went her way after some seconds 😂😂.

So, when I came across that post on reddit, I couldn't help but laugh really hard, and also imagined how many of us gamblers out there are telling one lie or the other just to cover up our gambling habit..

I have a friend who lost a huge amount of money to gambling, and returning home that night, he lied to his wife that he was robbed, when the woman (being suspecious) asked why he was not beaten by the robbers, he got angry at her and almost beat her that night 🤣.

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

Doing it secretly means he's battling with gambling addiction, nothing can be hidden under the sun, sooner or later the truth will eventually come out so there's no need to continue hiding it from his spouse, he should seek help before it's too late, isolating yourself and gambling means you are not doing it for fun purposes, it major be a major setback on your finances if not handled properly...if you are addicted to this point talk to people about problems instead of hiding it, it's better that way.

Yes this is true and also this is something that will really be that be a major problem on the moment that addiction cant really be controlled anymore. On marriage life then of course it would really be that understandable that our wife is the most important person in our life but there are things which would really be diverting out our interest and attention on which including into those external activities on which it causes for you to mind
off that more than with your own wife or loved ones on which this one solidly indicates that you are really that addicted into it. If you do really know that this could something that destroy your marriage then it would be better that you should get rid of it as much as you could without being caught by your wife. This is actually tough considering that you would really be doing this without being caught because on the time that you would be caught then that would be a problem.

If you are someone who dont be able to quit up then its your choice because this one makes you happy. Actually it wont really be something stressful if you would really be just that telling your wife that you are dealing with gambling but of course it would really be impossible that there wont really be those kind of arguments considering that gambling compromises finances on which this is something that a normal
reaction for someone to know that their loved ones involved with gambling.

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Quote from: betswift on July 25, 2024, 08:16:50 AM

In my opinion, it's better to tell the truth from the get-go. That way, nobody will be hurt and everybody will be happy knowing there are no hidden doors from one another.

Telling the truth is a good ways that we can do because we will not hurts other people especially our couple because we can honest to them without anything we hide. We don't have to make a bad situation by lie to them because that can attract us in a trouble that can makes our relationship will be bad. We must know that tells the truth can helps us to avoids misunderstanding with other people.

If you hide something from your wife or husband, they will know by themselves because they have a sense that we lie to them. Many people who married have this experience so no matter how good they hide a matter, their couple will know and that can makes a big problem to both of your. You needs to thinks to hide your gambling activity or tells your couple so maybe they will gives you a solution that can avoids you from the gambling addiction but they allow you to playing gambling but with moderation.

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Quote from: Antotena on July 25, 2024, 03:53:50 PM

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I also always thought that between partners should not be secrets or distrust, because very often at the time of disclosure of seemingly harmless secrets between partners can begin to clarify the relationship that in the future is likely to lead to divorce. Therefore, I believe that if you really value your partner, then do not hide anything from him. As they say better the bitter truth than sweet lies.

I agree that big secrets are a big no, since sooner or later the secret will be exposed and then not only the lying partner will have to deal with whatever they kept a secret, but now they will have to deal with the lies they told and that they were hiding information all along.

But at the same time we have a right to privacy, even inside a marriage, so telling every single thing to a partner no matter how small is an idea I cannot really get behind to.

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Quote from: Reid on May 02, 2024, 07:04:34 AM

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. Cheesy

We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

Lol...and you think what you are doing is good? Think of it, if it is in the reverse, how would you feel if your wife is lying so much to you? You will definitely feel hurt and betrayed. I think you need to change and not find excuses for lying. Besides, there is nothing like a white lie, a lie is a lie unless we are not being sincere to ourselves. I believe our wives deserve to always know the truth, but of course, at times, we can be in a tight corner, but it should not be as rampant as you take it.

Nevertheless, I am thrilled with your status on gambling and that is possible because you are financially sane. Those guys doing ugly things in the name of gambling are surely insane.

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Immediately my first thought was when I saw this post is that this is a part of human where it's a "shame" to tell the truth because you already know the answer. Like why lie if you know that it's okay or understandable? It's a known truth already that it's not okay since you are lying about it.

Might be the time to check if you are addicted or not because lying with gambling and not telling the truth about it is already a sign tha it could be a problem.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

I have a friend who lost a huge amount of money to gambling, and returning home that night, he lied to his wife that he was robbed, when the woman (being suspecious) asked why he was not beaten by the robbers, he got angry at her and almost beat her that night 🤣.

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

This is like "I will only believe you if you got beaten by the robbers." It seems like the wife wants your friend to get beaten that bad in order for her to believe. Kind of funny, but what I don't want is the fact that your friend are thinking of beating his wife. I mean I'm against violence when it comes to these kind of things because at first place, your friend is the one who lied. Anyway, I hope they're okay by now. Cheesy

Have I lied? No, because I don't hold any money at first place. Whenever I want to gamble, I always say it to my partner since she's the one holding our overall money. She only give me a small amount, and it's good on my part that she's the one holding our money because that lessens my potential losses just in case I lose all that money that she gave. At the end of the day, I limit my losses and when I loss, we are both okay since it's just spare money that she's giving to me.

I can't lie on it as well. I mean for me, only the addicted gamblers and those who are obsessed with gambling are the ones that can do it. I hope that you're not lying anymore OP. Cheesy

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Quote from: Antotena on July 25, 2024, 03:53:50 PM

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I also always thought that between partners should not be secrets or distrust, because very often at the time of disclosure of seemingly harmless secrets between partners can begin to clarify the relationship that in the future is likely to lead to divorce. Therefore, I believe that if you really value your partner, then do not hide anything from him. As they say better the bitter truth than sweet lies.

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Quote from: dansus021 on July 25, 2024, 10:47:32 AM

Lies told to cover up gambling habit i dont think this is a good idea especially if you hide it from your wife because in my opinion sooner or later our Partner will know and if you dont tell right know we dont know what going happen next.

Maybe if your tell right now there is possibility your wife will understand but the bad thing could be worse imo if youe partners know you doing gambling without she's knowledge

If you can't gamble openly with your partner, then something is wrong somewhere. It's not about how the partner might feel, you just have to let them understand why you are gambling and how you are doing it with the amount you dedicate to it and I'm sure that if you have evidence to back it up, a real partner will understand that there is nothing harmful in what you are doing as long as you don't owe anyone money and you foot the bill without anyone asking.

However, if your partner insist even after the explanation, then the ball is in your hand to decide whether to stop gambling because you choose her happiness over yours or you let her go because you choose your happiness over hers. It's difficult to see a woman that detest man that gamble responsibly unless you are the type that gamble without future, I mean the irresponsible ones.

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On the other hand, maybe I would say that it is not a problem for you to lie to your wife as long as you can really take care of everything well, in the sense of being able to manage and control your gambling activities well so that you can avoid indirect problems, of course. can affect the financial situation in your family relationships.

I think it is always going to be a problem when you lie in spite the fact that your lying is going to keep your secrets safe from your wife knowing. It Is still better you tell her the truth than to keeping lying and then it gets to a time that you can not keep the truth from her again when she finds out herself. She might divorce you but this time you will lose everything and even the chance to see your children again. When you have a problem, let your love ones to know so you guys can seek help and when they are by your side, you will be capable of overcoming any problem that you are passing through regardless of it being gambling addiction problems or other addictions. When you have an understanding wife, she is not going to get angry with you when you tell her the truth but look for solutions together as a family.

There are truths and secrets that should only be revealed or even kept forever in our souls until we enter the coffin because every secret always involves sensitive issues, if the issue is not tactfully led, the listener will become resistant to that action and secret, as is the case with this gambling habit, simply keep the habit from being too obvious, don't try to reveal all of who we really are, must keep a little bit of the dark side behind. In exchange for harmony and no argument, it would be more skillful to lead the conversation to consider the other person's reaction to gambling, thereby making that habit normal in their eyes.

If the person in question who you don't want to know that you are a gambler will frown at it, it is better that you keep it a secret so that it does not affect your good relationship with the person, especially when you don't plan quitting gambling. But if the person will not see it the other way as something bad, why not I will not hide my gambling activities from him/her. One thing that one should understand is that if you can control yourself and gamble responsible, there is no need letting people know that you are a gambler but if you cannot control yourself, it is obvious that a lot of people will know that you are gambling because you will not be able to hide it.

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Quote from: dansus021 on July 25, 2024, 10:47:32 AM

Lies told to cover up gambling habit i dont think this is a good idea especially if you hide it from your wife because in my opinion sooner or later our Partner will know and if you dont tell right know we dont know what going happen next.

Maybe if your tell right now there is possibility your wife will understand but the bad thing could be worse imo if youe partners know you doing gambling without she's knowledge

Now things like this must indeed be open and not a secret that we like to gamble, because it will be a threat to the marriage that has already taken place when we lose a lot of money and our wife just found out that the money was used for gambling, it could result in divorce, not a few like that in the end.

If we tell her early and she finds out that we like to gamble, chances are she just won't let us hold on to any more money because she knows our gambling nature, that's much better than hiding from her to keep gambling without her knowing.

Quote from: Marykeller on July 25, 2024, 12:34:12 PM

I find it to be a funny attitude on how people lie over their gambling addiction. For someone to lie over their gambling takes that means they really know that what they are doing is not right, they ignored that fact and still participate in gambling.

If someone finds something to be worth doing, they have no reason to lie about it. They will only lie when they know that what they are doing is wrong.

Those who commonly lie about their gambling activities are the most addicted gamblers. They choose to gamble almost all the time, and it has become obvious that their wife is aware of the developed gambling lifestyle that they spend most of their time doing.

Yes, people who lie are those who have mistakes in their gambling activities, so they don't dare to say what has happened to them, including that person, it's ridiculous.

This can happen because of addiction or not, if it is due to addiction, we will definitely understand the scenario a little but those who are not addicted are like using a little money from the money he took then he lost, but his mind said he could return it by using a little extra money that ended up running out too and was afraid of being angry with his wife so he pursued defeat just to return his money, which in the end lost everything.

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Quote from: Gheka on July 25, 2024, 08:53:47 AM

There are truths and secrets that should only be revealed or even kept forever in our souls until we enter the coffin because every secret always involves sensitive issues, if the issue is not tactfully led, the listener will become resistant to that action and secret, as is the case with this gambling habit, simply keep the habit from being too obvious, don't try to reveal all of who we really are, must keep a little bit of the dark side behind. In exchange for harmony and no argument, it would be more skillful to lead the conversation to consider the other person's reaction to gambling, thereby making that habit normal in their eyes.

You are very correct, in fact this happens to be one of the most valid point I find very relatable on this thread, the reason somethings are called secret is because some other concerned are yet to know about it. If they get to know of any of such then it's no longer a secret and in some cases, the damages that can be caused from revealing a secret can make someone remain damaged their life time so it's best that somethings forever remain a secret except the unavoidable coincidence that will lead to its unvail happens then we may just have to live with whatever results we get off such incidents.

Don't forget not all secret is worth revealing at some point, they are best left as secret and keeps everyone safe and in a better position.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on April 23, 2024, 01:35:44 PM

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..

After reading that post, I quickly remembered what I did some years back when I was still pretty much new to gambling and was kind of obsessed with it at that time, I remember it was on Sunday late morning after we came back from church, I darely needed to play some gambling game, but the children were running around the house making lots of noise, the little one will not stop climbing me, we've already had breakfast and my wife was busy watching a movie.
I left her and the children in the sitting room, took my phone and laptop and went into our third room reserved for visitors and locked myself in there, and started gambling, I was playing slot and casino games, and in between, I was also analyzing some upcoming sports matches to find suitable ones to place bet on.

More than 1 hour later, my wife came looking for me, and possibly was surprised i locked myself in the guest room, she inquired to know why, I told her I was studying some very important course online, and needed no disturbance at all, that was why I went to the guest room, she stood there, whether she believed or not, I do not know, I just know that she went her way after some seconds 😂😂.

So, when I came across that post on reddit, I couldn't help but laugh really hard, and also imagined how many of us gamblers out there are telling one lie or the other just to cover up our gambling habit..

I have a friend who lost a huge amount of money to gambling, and returning home that night, he lied to his wife that he was robbed, when the woman (being suspecious) asked why he was not beaten by the robbers, he got angry at her and almost beat her that night 🤣.

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

Doing it secretly means he's battling with gambling addiction, nothing can be hidden under the sun, sooner or later the truth will eventually come out so there's no need to continue hiding it from his spouse, he should seek help before it's too late, isolating yourself and gambling means you are not doing it for fun purposes, it major be a major setback on your finances if not handled properly...if you are addicted to this point talk to people about problems instead of hiding it, it's better that way.

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